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there is this girl i really like in my science class. shes kinda out of my leauge but i cant get her outta my mind! ive asked her out but she said no but i dont know why. what should i do?

Try to hang out with her and let her get to know you better so she might changer her mind. Or she might just be shy thats all. But talk to her ant tell her how you feel.
Good Luck!
Natally*

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is there any ways that i can delete a question that i answered?

yes. Just go to Edit answer, and you can delet it there.
Nat

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OK i am going to paris on march 12 for a week with my school and i was just wondering if like anyon new the weather there at that time in march. Is it true that when you go in to the lue that you arnt souspose to show any skin. What time of clothes do they were lyk brown and blacks. Do they were a like pinks and yellow?

-Thank You For Any Help

Well one way you can find that info. out is by going to google but with the clothes i dont think it matters.

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I listen to a different kind of music and it's hard to find c.d.'s sometimes. I have downloaded a lot of songs by these bands, but I want the actual c.d.'s.
The bands are:

A Life Once Lost
Isis
Opera IV
Twilight Ophera
Ablaze My Sorrow
Das Ich
Unearth
Tapping the Vein
&
Behemoth.


I can't find any of those bands albums around here. My only other resort is to order over the internet, but I don't want to spend that much.

So, question being, does anybody know a website I can get these bands at for not that expensive?

sounds like alot of that music comes from europe, so you can either go there... or go onto google and ask where to buy the CDs your looking for. Also if you know anyone in europe you could ask them. But buying them off of the internet would probably be the best because you probably won't find them here...
h.i.h.

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So there is this guy that i like and that he tells me he likes me but yet he never talks to me and he is always with other girls and the other girls say that he says he likes them!! i really like this guy so what should i do? How can i find out who he really likes?

well if you really like him, talk to him. But to me he sounds like a playa'.
good luck!

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i have brown curly hair with highlights and i always try to straighten it and i usually do but in the times i dont and my hair is curly my hair jsut doesnt seem to look good in any type of hair style does any one know any good hair styles for curly haired people???

well u can try braids or a pony tail. um... maybe a bun or somthing like an updo. Maybe even search on google for different hair styles.
h.i.h.
Natallyxo

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I`ve had a problem with confidence. I always let what people say, get to my head. Does anyone have any advice on how to raise my confidence?

just think that you're the best dang thing on earth but dont go over board... lol or you could try to ignore it and say to you self that you know your good... and that those people are just trying to make me feel and look bad...
h.i.h.
Natxo

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is there any way i can get killer abs. i am 13(going on 14)/f and i have a little bit of tummy flab. and i cannot do situps for beans->lol. i want like a flat stomach so i can wear bikinis and stuff. thanks

well u can try riding ur bike... running, curl ups, and what else... um bellydancing... but thats all i can think of at the moment.
Nat*

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Ok this is a serious question and please don't delete it! Ok I've been bestfriends with my bestfriend Katie for over 6 or 7 years or something like that. Ok well the problem is recently like around newyears she got back together with her X boyfriend who used to hit me and say bad things to me and stuff. I really did think everything changed. UNtil the other day it got real serious and we got into an actual fist fight! and I know this isn't right. I just don't know what to do. The other day I started crien and walked away. I don't know what I should do. I don't want to loose my bestfreind because we already had a seperation because of this. This is getting really serious and Im afraid if I don't do something about this I will get hurt not only physically..emotionally to..

Signed
Scared 15-f

that sux... but try talking to her about your feelings and tell her that you don't want your friends ship to end because of some stupid guy... but serioucly, talk to her about it. and hopefully everything goes good for you two!
wish u luck!
Natally*

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ok one of my best friends has really strict parents. theyre making her go to military school cuz she got one D on her report card! shes leaving next year and i dont know if i can take it. shell be at school all week except for the weekends. i dont know what to do shes the only person that makes school a little more fun. im really sad. how can i get over this?

Well the best thing to do is to just keep in touch with her. Make sure you still talk on the phone and try to hang out with her even though she's going to a differnt skool.
h.i.h.
xonat

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I have been pretty depressed. I dont know why. On the weekends I pretty much just go to work from 11-4, come home, watch tv, do homework, eat and maybe get online or talk on the phone and then do it again the next day. My parents dont like me going out too much. Then on weekdays I go to school from 7:55-2:15, stay after school sometimes till 4 or just go straight home. Or if I can I get outta school and stay after till 4 call my bf n hang out w him till 8. I just needa know whats going on, like why am I go DEPRESSED n how can I get over it?

