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i was wondering if most guys who are experienced with sex usually have an orgasmif they're having sex with a virgin...? all answers will be appreciated i'll rate : )
Actually, guys would love to have sex with a virgin compaired to girls who aren't virgins.
Virgins have tighter vaginas, therefore more pleasure.
my friend the other day was saying that her and her boyfriend were having sex in the butt...and the he cummed in her butt. now shes scared she could get pregnant from that. i told her it wasn't true but she keeps worrying and saying that it probably is true.
sooo...heres my question
can you get pregnant if a guy cums when hes inside your butt?
Oh boy.. Anal sex.. I find it very un-natural. >.<
Well, it all depends. If the cum made contact with her vagina, its possible. Protection, even when doing anal, is greatly nessecary. If its been more than 72 hours after sex, the best thing she can do is wait to see if she gets her period. If it hasn't been 72 hours yet, she has the option of using the Plan B pill. It greatly increases the chances she isnt pregnant. You have to be 18 to buy it though. If you or she knows someone who would buy it for you, thats great!
Hope everything goes well for her. Hope I helped. :)
14/f
i know that alot of people have problems with other people dating with ehh kind of a big age difference..well i met this guy, he is the best, sweetest, kindest person with the most respect for someone,he would give you the shirt off his back to some one who needed it! and he is also protective but in a GOOD way!i love everything about him!! he has always been there for me, i can tell him anything!! he always keeps an open mind and listens to what i have to say. he NEVER gets angry with me! well we dated and i ended it because i was to affraid of my feelings, they were growing to quick. and well i love him and i cant help it. but see i have spoken to his gf.. and she really likes him.. and i dont want to let her get hurt for something that i could cause..i already tried to not talk to him but....and also he doesnt live where i do anymore. i was thinking that maybe just maybe when i get out of college and stuff that i could try to find him again..? all i can do is wait..and if i dont wait (which i dont think i wont wait) i dont want to hurt anyone and i dont plan to..should i just try to date other guys until then? i KNOW i will still love him. and by the way he is 17..
i know that he still cares for me but he thinks that we are best friends..true and real friends.
all i can do now is just be there..
help would be sooo great!
The best relationships, the ones that last, usually always start with true friendship. Waiting is a good option, but it wouldn't hurt to try to talk to him. Maybe you can talk to him about how you feel and see what he says about it.
Ok so you know on Google when you type in one letter a bunch of words you already used that start with that letter pop up. Well I want to know if there is anyway to get ride of those words? So if anyone knows that would be great!
Yup Depends on the browser. For internet explorer you have to go under tools - internet options - browsing history. under that you go to delete forms and it will delete it for you.
I found a lump in the middle of my breasts about a year ago. Since then it has been getting bigger and bigger. I have been to the doctor for it twice, but they kind of blew me off since I get free health care because of low income. I want it removed because it scares me but I don't think the doctor would do it since they pretty much ignore me. Does anyone know how to tell the difference between cysts and tumors or what else it could possibly be? Thanks
Well first off how old are you? Bc it could just be that your growing boobs.
Edit: I totally reread the question. I think I read it wrong. You mean a lump in between your boobs right? If that is what you meant, I agree with the person above me. Sorry bout that.
my best friend (we'll call him Bob) and i have decided that we both like eachother and we're about to go out. but then i found out some disturbing news. bob has this friend, (Gretta), and they had sex. my other friend, (fred) told me this. it happened about a month ago. fred kept saying that he had to tell me something about bob before we could go out. and he said i really should know because its important and ect ect ect. so he told me that there are two stories to this: GRETTA'S STORY: she fell asleep and bob was next to her. she was drunk-ish. (and shes 13, if that says anything, shes also a real slut. so yeah.) so she fell asleep and he raped her. she called her brother and told him and he was about to come and beat bob's ass for it. bob's brother got a gun to scare him off and it worked. and now gretta isnt speaking to bob. but see, the thing is, gretta has been known to either stretch the truth or lie completely. anyways, BOB'S STORY: gretta and bob were messing around. gretta was shitfaced and pulled his pants off and they had sex. then she got freaked and called her brother and lied to him and then the rest is the same. and the thing here is that bob used to like gretta. and they went out. and it didnt work. and he's allegedly still liked her while liking me. and hes also not known to lie about something like that. he i know for a fact he DID NOT WANT ME TO KNOW. he'd kill fred if he found out fred told me! but i need him to know that i know! i dont want there to be any tension between us because of this! please give me any advice on how to let him know that i know. in a subtle way. sorry this is so long but it was a long story! THANKS!
