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What is my problem?
So..I have realized that whenever I start to like a guy.. and at first if he doesn't like me, i spend a lot of time trying to make him like me... .
then when he finally does like me.. i get all .. uninterested, I dont know why.
because .. i really like this guy.. but he was the only guy to not show any interest in me, and now he finally is.. and I want to shy away.. what is my problem? how do i fix this =/ ?
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What you have is simply something most girls sometimes get. Once you get interested in a guy, you want him like you want a toy. Once you get the toy, you're wanting another toy and you arent as interested as you were in the first one. You can basically place that idea with this situation. If you get the guy to like you...you accomplished what you wanted to get accomplished. You have him liking you. Now the challenge is gone, and you want to get another guy interested in you, which you fall out of interest with the first guy you like. What you need to do is try to find someone who you really like, like the guy you are "really" liking now, and start to think about things. Why are you shying away when you like him, and if hes showing interest in you, and if hes a good guy, why shy away at all?? It could be that you're also afraid to be in a committed relationship perhaps. You like the thrill of the hunt, but yet when you get towards your objective...you get scared. There are alot of things you have to think about before even considering of shying away or going out with the guy. Think of what is getting at you first, and then you can decide later on. I hope this helps.
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