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Hi, i'm 13 and my birthday is coming up and i'm turning 14! I'm so excited and i cant think of a theme for my party!:/ I am inviting boys and girls. I am planning for the girls to spend the night and the boys to go home after a while. i would like to have a theme involving the colors blue and green. i have absolutely no idea what to do!! i want to have the party at my house. last year i just had friends come over to spend the night it was really boring. i'm hoping for this year to be fun and exciting for everyone. please help. thanks! (link)
Well.. iThink yhu should have an hawiian birthday party . I'm 14 right now and one of my friends had one it was soooo fun ! And i kno everyone there was havingg fun especially me . Bhut if you want mix it up ah lil bit like have 2 themes stead of 1 have a birthday party no one had before it can might be really fun...
Love, Neice(: P.S. Hope you have a great birthday party !


somedays ago i found a woman aged 43 on facebook who was ready to adopt me..since no one loves me..she was ready to love me..she was single and divorced..she wanted a son and i wanted a mom..everything was going ok..but then i contacted her friend..and asked some question about her,.her friend told her about it..and she got mad at me and now she wants me to stop contacting her..she means my family and my world..i cant live without her..i can do any thing to get her..i love her a lot..plz help me ..i need a mom to love me iam 17 now and my name is brock (link)
OhKayy.. Dhis is ah unusaul situation to start out with.. Bhut to be truthful yhu dhid dah right thing about askinq her friend about her. Bhut if she truthfully loved yhu she wud of understood and not be ignoreinq yhu ( and to be truthfully she is actinq like ah child ). Bhut in her eyes she believes yhu don't trust her , which dhat isn't true .. So dah best thing yhu shud ov dhid is to ask her nt her friend .. TO say i hope yhu believe dhat yhu didn't do anything wrong because yhu didn't . Andd if she dnt understands dhat oh well because it's her lost because she probably missed dah best kidd she kud ever have ! (: iHope yhu find ah mother ! (: HAve ah nice life .. Love, Neice(:


I'm a 21 year old female and my husband and i got married a little while ago a year to be exact. i keep track of the money and were doing well so i asked if we could try for a baby. he said one day but i can't stop thinking about it. i see babies everywhere what can i do to convince him to have a child now?

artlover89 (link)
okay.. heres my advice t0 y0. d0nt tell him anym0re that y0u want t0 have a baby. just tell hym y0u want t0 have sex.. mabye while yall are d0ing s0 y0u will get pregnant.


Is it legal for a 15 year old to date or have sex with an 18 year old in the state of Florida? (link)
yes it is


I like this boy but am scared to tell him that i like him to his face...so i have decided to slip love notes into his locker until valentines day then tell him that i was the one who wrote them...Is this a good idea? Does anyone think it is cute and that he would like this? Thnx in advance!!14/F (link)
um in my eyes kinda but not really but the best thing to do is jus ask sum 1does he lik u and stuff stead of making a fool of your cause he might dont like you but its a chance you got to make but every thing is up 2 you but i think the best thang to do is jus ask him or tell 1 of your friends to ask him though like i said stead of just waiting on valintines day and he ends up not liking you


For sometime now, I have been talking with someone online, and we just met for the first time in person...we had a really great time that night, and he even kissed me and we slept in the same bed together...but in the morning, he would kind of snub all affection I would try to give him, like he didn't want to be touched in any way...until the next night came, and then we would be kissing again...I have been in a situation before where I mistook genuine feelings that could lead to a real relationship for just wanting sex and nothing more, and I am terrified that it may be happening again...am I just being paranoid and nit-picky about myself, or was I giving too much affection too soon? And if I am (which I actually think I was giving too much) then what should I do to let him know that I didn't mean to be clingy? (link)
ok so this is what you need to do the next time you see him give him a slightly kiss just let him chase after you ok now if yall sleep together you do the same thing he did to you but dont be to quick just ease off a little and be the first one to go to sleep well just pretend


okay, so this year i ride the bus with this kid, peter right? and he's always like tickling me and touching me and playing with my hair and we're friends and stuff, but i don't know him that well at all so i wouldn't know if he's just a flirty guy or whatever. he's a sophomore and i'm a junior. no, that doesn't bother me, but that's the reason i can't tell if he's just a flirty guy or not. we talk about everything on the bus. and i like having guy friends, so i always talk about my guy friends and funny stories from when people texted me that night. apparently he thought i had a boyfriend because i was doing a "group" dress up kind of thing for halloween right... and with a guy. i really like him, i flirt back, but he still doesn't text me. and if i text HIM sometimes he doesn't text back. it's so stupid!

