Heyy, my name is Brittany. I am sixteen years old, and I was born on the 9th of July. I am very different from most people I know, and I love that! I'm a virgin..I don't drink, smoke, or do drugs and I never have. I am selfish, stubborn, and most people would say I am spoiled. I hate not getting my own way. I dislike liars, and I can't stand being in a moving vehicle without any music playing. I love the color pink, and my favorite number is 39. Country music is my favorite, but I like a little bit of everything. My boyfriend's name is Brandon. I have obsessive compulsive disorder, and I am very paranoid most of the time. I worry a lot. I laugh a lot, and smile even more. I'm very insecure, and can be quite ditzy. I like giving people advice, when I can..My best friend's name is Katie. I am extremely lazy, and tend to be very random.
Gender: Female
Age: 16
AIM: BrittanyMichx39
Member Since: June 17, 2005
Answers: 225
Last Update: October 18, 2005
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hey I'm 14, short and skinny for my hieght. I wanna know how to get a six pack or something along those lines. Any tips/steps? Has it worked for you/ someone you know? Also should my eating habits change? (link)
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Try doing 25 sits up, and 25 crunches every nite. The result of that should start showing within a month if you keep doing them. If you have healthy eating habits, don't change them at all. You are probably just naturally skinny. You might have a high metabolism which doesn't let you gain that much weight. You could try eating a little more if it is really bothering you, but I don't think you have anything to worry about!
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My Brother is acting werd what do i do (link)
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Well first of all, what do you mean by weird? Is he just being annoying? Or is something wrong with him? If he's just being annoying, try to get away from him. Or ignore him and he should stop after he gets the hint that he isn't bothering you. I think all brothers act weird every now and then. Haha, my brother is the same way.
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Hey, I need a new screen name, can anyone give me some ideas? I don't care what about. Just like nothing sad or stuff like that. Thanks a bunch. I rate 5's!! (link)
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xSMILE xITSme
xOMGx its mEE
xLOVE lettersx
x3 staywithme
Heavens xAngel
lxl babygirl lxl
xx2cutex4youxx
x ADORABLE o5
UnFoRgEtTaBLee
ImLovinIt xx
mmm mmm Goodx
DontBreakMy x3
Happy2B Ursz
GorgeOus xx
xbutterflyKISSES
xUrBabyGirlx
pr3tty 1n P1NK
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I'm sixteen and I've never made out with a guy (or anything above that...and I only kissed once) is that a huge turnoff for a guy? I havent really had any boyfriends, but now I'm interested and I'm wondering will this scare guys off? (link)
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Actually, a lot of guys don't like girls who are just willing to do sexual things with them the first nite they are together. Unfortunately, there are those few who are just in the "relationship" to get you in bed. You just have to be careful with the guy you choose to be with. Guys do like it when girls aren't afraid to kiss them, or cuddle with them tho. If you don't want to do any with a guy..don't! Don't feel pressured into doing things either. I don't think guys will care that much that you haven't done anything like that yet! Guys don't like sluts.
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how old do you think you have to be to babysit? (link)
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It depends on a few things. You have to be atleast somewhat mature to babysit. I mean you are responsible for more than your own life when you babysit. It may seem like an easy job to do, but what is something happens? What if the kid starts to choke on something, or falls down and gets hurt. There are so many things that could happen while you are babysitting and you will be held responsible. So you have to know how to react in situations like those! It also depends on how many children you are babysitting. One or two might be easy for a 14 year old, but three-five might be a little more difficult. I would say a good age to start babysitting (if you are mature enough) is like 14-16! Good luck!
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Hiya my friends obsessing over her weight can someone tell me if being 10 stone is heavy if you are a girl of 5 ft 8. please respond ASAP.
will rate high for good answers and quick response.
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That definitely is not overweight for a girl who is 5'8! A girl who is 5'8 with a small frame should weigh anywhere between 126-139, a medium frame healthy weight is between 136-150, and for a large frame anywhere from 146-167. Here are some websites that I found that have to do with healthy weights. Show these to your friend and they might help you and her out.
http://www.viable-herbal.com/health/health39a.htm
http://kidshealth.org/kid/feeling/thought/fat_thin.html
http://www.healthcastle.com/bmi.shtml
http://www.healthyglow.com/weight-loss/weight-tables.html
http://www.dietitian.com/ibw/ibw.html
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im really sad..i feel like im not noticed by ANY of my friends..it seems like the dont like me...but i know they do..how can i be noticed more..in a good way? i dont want all the attension..just not too little either!! (link)
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Be more outgoing, and try to be outspoken! Say what is on your mind, and don't be afraid to voice your opinion. Laugh! Be funny, go crazy! Talk louder, and say what you think! If you really want to get noticed, try a new hairstyle, or get a new outfit! Your friends are most likely going to comment on it, which will also mean that they noticed you! You could also just tell your friends that you feel unnoticed or left out. They should understand and try to make you feel better.
