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Does anybody have any idea how to figure out where a movie premiere is going to take place in NYC? Sepcifically the upcoming Harry Potter movie. I know I obvioulsy cannot go to the premeire, but I would love to just watch from the outside as the actors arrive. Also I would like to know the main places where any NYC movie premieres are held for the most part. (The main places) Thanks!

try typing in the movie on search or google or whatever and get the main website and try to find it or go to like movies.com and check out what it says or you can also type in places from new york and see whats coming up there in the theatres

I hope that helps if it doesnt im sorry i tried my best though

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I'm 17 and female, and I've known my best friend Thomas for nearly a year. We hang out all the time, even stay the night at one another's houses every now and then.
Well, right now I'm house-sitting for him while he's on a trip. I stayed the night here the other night so I wouldn't have to have my mom drive me over at 7:00 in the morning. So we're up at three in the morning talking about everything, like we always do when we sleep over. And then he kissed me... and told me that he loves me.
I have a boyfriend who I love very much, and I just don't care about Thomas in the way that he cares about me. But I somewhat returned the kiss. As a matter of fact... we kind of kissed a lot. Mostly the sweet, peck type, but a little (and I do mean a little) tongue every now and then. When it was all over and we both regained our senses, I cried. When he said he loved me, I said, "Don't say that." We talked about it a little, but then decided that we'll really have a long talk when he gets back from his vacation.
So I have a few questions. First of all, did I cheat on my boyfriend? I've never done anything like this... I don't know if it's cheating. I don't ever want to tell my boyfriend that it happened -- he'll break up with me and it was all just a huge mistake and I regret that it happened (even though it brought a lot of stuff to the surface -- I didn't even know Thomas liked me). When I talk to Thomas, what should I say? I don't want to hurt his feelings, and I don't want to ruin our awesome friendship. But I want him to know that I don't care about him the way he does about me, and I don't want him to hate me for this. Please help me.

You didnt really cheat on your boyfriend. I dont think you should tell your boyfriend though he might take it the wrong way. You should tell Thomas that you dont love him like you do you love him like a brother not a boyfriend and that you just wanna be friends. And also tell him that i dont wanna ruin our friendship over this and that your really sorry that you dont like him like he likes you.

Hope that helps

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Does anyone kno where i can like listen to music for free and has a bunch of songs. and i mean really super free.i rate high

www.mtv.com
www.vh1.com
www.bet.com
they have song and the videos and they have a lot of songs so yea

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I've been going out with this guy for almost 2 months. He's amazing. He's good looking, Funny, Smart and basically everything I want in a guy. Except, He's 2 years younger than me. He's really mature though. If he tells his mom we're going out he'll get in trouble and have to break-up with me and it kind of bothers me cause his mom keeps questioning him why he calls me and why I call him. I really dont know what to do.. Can someone please give me some good advice? I rate really good. Thanks!

Maybe you guys should just tell them and say that you guys dont want to break up and if they have a problem them its not fair because you guys care a loy about each other no matter how much the age difference is age is only a number.

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i am 17 and i live in ny. i want to get a tattoo i was wondering how old i have to be. my mom said she dont care if i get one bc she wants one too. were thinking about getting them at the state fair. thanks for your help!

You can get them at any age in some places i dont know about new york but legally its 18 when you can get one but some places have then for under 18 you just need to look around and ask.

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Well there is this kid we met this year and we went out together at one point but then we broke up and we were still friends. But now he hates me and won't talk to me and I have no idea why. What should I do I'll rate high! I'm female/13

Well maybe you should go up to him and ask what you did wrong and say that whatever it was you're sorry and that why didn't he tell yuo what you did before then just like leave you alone and dump you and not talk to you.

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okay well in the past week my forehead and cheeks started breaking out (that area is like really oily and ive been washing my face like 2-3 times a day!!)... i usually never get pimples or zitz or anythin like that.. except for one everyonce in a while... well i was wondering what works best?! i dont have anymoney to go spend on proactive or whatever... but i have these facewash things and i was wondering which ones work the best? (any at home remedys would be great too!!) if your not sure what it is, i put a link next to it so you could figure out what the box looks like or whatever...

-pHisoderm 4 way facial wash::
http://www.mapdistribution.com/images/phisoderm.jpg

-clearasil (sensitive skin daily face wash)::
http://www.walgreens.com/dbimagecache/111983.gif

-clearasil total control:: http://www.clearasil.us/photo/full_size/WebColumnItem77.jpg

-dove::
http://images.amazon.com/images/P/B0002FC7OU.01.TZZZZZZZ.jpg

-stridex pads (alcohol free)::
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i hope this helps you out!! but pleasee help! thanks so much.. if you want to be rated--ask!!

I think Clean and Clear works the best just find out what kind is the perfect one for you it always clears up my face when i get pimples or whatever so yeah you might find luck with that

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How do you get rid of blackheads? The strips don't really work for me..does anyone actually know what will work? Please don't just give me a product you saw on a commercial or something..Thanks..I rate high!!

