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Hello everybody...Well this is my first real advice column and i will answer every question **look at some of the questions i have answered and you may agree** I would really appreciate it if you do not leave me mean things in my inbox such as "you suck at advice giving" and other negative comments...thank you, Kyle

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Omg I need help so bad right now. I got dumped about a monh ago, and now I have a new boyfriends who's totaly awesome, but the thing is my ex still loves me and now he wants me back, and I hung out with him and then I relized I wanted him back. So now he's telling me if I dump my boyfriend, he'll take me back. I really want him back, but than again, I really really like the guy I have now. PLEASE HELP!

Hey...What i think you should do is just wait a little bit and stay with your current boyfriend and see if anything happens **maybe like a week or 2** and then you should decide and if you cant decide just think...did you like going out with your old boyfriend or this one more?

Kyle

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what are some places you can download music to the ipod.. i cant use iTunes because i dont know how to download the songs and i dont have an account

i would use LimeWire...its free and is easy to use all u have to do is go to w/e search engine you like and type in "Limewire and free download" and it should bring up some sites...another one you could use is Kazaa or Kazaa Lite...Kazaa Lite works better though

Hope I helped!
DntTurnMeAway

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a few days ago, my friend slept over at my house. she's worried about me because she thinks im starving myself!! i dont eat breakfast ; ususally have a pop tart or a bagel for lunch ; and mostly crackers for dinner. i dont think im starving myself.. but she does and my other friends are seeing it too. what do u think? im scared.. i dont want to be starved. please help .. ill rate high for good answers!!

hey...i would maybe start to eat a little bit of breakfast and for lunch eat a sandwich and have some applesauce or something like that...for dinner i would just kind of eat anything you feel like it...i really hope i helped good luck

Kyle

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I have this friend thats my neighbor and ive known him all my life pretty much and like we used to be unseparable ((spelling)) and now like since i got a little older and he got more into his baseball and paintball its like were fading apart and i just dont want that to happen because i would die for him if it came down to that and i juss REALLY dont wanna lose him cuz hes like the little brother i never had,,,does anyone have any suggestions on what i could do to help this friendship?!?

I rate HIGH if you can help!

Hey...what i would do is tell him straight out that you love him like a brother and would die for him it was serious enough and that you think the friendship is falling apart and that you would like to spend more time with him...for best results you should probably do it in person! Hope I helped

DntTurnMeAway

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okay just a couple of weeks ago i had to go to the hospital fer a few weeks and they found out i have FSGS a form of kidney disease..and now i have to take steroids (not the kind fer sports and making you strong) but they have all these really bad effects on me and body swelling is one of them my face and stomach are really swollen and it makes me feel really uncomfortable taking pictures or going swimming...

should i feel this way??

i no i would feel the same way but just think...its no your fault that the side affects do this to you! so dont worry to much ok? i hope i helped!

DntTurnMeAway

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I have four really good friends. Well one of my best friends that ive known for a long time left this week for kansas where her family lived. And we have been planning a beach trip with the four of us and our families. Well the week everyone could go she couldnt. Well..my other 2 friends (theyre sisters) theyre dad is gonna be down there and they invited me. Well i didnt kno my friend was coming back the day before i was leaving. So she got mad at me becuz they didnt invite her but they invited me. Should i go and not worry about it or not go and make everyone happy?

PS this friend has done some stuff to me..like she left me out a couple of times..but im still godo friends with her becuz our families are too

i would go cus its not ur fault she wasnt invited...you no? hope i helped!

DntTurnMeAway

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ok so here it is.....
i really like this guy and i have known him for about a year know. He likes one of my friends and he always tells me how much he likes her. I dont know what i should do. Should i give up and move on or stick in there and hold on to him??
please help me
Thankx*

i would tell him how u feel. you no just go for it! whats the worst that could happen? him say oh im sorry i dont like you like that. but if hes a good friend he will understand! i hope i helped!

DntTurnMeAway

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okay i wrote a book and at the moment i'm typing it and making corrrections to it, but how do i get it published?

i would go online and go to www.google.com and type in "Book Publishing" and click on a bunch of the websites and see if u can find nethign! i really hope i helped!

