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How do you tell a dude that goes to the same school as you how you feel about him and not be afraid to tell him to his face? (link)
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Sometimes you just to show guts and do it. Don't be nervous, guys can sense fear, and just be honest. And make sure you do it, you don't wanna miss out and wonder later what could have been.
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I never had a real boyfriend before,we both are saved and keeping ourself untill it comes to getting married,what are some things you can help me to get to know what he's looking for in me. (link)
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Just be yourself. You are dating because of attraction, both physical and emotional. You two will learn to love each others traits.
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hey i need some advice theres this guy and i rlyl like ancd have no idea how to tell him i c him evryday and we laugh alot but ... dk know
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boy-crazy (link)
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Just be blunt and tell him straight up. You never know, he could feel the same way. You don't want to pass up a chance and realize later what could have been.
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Hello, I'm a sixteen year old girl, sophomore. Let's just say I've been through A LOT of hurt dealing with guys... Being used, hit, pressured, guilted, dumped, cheated on, objectified, lied to, played with... Yeah. I've only dated two guys but jeez I don't think I could have picked a worse two. The worst was probably being guilted and physically forced to do certain things... Like beyond making out. In one of my relationships I completely lost who I was. By the end the guy admitted that he only liked me when we were hooking up. That's the only reason he stayed with me. I'm still getting over him. In between those two bad relationsips and after (now) I have clinged to boys... I don't know what it is but I've always felt like I've needed to be involved with a boy to be "somebody" and I think that's the problem. Since my break up I've gained a lot of self confidence. Almost all of my friends have think I've healed but I haven't. I still cry every single night. And there are times when even I think I've healed but the next second I feel like shit again. I've recently started to attach myself to one of my guy friends. We used to text everysingle day but he's recently been distant and I don't know why. Maybe I'm driving him away? I keep telling myself I like him though... even when I know he probably doesnt like me back and I don't even think I like him to be honest... I just need a decent guy to think about when I try to fall asleep at night. But I'm fooling myself... I'm just so tired of all of this. Of needing boys. Its been eight months since me and my last boyfriend have broken up. I've done everything to keep myself busy. I have amazing friends that I hang out with every single weekend, cheerleading practice everyday, and kick boxing and yoga tuesdays and thursdays, and tennis on sundays. Plus I have a 4.0 in honors classes so I'm always busy with school work. I've tried so hard to keep my mind off of guys and to be independent and not rely on them but I can't... and I just don't know what else to do. It's like I don't feel perfect with myself unless I have a boy I know (or I can even pretend) cares about me... Socially, school-wise my life is perfect. I couldn't ask for better. I'm comfortable with how I look and I love my body but I have this need to be cared about my a boy and it makes me sick. Why can't I love myself and be completely happy without a boy? (link)
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From what I've read you seem like an amazing person. Boys really are into athletic girls and girls who work hard. While it seems hard at first realize you are young. You have so many more things to experience and a lot to see. Any guy would be lucky to have a girl like you and you don't need to settle. Think about all you have going for you. Cheerleader, tennis player, top student. It's all good. Just be patient and sooner than later a guy who loves you will come around. Just relax and enjoy life. You are capable of things many others wish they were capable of. Good luck and remember to have fun.
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I don't mean to sound conceited but I've been told I'm really attractive. When I go snowboarding guys always notice me because I'm good, I've done tours and I can do the terrain park and everything. Again, I promise I don't mean to sound cocky, but its the truh. I always catch guys staring at me and I'm always afraid to like look back I just give a quick glance and look away I guess I'm shy but how can I get them to approach me? I guess I just need a confidence booster lol. Thanks. (link)
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Listen everything you told me sounds great. Guys love athletic girls and you seem to definitely be one. Don't stress the guys will come along. Plus being attractive and all it wouldn't hurt to approach guys yourself.
