ok so im 14 and i just got a work permit and i want to work at the library and now that im 14 i can so what do i say to get the job do i just hand them the permit and say i would like to work here or something
Here's what you do: ask the librarian at the front desk if they are currently hiring. If (s)he says yes, ask what the age requirement is. If you qualify, ask for a job application. Easy as pie. You can also apply online if the library has a website. Given that you're aspiring to become the world's first 14 year old librarian without a college degree, I suggest you make some drastic changes to your writing; otherwise you're not likely to get very far. Good luck with everything.
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my friend, ashley, and i argue ALL THE TIME. i dont even really know why anymore. we'd been friends since about a year and a half ago, and we have these arguments, which turn into fights because i get pissed do easily. then when i get pissed, she gets pissed and it turns into a fight, and we end up not talking until the other one apologizes.
our most recent fight was because she said something and i commented on it, saying something i thought was true, and she proved me wrong and then we argued about that for a while. (this was on AIM) and then she wanted to change the subject cuz she was getting mad. so then she said something about herself, and i commented on that, but she misunderstood me, saying that i didnt know everything about her and that i need to quit talking down on her for things i dont know.
see, i thought we told eachother everything. and then i figured out that it was just me venting, and her listening, and never really letting me into her personal life. and i hate it when people know everything about me but i thought we had a good relationship. obviously not.
so anyways, she took what i said the wrong way, and logged off and told me that she'll talk to me when she cools down. my moods lift up and down so quickly, so i told her that i'd be over it waay before her. and then i found out that she was still mad from a fight we'd had a week ago! and i thought we were both over it!
what im asking here is how in the world can we still be good friends, without me trying to pry into her life so ill be sure not to say anything stupid, that can be misinterpretted.
we mostly get in fights over texts and AIM. we never fight when we're talking on the phone or in person, if that helps any.
i just want to know what im doing wrong so i can fix it, and things can go back to the way they were when we had first started being friends. :(
Woah. This question feels like looking into a mirror. My "best friend" and I have known each other for almost 3 years now, and we argue like a married couple. I'm telling you, for anything and everything. I guess we've always done it, but either I hadn't noticed till a couple of months ago, or the arguements are getting worse and more frequent. I don't know what grade you guys are in, or how old you are, but senior year of highschool is known for putting a lot of stress on teens. Knowing that you'll be going your own ways in a couple of months creates tension, though I often find myself glad that college exists. Since she is almost 2 years older than me, we sometimes both get iffy about the age difference [without fully admitting it to the other]. That's a HUGE thing: what one can do that the other can't. Since she's 18, she's free to do much more than I am, BUT, I am a US citizen and she is illegal here, despite her having lived here longer than I have. When it all comes down to it, it's really jealousy, and subconsciously trying to be better than the other person [which sorta gives me a huge upper hand]. She doesn't tell me everything either, even though I spill my guts to her about my uneventful life, though I've learned to stop. Whether she feels she can't trust me, or feels that I will judge her, I don't really know. I have realized that our arguements are not only her fault. I say really offensive things sometimes, because I'm not really good at filtering my thoughts, but she's also very sensitive, and likes to twist words for her convenience. I would suggest you bring this to your friend's attention. Maybe she doesn't even realize that there's a problem in need of being fixed. I recently let my friend know that the reason she's always in a fight with someone is not because everyone picks on her, but because she loves to play the victim and doesn't even notice it. She didn't like that one bit, but it's because ultimately she had to accept that I know her best, so I wasn't lying when I said it. Highschool friendships are the most fragile, yet I'm still good friends with my elementary classmates. Go figure. Anyway, I know I just wrote you my whole biography [sorry =)], but I really hope this gives you a different perspective of the whole situation, and good luck to both of you.
