Hey, my name is Jason. I've only been here for a little while, but this seems like one of those places that I might stop by daily. My good friend, Shay, was the first to show me this site and is a member herself. I'm pretty much used to giving out advice to my friends and have done that for quite a while. I also like it because it takes my mind off of my own problems. So hopefully I'll be a help to you all too. =) If you wanna find out anything else about me just send me a message and I'll try my best to get back at ya.
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Location: Virginia
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Age: 15
Member Since: June 27, 2004
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ive got 3 yrs left @ school nd i wna make it go as quick as possible, how can i deal w/ name calling? (link)
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Yea I'd have to agree with Heather. High School does go by fast and you do want to enjoy the good times as much as possible. I thought I was still a freshman last year, but I'm going to be a Junior next school year. You shouldn't really have a prob with name calling, I found that somewhat uncommon compared to middle school. Just ignore those who do it, they're just bein childish. Just try to have fun and high school will fly by. ^_^
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hello my freind had sex and well just call him Bob and bob has pressured all his g/f into sex ! and my best friend well call her Jackie has just started dateing him and i dont want her to do the dirty deed yet cuz shes soo sweet and shes kinda gullable so shell prolly go and do it like dont get me wrong i love both of them soo much as friends but i dont want Jakie to have sex with bob but jakie knoes about bobs pressuring his other gfs into sex but she wont dump him wut shud i do i dont want her to get taken advantag of so shud i talk to her ? i need help cuz im soo stuck on wut to do ( ps were only 15 i dont want her to have it this early except bob is like 16) (link)
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Well have you thought about what her opinions and thoughts are on this? Who knows maybe she wants to do it. But if she isn't really sure then you should talk to Bob about what you have to say (most likely it won't work). Then go talk to Jackie, you both know about him pressuring his g/fs, she just has to be ready when ever the time comes. Hopefully she'll have enough will power to stand up against him, unless, of course, she wants to.
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hey im a 14/f and i wanna knoe if this guy is into me he always smiles , winks , holds doors , laughs , jokes , stares i think he likes me but im no expert i realli like him but not in an obsessive way should i tell him how i feel ? please help me i realli need some advie cuz im gunna see him this weekend and i need to knoe if i should tell him or not . but the thing is is taht i think if i dont let him knoe he wont knoe i like him alot and hell move on to another girl (link)
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Yes tell him how you feel, anything could happen. Those are pretty good signs that he likes you, unless he were to do that to every other girl out there(doubt that). So yea, nuthn to worry about, just call him up or whatever you feel is appropriate and tell him that you're interested.
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Hey my names Katie im 14 going on 15 and i have a friend named Jenn and weve been pretty much best friends since grade 6 and she has been awesum always there for me and understanding and laughs at my jokes ..but now ever since her boyfriend she has pretty much stopped being a good friend she makes me look stupid in english class by saying out loud KATIE UR SO STUPID THATS NOT RITE and the guy i like is in our english class and she knows that ..everytime i try to tell her wut i feel she laughs at me and i get so upset ..what should i do ? please help me (link)
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Well I'm not exactly sure how you try to tell her, but you should do it when you two are alone so there won't be any type of distraction and she'll get the whole message. Some people like to joke a lot, some might go overboard and it becomes more personal than just a joke. You might have to raise your voice a bit for some people to understand, hopefully she isn't one of them. I don't know how you are with ignoring things, but that's maybe what you should do to her comments and maybe take a break from her a bit if she still doesn't get the picture. Friendships sometimes get ugly, this could be one of those times. I hope this helped out and that things get better between you two in due time.
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ok well my friend and i always have liked the same guyz pritty much and then shes always able to go out and tell them and she ends up going out with them and i get all sad n stuff and then after they brake up i dont like that guy anymore and then we end up liking the same guy again ((cuz we tell eachother who we like)) and she did the same thing again and then now she likes one guy and i like another guy and she flirts with the guy that i like but shes always saying that she doesnt like him and the guy that i like is the guy that ive felt best about so far and then he might like her but im not shur and i really want to be her friend still its just im pissed off about the fact that she keeps stealing the guyz that i like and thats why my friends keep making fun of me that i still dont have a boyfriend yet and i dont know wut to do? wut should i do? (link)
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Hrm, some friend. Well you should tell her that it's bothering you, and if you did and she's still doing it, then maybe you should be more aggressive and go for the guy before she gets a chance to screw things up for you.
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If you really like a person who is a different age than you are and you are older, what would be considered a "BIG" age difference? Is two to four years a big age difference? (link)
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Well it all depends on the person really and how old they are. Cause some people that are 50 and 43 are married, 7 years difference. For that age it's ok, but 7 years difference for teens ain't right, heh. 20 year old dating a 13 year old doesn't sound all that great.