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18f. My boyfriend and I decided after four months, mutually that we should be friends. Hes the same age. Things had been going good, but then things would feel off and we would not see eachother for a while and then be happy when we were together again. I felt we needed more interesting things to do when we were together and he just seemed content. One day he seemed real frustrated at me and so I had brought up the idea of being friends for awhile, he said he agreed. His one guy friend said to me that he probably didn't want to break up and that he just agreed, which makes me wonder if he still has feelings. I don't have any close friends/family to talk to or hang out with and so all I can think about is him. I feel as if I lost the only person I had going for me, but I also feel it was kind of the right thing to do. I hope to find another guy, but every nice guy seems taken. I am a friendly, approachable person. What to do?
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The best and only way to fully get over someone, if that's what you want, is to find a new person you like better. It might seem strange and different at first but as soon as you develop feelings for a new person the old ones disappear. You are young and have a lot more to experience. Trust me a new person will come around if you just give it time. Until that happens don't forget about the rest of what life has to offer. Friends, family, and sports, I hope you a fan :). Anytime enjoy being young and have fun. Life might just surprise you.
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Does guys prefer hot sexy girls or cute girls? What about clumsy girls? Smart or stupid? Any additional information can be added :)) Also what kind of girls do you think is hot and what kind is cute? (link)
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Every guy is different. I have noticed some guys are into different kinds of girls regardless of base attractiveness. Some guys like preppy girls, athletic girls, or smart girls. Although guys say they have a preference I seen guys get together with girls they never would have thought about dating until they talked to them. Personality does play a role too. Hot girls are usually bad girls and cute girls are usually sweet.
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So hers the story so far: I'm 13 year old girl & i have a MAJOR crush on this guy named Nathaniel. I have been told all sorts of things like that he's gay(which i don't believe). Well his best friend asks me if i wanted to go out with him while we were in the band room. I told him I did & he goes & tells Nathaniel. Nathaniel just nods & walks out of the room. Just recently I've started having dreams about him & some of them made no sense. I honestly don't know what to do. My best friends Cayley & Riley keep taunting me about ho I'm falling in love. What do I do? (link)
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First of all everyone goes through this kind of phase when they your age. What you need to realize, and what I wish I realized then, is that you have your whole life ahead of you. High school is next and college is where all the crazy adventures happen. Don't be to consumed with wanting to be in a relationship but if it works out with a boy that's great also. Just keep in mind you have so much stuff you need to see and things you have to do. What happens now doesn't define the rest of your life. Good luck and enjoy being young. It only happens once.
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I recently got out of a relationship just to find out that im pregnant and he has a girlfriend already. For some reason i cant stop txting him and i know that i need to b/c he was a dog and is not good enough for me! he has treated me 100 times worse since he found out about the baby. i just dont know how to move on! I need some advice! (link)
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The only proven surefire way to get over someone is to find someone you like better. There are so many people in the world it's crazy to think there is no one for you, but there is. Just give it time and soon someone who loves you back as much as you love them will come about. I have experienced this myself and seen it happen numerous times to my friends. As soon as you find that new person feelings for the old melt away. You won't even be mad at the person anymore. Good luck and stay confident.
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I have a crush and he is giving me HUGE mixed signals. One day he will like touch my arm and laugh at my jokes or get really close then another he will barely speak to me! I thought he liked me back at first because he didn't start these odd actions til about a week ago (we see each other everyday) but now he is just plain out confusing me. Any advice on what I should do? Get over him? Give him time? Ask him what's up(which I hope you don't say because I don't want to put him on the spot)? (link)
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Either this guy is executing the hard to get routine to a T or he is just a flirt and does it a lot. In all honesty this guy might be into you. He could be scared of rejection or not sure about his feelings. Some guys are just like that to every girl though so watch out. If you like him do not be scared to make a move yourself or ask him whats up. You need to find out now or you could always wonder what could have happened between you.