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hi my friend sort of likes this boy and dosentt know what to do he says he loves her all the time and will not leave her alone well today she said she would give him a chance and he blew it because i use to go out with him and he acted like he didnt even like me.well eney way there is this other girl and she get who ever she wants so she dosent know what to do doese she go out with him or not please responde i am begging you
Ok... Hi. First of all, forget about the other girl. Pay attention to what she does, and make sure she doesn't get to close to your friend's crush, but don't worry too much about her. Tell your friend to concentrate on *herself*, and what she's gonna do to get this guy. You're always going to have competition, no matter what you're doing; that's just life. Obsessing over the other person is useless and inneffective. Second, remind me again how this guy "blew it". I don't see how him not liking you has anything to do with your friend and him. Again, this is a 2-person thing, nothing more. Lastly, ask your friend what it is she feels for this guy. Is it pity, annoyance, or possessive-ness? Has she always liked him, does she like him at all; did she say yes because she felt bad, because she wanted to shut him up, or to keep him away from the other girl? If her heart's not in it, she won't get anywhere. Good luck to you both.
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i hear about people getting community service hours all the time..what is it for? and what do you do?
I'm sure there are many reasons people get assigned community service hours, but the only two I can think of at the moment are as punishment [for committing a crime], and requirement [in order to graduate highschool]. It's basically volunteer work, to give back to the community, which you do not get paid for. Most people who have committed misdemeanors do it instead of having to pay a fine or having to go to county jail for a couple of weeks/months. My highschool asked for 20 hours, so I just went to the public library and read to children, stacked books, put data into the computer, organized, etc. You can also go a hospital, a soup kitchen, a retirement home, or anywhere else you feel you can help. If you have a job, you can ask your boss if you can do extra hours for free, you can help out a neighbor, babysit for no cost, but be sure to check if these are legitimate with your school counselor. It's not limited to law-breakers and students; you can volunteer your time whenever you please if this is what you're passionate about. Volunteer work looks great on any college application. Hope I helped.
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okay so i have this bff that well call katie we were really close and stuff but during the summer she met a guy that she started liking and according to her he liked her to the only problem was that her already had a girlfirend so he ended up dumping hes gf for her. well one day they went out and she was too nervous to go out with him so she asked our friend carlos to go with her. im her bff and she didnt even ask me to come along and she never introduced me to the guy she liked instead she took carlos who shes always complaining about saying hes dumb a pussy and everything else am i blowing this out of porportion or should i be consern about this why did she do it and what should i do
I don't think you should be so worried, yet. Have you ever considered that maybe the reason she took a boy instead of you is that he would be more protection in case it ever came to that? Maybe she's embarrassed of whoever she's dating, and since your opinion is really valuable to her, she wasn't ready for you both to meet just yet. It could be a million things, but you'll never know unless you go and ask HER. The problem with girls is, we immediately feel left out when our best friends get boyfriends, specially if we ourselves are single. Maybe this is the case, maybe not. Either way, you should talk to her.
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I'm 17/f and recently I've been having feelings towards my basketball coach (He's 26). A couple nights ago the whole team including him went out to go bowling. It was like we weren't even there with the team, there was flirting and you know the whole "bet I can beat your score", and random touches when we passed by each other. And it's not just on his part it's me too. What should I do? Should I talk to him about this?
Thanks
Confused Basketball
Well, it's never really a good idea to mess with teachers [or anyone older if you're still a minor], cause it can ruin a lot of lives, but ultimately it's YOUR life, and I'll be damned if I tell you how to live it when I myself do as I please. Just doesn't seem right. Anyway, there are many ways you can handle this, but only two that I'll go into: you can either get the heck away from him if you find him creepy [when you distance yourself, he's bound to get the hint], OR, you can let this run it's course. If you like him and feel you want it to go somewhere, do NOT talk to him about it. Men don't want to be talked to; that'll just freak him out. Though you didn't describe him much, it sounds like he's definitely interested. Keep in mind his intentions may or may not be good; there's no way to tell. I do have to warn you, there's always a HUGE risk of getting hurt, caught & embarrassed, or that it won't work out. Dating teachers is a big deal and can get you both [mostly him] in oh so much trouble. Good luck with whatever you decide darling.
