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Cant get in the mood
23/f
ok so i have a problem getting into the mood. i do find my fiance attractive and i love him its just that i cant get into the mood. is there a problem with me?
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no not at all. some girls have a hard time getting in the mood with their boyfriends or significant others. you just need to see if things are getting boring. is it always the same old same old. If this is true you should look into spicing up your sex life. Try differnt foreplays, roll playing, or just being spontaneous and doing it some where unusual. But no matter what you should communicate to him about what you want from him, and hopefully he'll do the same. good luck to you guys and i hope everything works out!
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no there is no promblem with you at all it is very normal to feel this way but it will feel a whole lot better on your honeymoon TRUST ME!!!!!
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there are numerous factors that can be the problem. are you stressed, busy, tired? do you have time for yourself, like seriously "ME TIME". do you guys participate in foreplay, can really help you get in the mood. also porn movies and foreplay can help. look for external problems rather than internal, most likey nothing is wrong with you. just stressed.
tell your partner, hopefully is a a nice guy and understands. tell him to try sweet things that can get you in the mood (not all have to be sexual)& see where that takes you.
good luck
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Have you recently started any prescription drugs most importantly anti-depressants. That will kill your sex drive, desire, enjoyment and squash all interest. If that's the case ask your doctor as sexual problems usually stem from there or a psychological block.
You can try marital aids, books for ideas, videos etc. to try to spice things up but definitely check out medical and psychological reasons for this first. Odds are if it just "dropped" bam like that and you're on medicine... That's where to start first.
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Find things that will really turn you on. My fiance and I were still having great sex. We just decided to buy a porno one night.
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