My ex-girlfriend and I go to different colleges and were long distance for awhile because of it. We're no longer together but are on good terms and are pretty good friends, and she just revealed to me that sometimes (even while we were together), when she would sit down for class she would knowingly let her thongs ride up for random guys.
I'm not asking how I should feel about that (I don't really care), but I was just curious what you guys would think of it.
I'd think (no offense) She's sleazy or she just wants attention..
or she's just trying to make you jealous or something.
Haha.
o.o
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I'm a 16 year old girl and I've been best friends with this girl since 3rd grade, we're both in 10th grade now. During 8th grade the 2 of us became great friends with another 2 girls and its been the 4 of us since. A month ago my long time best friend started hanging out with the school smokers and drug addicts, but she wasn't alone since one of my other friends liked a guy there she always went with. The past month their attitudes have changed, they smoke and drink, their clothing choices are different ect. When I try talking to them about how them changeing makes me feel they laugh and say I must get a life and stop acting like their mom. A few days ago I heard that the 2 of them told their new friends that I said some rude things about her and then she and a few of her group found me after school. They keep saying it wasn't them that told the girl but they were the only ones that knew. Plz give me advice on what to do, if I should stay friends with them or try and forget...
I had to deal with one of my best friends changing into something that I never knew, she believe that she had to change in order for people to like her, she pierced her nose and shit, I told her how it was I don't need someone who thinks she needs to change in order to be accepted..
I'm sorry you have to go threw things like this, and I hate it when people change, but it's a part of life..you have to either tell your best friend and her friends straight up that you won't hang out with them anymore if they don't change there ways, you do NOT need to be with people who smoke or drink, it's a bad road to go down..trust me >.<
It's not your fault you have a good head on your shoulders, I don't believe in drinking or smoking..just stay strong and I guarantee if they don't change there ways, they will be in a lot of trouble later on in life.
Please don't let them get you down, and talk to a parent about this stuff if your worried about your friends, you don't want to see your friends hurt by there own stupidity?
If you need anymore help, ask meh. ;p
I hope I helped,
Good luck!!!
Emily
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My girfriend is pressuring to have sex and i'm not ready yet she's had sex before i'm a virgin
were both 16 i maybe weird but i'm not sure if she's the right girl i want to find the right girl she's talks about sex a lot so i'm not sure if i want to be with her that may sound strange but i don't want to have sex for awhile yet there's nothing wrong with that is there?
Exactly what you last said, you don't have to have sex just because your girlfriend wants you to, and if she wants to have sex so much, I think she might be using you? ;/ Girls and guys do stuff like that.
It's surprising how some girls pressure guys into sex, I never thought they did..I was wrong.
I totally understand what you mean by you want to find your right girl, you sound like a really nice guy, don't let skanky girls trouble you. haha
I hope I helped, thanks for asking me a question if you need anymore help, feel free to ask!
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i am afiad telling him 'i love u'and he doesn't love me.....i'm not sure about his love...but iam sure he likes me and he love my character
thanks....
koky
If you love him, honestly tell him you love him..if he doesn't feel the same way about you, than just wait out..and try to get to know each other better.
Hope I helped
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i am 14 and my boyfriend has asked if he can finger me he keeps asking and i dont no what to say because he has told me we will stay together if i let him but wont if i wont let him , i was worring that i am two young so what should i say ??
No guy should break up with a girl, just because they don't want to do sexual things with them..
Tell him what you want to do, if you honestly don't say "I'm not ready". If he is going to be an ass about it (Excuse my language) break up with him..you do not deserve to be treated that way.. it's SO disrespectful.
Please stay strong, and tell him yourself you won't do things like that.
Don't let anyone take advantage of you.
I hope I helped!
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i was fat when i was little how can i be skinny natrully
You can't really be skinny naturally. It depends on your familys genetics and whatever. To stay an average weight just exorcize, drink juice instead of soda, drink water the most.
Eat moderately, don't eat when your bored >.<
Do not stop eating, and do not force yourself to vomit, that is no way to lose weight.
I hope I helped.
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I am belimic and nobody absolutly nobody knows but the other day i was wearing a tight shirt and my aunt goes " oh my goodness sweetheart you have lost so much weight. You are eating right?" i anwsered yes because i am. She said it when it was only memand her and my mom doesnt notice anything. And i want to get help but i have no idea how to tell anybody. Even for people to try to see when i am at my house i always lift up my shirt and rub my ribs so people might see how skinny i have gotten. So please somebody help me tell my mom and i need you to say it clear and gentle because my mom doesnt take new things well. So please my life is on the line right now. Please
I really don't know how your mother couldn't tell that your sick, it should be obvious. Every mother should know when something is wrong with there daughter/son.
I feel really bad that your going threw this, tell your mother face to face that you are not well,that your anorexic and bulimic, and you think you really need help.
I'm surprised you want help, most anorexics and bulimics don't want help, and they think there fine.
Tell her, honestly what's wrong and I really hope things work out well for you. If you need anyone to talk to, feel free to ask me a question.
