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I'm not sure about this guy at school?
So there is this guy at school and we might end up having a "thing". There are a couple problems though, i dont find him attractive at all. He also also completely not my type (i am kind of edgy and hes not at all). also at my school, status depends on how much money you have. Unfortunately he doesnt have any really. However, there is just something about him.
should i still go for it even considering these things?
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No. You just shouldn't have a "thing" with
anyone who is ugly, is not your type, and
is poor. Even if he is nice to you and treats
you well. Could that be something about him?
If that sounds really rude, reread your
question. Thats basically what you asked.
If that's your true feelings then don't
even think about having a thing with the
guy.
If your going out with someone is dependent
on how it will look to your friends, then
don't do it. Wait until you have matured
enough to date someone for who they are as
a person and not for what it might look like.
You will only break this guys heart. That
isn't something a nice person aspires to.
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I agree with Matt. wow money?seriosuly?
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Caring about how much money he has (you do, otherwise you wouldn't have mentioned it) is the least edgy thing I've ever heard of.
Should you go for him considering what? That he's not the type of guy you're usually into? That he doesn't have any money?
I think he's better off without someone that gives a shit about those things.
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Do you like him as a person?
I mean, would you be able to hang out with him for long periods of time and really find things you have in common?
If not, then this is not a good idea.
If you think you can relate to eachother then you could give it a go. But if you don't find him as "your type" then you shouldn't push yourself. There is nothing wrong with remaining friends.
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