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My friend is having this huge birthday party! Her uncle owns the house in laguna beach and its gonna be a two day party. I've been her friend only for like 6 months but we're pretty close. My birthday was last week and i invited her and she came. I dont get y she wont invite me!! AT least 50 people are going so dont say she didnt have enough room in her 3 stretch limos. (link)
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If your "friend" didn't invite you and she invited nearly 50 other people, then she can't be too good of a friend. She might not think of you as the friend you think of her as! She might just consider you someone she talks to. You can ask her why she didn't invite you, if it's really bothering you a lot. If she invited a lot of "popular" kids, she might just want some attention from them. Just talk to her about it and tell her how bad it made you feel to find out that you weren't invited.
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how do i lose my habit of being shy??? plz answer cuz im a shy ass
i rate high (link)
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Try to open up more and be more outgoing. Talk to more people! And don't be afraid to voice your opinion. Tell people how you feel, and be outspoken! Don't keep quiet when you have something to say! Laugh, and smile a lot! Be happy, and try to be there for people when they need you. It isn't necessarily a bad thing to be shy, but if it bothers you, just try to overcome it by doing what I sed previously. Good luck!
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I really hate my life.I moved away from everything i had..i've been here in a year and i havent seen any good..everyone hates..makes fun of me..and this girl took out sissors and cut some of my hair off the other day! (it was about 2 inches..my hair is long so i didnt care much,but it was very rude) i have a good life were i used to live,but here,everything is bad,i cant focus,and i dont know what to do.As soon as the prices go down for houses,we'll buy one,maybe,but i dont know how long that will be :( (link)
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Wow, that reminds me of exactly how I felt about 3 years ago when I moved into a new home. It was horrible! I had the worst year of my life b/c I had moved away from EVERYTHING just like you have. I didn't know how to deal with it, so I would cry myself to sleep pretty much night after night, and I would NOT talk to ANYONE at school. I was extremely rude to the people around me b/c I just didn't care about anything. I think I was somewhat depressed. However, time heals all pain and what I think you need to do is just try to make the best out of everything. I know it's MUCH easier sed than done, so if you can't do it on your own, maybe some counselling might help you out. Talk to someone who has seen other people with the same problems as yours, and get some advice and help from them. Just try to talk to people, and ignore the people who are rude, or disrespecful towards you! Hopefully you got the girl who cut your hair in trouble, b/c that was TOTALLY uncalled for, especially if you didn't even do anything to her! Tell your parents how you feel and see what they say. Talk to people from where you used to live, and tell them about your problem. And if there is any possible way for you to see your old friends, maybe on the weekend or whenever you have free time..see if you could do that! That might help you out a lot if you could see the people you care about and miss the most!
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I found out when i was 5 yrs old that i was diagnosed with a severe case of General anxiety disorder. I want to know how i got it and some back history on it... ok so heres my life to give you an idea... I was born in newport, england... i moved to the states when i was 5 ... i then moved to north carolina when i was 7... alota crap and i wen to private schools.... i wasnt prep so i was outcasted from alota groups...
If you have gad... what do you think caused it?
What coulda caused it for me (link)
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If you go to the following websites, you will be able to read and find out a lot of information about your problem. I searched on Google ("General Anxiety Disorder"), and this is what I came up with:
http://www.anxietynetwork.com/gawhat.html
http://www.mentalhealth.com/dis/p20-an07.html
http://www.mentalhealthchannel.net/gad/
http://www.adaa.org/AnxietyDisorderInfor/GAD.cfm
http://www.adaa.org/GettingHelp/AnxietyDisorders/GAD.asp
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okay well i have a major crush.
on this boy jon, and well i need to tell him, but im way too shy. and afraid im going to look stupid !
so yeah can you please help me in a way not to act stupid?
ps hes in my classes and theres nothing to ever talk about. (link)
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Don't be scared! If you really like him, then there is nothing for you to be scared about. Take a risk! Everyone has to look stupid at some point or another, although I doubt you will! Unless you are totally unprepared and have no idea what to say! Just listen to him when he talks to other people, and maybe you could get an idea of what he likes to talk about. But I think you should already have somewhat of an idea if you like him! If you are absolutely too shy to tell him on your own, you could always ask a friend to do it for you. Or tell one of his friends! But do you really want to tell him rite now? I mean think about it..if you don't know how to tell him you like him, and you don't have anything to talk about..what will you say to him when you two talk? You have to think of this stuff ahead of time, otherwise there is going to be a lot of awkward silence between the two of you! What does he like to do? What do you like to do? What do you two have in common, and what would he like to talk about? Think about it, and then tell him.
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hey im 13/m, i know this is a basic question... but whats sum good ideas for a halloween costume?
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If you like a certain sport you could get a jersey, or a uniform and go as your favorite player, or just as a player. You could dress up as a hillbilly, with overalls and a straw hat! A vampire, ghost, monster, or a prisoner would all be easy/cheap costumes for you to go as! You could dress up as a girl too, that would be funny! If you have a sister, or a girl friend that wouldn't mind lending you their clothes for a nite..get a skirt, and a hott top to go with it, and if it's possible a pair of high heels (not too high, you don't want to break your ankle.) and have someone do your make-up! Just be creative, and you'll be surprised with what you can come up with!
