I'm Dominic Mayfield. I'm 6'1, green eyes, black hair. Around 200 lbs, thin but got meat on my bones. I've been through many situations in my life, which is why I can understand most other situations. Ask away and I'll help as best as I can.
E-mail: dmayfield87@hotmail.com
Gender: Male
Location: MD
Occupation: None
Age: 23
Member Since: August 14, 2004
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Who is barkclay bank or who did they merge with (link)
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http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Barclays
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I was arrested for DUI what should I do? (link)
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Tell the honest truth about everything. Don't deny anything if you have to go to the judge. Next time, I suggest not driving while under the influence. It's always best if you play it safe.
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Okay, so I'm a 14/F and I would love to make money. I work at the snack shack at a soccer field for AYSO on some Saturdays and only get paid $25 a weekend for about ten weekends. Sometimes i don't even get paid. I don't get paid for my chores, and when I ask my mom for money she only gives me about twenty dollars, which isn't enough to buy anything at the mall. I can make a lot of things like bracelets and things. I'm a very crafty person, so if you have any ideas on how I can make money, it would be very helpful! And i don't want to do anything illegal.
Please and thank you!
Lyssa. 14/F (link)
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You said that you can make alot of things like bracelets and such. Well just like how the native americans do it, you can make a wide assortment of accessories, jewelery, dream catchers, earrings, all kinds of things. If you make quite a bit of it and sell it at a reasonable price, you can get a bit of money off of it. You can especially talk to the snack shack and see if you can also sell your accessories along while when you're working and see if you can't work something out, like having a side counter for all of it. See if you can't get a few friends to help ya or something.
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heyy. well, im really really in love with this one kid. and we flirt like crazy alot...but...the thing is...were good friends. should i just not like him or something? im not sure how to just get it out to him? maybe a friend or something? please help!
signed,
-helpless (link)
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I am a 22 year old guy and let me tell ya, I am still shy at trying to tell girls I like them. It sucks at times, but it happens. I can also say that it's true, we guys don't get the idea sometimes that a girl likes us. We get thoughts, but we don't exactly get the whole idea. If you are afraid of ruining your friendship with the one kid, then I suggest you think things over. It is quite possible that it would be a good idea to try to be with him, because to be honest, a best relationship can be with a person who can be your greatest friend. It's also possible it can be too weird for you or him later on in the future. What you need to do is just go and talk to him and figure things out together. You'll never know any outcome unless you initiate it. Who knows...tomorrow may already be too late.
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I know I've never been close to my family and they all call me heartless and mean because of how I act. The thing is I have a really short temper, like if someone got me angry I would actually go blind, like I pushed my father before who is 60 years old.
It's weird that I can be so mean but it's not because I'm mean, it's because they're so horrible it's sad to have them as my family, I feel like they are strangers. Sometimes I ask my myself 'why am I here?' or how come I feel like that.
When my mother hugs me or kisses me, I feel disguised. And right now my sister is getting divorced and she's only been married for 2 months, so she asked me for my help to tell my parents but all i did is yell at her for being childish, because it was her desision to get married to this guy and now she wants to leave him and that is major offence to my family to have a divorced daughter and shit. I was like call me and she goes like "you know i get shy to talk on the phone and I am going to start crying" so i got really angry and said really horrible stuff to her, and now she doesn't want to talk to me and I really don't care, like I don't mind (seriosuly deep deep inside I don't give a F****). And when my father was in hospital I didn't give a F**** either nor bother to go to the hospital for a visit. I know I'm mean because they are all s o evil and mean, and they all made my life a living hell but ... Is it normal to feel like they are strangers and when they touch me I feel disguised?
I'm very nice to others, like people always tell me Your some we can trust to be there for us and such but I just can't take my family, I think it's only because I feel like they are strangers.
ugh help
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I can't say exactly that I have been in your situation, because in all honesty I never have been. The only thing I can tell you is that my father hated me along with one of my older sisters. It completely messed me up at times where sometimes I didn't know the truth from reality and it scared me. The thing is though, even though I hated them for what they either did or what they didn't do, it still hurt to know that my father wasn't there for me. I ended up hating my father til the day he died, and then I broke down crying because I wasn't able to tell him how I really felt. Sometimes things happens to where your family does indeed feel like they are strangers, but they are still your family. Maybe you need to re-evaluate things in your life and try to figure out why things are happening the way they are happening. It may be difficult, but let me assure you...you'll want to at least figure out what has been going on, or else it might be too late. Try to talk to your family, sit down and talk with them and figure out what it is that is bothering you to them. If you never tell them, they will never know.