I hope I helped, and good luck dear
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Me and my friend had a sleepover last night and he wanted to cuddle with me and we started kissing and we had sex ! He's my best friend and were not even dating we were just playing with each other. But I do have a boyfriend. How do I tell him i slept with another guy ? What should I do ?
Just make sure you actually tell him. Tell him face to face (if you can) if you feel like you've made a mistake, and you want to apologize make sure you tell him it was just a mistake, and it won't happen again. If you guy's break up, don't be surprised :/ Things like that are hard to deal with.
If he really loves you though, he'd stay no matter what. Just don't do anything like that again. :3 Stay away from this friend, it was partly his fault to..if he knew that you had a boyfriend, it's just as much his fault, as it is yours.
I hope I helped,
Emily
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i am in a long distance relationship and i wanted to know how can i spice up our talks. we know so much about eachother and talk about the same stuff it seem like. what are some things i can say or ask him to start or keep a conversation going. please help me
Talk about each others days, and bring up things about how you miss him, and how maybe something you've seen reminded you of him?
My best friends in a long distance relationship, and she's going threw a lot of problems. Just make sure you stay faithful to him >.<
Try to make plans, to try to find a way to see each other. Ask him where he would like to go on a date with you. Stuff like that.
I hope I helped.
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My girlfriend and i are 15 and we have been together for 6 months and she says she wants to go further sexually im a bit nervous about it the other day we were making out for awhile and then she took of my pants and she was going to pull down my underpants and i got nervous i stopped her i dont think im quite ready for sex or anything sexual yet were only 15 my penis is not that big i'm worried about it she might not like me anymore its not weird to feel this way is it?
If your not ready to have sex, than your not ready..make sure you tell her that. I think you guys should wait anyway, 6th months isn't really long enough.. but it depends on how mature you guys are.
Don't worry about it, if your uncomfortable with it..than don't have sex. Don't worry about your size, it doesn't really matter. If she doesn't like you anymore for you not having a big penis..than she is a very very, shallow girl.
If you do have sex, please make sure you use protection o.o..
I hope I helped.
Good luck!
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OK, so me and my boyfriend have been going out for a little over a month now and i thought that i liked him but now i realize that i don't really like him, i am still in love with my past boyfriend and this is really hard i don't know what to do at all with the boyfriend that i have now??? And i think that my past boyfriend still likes me also so i am stuck between the to and did i mention that my mom and my boyfriend now's mom work together and are really close!! PLEASE HELP!!!!
I am 13 years old
and well duh i am a female.
I say, break it to you boy friend kindly..you can't stay with him if you still have feelings for your ex..make sure you tell your boy friend..so he can move on from you. :/
..Make sure you truly like someone before you date them. It only makes the other person hurt more.
I hope things work out for you!
I hope I helped,
Emily
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lately ive been getting this yellow liquid stuff on my underpants im 14 its happened a few times and i get a little itchy down there is that normal? im worried could it be an infection? i read that its better to wear cotton underpants and maybe use a perfume or soap to help is that true?
That's usually called discharge..and it happens before or after your period. (If you have started your period) it could be a yeast infection..to cure that you can drink more fluids, and cranberry juice could help.. using perfume sprayed directly on the area is not good..it can irritate..you can spray perfume a few inches away from the area onto your underpants though, I've done that :3
anti-bacterial soap is good to use..to clean down there , or vagisel..wash..
If your seriously worried about it being something bad, like if when you urinate it burns..that is not a good sign..you could have an infection but..I believe theirs nothing seriously wrong with you..
Hope I helped!
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i have a story and a question- so here's the thing... i sent my former teacher two letters of appreciation, then she sent me back a thankyou letter. then, because i was so excited to get a letter from her, i sent her another letter saying thanks for replying and congrats on her new baby that she mentioned in her letter. she didn't respond, so i sent her another letter talking about random stuff and questions so she would have to reply back. when several months passed, i finally figured out that a possible reason for her not responding to my letters was that she didn't want to talk anymore. so, finally, i sent her another letter apoligizing and explaining why i kept sending her letters and how i really just wanted to talk to her and sorry for any inconvenience. so my question is do you think she's mad at me? i feel so embarrassed and there's no way for me to talk to her because she moved and even if i did have her number, i wouldn't call her or show up at her house like a stalker... this is humiliating. do you think i overdid it by sending the apology? do you think she appreciated the apology(that is if she was annoyed with the other letters- which by the way, were not anything bad) she knows me by the way, she knows i'm a good kid. she said it herself in the letter that sent me. what's your opinion? thanks!!=]]
I think she appreciated the first few letters, but the letter about her new baby could of been a little much, but don't be embarrassed. She probably doesn't feel odded out by it, shes probably just busy. Just don't write her another letter, unless she contacts you first. If she knows your a good kid, she won't be mad at you for it..
Hope I helped!
Emily
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i was fingered when i was 12- year old and worrying if am still a virgin or if am pregnant.
