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Should you shave "down there" every day? (female)
Its good to shave down there but dont shave it everyday.
Try shaving whenever your period is over.
i'm not a whore,
i'm just confused.
i like 5 boys.
but, i'm scared of commitment.
there's a pro and con to each one of them.
and i can narrow it down to two,
but still.
i'm confused.
help?
1. con; he has a gf.
pro; he flirts and is really sweet, & i've been crushing on him a yearrr.
2. con; we're super close, so it'd be awkward between us if we broke up, and i'm not sure how he feels, so it would be weird if i told him.
pro; he's really religious, amazing personality, his sister thinks the world of him, and i'm attracted to both personality anddd looks.
3. con; he's a senior, so about to graduate and go to the navy.
pro; he's really nice, i can tell he likes me, we flirt a lot and are going to homecoming together.
4. con; he's at college so who knows what could happen with him and other chicks, they have co-ed dorms, and hes my ex.
pro; i miss him, he was my first kiss, and i love it when he's around. his hugs, our playfulness, etc.
5. con; possibly screwed a pig and all his friends hate me, plus he flirts with like a jillion other girls.
pro; he's really nice to me, and walks me to like every class.
if i narrowed it down, it would be 2 and 3.
oh, and i'm a sophomore.
help?!
(:
thanks. that would be great.
sorry for the length.
Alright so yer saying that Con is a boy and PRO is another boy right ?
Well i think you should DEF go for Pro, con seems to much of a flirt plus he has a girlfriend
Pro as you said he may like you so I think you should go for pro.
Bye:)
so i broke up with this boy over a year ago, but I'm still in love with him...
ive tried asking him out a couple times, were close friends still and i have told him how i feel but he just doesnt have feelings for me anymore.
i moped around just thinking id be alone forever for a while, then i started dating again, but i always end up dumping them because i feel guilty for still loving my ex.
should i be feeling guilty? tell me anything besides give it time... thanks!
I Think you should stop dating until your sure your over your exes.So it wouldnt be Unfair for the guy your dating,It seems like your really eager to find somone and date them
you shouldnt do that
i think you should wait before dating anyone else until your over the guys you dated before.
Every person i like,
LEAVES!!
Im a teen - every person i have liked,
has left the school, (and they did not know that i liked them)... this isn't just a coincidence. BELIEVE ME - like EVERY single one left.
WHY IS THIS.
is this like some kind of CURSE or sumfin?!?!
All answers are appreciated.
Kronix
Im pretty sure u arent cured.
You never know maybe they had their reasons to leave.
Is it possible to get your period 2 times in a month? I got mine the 14-19 of September and then I started it again the 27 through right now. Is it because the 27 is so close to October or what..?
Thanks in advance!
yeah its normal it happens sometimes.
=]
I have a boyfriend now that I've been dating for about a year and I've known him for even longer. My problem is that we fight alot..and when i say alot, i mean it.It can get pretty bad too.we fight over the most stupid things.i think alot of it is because of jealousy? maybe im not sure. anyways when we do fight i want to break up with him but then right when im about to, i get second thoughts and i dont know what it is stopping me. all my friends say i should get rid of him and i keep telling myself i will but i just never do. any suggestions??
Well first it wouldve been better if you would mention what "Stupid" Things you guys fight about,Well you see you say its about jealousy, maybe he loves you so much and gets jealous of any guy you talk to? You both have been in a relationship for a year, and ofcourse you guys are going to fight, maybe something is trynig to tell you that you should think about it first before breaking up with him again.
I wouldnt know if you should get rid of him but i do know that im sure your relationship is strong cause you both fight alot , which is Normal.
= ) HOpe i helped.! :D.
How do I get a guy to like me enough to ask me out. In case you're wondering, I'm not like hot or anything, my chest isnt huge or anything I'm just normal and I like this guy he likes me back but not enough to ask me out .
You cant Get a guy to ask you out lol but you could have one of your guy friends talk to him about it and give him some tips on HOW to ask you out..Give him some time hes probably jus nervous.
i have been dating my bf for almost 3 yrs. we have a long history with a lot of pain inbetween. he has left me to date around for a few months, when we got back together the abuse started. hitting me, puncing,kicking,grabbed at screamed at, cursed at. there have been a few incidents of this severe abuse. we tried to patch things up. and it worked for awhile. now it seems like if i dont do something he wants or if he gets mad at me, he will jab me in the ribs with his fingers, or dig his nails in my skin, etc. he is cursing at me again. i feel like im hitting rock bottom. i feel so depressed, i know its time to leave him..but i love him and i wish it would all just stop :(
i see him all day every day. im his way to college. we both attend a local college. and it feels like i need him in my life. i have helped hiim so much , im so happy hes goinhg to college and i dont want him to fall on his face because he has no way to get there if i leave him.
i feel like im trapped with him un til i transfer colleges in a year. i feel like i dont want to deal with him stalking me. i just wish we could work out together, i love him so much. but enduring the abuse is seriously taking a big toll on me. i feel worthless at night. the affection is dying, and i feel like crap all the time. i cry myself to sleep. i am so hurt by the way im treated.
im also angry at myself for letting it get so far. now i feel like im in way over my head and that i have to put up with it. i dont want to live an unhappy life..are we beyond repair?
i want you to look at yourself in the mirror and ask yourself if you are/look like a happy girl, he isnt the only one abusing you,, your abusing yourself by staying with him, First and formost, never let a man touch you,EVER if he touches you, you touch him back
Look at you, you sound miserable only writing this down i wonder how you look... You deserve so much better than this, you dont need to be going through all this pain,Who cares about him, When he hits you does he care for you? so why should you for him, and about the college issue, Your not always going to be there for him, do you honestly think your going to marry somone like that? no,im pretty sure you dont want to, im pretty sure you want a man thats going to treat you right, even if you love this man you should leave him because all the pain needs to stop, and it needs to stop NOW
Its his life, let him figure it out for himself you arent his mother, your his girlfriend.