anyways, last week he asked me this question: "okay hypothetic question. what if you really really like this girl, and she likes you. but she has a boyfriend? and she's a junior." and of course i totally thought he was talking about someone ELSE, not me. so of course, knowing my luck, and how jealous i was, i gave him this advice "if she's older than you, she probably just wants to hookup or maybe her boyfriend isn't paying attention to her or whatever?" and so that was that. he let it be. the next day he ignored me. the next day, he flirted with me again. the next day, this kid i sit next to on the bus, chris was like "so courtney... how's your boyfriend" and i was like..."i don't have one..." and then i could hear chris and peter having this conversation:
chris-"i thought she did"
peter-"she told me that" (i never did.)

later on that same day i asked chris why he thought i did, and chris said that peter told him that i said i had a boyfriend which is NOT true.

so, what do i do?

thanks in advance (link)
i would just go up to peter and say y did you think i had a boyfriend and i never told you that and later that nite txt him wat do i do if i lik this boy and and he is a sophmore and say that you think that he likes you 2 but for sure and c if he txts bac


Ok making a really long story short. I found out that my boyfriend was getting deployed and we ended up having sex without a condom because we did not have one on hand. I know not the best idea, and please do not harass me about the dangers of no-condom sex. Just answer my question.

Anyway, I am on birth control and as of this month switched to the generic brand. It is pretty much almost the exact same thing as what I was taking but the estrogen and progesterone are just a hair different. (Was on ortho tri cyclene, now on Tri lo sprintec)

Anyway, does this increase my chances of pregnancy? Because we had the condomless sex the first week I was on the new pill.

Thanks! (link)
well kinda it do even though you is on birth controll pills he still need to have on a condom


My bf of 4 years told me to take a break about three days ago...i dont understand why he would ask me that bcoz he was the one who messed up..we constanly aruged becoz his girl friends from school kept texting him, and it really bothered me alot..i even cried and told him that i dont appreciate them texting you and he seemed to not do anything about it...so we got into this really deep arugement about the girls texting him....n now he wants a break..i dont understand why he would want to take a break instead of trying to change and work things out for me....He thinks that since we been together for long and wanna get married in the future that its ok for him to take advantage of me and do wat he wants bcoz imma always be with him..idk what to do.....im just really mad that he taking a break with me... (link)
if he wants to take a break he dont really like you so you can do better than him and you is rite he do not appreticate you and he is just taking advantage of you and there is many boy in the world that is better than that JERK!!!!!!


23/f

ok so i have a problem getting into the mood. i do find my fiance attractive and i love him its just that i cant get into the mood. is there a problem with me? (link)
no there is no promblem with you at all it is very normal to feel this way but it will feel a whole lot better on your honeymoon TRUST ME!!!!!


16/f
alriqht well theres this boy haha. we've hung out in a group of people once or twice.. i know he thinks im cute but he thinks alot of girls are cute..(hes a flirt) i havent kissed him even though i want too. he deffinitly doesnt like me but i know he wants too hook up & shyt. hes not a player though because hes had long relationships before. problem is his best friend LIKES ME. therefore if we do hang out in a group like nothing could happen for that reason anyways. so how do i become "girlfriend" material and not just a cute hook up buddie? =( (link)
just ask one of your freinds to see if he likes you or not and if he do like you just make him jealous by going out with his freind and that will make him go crazy about you then if he dont like you make him jealous anyways for fun