I use Clean and Clear facial stuff it helps with pimples and blackheads so i suggest that stuff or go to the doctor and ask him for his advice.

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Ok well im a 17/f and me and my boyfriend have sexand everything but like 4 months ago his condom broke and we didnt know it and now im pregnant. Well i want to keep the baby and my parents are all for me and any choice i make about the baby. Well my boyfriend and me are decieding if we should keep the baby and he wants to help raise the child if we decide to keep it. well i dont know if i should keep the baby. you see i will be able too because i act very mature for my age, i already moved out of my house when i was 16 because of family issues and i already have 1 child( i was raped when i 14 and i didnt give her up for adoption) what should i do should i keep the baby or give it up?

I think you should keep tha baby so it doesnt go to a bad family or anything because you seem like a nice person and stuff so i think you should keep it and if you already have a child then i mean you know what to give her/him and stuff like that so yeah.

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ok so my tonsils are huge and my troat is red, i already have big tonsils uut thye are really big it not strep, it stings a little bit when aswollow ive been risning with salt wter every hour but thta doesnt help, any suggestions?

well you hould go to the doctor or hospital so they can remove them asap and also when you wont them to kinda stop hurting i heard cold water like drinking it or gurgling it helps or hot or warm water and taking halls breezers that help the throat helps a lot.

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Hey, im on a diet, but i have no idea what foods to eat.
I kno veggies and fruits and no white bread.
But like for actual meals, what should I eat?

I have to make a grocery list for my mom so it would really help to have this info asap. Thanks will rate high.

You should fallow the food chart see how uch food you are supposed to eat of each categorie but dont eat a lot of things with carbs and stuf and not that many callories and you should maybe eat grilled instead of fried. eat special k in the morning and maybe some organic fruit. i heard that helps drink water instead of soda or juice unless its fresh squeezed. eat littler purpotions. stuff like that and i heard not eating after 6 is better for you unless you want to exercise for like 2 hours after you eat to burn off the fat and stuff and i also heard when your trying to loose weight fast when your exercising wipe off the sweat every one in awhile so you can sweat off a lot of your water weight.

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hey my family is wealthy...we have like houses all over tha world...i got a hummer h2 SUT for my birthday...i used to go to skool in a Limo...my mom and dad have ashton martins...but now people are juss trying to be my friend cuz they think that i will pay for them to go everywhere and stuff...what do i do?

Tell them its not right the way they are treating you and that u should gain respect from them and that money isnt everything and that if they are going to be like that then they are not worth being friends with

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I need some ideas for a birthday party fast! I rate high! but it can't be skating, movies, or bowling! PLEASE HELP!!!

Maybe a pool or a dance party or maybe something just like a slumber party or a bbq or something just something to do to have fun make it your own style.

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me and my boyfriend broke up probably two months ago. i dumped him because he changes and stuff and gets really quiet. i dumped him because he wasnt being the guy i fell in love with. im 14 and you might not think its true but i did fall in love with him and he said he loved me too but after we broke up we didnt talk or anything and it sucked. about a week ago we finally started talking again and i realized yet again what i loved about him and that i do still love him. i dont know if i should keep it to myself and try to get over it or if i should tell him

I think you should tell him and tell him the reason you broke up with him and ask him why he was acting weird i mean not just girls open uop so do guys ive seen them but anyways i think you should talk to him and ask him that and just say that you still love him and he might ask you out or you could ask him out just say your srry and have a huge talk with him

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Ok my best friend started datin this guy and his name is Josh but ever since they started datin she has been ditchin me like crazy and I am sick of it.Besides he is supposed to ask a lot of girls out which he has but she won't talk to me so I can't tell her what should I do?

I think you should Tell her that if she doesnt have time for you anymore that you should say well i dont want to waste my time on you. and tell her what you kno and then say dont come crying back to me when he breaks up with you. and dont be her friend if shes ditching you like that well then she doesnt deserve to be ur friends i mean yea she like shger boyfriend but if she wants to hang out with him that much she must be desperate.

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Okay, I'm 13, weigh about 160, and am about 5'1". I have a flabby tummy and legs and I'd really like to get rid of this as fast as possible!!! Can someone either give me a list or show me to a website that has a list of foods that are healthy for me and would help me lose weight? I know about fruits and veggies, but what about other snacks? I've heard pretzels are ok, but what else? Oh, and what are some good streches and exercises? Thank you guys so much!!!!

Carbs have a huge thing on making people gain weight so watch the breads and pastas and other thing that has weat and something with bread and pasta. also fruit juice such as orange juice and apple juice and stuff arent good for you either.fruit juice is better but dont drink that much soda is bad too so not as much as that. also you should drink a lot of water it helps.
try to not eat so many sweets unless they are fat free sugar free or something like that. hopefully this helps.

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