I dont really know what to say about myself. But, I guess I'll just say some stuff about me.
I'm 15, and my name is Melissa.
I'm 5,4 and 105 pounds!
I have brown hair, green/gray/gold eyes, LONG legs, and freckles! But not alot of freckles...more like a bandit mask of them. Lol, like in the shape of a raccoon mask.
I go to CAT pickering, and while there i take Culinary Arts. Then after that, I go back to Downingtown East High School for the rest of the day. I LOVE IT!! I only take like, THREE classes a day and i'm in tenth grade!
I love all music, except for creepy country, (no offense to all you country lovers out there!) and I love to draw!!
I'm not really punk, preppy, goth, or anything like that...i'm more like....me? lol, ANYWAY,
That's all I have to say!
If you need help, feel free to ask me. I dont mind answering your ?'s! Or if you just want to talk, my AIM name is Samarawntstoast. IM me if you want to!
Peace!
~Melissa~
E-mail: tdrod4@comcast.net
Gender: Female
Location: Pennsylvania
Age: 15
AIM: samarawntstoast
MSN: firefairy141@hotmail.com
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can u have sex if you have cold sores without kissing but just having sex? and can someone describe a cold sore because i'm becoming worried of what is on my mouth. Before there was some kind of pimple on the corner of my lips so i popped it, which was maybe a month ago or so. then somewhere last week i got this red mark and bumps on my lips but i've been using abreva and i'm not sure if it actually worked. i really need an answer. please someone..give me an answer. after the cold sores can you also kiss a person? since cold sores i heard will always be there.? thank you to those who took the time to read this and answering it.. (link)
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Of course you can have sex with a cold sore. Just as long as you dont kiss, cause you dont want to get hurt.
A cold sore looks like a red pimple, only its alot bigger, and can kinda look scabby-ish. But if you pop it, it just keeps coming back. Because its bacteria, you should go to your local drug store(rite-aid, cvs, watever) and get some cold-sore ointment.
If you keep using it, it should be gone within a week.
love
~Melissa~
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I have been married for almost 20 yrs and we have 2 teenagers. I was 21 when we married, at 22 I was a mom(this may sound crazy but I know he got me pregnant on purpose). He is very affectionate to me especial in front of people. My husband is an alcoholic and that has always been the source of our arguments and my anger towards him. Of course the next day he would always apologize and say he loves me more than anything. Around 13yrs ago I believe he had been unfaithful but he adamantly denies it. About 3 yrs. ago I was suspicious of his activity on the internet(always clicking off pages when I walked into the room). I got a program to track this activity and found that he was sending intimate pictures of me to porn sites and exchanging them with others. This for me was the ultimate betrayal,disgust and I was totally embarrassed. At the time I didn't confront him with what I knew, but I did tell him our kids were getting porn pop ups. I destroyed the photos and the program.After that, I promised myself that if he ever screwed up again that I would leave him. 1 1/2 yrs ago we sold our home and he moved out of state to start a new business, I followed with children when they finished school yr. The busin. was not going as expected, I think it was more work than he thought it would be. With me pressuring him to get a job, he went searching only to find mediocre jobs. A family member got him a great paying job back home and off he went. I went to visit him with children and dog for the holidays and had a great time, when I left to drive back (15 hr.drive) I would call every few hrs just to let him know we were ok. After 10pm I didn't call until I got home (4am) called his cell and it was turned off, called my mom told her were got back safely. I asked "how could you turn your phone off knowing your wife and children were driving thru the night" and he just said "sorry I always turn my phone off at night"....Well he screwed up again! So now I'm angry, I was now responsible for selling off everything from the busin.,which I ran some great sales and fortunately brought in a lot of money because even though he was making a lot of money he was also spending it(at bars). I started thinking about how unhappy I was in our marriage. I struggled with the idea of divorce because of the children and the rest of our families. I finally confronted him with everything and the fact that I wasn't happy and I didn't think I loved him anymore. With that, he flew down and begged for forgiveness, promised he would change and do anything I wanted him to do. Our families were shocked at what I said to him, everyone thought we had the perfect marriage. Of course they ran to his side feeling sorry for him, not knowing the whole story( cheating, porn site,mental abuse). During all this, my brother died suddenly from cancer...Because I have been so distraught over losing my brother, losing over $100,000. in a failed busin. and the strain of living apart from my husband for months a a time, I agreed to take him back and try to save our marriage. We took a vow almost 20 yrs. ago and morally feel that I should try. Its been over 4 mons. and I'm very depressed, still very angry with him, feeling like I again gave up on myself for everyone else's sake and out of fear of being on my own financially.