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I did ask a question earlier, and i got some great advice, but i still dont know how to talk to this girl, because i am moving in about a week and if nothing happens i will probably never talk to her again. anyways, i am a guy, 15 years old, and supposedly i am this really nice guy, and i am not like most of the other guys, not like my friends that much either, but i just try to be really nice to everyone and be really helpful and caring and all that, and for this one girl, i know that i will do anything at all for her, but i dont think she knows that - and that is who i am. the thing is, is that, there is this girl that is really really nice and fun and exciting, like no one else i have ever met or known, and i really like her, and admire her and look up to her and all that because of who she is, she isn't like the other girls that much either, and she doesn't like the dating idea, so that doesn't work well because i can't ask her out, and i asked her to maybe go on a walk with me, (i sent her a letter and called her on the phone), and i dont really think she has it in for me or whatever, and i just really want to tell her how i feel, i just want to let her know that i care about her and that she is very special to me, and all that, but i want to say it face to face to her, because i think it means more that way. so far i have called her and we talked a bit and i think she liked it, i think it was a fun conversation, but it really didn't mean anything, just a fun little chat, and at the end of it i told her to get back to me about going on a walk or something, but she just said okay and sounded like she really didn't care, and it has been a week, i have waited to see if she will respond, and she hasn't contacted me at all, and i decided that i'll probably just go to her house a couple days before i move and talk to her that way and tell her how i feel, but i was just wondering if i could get some advice to see if there are any other ways or what i could do, thanks a lot to anyone who gives me any advice! (link)
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I know how you feel. It would be nice to have that talk face to face. You should call her up once more and kinda inform her that you want to stop by her place for a little bit before you move. If that doesn't really sound all that great to her you could always tell her you want to hang out a bit more before you leave and just meet up where you want to, could be the mall etc. Hopefully she'll accept your invite and all you have to do is pull her aside for a bit and tell her what's on your mind. Good luck man.
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I am 14 years old, 15 in 2 weeks.. and I just found out I'm pregnant! I cried for days.. my parents dont know yet and I dont know how to tell them...They said they would ALWAYS support me but I doubt they will now when Im not sure who the father is... how should i bring up the convo with my mom and dad? (link)
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Well, you should mention to your parents that you have a serious issue to talk about. By saying that they'll at least be prepared and won't flip out. It's better to do it now than wait later on when it becomes obvious.
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The guy I REALLY like, loves to drink :-/ He gets drunk all the time except NOT when I'm around because I hate it! Should I still like this guy or move on? It's really hard to move on though... =( (link)
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Well if you really like him and you have a problem with his drinking you should talk it over. Whether or not to move on is your decision, I guess this is kinda based on personal morals. It might be tough to move on, but if you've tried and it bothers you that much, you might have to. If he likes you back then he would at least try to lower the alcohol intake. No need to be nervous or anything, just have a talk so that he understands how you feel about it, and maybe things will work out.
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My old best friend used to like my current boyfriend and we both liked him at the same time. We always fought over him and one day we just stopped being friends. I was so upset but I just moved on and made new friends. We recently started to talk again =) and shes so sweet!! I really wanna be best friends again like before.. should I invite her to hang out or should we just stay at talking on the internet? Thanks!! (link)
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It's really great that you two started talking again. Friends argue at times, even the best of friends. It could be over something silly or something serious, but in the end they would remain friends. If you want to continue being friends with her go ahead and invite her to do thing. If you feel that might be a pretty big step then you could at least start talking on the phone again and take things from there. Hope things work out =)
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I met this guy, he is soo sweet and hot and he treats me like a princess and we JUST met! I saw a picture of him and assumed he was about 16 or 17 and when we talked on the phone, he completely sounded like it too! Well, he asked me how old I was and said 15 and he said oh man I'm younger than you, I'm 14! :-/ Oh geez.. is it bad to be with someone a year younger than you especially when youre a girl?! HeLp! (link)
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Love doesn't care about age, nuthn but a number. I went out with a girl who is older than me and there wasn't any problem with that. If we continued to go out, she would've been 2 years older than me for the month of August. You shouldn't let anything like that stand in your way if you think he's the right one.
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My boyfriend and I have been going out for a few weeks and I LOVE doing EVERYTHING with him! We got dancing, to the movies and parties but my best friend wants to do things with me too... I just dont want to do those things with her because I have Jay! I also don't want to lose my best friend because shes GREAT to talk to! What do I do?! Thanks!! (link)
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Well first off, it's great that you're enjoying spending a lot of time with your b/f and everything. You should try to balance out your time with him and the rest of your friends. You really don't want to lose a good friend. He should understand if you want some time to be with your friends and he can go do the same. Go have a girls night out or sumthn, a few days without you b/f wouldn't hurt. Good luck with everything!
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