Question Posted Thursday September 18 2008, 7:01 pm
what are some ways to give revenge without getting in trouble because rumors are going around school about saying im bi and i wanna bang some kid and i wanna give revenge to the person who did it to me and don't say reveng isn't the thing or two wrongs don't make a right
Dontyoufakeit13 answered Thursday September 18 2008, 11:09 pm: Dont get down to their level
You dont have to have revenge
You could jus say that the person who spreaded all this obviously has no life what so ever and has nothing better to do.
Find the person that is spreading it
and deal with it with them.
So the story could be Over and the both of you dont bother eachtoher anymore. [ Dontyoufakeit13's advice column | Ask Dontyoufakeit13 A Question ]
LM answered Thursday September 18 2008, 9:27 pm: You're only sinking to their level by seeking revenge. Seriously, people can, and will, say whatever they want about anyone.
The best and most mature thing you can do is deny the rumors, and nothing more. Anything that falls under the category of 'revenge' probably isn't allowed to be given out on this site anyways. [ LM's advice column | Ask LM A Question ]
ediemarie answered Thursday September 18 2008, 9:24 pm: Hi revenge,
well you told me not to say it, so I won't. I'm sure you have a good head on your shoulders. You don't need me to tell you what is right. I'm also sure that you are not only pissed off by this rumor, but also a part of you is hurt. People can be really mean for one reason or another. Who knows why. Who cares why! You know you're not bi don't you? This person is probably just hating on you. That should make you feel good right there. I know it's wrong to say, but it makes us feel good when people hate on us. It tells us they want what we have and they can't get it. That's all the revenge you need. Every time they see you. You'll know what they're thinking. Look at them and laugh!
P.S. If you really want to get revenge, turn it around on them. Say "yeah I'm bi and the person who told you should know why." See how they like that! YOu have to be really secure in yourself to do that though.
Good luck to you, [ ediemarie's advice column | Ask ediemarie A Question ]
DJzmAgUy426 answered Thursday September 18 2008, 9:24 pm: Err..make up a rumor about him/her and their couple..if it's a girl steal her boyfriend, if it's a boy, take pics of him and one of your gay friends and make posters. Get them in trouble with the principal and their parents [anything involving drugs and pregnancy], kill their cat [kidding...or maybe not]. Evil is neverending. Really. Or, you can always ignore it. [ DJzmAgUy426's advice column | Ask DJzmAgUy426 A Question ]
solidadvice4teens answered Thursday September 18 2008, 9:22 pm: My best advice is to do NOTHING. That will kill the rumor fast. all they want is your reaction. By getting all mad and trying for revenge you're letting them win. Anger is poisonous and like drinking liquid bleach.
The only person it really harms in this case is you. Let it roll off your back like water on a duck. It will pose no harm to you or your reputation. Anyone can spread a rumor but they can't force people to think it's fact. Those who know you or anyone with a smidgeon of intelligence won't let it bother them.
Revenge only adds fire and credibility to their claims. Once they see you don't give a shit they'll move to another target. They're probably jealous of you or your achievements or popularity with others.
They can call you bisexual, gay or whatever else but it will never make it true. You can't control what others think or believe but you can control your own. As long as you know it's not true and hold on to that and don't react this soon will pass. [ solidadvice4teens's advice column | Ask solidadvice4teens A Question ]
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