I am I disrespecting myself or being dramatic?
Mz.R. (link)
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First i want you to know, that you are not be at all disrepestful to your self, nor dramatic. Personally, if i had found out that my significant other was selling pictures of me on the internet, i would have broken it off right there. But i think you did a good thing in trying to make it work.
What you need to do, is first sit down with your family, and explain your side of things. Hopefully that will make them understand where your coming from.
Because your with him right now, and your not happy, you should consider getting a divorce. Part of the vow you took, was meant for you both to be happy, not just for one person to be able to do whatever they want, and for the other one to have to suffer. Its not fair that your being loaded down with everything.
I think that you've done everything you can to try to make your marrige work. If you still think you love him, then by all means stay, but if you feel like your just with him, because you dont know if you have anywhere else to go, then thats a relationship you want out of.
I really hope that this all works out for you!
love,
~Melissa~
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im like really bad with cell phones and dont know much about the carriers and different types and blahblahblah. well anyway right now i have a verizon lg something, but i really want a new phone. i was looking online and came across the razr. well i always knew of it i just never really wanted it or anything. anyway. i was looking at everything it had and it really looked like a phone i'd want and i REALLY liked the magenta color.. but i dont want to switch to a different carrier or whatever, i want to stick with verizon. is that possible? lol sorry i seriously have no clue what im talking about, im really confused. if anyone understands me, can you please help me out! thank youu!! =] (link)
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Of course you can keep verizon. All you have to do, is buy the razr, and then ask for a verizon plan. But make sure you buy it from a verizon store, and not a mobile one.
VERIZON ROCKS...heehee
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how old do you think you have to be to babysit? (link)
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Hey,
Well, I started babysitting when I turned 14. But first I went out and got a babysitting degree. If you get one of those, people really don't care how old you are, because they know that your responsible and know CPR and stuff like that.
Hope I helped!
~Melissa~
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okay well last night i hung out with my bf (im 13/13) and he tounged me like really hard... and i was moaning and he thought it was good... so he went really HARD and after like he was done w/ that he went to go stick his cock up my vigina so i let him... and it was good at first... than it started to really hurt.. i couldnt take it anymore... but he would come out... and he said he was gonna jizz inside me and i said i didnt want that... so i told him no... but he didnt really abuse me he just went harder and didnt listen to me... and im kinda scared cause he said hes gonna do it everytime i see him... and well it was good and all but i didnt like it alot... what should i do about it???
signed i need help desperatly (link)
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Thats called rape. You shouldn't let him do anything to you if you say no. If he does then he could be arrested. I really hope that he doesn't do it again, and if he does, your going to have to do somthing about it. Please be careful, and be safe!
~Melissa~
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It's probably likely that none of you have a medical degree and thus cannot really answer my question and be 100% correct. Unless ofcourse you have this problem too.
I don't know if it's normal or not to have random stabbing pains. I get them in my side and in my back. I've asked my friends if they have random occurences like that, they said no.
It's not my appendix(the symptoms don't add up) and I don't have my gallbladder anymore. I'm just curious I suppose to see if any of you share these random spurts of pain and if you've had them checked out.
Note - I'm not going to a doctor(now at least) becuase I don't have insurance, or a job at the moment. (link)
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Yeah, I get them all the time. My mom says their cramps, or heart-burn, but I don't think so. I had them checked out once. They said that i have a small hole in my heart. That could be whats causing it.
I hope I helped!
~Melissa~
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Hey.
Alittle over a month ago, I lost a friend to suicide.
It was terrible when I first found out, because I mean, I was talking to him the day before he did that.
He told me everything, and I tried to do everything to help. Could I have done more?
Its not really my fault, right?
-Erin (link)
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Hun,
It's not your fault in the least. If he only told you the day before, there's no way you could have helped. I don't want to say this, but he was to far gone. I am so sorry that this happend, and that you are thinking it's your fault. I really hope that you heal. But, it's not your fault, so don't even think it is.
Praying for you!