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Okay for starters I have a two year old son who will be 3 when my second child will be born. I have a step son but isnt living with us right now. Is there any way possible to prepare your 1st child for a second child? Also why do I always fell sick when I am getting ready to climb into bed? (link)
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There really isn't a way to prepare a child of that age for another child. There could be acts of jealousy since the newborn will have alot of attention, or there could be alot of acts of curiosity or a sense of caring from your first child. I suggest do the best you can of giving both your first and second child as much attention. I'm not sure why you are feeling sick when you're climbing into bed. It would be a sense of motion sickness for just doing one motion, or it could be your body's anticipation of knowing you're going to lay down.
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Ok well ive never had sex before and last nite i slept with this boy and im just wondering if we did actually have sex would i deffinetly be feeling it today?? (link)
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That would have to depend. If you did have sex and if it was your first time, then you would most likely have noticed a change. There is always a chance that you might have not noticed either. Either way, I would suggest you talk with him and figure things out. He might lie or he might not, but its always a best idea to ask either way.
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i have been with the same company for internet connection for several years. Orange took over the company sometime ago and i changed my package to Home Max which was $24 per month. apparently my 'contract' has expired and they have increased the cost to over £32 per month. i am a disabled pensioner living on my pension and cannot afford such an increase. is such an increase legal? (link)
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Yes, such an increase is legal. It is just like they do with credit cards. One moment they can have it at a 10 percent interest rate, and suddenly they can put it up to a 65 percent increase. Because your contract expired, they are able to do whatever they want to it as long as you are still using your internet provider. I would suggest getting another ISP = Internet Service Provider, or if you do not want to get another one, see if you can't negotiate any changes within the company.
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Ok i have a Sony Cyber-Shot 8.1 mega pixels.
And i tryed to take a picture and the fash wont work?
Is it the battery or is there a way to fix itt?
Please and thank you!
-Sabrina-
:D:D:D:D (link)
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It could be numerous things. Has the flash not worked since you've gotten the camera? If you have, its probably defective in some way. Or it could simply be the flash bulb is shot or broken in some way as well. See if you can't replace the flash bulb, and if that is not it, I would advise sending it back and getting a refund and buying yourself a new one. I hope this helps.
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i'm starting to break out.. and i already have acne, i find it weird... because many people that i know, rarely breaks out. i don't know how they do it, proactiv doesn't work. and Clearasil ultra or whatever used to work on me, but not anymore. is there any way i can prevent breakouts and to get rid of the acne i have now? any products? and please don't tell me to go to the dermatologists, because my family doesn't have enough money for that. i want something that would really work, neutrogena doesn't work either... because my sister says she woke up looking like a strawberry after she used it. any natural ways to get rid of it? and also the fastest? any products that's affordable to buy? please & thank you! (link)
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How often do you take a shower?? What kind of climate do you live in?? Its quite possible that the climate is clogging up your pores that are causing your breakouts. I know a few friends who had the same problem. Get a washcloth with soap every 5 hours and wash the breakouts for about 2-5 minutes. It doesnt have to be rough, but enough to clean your face over and over again. It could also be what you are eating as well. It sounds dumb, but it is quite possible. Are there certain days that the breakouts are worse than others, or when certain times it just happens?? Hopefully what I have said has helped you.