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So there is this boy and I am not going to get much but he did like me at one point and I dont know if he does anymore so I am trying to move on but it is hard!!! and it would be easier but I lost my best friend last year because lets just say she went bad. She knew how to make her way around guys and she brought out the flirty side of me, now since I have lost her I am having the hardest time doing this on my own! I really need help! The guys I try to text including the one I don't know if he likes me anymore, when I text them I feel like I mess up and say stuff wrong. Liek the other night night, I text one of my ex boyfriends because I am starting to like him again so I figured I would try, and I tried to bring up something from the past and he replied something that made me feel stupid so now I think he thinks I am stupid and he hasnt acted like we are friends since then...! I really need help on getting my own self back and getting a boyfriend, I really need one and want one to get my life back together! Please help !---ThAnKs(:----! (link)
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The only way to truly get over someone is to find another person you like better. Right now it seems life is hard and I know how tough it can be without a best friend but you will find a new one as well. There's so many people out there just relax and give it time. Don't continue to sit on your current situation because it seems to be hurting you. You are young and need to enjoy life. Trust me when I say a new best friend and boyfriend will come along soon and they will love you as much as you love them. Good luck and enjoy the holidays.
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i have this friend and everyone says we should get together because were always fighting but we always fix it before the day is over this happens in school we dont really talk out of school iv asked question about him already on this website and they all tell me the same thing his into me and i like him back but i dont know what to do about this were on break now so i havent seen him but when we get back how do i get his attention how do i get him to tell me how he sees me without asking im kinda shy when it comes to that and he doesnt think i like him even though i do im just that good at hideing it so i dont know what to do now ? (link)
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It may seem hard but in life the key is not to focus on one person. In love picking one target is not the answer but a better approach is to be available to people and soon someone will like you as much as you like them. It may take time but it always works out if you relax and enjoy life. I know that one person seems like they the one but many more are out there if it doesn't work out. Good luck and remember to keep an open attitude.
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Ok so theres this boy jose and i really really like him,yes he knows my feeling i told him bout them a week ago we still hang out and txt but i want to be more than friends.So i don't know what to do or how to take our "friendship" a step closer into a relationship.Any advice??
thnx in advance
TINK2359 (link)
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I am gonna tell you some advice that you need to trust me on. If you really like him tell him how you feel. You don't want to pass up a chance and regret it later by thinking what could have been. If he likes you back great if not no big deal. In case the latter happens just move on. It may seem hard at the time but trust me there are many more people out there. You are young and need to see what life has in store. I have given the same advice to many people and it works. Soon if not later they find a new person that makes them forget the old.
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19/f
so i haven't been dating my boyfriend so all that long, it's been a little less than 4 months, but we've been friends for a couple of years now (if that matters?)
so the holidays are coming up, and i have no idea what to get him for christmas. the thing is, apart from not having a clue what would be a good gift, i'm kind of on a tight budget... i kinduh don't work (i know, i know). i'm thinking i have about $20 to spend on him? it's about how much i have left after getting my parents' gifts out of the way.
but back to my boyfriend. what's inexpensive and something a guy would like? well the second part of that would be fairly simple if he were in the typical guy category. clothes? not something he'd like, trust me. (i know he'd appreciate it, but i want it to be something he'd LIKE, ya know?). cologne? he doesn't wear it (and he smells just fine.) sports apparel? not much of a sports guy.
you'd think "well you know him!" and to jut go with what he likes, right? wrong. his top interests are technology, music, and video games. anything having to do with technology and electronics is either expensive, or he already has the best. music... please, he downloads everything he wants. video games... i know nothing about. & again, he'd pretty much have it.
i can't ask his guy friends because a)they'd ruin it and b) i don't wanna sound cheap with "btw, i only have 20 to spend. plus, i just kind of don't want to. i can't ask him because presents are meant to be a surprise, and besides, i know he'd just say something like, "oh don't worry about it..."
anything edible and omemade or DIY won't cut it; he does a lot for me, so i want to get him something nice, maybe not 'much', but something i know he'll like.
so... help a girl out? (link)
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Being a guy lemme say you can't go wrong with a sports team related gift. Is he a football fan or basketball? How about a magnet for his car with his favorite team's logo on it. A shot glass or hat with the team's logo. Something of that nature, feel me? Video games will work as well. Anyway good luck and get your boy a good gift.