~Melissa~
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i want my room to be makeovered..like by a professional such as in those magazines. i know you can like win it and stuff but can you just go find one & pay them?? if you can, where can you go? thanks so much because my room looks really ugly right now and i want it to look good! i rate 5s! :) (link)
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Look in the phone book under interior decorators. There should be a few of them listed in there. But make sure that you get a really good one, and make sure that you've got the cash to dish out for one.
Hope I helped!
~Melissa~
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well im a fresman in high school and i still haven't gotten mi period! ( i no pretty sad huh?) well anyways im afraid ill get it in school and ill be wearing white pants... what can i do? i don't want any surprsies (link)
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Before your period starts, you should start seeing this weirdo white stuff in your underware. When you start to see that, you'll know that your period is coming. So, when you see it, just start wearing a pad, and you should be okay!
Hope I Helped!
~Melissa~
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I sweat alot from my underarms. Is that a problem. Uhm...some details. It's mostly during the warm months (but its still more than everyone else is sweating) and it can sometimes form like a pit to the bottom of my bra (rarely). I wear Mitchum Deodorant for Women. I weigh 130 and I'm 5'4. I like salt, but I dont eat ALOT of it. I mostly use a lot on corn, mashed potatoes, and chicken soup (but I dont have those on a daily basis. Usually once or twice a month.) I cant think of any other reasons why. Does anyone think any of those things could be the reason. Any other reasons? Is this unhealthy?? Could I die or anything? (link)
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Of course it's not unhealthy! Take it from someone who sweats alot somtimes...okay all the time. lol. It's probably just the deoderant your wearing. I would suggest trying Arrid XXX. Or somthing like that. It REALLY works. Don't use Secret or Adida's or stuff like that, cause those don't work.
Or if you think its not your deoderant, it's probably just because your going through "hormonal stuff" Like as you get older, your sweat glands get larger, so you sweat more. So you could just be getting rid of all that extra sweat. Trust me. If you change your deo you should be okay.
Hope I Helped!
~Melissa~
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ok i want an ipod for xmas but i was just wondering whats teh difference between the actual ipod, an ipod mini, and an ipod nano. Like I no ipod minis and nanos only hold 1000 songs and the regualr ipod holds aorund 10000 or sumthing....but thats it....so i was just wonderign which is better and price isn't an issue...I just wnt to no what they all do and stuff. Oh and I know that ipod minis their battery power is really crappy I was wondering if teh regualr ipod is better. Thanks (link)
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Regular Ipod's are totally worth the money!! So get that, not a crappy mini or nano.....DEFINTLY NOT A SHUFFLE! lol, they suck. anyway, hope i helped!
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well im a 16 yr old female lol.... and sorry if its long :( but i dont know what to do!
i have like a best boy mate
and i THINK he likes me. i really like him.
like today i was showing him something on my fone he came right up behind me and was like really close in a romantic way.
and when we was getting on the train he put his hands over my eyes and as i moved them away we kinda didnt let go for like 1 second but i really wanted to hold them.
and when we got off the train and in general we always walk really close to each other and our hands keep touching. i have a really huge urge to hold him its not fair.
i want to be with him so much but i dont know how to tell him or what to say
please help i really want to be with him. does what i explained above sound like he likes me?
emma xoxox i rate 5's for good advice :D
xx *sorry its a bit long* (link)
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I think he might like you!! But to be sure, just ask him. It may seem scary, but if he doesn't and he's one of your really good friends, than nothing should change. I don't really know what else to say, BUT...in my personal opioion it sounds like he likes you. So go for it!
JA!
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hi im 13 yrs old and i just started my period i have no one to talk to and i am running out of the supplies i got at 'the talk' i dont have a mom or any sisters or brothers .. just a dad...... how do i bring up this subject with a guy? (link)
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You have to be really straight forward. Go up to your dad, and say, "dad, i'm running low on girl supplies. Would you please take me out to get some more soon.?" And leave it at that. He probably won't mind if you ask him. Anyway, Good luck with that!!! I promise, it gets easier!
BYE!
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i go to a private school and its really small. i'm in 8th grade and next year i'll be going to a public school for the first time. i know i'm ready. i'm smart so that won't be hard. and all my best friends are going there, and i know lots of people that go there. and i'm planning on playing tennis. but do you think there is anything that i should watch out for/look forward to or anything else i should know? (link)
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Beware the rumors. People like to start rumors about new kids. At least they do in my school. Just make sure you go into the new school with an awesome attitude, and be ready to make freinds!! I hope you have an awsome time at school!!