Hi guys. 17 f
So im new at my job and so is this guy. We met first becuase we had a lunch break together, but then my time changed and now I work in the morning and he works at night. So I get to see him like 2 minutes before I leave when he comes in. And we can't stop and talk becuase he needs to go to his job. Well anyway I had an idea that I should ask him to borrow his phone just to make convo with him. He's really sweet, and nice. He's super nice to me and I don't know if he's into me. Becuase we barely see eachother and never have time to talk. If I tell him about my feelings maybe he will be creeped out becuase we've only spoken like 3 times and he like smiles at me wen he sees me. But that's all. I just saw him right now going into the job and I yelles his name and said hi. And he turned around and asked me if I was doing working and I said yes and he smiled and said bye. I really wish we could talk more but I can't tell him that. He might think im weird or something. Btw we work at CVS and he's 20 im 17 soon 18. Okay thanks soo much. Btw I like him a lot. But I think he's clueless. (link)
just tell somebody who works the night shif to ask the man do he likes u and the person will tell you if he lkes u or not


alright, so, My ex who lives in america, broke my heart really bad by doing numerous things, he went to a wedding and told me he saw a hot blonde who looked like me, he asked a girl what her answer would be if he was single(whilst he was with me) and numerous other things as well. I realsize now it was stupid of me to think a long distance relationship like this would actually work, he hurt me real bad

Now, a close friend of mine, who is like a sister has recently told me she has a crush on him. The guy and i broke up three weeks before she told me this. She says she likes him but wants to tell him she likes him, point is im worried that he's going to do exactly what he did to me to her. and She is much more vulnerable than me in that shes a very emotional person, also its going to upset me alot if she dates my ex. As i'll have a constant reminder of him in my life, which i really dont want.
So what im asking is what should i do to make the situation good on both parts? i dont want to loose her...but i also am really against this relationship. He doesnt like her in that way but i dont want her to be hurt becuase of him.

female 15 (link)
ok tell her u dont feel right of her dating him but if she really wants too let her do it cause it is gone to be her fault if he brake her heart like he did yours


I have a huge problem! My parents will never accept my boyfriend because he's not Mexican (like me). Actually none of my family approves (cousins annts ect.)! The only person who has accepted it is my older sister and my family is mad at her for it even. I'm afraid this will tear me away from my family,
Is he ever worth that? I'm 15, he's 16, and we've been together for 3 months. I don't LOVE him but I like him a lot. Should I just break up with him because I heard family comes first and I don't want my family to break up because of this! (link)
well actually its your choice but i think a guy is not worth for your family so i think you should brake up with him because nobody can replace your family but somebody can replace your boyfriend but talk to your family and tell them its not right to judge somebody of there skin and tell them how u feel


so i'm 15/f and i've been dating a 16 year old guy for over 4 months now. I've never felt this way about anyone, and I love him more than anything. But recently my mom and stepdad have been dissing him.. today we were supposed to hang out, but my mom said i couldn't because of a lame excuse,, then 20 minutes later i asked her if i could go to my friends house, and she was like yeah sure, thats fine. she's been acting like this for a while now, and every time i'm on the phone with him, she gets aggravated and wants me to get off..i'm afraid this will drive us apart, and i don't want to lose him...me and my mom aren't very close and don't usually discuss my relationships, she says i'm too young, but iknow i'm not. I love him.. What shoudl i do? (link)
well just talk to your mom and say your not too young because your a teenager and thats what moms and daugters do talk about the daughter relationships so tell her u bet she had a boy friend and just tell her how you fell


ok well I want to send a picture to my friend but sidekick 3's don't have picture messaging and I know I could use my t-mail but I don't want to use it... is there any special code or ANYTHING that I can send the picture through text messaging?
Thanks so much =] (link)
well u can send it as a email


I know having a crush on a teacher is normal, but why would I get one almost a year after I had said teacher? She was a very nice, young and attractive teacher but I never had any crushing feelings when I actually had her. I hated the teacher I had for this subject (math) this year, does that have something to do with it? Is is it some psychological or hormonal thing?

I am not going to act on this crush don't worry, but its making me feel miserable all the time since I can't stop thinking about her and I keep thinking she doesn't like me and I'm horrified at the thought of her completely forgetting me or that I made a fool of myself in her class. (link)
well it is very normal to have a crush on a teacher trust me but i think of hating her for that year you really liked her the whole time you just didnt realize it so my advice is to ask her if she likes you just say i heard you like me and i just was wondering is it true or not if she says no then you say thank god that was just a rumur i almost had a heart atache but if she likes you i think u know wat to do

ASK HER OUT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!




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