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So ok this is kinda long but please read it
So a week or 2 ago i was going out with this really hot sweet boy but he is very peverted (it kinda turns me on though) So yeah he broke up with me for like no reason and then went out with my friend lets call her brea so i was like depressed a little,but then they broke up and i was like "yes".on friday we were hanging out and i had my legs on his lap and we were talking and having a good time.Ans he leans over and says "i like you still" and kisses my cheek then runs out of the room to leave for our 2 week break.This was also the day a boy i used to like said he likrd me. so i told my friend lets call her jane.She started to tear up and said "well do you like him cuse i really like him" so of course i lied and told her no but i don't know i am soo confused i want to go out with him again but i don't wanna hurt Jane!!!please i really need some advice
THNX IN ADVANCE
TINK2359 (link)
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First let me just say to let your friend have first dibs on that person. Relationships can be erratic but a good friend is there for the long haul. Second it seems like a waste of time to me with that first dude. I say just move on and find another boy. You have so much more stuff to experience and so many more people to meet. Another will come around. You don't seem to have a problem meeting guys.
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So lets say your guy leaves you and gets with someone else. He didn't even bother telling you he left you FOR someone else, he just said that things aren't working out and I don't think we should see each other. Now, here's the catch. You think the whole time he left you because he actually liked the other girl, but in reality he never liked her like that. They were just friends with benefits. You've already taken him back but this was before you knew of the friends with benefits relationship. Now you're pissed and you don't know how to bring it up with him but you want answers and in the past, he's told you that his past is his business and only if he chooses to tell you, then he will. What would you do? (link)
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You might wanna just move on and forget about him. Thinking about the situation will just continue to agitate you. You seem like a good person and deserves someone who will treat you well. Don't stress in the meantime just enjoy hanging with friends and enjoying life. A new boy will come around. Trust me.
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how can you tell if a guy likes you by body language? (link)
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He will complement you for no reason. Always keeps eye contact. Keeps body facing you. He will smile a lot and touch you.
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There is this boy in my life and he is special to me i really care about him and want us to be more than friends. we tell each other everything but there is one problem HIS EX ugh she hangs around him nonstop she cheated on him so he says he doesn't like her but i know she likes him should i be worried? (link)
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The thing is girl a guy you are really good friends with may only see you as a friend. I hate to bear bad news but if he wanted you he would have told you by now. You still have a chance to be great friends and don't let that stop you. Once you find someone else you like better you will forget about him as a boyfriend. The best part about having a great guy friend is he can introduce you to other guys. Good luck girl.
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18/f hes 19.
ok so there this guy, i've been into him for a while but he had a girlfriend. conveniently, they broke up. I was there to help him through the horrible break up etc etc. the more we talked the more we realised we had in common. However, i might add that he's in a band and has all his little teenies after him etc etc. so i have more then enough competition. He has a gig next week that he wanted me to come to, and to excuse him if he was shy to me.
Then i notice that he's saying how he 'gets excited everytime he has a new text =]" and i realised he must be starting to like someone else because i dont even have his number... then it hit me that i obviously dont stand a chance. I also found that he was tellling alot of girls that he gets shy around them.
what do i do....do i forget about going to the gig to forget him? (link)
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The only way to get over a person is to find someone else you like better. I know you think this one is it but that's not true. There are more people out there than you can imagine just get out and look. The results may surprise you. Good luck girl.
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18/m my best friend is 17/f
Ok, so basically...I have a crush on my best friend. I don't know what to do. But there's more. She has a boyfriend that she really likes...I'm leaving for college soon...we've been over this before and she said no....AAHHHH!!!! I have no idea how to deal with this anymore. I've tried just playing nice and ignoring how I feel about her, but I can't control it. It really bothers me anytime she talks about him and how much I need to meet him and stuff. I don't know. Any advice is welcome, and if anyone has any questions, just ask me, I'm not too sure what else needs to be put. Thanks guys and gals (link)
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This kinda stuff happens all the time, one best friend developing a crush on the other person who is usually taken. First lemme just say that don't feel bad about being attracted to her because who people like is usually a feeling that cannot be controlled, literally. I mean attraction can be explained in terms of science and once your genetics lock onto someone it can be tough to get rid of. What you can control is how you react to these feelings. If you wanna get over her find another girl you like better. Trust me when I say if you look you might be surprised who else you like. Once you transfer your feelings you can go back to being friends with your crush because it won't hurt when she talks about her bf. If not your just gonna be pained by that fact.
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