DntTurnMeAway

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i babysit 2 kids once a week for an hour (girlsages almost 5 and almost 3) They are lots of fun but we always play the same game (dogs) Im starting to get really bored with it but i dont no what else to play. i dont what to go buy craft stuff or anything i just want some new idea or something. They have low attention spans for the most part and they arent on the same skill/play level so it sometimes makes it hard. what do i do

plato would work VERY Good ik when i baby sit kids i make sure to have plato. all you have to do is set out some newspaper or paper towling and let them create w/e they want!
Hope i helped!
DntTurnMeAway

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in order to qet tested for STD's.. do you have to have your parents know ? my mom would totally like freak if she thouqht i was doinq anythinq sexual.. ive been w| my boyfriend 9 months.. i wouldnt have intercourse now but.. maybe oral & i want my boyfriend to qet tested. please help, i rate hiqh !! 14\f

i think there are some free places to get tested that u dont have to tell NE1 so it would work out. they wouldnt tell your parents!

Hope I helped
DntTurnMeAway

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well see last year i had a HUGE crush on this guy and then i stopped liking him because i thought i could nva happen. Then at the end of the school year he started walked with me to my math class everyday and i started and still do talk to him online for hours and we talk about everything. then the other night he sleptover in my brothers room and right in front of my brother we were fliritng iwth each other unitl 3 in the morning then the next moring he tried to wake me up by thrwoing things at me and we chilled until his mom came to pick him up. but the problem is hes one of my brothers best firends..do you think he likes me? or that anything would happen between the two of becausehes my brothers friend?

I think you should just ask your brother to talk to the dude and say something like "hey do you like my sis or something?" like that.I hope I helped!

Dntturnmeaway
PS You could always talk to him on your own

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Ok, I think we have all been here, but I've been really thinking about my past lately. Mostly my love life. My problem is this: my first girlfriend really had a vicelock on my life. We went out for a little over a year. We nearly got back together last summer, but someone I thought was a friend severly knocked that for a tailspin. Me and "C" ended on very bad terms. A nuclear bomb coulda done less damage. But I look back, and I realize, I cant escape the fact that I am NOT over her. I can't tell if I just feel guilty, cause it IS my fault, Im big enough to admit that, or if I do still care about her. I want to write her a letter to apoligize, but I wonder if it will fall on deaf ears. What should I do?

hey...what i would do is call her and talk to her for a long time until all your feelings are layed out and most are fixed near the end of the convo you should no wether its guilt (if it is it will be gone) or if its love (it will still be there) if its love let her no and just say i have like you since that summer and tell her bout how great she is and stuff
Hope I helped!
DntTurNMeAway

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I have a rat. And i was wondering from anyone who knows anything about them. What can be done or given to a rat to keep it amused. I open the cage everyday and let him run up my bookcase(where his cage is situated) but I don't know if this is efficient enough? Anything would be appreciated.
Thanks a lot,
Anthony

ok you could do a coupple of things. 1) you could get him a clear ball and what you do is put the rat or hamster inside of it and they will run around in the ball. this keeps them save from getting into stuff or getting attacked by a family dog or cat. Another suggestion is to tape some toilet paper rolls together and make a little tube town for him it works very good and they love it!
Hope I helped!
DntXTurnXMeXaway

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ok i just got back from my 5 day cheer camp and we stunted almost 24/7 and i am really sore! i've taken advil to try to get it to go away but it doesn't seem to be working! i can barely walk and pick things up its so bad! what are some good ways that you guys use to help the soreness go away? thanx!

just massage the mussels that are sore and that may help or there is a product called ICYHOT that works really good! you might want to try that.Hope I helped!
DntXTurnXMeXAway

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does anyone know how to get rid of excima!
please don't say go to the dermatologist
i'll rate high

Hi...an awesome solution is to get this prescribed medicine called Differin it works really good ik i use it and my excima cleared up with in a couple of days and i have it really bad so ya good luck

DntXturnXmeXawaY

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um i just put this under a random category but...im going on a really long road trip in a few days and im gonna need some serious entertainment...any ideas besides anything that involves reading?(i cant read in the car, makes me feel sick and stuff) thanks soo much i rate

you might want to bring a cd player or a minidvdplayer ik thats what i like to do or buy some of those magnetic checker boards or something those are made for the car or play MASH or draw idk i hope i helped!

DntXturnXmeXaway

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