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my friend showed me some cigarettes with hearts on the end, but i can't remember what brand they are. does anyone know what brand these cigs are? or where i could find them?
http://i264.photobucket.com/albums/ii165/BABBYg/ohcute.jpg
thanks !
*Edit* No problem. Do they ask for proof of Id when they deliver it? Cause I know you gotta sign for it.
They're called 520's, from Taiwan or something.
See if any of these work for you, and they're only like 6 bucks! Anyway, tell me if they work, cause I will definitely be buying some. Good luck.
http://13blackgothic.deviantart.com/art/single-one-520-cigarette-46097876
http://www.tygerpipes.com/product.html?cid=22&pid=918
http://www.tygerpipes.com/browse.html?cid=22
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i love my boyfriend of 5 months and he's the best thing that ever happened to me....but i feel that i cant concentrnate on anything else that much because i'm always thinking of him...and like when im in class and i dont like what we're doing (pretty much every day) i think about him all the time...i dont like to be like this cause then i dont understand what were doing in class and stuff but i would never break up with him cause i love him so much.
what should i do?
16/f
What you should do is ENJOY. Think of it like this: how many billion questions have you read on this site about girls constantly thinking about guys they can't have? And that's only a SMALL percent of the girls in this world. Not everyone is lucky enough to ever BE with the guy of their dreams, but you are! So, instead of obsessing about him, realize that if you guys are good together, he's not going anywhere, but neither are you if you do bad in school. Think about YOURSELF once in a while. His glorious image won't save you when you take a test, or when you're applying for college. Trust me, guys can do nothing for you. Learn to separate you academic life from your love life, because one has nothing to do with the other. Be you in school, but so-and-so's girlfriend after school, otherwise, you're gonna end up messing up your future for a temporary present. Good luck.
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Ive been experimenting with weed and i have these weird panic/anxiety attacks... what can i do to prevent that from happening???
Oh, I have those too, like the first 10-15 minutes. Not that time matters much when you're high. It's like you know you're high, you can't believe it, and then you zone out and think you're dreaming, which makes you anxious and just wanna get out. I think weed is just fun after it's worn off, cause then you can share the memories. While you're high, all you're worried about is eating and getting sane again. Maybe you should stop for a while, if you think it's making you feel worse. Weed hightens whatever mood you're already in, so if you're paranoid about getting caught, or having a horrible trip, you're not gonna enjoy it much. Try relaxing before you smoke. Make sure you're not stressed out at all, and do it with laid- back people. There's a big chance the feeling might not go away, no matter how much you try to calm yourself down during or beforehand, as I've asked professional potheads, and even they tell me it's common. I've smoked for nearly a year now, and I still panic. I guess you just get used to it after a while. Luck
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so my sophomore year i saw this really cute junior in my gym class. i told my friend who was his next door neighbor and i gave her a note to give to him saying hat i thought he was cute and i gave him my number .. a few days later, i didnt egt a response, so i decided to take action for myself & i walked up to him & introduced myself & we talked in the hall for like 2 min & then he said he would text me. i was thrilled until he didnt text me all weekend and that week. i asked my friend to ask him what was going on&he said that i was a nice girl, but he liked someone else. i was so disappointed because i really gave my all into something i thought would work, especially since im naturally shy. then in the summer i went up to talk to him at this fair his band played at. we talked for like 2 min& i tried to keep things friendly&normal as if nothing happened. now its december, & i see him in school. his friends all stare at me, so im guessing he told them everything that happend. when i pass him in the hallways i ignore him because its really awkward but i see him look at my from the corner of his eye. but when pass eachother closely in the hall, he avoids me. i dont know whether to move on or not but i feel like i still have a crush on him. what do you think he is thinking? should i talk to him? is it too late to say anything since ive been avoiding him for the past 4 months? i want to be friendly but i wouldnt even know how to go about it without it being awkward&weird. should i moveon or give it one last chance?