First off, I'd bring up being a virgin. say "I wanna ask you something, though its kinda a personal question." Then if he says go ahead and ask, then you can ask him if he's a virgin or not. See what his answer is and maybe ask him about how many girls he's had sex with and blah blah. You might be able to get it out of him. If he wants to know why your asking then say its something you want to know before you go off and date people. Or you can confront him right there about it, but that wouldnt be the best thing if your not supposed to know about it. As it sounds, I REALLY don't think he raped her. People are stupid like that. If she's so defensive saying he raped her, she's probably out for attention. She shouldn't of gotten drunk and let herself be so easy. I wouldnt really worry about it.
what do i do without telling my parents !?!?
First off, The battery dying isn't a big deal really. It happens to the best of us. Your parents shouldn't be mad about that. Its not something you can just stop from happening. You can't really intentionally make a battery die. Batteries need replaced sometimes. Dont worry and just let them know.
I'm getting a monkey but i dont' know what kind. which kind is the smalles and stays small?what kind do you recommend? which kind is the nicest if there is one?
Oooo!! Get a squirrel monkey! They are sooo cute lol
as for prices and all that you should research it on the internet. Youll find TONS of stuff.
Good luck! :)
I know because Im Fourteen Im not saposed to have sex, and I dont Im still 100% virgin but everyone seems to be doing it, and its weird because I stayed back and there all younger then me and not virgins.. when is the average of losing it and Ive been offered.. a couple times with some VERY hot guys but I said no which Im very proud of but because i keep saying now am I not interested in guys?
That is something to be proud of! I suggest you keep it up :) You shouldnt have sex just because everyone else is doing it. I think you should wait until YOU are ready. Be sure to pick someone you love though. Don't be like everyone else. You will probably regret it later.
If you have sex with someone and later on you get in a serious relationship with someone you really love and they are a virgin, you will probably feel bad.
Just because you pass up a few hot guys, it doesnt meant there wont be any later.
Save it for when you really mean it!
Well i was suppost to start around the 12th or so , because Last month thats when i did . Me and my boyfriend had sex like a couple of days before i was suppost to start but i havent had my period yet , the condom didnt bust or anything . Could it just be a late period ?
The chances of you being pregnant are really low. Most likely you arent. If it was your first time having sex then it could be because it was a major change and because its new. It could probably be a late period. If you still dont get it after a few more days maybe you should take a test and see a doctor, just in case. :)
I had sex with my boyfriend yesterday and now I'm in alot of pain and I won't stop bleeding, it was my first time. My stomach hurts and a can barly walk. I don't wanna tell my parents cuz they will know I had sex. Please help, I will love you forever! Also I'm f/15
Well If you really dont want to tell your parents just wait it out. Its pretty much just after effects. Your probably bleeding because he popped your cherry. Another reason could be you started your period. You are kinda young to be having sex so it could possibly be that he overexerted your vagina. It should just go away though. I'm sure you have nothing to worry about.
15/f
alright so me and my boyfriend have decided to have sex and well i'm a virgin and he's had sex with two other people and has had sex numerous times(he's a few years older then me). well, basically i'm really nervous and i have a few questions so if anyone can answer any of these i would appreciate it and yeah i'll rate:
1. is it normal to smell alittle down there? like a musty smell?
2. how bad does it really hurt the first time?
3. is it normal for me to have a gooey clear discharge down there and sometimes a creamy white one?
4. well i shave down there and i was wondering if anyone had tips fir getting the cleanest smoothest cut i guess?
thanks in advance : )
1. Its normal to an extent. You should keep it clean and it shouldnt be a problem if you shower before you guys do it. I personally think its gross, but I was told before that guys are kinda attracted to the smell ina way. Same with the taste. :\ Weird but okay! Whatever works for them right?
2. It didnt hurt for me the first time. It was different and there was little pain. It really depends on the girl. You could be tight or you could have been stretched by tampons or being fingered. I didnt bleed the first time I had sex but it really all depends. Just tell him to go slow at first until you are more comfortable with the whole situation.