Well... maybe you're bored of the same routine every week... change it alittle maybe trya nd go out and have some fun, laugh. But it might also be because you can't do much becuase your parents don't let you out much. But those are just a few that i can think of.
h.i.h.
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Natally*

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So I'm totally in love with this person and that person loves me too... and I want to put together a CD of music sort of saying how i've fallen for them. Any ideas on songs for the playlist?

check out some Leann Rimes, Shania Twain, Jesse McCartney, JoJo, Hilary Duff, Beyonce, A*Teens, Avril Lavigne, Maroon 5, Backstreet boys, N*SYNC, Faith Hill, Keith Urban, Aaron Carter, Nick Carter, Britney Spears, Christina Aguilera, Hanson, Kelly Clarkson, Michelle Branch, U2 (has alot) , Usher, Alicia Keys, Switchfoot, Bryan Adams, Led Zeppelin... and thats all i got so far lol...
h.i.h.!
Natally

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Why are Condoms flavored?

so that u can suck there u no... but thats just plane gross to my opinion...
h.i.h.t.
Nat*

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I want to plant nice flowers in my backyard does anyone know some mystical flowers i can plant im really spirtual and plant like.

um... i think you're talking about tropical looking plants right? well you can go to home depot or lowes. they have some nice flowers. or if you wanna grow some on your own well those two stores above are a great place to look at. i don't really know the names of the plants but i'm sure youll find some there.
h.i.h.
xo

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i cry all the time. and im sick of it. i wish i could stop but i cant, i dont know what to do. i want it to be so that i dont cry at all. or not every day atleast. i feel so weak and helpless when i do. is there any way for me to stop or am i just stuck with it forever? i know this is a stupid question to ask but i really need help with this...

its not a stupid question but maybe you're depressed. Try thinking positive and be happy no matter what the situation. At a point i think i was depressed and i cried everyday but im better now ever since i started to look at the good side of things. try it, it really helps. :)
Natally*xo

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Why do guys care so much if a girl has big boobs and butts? they don't even care about if your pretty or about your personality?

i guess thats what guys are just attracted to. but i would go for a guy that likes you for you not ur body. but guyz are stupid and they dont know any better lol. i think they care because its attracting? but well.. i think its kinda wierd if you ask me lol.
h.i.h.
xonat

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Hey Guys... I'm 17 Years old... and I've had unprotected sex with my boyfriend who ive been with for 5 months... I had my period the first of this month and it lasted about 5 days... and thats pretty normal... But my boobs are starting to hurt.. and I feel like I'm getting fatter... I'm scared.. is there any way i can be pregnant???

:(

if you had your period after you had sex then you should be fine. but if you're still worried then i would take a pregnancy test just to make sure. but i don't think you are.
xo

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I just started at this new school, although i;ve been there about 2 yrs ago. I met up with an old friend and we feelin eachother. But me..i aint the type of girl who haves boyfriends in school cuz they be acting immature. He's a year older then me....But im trying to see if i should give this a chance. holla back

Well if you really don't wanna date in school then don't but I personaly would give it a shot.
h.i.h.
Nat-

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ok here's my story..see there;s this girl Danielle, danielle and i are like best friends and we have beemn for the past 4 years now..but my mom (who is btw VERY over-protective and judgemental.lol) REEEEALLY doesnt like Danielle and hates it when i hang t with her.. and this is often.. everytime Danielle is over my house my mom treatsher like crap...like she wont axctually treat her like crao but she treats my other friends WAY nicer).... so my mom doesnt understand that my life is SO much harder bcuz of her.. she hates my BFF and always tells me who i can or cant hang out with..what should i do to make my mom realize that im mature enought to pick my own friends.. i love my mom and eben trie dtellign her that i WOULD waaay rather her jsut nvr talk to me again!!! lol she totaly doesnt understand me..what should i do?!!??! xo Ari

well first of all i walk talk to your mom about Danielle and why she IS your bff. try to make her understand and try having her see through your eyes. Tell her how you feel about her treating Danielle different when shes over. Just make your mom see, i mean it cant be that hard for her becuase she probably went through the same thing. Maybe even (while your talking to your mom) ask her what she was like when she was your age. Talk to her and try to have her open up to you and do the same to her. Just really try to make her under stand that Danielle isn't a bad person.
Natally

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okay this might sound a little stupid...but i ahve a best friend and i love her with allll my heart but lately she;s been getting like tons of BF's and crap and this might sound a little stupid buutt i was feeling kind of jelous because she kind of "stole" the guy taht i REALLY like... and she knows i like him but she flirts with him ne ways... i've tried speaking to her about it but she just got into a fight about it (and i HATE fighting over boys!)the one thing that REALLY bothers me is taht she goes through guys like they dont even matter to her, and i know this might sound stupid but i think she;s trying to get with the guy i liek to amke me jelous....what should i do?!?! i;ve already tried talking to her but no matter what she doesnt give a damn!!..lol please help =(
thnx . xoxo Ariella*

well thats not very nice... maybe shes going through a tough time or shes just trying to see how many boys she can get, but i mean thats just plain rude. if talking doesnt work then try hinting her with body language.
There's alot of things you could do to stop her but to many to mention lol.
hope i helped though!
Natally*

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