So there is this guy at school and we might end up having a "thing". There are a couple problems though, i dont find him attractive at all. He also also completely not my type (i am kind of edgy and hes not at all). also at my school, status depends on how much money you have. Unfortunately he doesnt have any really. However, there is just something about him.
should i still go for it even considering these things?
I agree with Matt. wow money?seriosuly?
so i like this one dude "bobby"
butt so does this girl "molly"
he sat next to me at church.
and we held hands.
then.. molly started crying
which is totally stupid and pointless to cry over something like that.
but then today at school he was huggin her and holding her hand cuz she was upset or somethin?
is he even worth my time?
no.
so my best friend is completly sprung over this guy.
and shes i guess you could say obsessed.
and hes the same way about her.
but now she ignores me completly.
and when im talkin to her and he walks up..
i feel like a 3rd wheel.
so i just walk away.
its getting annoying.
any help?
The only way your going to solve your problem is if you talk to her about it, just tell her how you feel and that you dont like feeling like that ,she probably doesnt notice it, like the other columist said shes probably too happy she cant notice.
:)
Okay, so I'm kind of chubby. Just a little. And my lips are kind of big. So if I lose weight, will my lips get smaller? And what features lose weight the fastest on your face?
Im pretty sure its not possible for your lips to lose any weight i myself used to be really chubby and i started working out and igot no more cheecks,, its sad haha,
well if you want to lose your face try running it really helps..
:)
Does anyone know any good songs for your best friend? something good, but not corney. If anyone can think of one that has a really nice meaning behind the actual song that would be great! It would also be good if the song was like alternative/punk too. Thank you!
Youd LOVE this song
Boys like girls-The great escape.
can yu make your fingers skinnier
mine are fat
Hmm it depends,Well my Hands used to be fat aswell but thats cuz i was overweight before
but now that im skinny,,my fingers also look much skinnier,so if you lose a little weight im sure ur fingers would go down aswell, But i hear that Typing alot is a good workout for your fingers im not sure.
i want to lose 20lbs...
ive begun my diet and i exercise everyday for 45min+ i work on all my body parts..but does anyone have any tips to lose the weight faster?? i try to take in 1500 calories a day and with a workout, i only take one day off of working out. I weight like 167, i want to be at 150, but that would take like 5 months i think...any faster ways to lose weight? or patience is the key to lose weight?
15/f
Okay look
Your body is going to take it its time to lose weight Yes pateince is DEF the key to losing weight but trust me it doesnt take u 5 months to lose 20 pounds i was 160 pounds and now im 120
and i did all that work in 3 months.
You jus need to be serious if you rlly want to lose alot of weight.Your doing fine now
let your body take its time
=]
Goodluck.
So simply put;
I am a 16 year old girl.
Can I be in love?
Simply put:
Yes.:).
ok well
i made out w/ this dude 3 times
and i dont no if he likes me because my friends say he does that with younger people alll the time butim not sure what to think
im 13 and hes 16
helpp!
What the hell
You made out with him three times and you dont even know if he likes you or not?
....
Your friend says that he does this with other younger girls?
Dont ask us what we think
What do you think about that?
Ok, um i'm 13 year's old and i really like this guy but the problem is he lives mega far away and he's older than be by a couple year's. He say'd he like's me alot. And that since i love him and he loves me we should be together, idk what too do. so is this ment too be or not?
Thanks in advance
Well Since you guys are too far away
I Think you should jus let it go
I mean its jus going to hurt you even more knowing that you cant see him whenever you want to
And when somones in a relationship they always wanna see eachtoher.
For example if you and this kid wer dating before then he moved away
Then it wud be okay if you guys are still together
but to start a relationship when you guys are far apart isnt a good thing to do
What about trust?
You need to be able to trust the person your with.
Hope i helped.
what are some ways to give revenge without getting in trouble because rumors are going around school about saying im bi and i wanna bang some kid and i wanna give revenge to the person who did it to me and don't say reveng isn't the thing or two wrongs don't make a right
Dont get down to their level
You dont have to have revenge
You could jus say that the person who spreaded all this obviously has no life what so ever and has nothing better to do.
Find the person that is spreading it
and deal with it with them.
So the story could be Over and the both of you dont bother eachtoher anymore.
every christmas, thanksgiving, or even halloween...during the winter, or towards winter and the holidays, when alot of people are off for two weeks, i gain like 10-20lbs. i'm at home more often because of the holiday break and food is more available, same thing in the summertime. But how do i prevent myself from gaining tons of weight during holidays? it's reallyyyy hard because of the chirstmas cookies and other fatning things, like halloween candy, and leftovers from thanksgiving and we all eat alot of it......how do i not gain weight? what can keep me active and not tempted to eat all of the sugarie gooooodness????? because its so hard when you lose a bunch of weight, and then gain it all back in a month time period!
15/f
Okay trust me
I am one to know how it is to have all these good things around you and have to not eat it.
But the thing is
THeres nothing wrong with eating it.
If you dont want to gain any weight
then take small amounts
Not WAYYY to much
You need to have Self-Control
Everything is so tempting but trust me its worth it when u know you didnt gain anything.
Take a walk outside or a jog and that way your metabolism will run and when you want a cookie or something it will jus burn off.
Take it from me
Dont cut off all the things you love COMPLETELY
jus dont have WAYY to much :)