Oh man, I feel your pain, I really do. Something like this happened to me not so long ago. I guess if there's one thing I've grasped, it's that sometimes a person's rejection has nothing to do with us. He did say he was interested in someone else, and that may very well still be the case. He may find you a little intimidating, since you seem to take the initiative. It can be anything, you never know, but it's no fault of yours.
Anyway, all pessimism aside, his shyness could be playing a huge role in this. I'm not saying go up to him, cause I don't want you getting humiliated. I'm going through the same awkward-crush-thing at school too, only the scenario is reversed. Some days, when he feels like it, he talks to me, most days we ignore each other. Sometimes that works out for the best, and if it's meant to be, it'll happen. I know that sounds like the corniest phrase in the world, but I've messed up a lot of good things by simply being impatient, instead of waiting for them to come on their own.
If you insist on drawing his attention, there's no better way to him than through his friends. It may probably be a little embarrassing at first, but at least you can find out what they know; what he's told them. You can also go over to your friend's house more often, and try to make sure he always sees you. The worst thing you can do to a person is isolate them, specially in a big crowd. No one likes to feel left out. If you befriend people around him and show him your life has gone on without him, all while subtly ignoring the crap outta him, he's bound to take notice.
Meanwhile, keep ignoring him in the hallways, and interact with everyone other than him. Don't show any signs of discomfort or insecurity. He'll be craving your attention in no time. Luck
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Where can I find the best black Friday deals? Black Friday is the day after Thanksgiving. I know at WalMart that the Black Friday sales are actually called the Blitz but those sales happen the day after Thanksgiving too.
Anyway, there are quite a few places around here like Best Buy, RadioShack, WalMart, KMart, Target, Circuit City, Sears, CVS Pharmacy, Costco, JC Penney, Kohl's, Staples, etc.
I heard that on Black Friday some really neat things go on sale like Dell computers, Emachines computers, Laptops, Digital Cameras, Big screen LCD plasma televisions (even Sony brand), Maytag washers and dryers, GPS, Office Chairs, and even the Apple Ipod Touch 8GB and Apple Ipod Nano!
I want to go to the big Black Friday sales and get really good deals. Black Friday sounds really neat and it'll be the first time I'm going to go to one. Can anyone direct me to the Black Friday sales online? Like, online flyers telling me of what sales certain stores are going to have on Black Friday...
Macys!! Just go to your nearest mall. For example, my closest would be either garden state plaza or willoubrook mall in new jersey. Almost all the stores there are guaranteed to have big sales. Luck!
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Ok im a 17year old guy I really really like this girl who is in my school and I think that she likes me though i cant be sure but the problem is that she is 3 years younger than me.I was wondering if i asked her out would people think that im a wierdo because im going out with 14year old girl?.
Im still going to ask her out but im just curious.
I had my first boyfriend a month after my 11th birthday, and he was 15. He didn't care much, so neither did I, of course no one ever dared give him any trouble. Just be ready for some people who'll doubt and antagonize your motives. You're pretty much on track though; 17 year olds aren't really looking to date anyone older than themselves. As long as you're both happy.
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What constitutes a reason for living?
Curiosity. That's always been a good reason for me. Good enough to keep me alive, anyway. I can't just end it without having a clue as to how it may turn out. Not that I care much, but I just can't help it. Ambition, fear of hurting others with my greed, cowardice, the smallest bit of commitment to life..which brings me right back to curiosity. Perhaps life is wasted on the living after all, considering how uninterested an undeserving some of us can be..
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14-F
I really like this guy
Lets call him P
So, me and P. We talk everyday, every time we see eachother
ALL my friends insisted he liked me back
So, a few day ago, P found out I liked him
That same day, we talked alot on the bus
He didnt think I knew he knew
So today, he completely ignores me
I try talking to him, he looks at me, & turns his back to me
Im so hurt
Ive been crying my eyes out
What does this mean?