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So..I have realized that whenever I start to like a guy.. and at first if he doesn't like me, i spend a lot of time trying to make him like me... .
then when he finally does like me.. i get all .. uninterested, I dont know why.
because .. i really like this guy.. but he was the only guy to not show any interest in me, and now he finally is.. and I want to shy away.. what is my problem? how do i fix this =/ ? (link)
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What you have is simply something most girls sometimes get. Once you get interested in a guy, you want him like you want a toy. Once you get the toy, you're wanting another toy and you arent as interested as you were in the first one. You can basically place that idea with this situation. If you get the guy to like you...you accomplished what you wanted to get accomplished. You have him liking you. Now the challenge is gone, and you want to get another guy interested in you, which you fall out of interest with the first guy you like. What you need to do is try to find someone who you really like, like the guy you are "really" liking now, and start to think about things. Why are you shying away when you like him, and if hes showing interest in you, and if hes a good guy, why shy away at all?? It could be that you're also afraid to be in a committed relationship perhaps. You like the thrill of the hunt, but yet when you get towards your objective...you get scared. There are alot of things you have to think about before even considering of shying away or going out with the guy. Think of what is getting at you first, and then you can decide later on. I hope this helps.
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I have never gotten fingered, only when i was drunk and i was told that i screamed (that obviously wasnt my control tho) i know my boyfriend is going to finger me next time we chill but, i want it to feel good and not hurt. So i have been tryiing to figner myself but it hurts so bad. Now im scard it will hurt when my boyfrend does it! i dont want it to! how to i loosen my tightness? like how do i make it so when i figner myself it doesnt hurt so it wont hurt when he does (link)
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The question you want to ask yourself, is are you ready to have such a thing happen to you already? If it hurt the first time, and if it hurts when you do it, then you're probably not ready at all. Or maybe you're stressing about the event so much that you're just not comfortable about the idea of getting fingered. What you want to do next time is get yourself really aroused and then try it. Allow yourself to get completely in the mood, relax your body, and then perhaps do it to yourself to see if there is any change. If it still hurts, I suggest keep on doing it for around 5 to 10 minutes if you are willing, that way you can see if its not the tightness that is just making you hurt. And if you dont hurt as much when you do it, it just means you're comfortable with it, and you just need to get aroused for when your boyfriend wants to finger you. I hope this helps.
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Can you gain your metabolism back? I recently stopped being anorexic and I want my metabolism to be high again. (link)
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Well what I used to do, was that I could eat a whole gallon jar of pickles. The vinegar in the pickle juice helps eat away at the fat, and it produces a certain hormone in the body that will keep on developing it. I went to the doctors about that because I just couldn't gain weight if my life depended on it. They said that by doing that, I had gained an abnormally high metabolism to where I could eat anything. It works great actually, I do it all the time, around maybe every other week or so. Just don't over eat on the pickles or you can get sick:P.
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I CANNOT break up with anyone. I used to be able to but now I just CAN'T! I can't stand the fact that I'm breaking up with someone that I still want to be friends with. Usually I have my friends break up with the guy for me, but it just doesn't seem...I dunno. The guy I want to break up with now is awesome and I CAN'T and i mean Can't stand to break up with him but I have my reasons and I want to. Does anyone have any ideas of how I can dump him with out being mean? (link)
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Well this is the thing you have to think about. You have to think of the reasons why you want to break up with this awesome guy. These reasons of yours.....are you sure you want to break up with this guy because of those reasons? You need to look at these reasons and tell yourself if it is really good enough to lose this guy over. You may never have another chance with this guy and if you guys are happy right now and if you think hes awesome, and you CAN'T stand to break up with him, then think what you really must do. I hope I helped....
~Dom
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Ok i kinda like this girl, but the problem is shes moving away in a little over a month. im planning on asking her out, but im wondering what she will expect to happen at the end of the month. she cant stay, i cant go with her, and i dont know if im ready for a long distance relationship. if it matters shes not moving accross the globe or anything, about a 4 hour drive. so, mostly for the girls, what is she gonna expect to happen? im 18/m shes 19/f. (link)
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Well you just have to realize things. If you guys go out now...you might get to be able to be good bf/gf...but she is moving. And it is going to be a 4 hour drive. Here soon it will either cost you...or it will either once in a while cause jealousy and suspicion. Think about it, you guys are going to be away from each other a long ways away. What's to say you wont think she will cheat on you, or whos to say that she wont think about the same on you? You just have to think about these things. Unless you are completely devoted to her, and really do like this girl and want to have things work, then you can like visit her like.....every other three days or so. Who knows..for this is for you to find out, and for you to make up your own mind and figure this out. I hope i have helped in some way, and hope things will go out well for you.
