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My friend had Sex
hello my freind had sex and well just call him Bob and bob has pressured all his g/f into sex ! and my best friend well call her Jackie has just started dateing him and i dont want her to do the dirty deed yet cuz shes soo sweet and shes kinda gullable so shell prolly go and do it like dont get me wrong i love both of them soo much as friends but i dont want Jakie to have sex with bob but jakie knoes about bobs pressuring his other gfs into sex but she wont dump him wut shud i do i dont want her to get taken advantag of so shud i talk to her ? i need help cuz im soo stuck on wut to do ( ps were only 15 i dont want her to have it this early except bob is like 16)
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i know u care about your friend but it's not about what u want for your friend u should talk to her and tell her how u feel but she is going to do what she wants to do regard less but always talk to her and let her now of the problems that may happen and try talknig to your other friend bob and also let him no how u feel
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you needd to talk to both of them!!~~PLZ RATE~~
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Atleast you are smart enough to know that you and your friend are too young for sex. Even though there really is no age limit to be ready for sex. But you probably know your friend better than I do, and know thats he is not ready. Anyways.... just have a little chat with your girl, maybe she is not that dumb if she already knows how he is, or for all you know she thinks she is ready and that is why she is with him. Just talk to her and try to make she is egtting herself into. After the chat, that is all you can do, its out of your hands, just hope your friend doe sthe right thing. Hope I helped! :)
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Talk to her about it. I wouldn't talk to Bob.
Losing her virginity is HER decision, and you can't take that away from her. Just tell her that if Bob starts pressuring her to talk to you about it because you'll be there for her.
Don't get preachy on her or tell her that she's "too young" or "to sweet" to have sex. It will make her less likely to come to you if Bob starts bugging her to lose her virginity to him.
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HI,
I can understand your concern for your friend but you have got to appreciate that she is responsible for her self and for making her own decisions. You say 'I don't what her to do the dirty deed get coz she's so sweet'. It is an extremely personal decision to make, if or not you are ready to loose your virginaty and frankly you should leave that decision down to your friend. Who do you think you are, presuming you know better than she does? What you should do is tell your friend you are their if she needs to talk or wants to discuss anything. Then leave these two people to have a relationship. You will just have to trust your friend to do the right thing for her, whatever that may be. Sorry to be harsh, but as a friend sometimes you've got to know when to back off.
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Definitally talk to her about it!Tell her that 15 is too young to be having sex.Tell her she deserves much more than to be pressured into sex.Hope i helped
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you should tell your Jackie whats goin on!! tell her how much your worrying about her... and how much of a slim ball Bob is!! you should also talk to this Bob guy and tel him whats goin down, he needs to get a life.. and find someone who acutally wants to have sex wit him!! deff. stick up for Jackie!! good luckk with it, and i hope Jackiie makes the right choice!!! :) <3 liza!
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Talk to jakie and let her know how you're feeling, let her know what she is getting into and try having them go to places where they can't have sex or something.. if he does get her into a place where she could have sex, come up with some things that she could say or do to get herself out of the situation.. but it sounds to me that she already knows what she's getting herself into, all you can do is warn her and talk to her about what she could say if she does get into situations where he pressures her to have sex. remember she's the only one that can live her live all you can do is be there and support her (( after all it's her descion to keep going out with him, so she must know the risks involved, (getting pressured) ))
hope i helped & please rate
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So, what you're saying is that Bob is good at making girls do whatever he wants. Which makes him a manipulative jackass... why are you friends with him again?
...anyway... If poiting out the obvious pattern that Bob has established with previous girls isn't working, then is there really anything more that you can do? You've said what you could, you've done what you could...
the only thing further would be to take matters out of their hands by talking to some adults (parents, etc), but that is always a tricky thing to attempt.
Your other option is to talk to Bob, tell him to stop being a manipulative ass and to grow up.
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Well have you thought about what her opinions and thoughts are on this? Who knows maybe she wants to do it. But if she isn't really sure then you should talk to Bob about what you have to say (most likely it won't work). Then go talk to Jackie, you both know about him pressuring his g/fs, she just has to be ready when ever the time comes. Hopefully she'll have enough will power to stand up against him, unless, of course, she wants to.
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Since your friend seems to know about "bob's" reputation then i think she know what shes getting herself into. Hopefully she's mature enough to make the right decision. But if you really feel concerned then talk to her and make her realize that he's NOT the right guy for her.Let her know your there to help and not criticize. *Stephanie* ~KiSsES~
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