What should I do
I have no confidence what-so-ever
He's probably just nervous. It's a little embarrasing to know how someone feels about us, specially when we don't feel the same way, yet still have to face them every day. Sometimes we feel like we're being forced to feel mutual, not to hurt their feelings. I'm not saying this is the case, you didn't give much background, but it's a possiblity. If he does like you, it must be even more embarrassing. You probably both like each other, yet no one makes the first move, scared of the other's possible reaction. It can be awkward. You should definitely talk to him, and I mean in person, none of that friends-doing-it-for-me crap. Direct is always better. That way you know the answer quick, straight from the source. I wouldn't be too worried about the ignoring. Some guys deal with love by acting macho; boys will be boys. Again, your best bet is to talk to him, and don't give up just yet. Luck
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how do you resist a craving? like for food.
Oh, that's the WORST. You can always focus on the negative side effects of over eating, like the gradual fattening, health factors, guilt, which will make it seem somewhat more unappealing, or you can distract yourself with something else. Keep in mind that you shouldn't have to completely ignore food either. If it's weight-gain you're worried about, eat tons, but eat healthy. Whatever makes you happy.
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is it true that lil wayne died?
No, it's not true. Jesus, who started that, anyway?! You can always google it if you feel unsure.
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18 female
so there is this guy. we were texting and we got on the subject of sex. well i'm still a virgin, he knows that. he has only done it with one other girl. anyways me and him were talking about doing it and then i was like you wouldn't be able to handle me ;) and he was like yeah right! i was like im serious, and i was like guess you'll just have to wait and see. well then it really started to bug him and he wouldn't stop asking me why i didn't think he could handle me in bed. truth is i know he could, i just wanted to get him excited and so when he kept asking i didn't know what to say. finally i was just like ok if i said that you could handle me, will you leave it alone!? and he was like yeah see your full of it, you know i can! and then i was like maybe you can, maybe you can't. then he stopped texting me and i haven't talked to him since. like two weeks ago that was too! i don't know if he got mad at me, if he was annoyed, if he just didn't want to talk anymore or what? i'm not the kind of girl to like keep texting him either if he doesn't say anything back, i think thats annoying. but what do you you think happened? now i'm worried that he is pissed at me, did i do something wrong and if i did can i fix it somehow? thanks :)
One more text couldn't hurt. I guess he took your insinuation as a challenge of some sort, which probably insulted him. But that's just a guess. Guys can be so touchy. Tell him, and not necessarily in these exact words, "I didn't mean to offend you. I've always wanted you to be my first, you know that. I'm a virgin, how wild could I possibly be? As for who can handle who, we'll just have to test it and find out ;)". Make sure you find out what made him so upset, though I have a feeling he's just one of those guys who don't enjoy mind games. Good luck
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I don't know what it's called but some guy said that when girls sit down they _____ idk, what it was i think it started with an s. But when I asked what? he wouldn't repeat himself. What did he say and what does it mean?
Considering it's a guy, and the fact that he wouldn't repeat himself, I'd have to say..queef? That's when air escapes your private and it sounds like you're passing gas.
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15/f
i'm normally a super happy person, but how do you keep yourself from getting kinda sad when it gets dark early? like i've been used to it being sunny later and everytime the weather changes into fall/winter i get like sad when it gets dark so early. i live in ohio btw. how do i stay happy?
That is UNBELIEVABLE! My friend asked me this same thing a few weeks ago, and I was completely dumbfounded. I'm useless here, cause I don't really have an answer. I didn't even know it was an actual illness till now. I actually wanted to thank YOU for asking this question! Wow.. If it helps any, part of the reason she gets sad is cause she realizes she's getting older [even though she's only 17], and I hate the summer cause I'm sort of a night owl...
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so does anyone know where i can read the new moon by stephanie meyer for free on the internet?? thanks!
Yeah there's this rule about books that are online. It's something like the author has to be dead +20 years. Library has everything free though...
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