~Dom
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i was the one who asked the question about my boyfriend being mean to me all the time when a certain guy came to school, well he was so nice to me today and the day before ever since i talked to him he has been nice to me and actually tells me he loves me and holds my hand and kisses me in public.. he told my friend he wouldnt know what to do if he lost me.. does this mean he is chaging his ways (link)
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Well, you said "HAPPY AGAIN" ...does this mean you are happy? Does this mean hes actually changing from what you are predicting and from what you are seeing? You need to see for yourself if you havent already done so. If he has changed his ways for you, then that means he is sincere and honestly loves you. You need to think about this, and perhaps talk with him and see how he really feels. That is one way to actually find out of what his true intentions are. I hope I helped. Please tell me what happens later on will ya?
~Dom
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ok there is a guy at school and we always flirt and we always talk on the phone till like 2 in the morning.. and i dont know what to do? i dont know if he likes me??? and i used to lke (i think i still do) but.. im trying not to cus i dont know if i have a chance? plz help me we r good friends to ...
love,
Single (link)
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Well since you guys are good friends, you got to consider your options. You guys have a healthy friendship going on here. You guys might have a good chance of being able to go out if that is what you are wanting to do. Since you guys always flirt and such, who knows. Maybe you guys need to be friends for longer, maybe you should be in a relationship. This is a choice you need to make on your own. Dont let other people tell you when and where and how to decide of going out with someone. You need to decide to figure out when is the right time to ask. I am looking forward on what you might think of this. I hope i helped you.
~Dom
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almost everytime i answer a question on here on advicenators home page it cuts my answer off short so you cant see everything that i said which is completely annoying...is there any reason why its doing this? how do i stop it? (link)
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You might have a computer glitch on your column. You need to check with the Advicenators and check it out. And if it is not that, then perhaps you should get a new page because some kind of script would probably not be able to let you to complete your answer. I hope i helped you and tell me how everything works out please.
~Dom
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I have a friend who is a boy. We have been friends for along time and this year I can tell he is starting to like me a lot more then as just a friend. I like him as more then just a friend too and my BFF says she can tell that we like each other. I am afraid to bring it up and so it he, because we are afraid we might ruin our friendship. Could stay friends if we broke up? Should we take the plunge? Like this morning when me teacher was handing out scrach paper for the cst's She said we could use it for anything, drawings, doodels, notes, or even love leders. I saw him looking at me when she said this and I was looking at him too. I really don't know what to do!!! (link)
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Honestly there is no real answer. You have to think about what you must do. No one can really tell you what to do about this. There is always a possibility that you guys might stay together, might break up, and might even become enemies after you guys break up. You should honestly just think about this from your heart. Is it worth it by taking a chance and seeing if you guys can really work out? Or is it much better by trying to decide to be friends instead. You honestly just need to think about things. Because who knows....he might have feelings for you as well. I hope everything works out for you and hope for the best. Please give me feedback on how everything goes whatever you decide.
~Dom
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ive read some questions and most about sex with guys is a little making me uncomfortable. not all guys are horny lil bastards. i dont go looking for sex and all that, i just look for some1 i can relax with and have a good time with, not the first girl that is willing to give it up 4 me. trust me girl when i say this, guys are all talk. they say that with their friends, but if a girl came on to me wanting sex (im a virgin) i wouldnt have a clue what 2 do. (link)
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i know where your coming from man. Im a 17 male and theres so many times i could have had sex with all these girls....and i just never took the chance cause im not like that. i hear people say all the time "oh wow you nailed another one so and so how many is this now?" its just the kids these days that are immature about things. the real mature and responsible males are like you said, are willing to wait, make sure you know the person, and see if there is actually anything there for you guys to be together. I tell you, if you keep on having sex just for fun, its going to either ruin your reputation or its going to put you down a road of torment later on in life. I tell you want i may not be a virgin but i had only had sex with one girl in my life. and i tell you now that it was a big mistake of my life, and that i have decided to absolutely wait and make sure i know the person first. I respect you man, keep it up(Y).
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