Hope I helped!
~Melissa~
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ive been on 3 dates with this boy tom. and we are supposed to go to some concert a week from tomorrow. after our first datee i was like ok i kinda like him but i wouldnt kno yet because i dont know him well. we went out 2 other timesss and i still wasnt suree. so todayyyyy i was tallking to him online and at the same time he sent me a message on myspace saying " hey i really like you and i wanna be with you, do you want to?" and i didnt say anything because i dont think i really like him and if i do i wanna go on a few more dates and see.. so i talked to him online and i was like im goin out talk to you tonight.. he signs on and in his profile is " i love u lindsey 9/10/05" and i never sed i wanted to and didnt even give him the sign i wanted to. and his myspace says " in a relationship" i dont know what to do.. tahts kinda creeeppyy.. i cant tell him on the phone so i didnt anser yett!.. wut should i tell him online or wen i text him.. i dont think its bad im tellin him that way because he told me the same way basically
thanksss (link)
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What you should do, is sit him down, and just tell him straight out that your not sure if you want to be in a relationship with him right now. Tell him that, you would rather go on a few other dates, and get to know him some more before you make that kind of commitment. Hopefully he'll understand. Dont really bring up the myspace thing, cause then he'll think he's got no chance and will probably freak out. (lol) anyway. If you have anymore questions feel free to ask!! Or if my advice sucks, you can IM me at samarawntstoast. ^_^ I dont mind being yelled at! lol,
Hope I helped!
~Melissa~
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one day i just woke up with this bump kinda thing on my lip. its sensitive and really annoying. today i think it popped or sumthing but idk wht to do about it. easy 5's for wht it is and how to get rid of it (link)
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Its a coldsore. Don't pop them, or if you do, it will just come back more sensitive.
Hope I Helped!!
~Melissa~
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Ok, my name is Adrianna and i'm fifteen. And I (Obviously) need some help. See, people at my school think i'm a poser. And it really pisses me off. Because I have NEVER talked to any of the people that call me it. So they base it all on the way I dress. Call me crazy but, I have always bought things based on if I liked them or not. So I shop everywhere. Hot topic, Abercrombie and Fitch, JCPennys, hell even the thrift store if I really like it. So like, I want people to understand that i'm not trying to be something, i'm not trying to be a "Punk" or a "Prep" I could honestly give a shit less. I understand that not everyone is going to like you but, it really upsets me that people don't like me based on the clothes I wear. I don't know what to do. I want these people to just stop.
Ugh, I know this is stupid and cliched. So bear with me. (link)
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People shouldn't judge you on how you dressed. Its not fair to you!! If you want to shop at Hot Topic, and Abercrombie, and even the thrift store that should be fine with them!! It all depends on what you like. I have alot of friends like that who wear anything they want!! It doesn't matter what people say. If you want to be friends with those people though, then go up and get to know them. If you get to know them, then they'll get to know you. And they'll start to relize your not a poser!!
If you wanna talk to me, or tell me my advice sucks (lol) IM me at samarawntstoast.
~Melissa~
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Ok my mom doesnt like thongs adn wont let me wear one and none of my friends do, but other people in my grade do. And i cant drive so i cant drive myself to the store to get one. Does anyone have a way i can buy one adn not let my mom know i amm buying it. And i cant go get one with my friends because they hate people who wear them! i rate high! (link)
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Your friends shouldn't care what type of underware you buy. Its none of there buisness. If you want to buy a thong while your out with your friends, go ahead. Its not like its hurting them.
Hope I Helped!
~Melissa~
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hi my birth day is coming up and i want a laptop. my parents are willing to buy me one for a reasonable price and they want it to do most everything (burn cds, is internet accesible, and that i can use most everywhere with a good batterie) any ideas on the brand? thanx for your help! (link)
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DELL! Dell is the best you can get! Its totally worth it!!
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who has a screen name that would like to talk? if you do, what is it and i will add u and talk to you! (link)
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Hey, ^_^ My name is melissa and my sn is Samarawntstoast.
If ya wanna talk, please make sure you mention how you know my sn, or i'll forget, and freak out....heehee, ^____^
~Melissa~
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