Hello :3
Don't worry your still a virgin..
you can only get pregnant by having sex, if you use protection theirs a less chance of getting pregnant..
Hope I helped!
Emily
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My girlfriend and i are both 16 the other day we were in my room we were lying on the bed we started dry humping after awhile i came we both had our underpants on she a bit worried about being pregnant is there any chance she is?
Well, honestly I don't believe so. I'm not to good at that subject, but I don't think so if she's worried about it, she should probably just take a case for sure. I have heard and I researched it, and it says it's like wearing a condom, but condoms don't always work? I don't know.
If she is worried, just take the test like I said. That would calm her worries.
Be careful! :3
Hope I helped,
Emily
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Well I resently broke up with my boyfriend of 2 years and I'm trying to forget about him but now his friends know what happen kinda and they are looking at me like I'm the evil one in this. They don't know how he treated me and what went on behind doors and they keep trashing me I don't know what to do I look really bad to everyone and I get dirty looks. How do I make peice?
Try to ignore his friends, if there really that immature. They don't know what happened so therefore they really don't have any right to say anything. Sure, they probably know what your ex said, but that he's side of it. If they keep it up, tell them your side of the story, if they don't believe you, move on. Just forget him, try to..and his stupid friends. :)
I hope I helped,
Emily
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Im 15 male and im gay ive been attracted to guys for awhile now i havent told anyone yet and ive become really close to this guy we hang out a lot
weve become real close hes friendly towards me im not sure if hes gay but everytime i see him my feelings get stronger im a bot nervous to tell him not sure how he will react i unsure i really like him how do i find out if hes gay? how do i tell him how i feel?
I really think you should tell him that your gay, so he knows, and maybe he feels the same way about you? I suggest you tell him your feelings about him, if he doesn't feel the same way, stay friends. If he gets upset over it, and doesn't want to be around you anymore he's not worth your time.
If he's really your close friend, and if he cares about you, he'll stick around :3
I hope I helped,
Emily
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Okay so im a girl and im 11 yrs old.
i've gotten my period and ever since my private has been smelly during my period and when im not on it.. should i be worried? is there anything to make it go away? & Sometimes i find gooy white stuff in the front of my underwear is that normal also? my friend told me when my privates smell to put perfume on my pants or between my underwear? and also i try to but a pad so it wont smell ...
Well, every girl has that issue once in awhile so it's totally normal. :) Using perfume is somewhat okay, but not in your underpants or really close to your vagina, that could hurt it more.
Don't use soap that is in the gel soap form? I don't know what kind it is called, but it's not like dial and it can irritate things down there.
Make sure you wash properly down there, with anti bacterial soap, which cleans very well. Don't use really strong scented body washes, because that could cause problems also.
Maybe use Summers Eve sensitive body wash, or a certain kind, for Oder. Your only 11, so I don't think your sexually active, well you shouldn't be O.O , so there couldn't be a real problem if these things don't help, you may need to see a doctor, or talk to your mother about it..she's had a period for a very long time, so she should know!
I hope I helped,
Emily
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Im gay and 19 now and I met him at 12 , I didnt realize that I love him he just came onto my life first time we talked and never separated,Hes a straight guy , his porno is straght , what he says is straight lol but the ways he acts with me makes me think thas hes not, sometimes he touches me a little to much and once he tried to kiss me but now things appear to be different , he thinks that im gay and he still touches me...closer to me legs on me (weird I know) now hes lost in hes video games and Im tired that he doesnt show much importance to me( other subject)We got many projects. IM always after him but now it hursts to much and I dont know if I should forget him even if there no one I love more
To start off, does he know that your gay? If he does than he shouldn't touch you in those ways, if he doesn't feel that way. Some guys are real close to there friends, but not usually that close. My boy friend and his friends call each other babe, but that's it. No touchy feely stuff or anything, so I think perhaps he does have feelings like that towards you but he doesn't want to act on them, because he's scared of what people will think, or you think?
Which I think he shouldn't be scared, if he does feel that way towards you. No one should judge anyones sexual orientation. :3 I don't think you should forget someone that you love and care about so much, tell him hoenestly what your feelings are, if he doesn't feel the same way its alright, there are others that you can be with. Tell him in a way thats suttle, so he won't freak out. Tell him you don't want anything to change between you guys, you don't want to lose his friendship. I wish you good luck >.<
Love,
Emily
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I met this guy on some website about a year ago and ever since we have never stopped talking. We know were both real people. He lives like half an hour away or more. We txt 24/7 . we have alot of things in common. We talk about everything, literally. I just feel like he's a great guy and everything. Should we try a long distance relationship ? Would it work? Oh & i'm 15 and he's 17 .
P.s. We've also talked about trying to meet up and hang out and maybe do some other stuff. Would that be okay or completely weird?
This just reminded me of my boyfriend and I :3 I'm 15 and he's 17. We met on facebook, it was never a long distance relationship, but I never knew him in person. I met him threw my use to be best friend >.< We met, and we have been dating for a year
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