3. Its normal. Its one of those woman things. :( We seem to have it bad compared to guys! We get this gross discharge, periods, pregnancy! Sheesh! lol My advice about the discharge is to just try your best to stay clean.
4. Shaving isn't absolutely nessecary. I shave but I think that it is more attractive and another plus to it, its sooooo much nicer when it comes to personal hygene. Using a shaver isnt bad, just be careful.
Hope I helped! Wear protection PLEASE. :)
Ok this question isnt supposed to be offensive to anybody, im just wondering opinions. Today kids are having sex younger and younger, some kids are like 13 years old. I was wondering what you all think of that. Personally i cant believe this is happening to the world haha. I was just wondering if anybody out there agrees with me or if you dont agree with me, why? This is just out of curiosity. Also, if this is how things are now, imagine in 10 years, whats gonna happen!! haha, ok thanks!
It's pretty ridiculous. Its not just you. People abuse sex and its just discusting to see this in the world. :(
Sex is supposed to be special and its supposed to be with someone you really deeply love and want to be with.
This world is so corrupt. Very disappointing.
hey i just wanna know if iam not a virgin will my husband know on the wedding night??? is there a way for him not to know?
no he will not know but i believe that if you love him then you would not have or will not lie about being a virgin thats one of the worse things you can do is lie about something iportant or special like that but no he cant really tell bc there are many ways that could have made you loose like tampons and masterbating it doesnt always mean youve had sex before the only way anyone would know is if you told them
do guys prefer for a girl to fake an orgasm if they don't get one during sex?
im pretty sure they would want you to not fake it...it makes them try harder next time to give you one or if you fake it they wont ever be able to completely give you one if thats where they believe is how long it takes you and so on its best for you to not fake it
I am always "wet" down there, even when Im not turned on. I always feel like I should wad a lil bit of tiolet paper in my underwear so that it doesnt get all over my underwear and harden. What can be causing this? Its really gross and unatractive.
i would suggest to get it checked out you have one big problem and the thing is you may not feel turned on but you body is its wanting stuff go have sex or something and getthat sexual energy out haha jkjk but anyways its just discharge and its normal every girl gets it and i agree it is gross but use panty liners or something itll help laters
ok here goes right well me and my bf have been going out for 2 months and next time i see him we would be togthere for 3 months because hes going away on holiday anyway...we have decided that we want to have sex and hes coming to my house soon and that when we are gonna do it!but..im really really scared of pregnancy, we r gonna use a condom but im still scared im 14 and hes 17 and i love him but i cant say anything to my mum for the pill and my periods arent regular so i wouldnt know if i was pregnant so..what do i do i really wanna do it with him i know its right but what can i do about pregnancy and all that stuff help!!!!!!!! ill rate high xxx
ok first off you are fourteen years old for two you are not in love for three you couldnt be in love and for four youve only been together for 2 to 3 months thats not long enough to be together to do it if you waited about a year then thats about the time but you are stupid to do that now and you would regret it and i would suggest not doing it and im sure its all pleasureful and if you do i hope your happy that you ruined your life and btw your relationship is illegal
My boyfriend was fingering me last night for the first time, and today i feel quite sore down there, it all feels quite irritated and sensitive. Is this normal? What does it mean? Am i gonna feel uncomfortable afterwards like this every time?
well it could be bc it ws your first time and your body isnt used to it or because it took you a while to orgasm if you did dont worry there's nothing wrong with you youll be all better again soon
We all agree that human needs sex as a biological needs, but many people thing that sex is a symbol of entertainment or just a refreshing activities even in our society, sex become the cheapest commercial breaks! how come they will realize that sex is not just an animal habit inside us!
i agree that sex has been over used and peopole shouldnt use it for fun its a special thing that you should share with that special person and to get close people do it so much and use people for sex theres never any real relationships anymore except for fwb and stuff like that
I've got my 100 things I love about my boyfriend finished, but I need a cute way to assemble it. I have about a million notes he's written me in the past couple of months and I wanted a cute way to incorporate the notes into my kind of 'scrapbook' that I'm making this into. I put the 100 reasons on pictures of us.
Any Ideas?
aww thats a cute idea you took 100 pics to do this lol aww thats awesome i think that for like the pages on one side like a book you can see 2 pages and one should have the picture and the reason and on the next two one should be one of his notes then the other with a pic and a reason then the next 2 pages 2 pics with reasons and so on but im suggesting it bc i think itd be cute idea good luck