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Homecoming is October 29, 2005, and I want to look my best and be in better shape than what I am. I wear like 120 and my tummy is poking out a little. Can someone please help me with remedies, or excersices or something please like asap. (link)
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In order to get a flatter stomach, you would need to start doing this as soon as possible. Do 25-50 crunches and 25-50 sit-ups every nite. You could also do a few sets if you wanted to. Do 25 of each in the morning, 25 in the afternoon and 25 before you go to bed. You don't necessarily HAVE to do that many, but for the best results, that is what I would recommend! You could also run everyday for like 30 minutes or something! Good luck!
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for homecoming i cant decide whether to wear myhair down ( past my shoulders length and loose curls) or up in a fancy updo or down w/ just the tiny top pulled back. any ideas in what i cna do? also my dress is strapless and id like my shoulders covered.. should i straighten or curl it? (link)
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I think if you put half of your hair up, and left the other half down and curled it..that would look cute! You could also let it all down, and curl it..There are lots of different things you could do with your hair if it is easy to work with. Search online for "prom hairstyles" or you could even try "homecoming hairstyles." If you do decide to do something with your hair that requires it all to be up, and you still want your shoulders covered, you could always buy a shawl (sp?) for your dress. (the dressy scarf type things.) Good luck!
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ok i like this guy in my school but he has a girlfriend.What sucks is that i really wanna be friends with him but i dunno how cuz im too shy to talk to him,and he's really popular.Also i have a friend who ruined the chance of being friends with him and now im thinkin that he hates me. what should i do? (link)
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I doubt that it ruined your chance of being friends with him forever. Just start talking to him. Make small talk. Smile at him and laugh when he says something funny. You could always get his AIM s/n and talk to him online if you are too shy to talk to him in person rite away! And don't be afraid to talk to him just b/c he has a g/f!
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I have been going out with my boyfriend for quite some time now. I met his parents last weekend and they invited me for lunch on Sunday. I would love to go and all but I don't know what to talk about to make sure they like me.
Suggestions? Thanks so much! (link)
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Just be funny and cute. I'm sure they will like you if you aren't cocky, or have an attitude towards them. You can talk about your life, or your family, or your pets. Just think of something interesting, and talk about it. Ask questions, but not personal questions that they could be offended by. Don't ask them things like how much money they make, or anything like that. Tell them about your day, or if you play any sports you can talk about that, as well. You could also talk about how you met their son, like when and where. You could talk about your favorite movie, car, place to eat, your favorite food, or what you like to do on the weekends. I'm sure they will be talking to, so just be prepared for anything they might say or ask you..
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I was the one who wrote about my best friend carly. well something bad happened. It all started yesterday when we were chatting online. Her ex came on and he told her that he liked me and then she told me. I was like why does he like me and she told me to ask him myself. well i didn't want to because I know what she went through with him and besides she doesn't like when her friends date her exs. well she told me that he wanted to talk to me and she said I should talk to him so I was like okay. well we started talking and then carly got offline. well like five minutes later she got back on so I started talking to her again. then she started freaking out on me and she told me to fuck off and stuff like that. I was like okay. I told her that if us talking was making her mad then I wouldn't talk to him but she just got offline. well I was still talking to her ex and she was talking to him and told him that she wasn't my friend and she hated me. he said he was going to talk to her which he did later on and she didn't seem like she was mad at me anymore. so this morning I called her and she hung up on me. so I called back again and she started screaming at me. I apologized for yesterday and I told her that I wasn't trying to go out with him or anything I was just excited that someone finally liked me but I didn't intend to hurt her and I told her that if talking to him was going to ruin our friendship that I wouldn't talk to him anymore. but she didn't really listen to me she just told me that she didn't want anything to do with me and that we weren't friends anymore. and then she hung up on me again. I don't want to lose her as my best friend and I am really depressed again but I don't know what to do since she won't talk to me. I feel empty and like I want to die without her, I know that is kind of weird but she has done so much for me and been there for me when noone else was. Pleas help me figure out what to do so that I won't lose her. I know that the fact that she is pregnant and all stressed out because of her bf has something to do with it but I want us to be best friends again. I will do whatever it takes so I don't lose her. (link)
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Stop talking to her ex b/f first of all. If you told him that you don't like him, and that you would never do anything to hurt your best friend (such as dating him), then I think that would make your friend feel better. Try to talk to her in person, and tell her that you aren't going to hurt her. She is probably just upset, b/c her b/f hurt her, and now she is afraid that her best friend might. You two are/were probably two of the most important people in her life, so I can understand why she is so upset. Just continute trying to talk to her, and I think that if she sees that you aren't going to give up, she will give in and talk to you. Be there for her, b/c it seems like she is going to be needing you a lot, especially if she is pregnant!
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Yeah...I have an advice column...But for once I don't know what to do here. Im soo lost. I love this kid so much. And like he told me that he would ask me out..but it wouldn't be fair to me. So today we were on the phone and I told him that he was sooo sarcastic. And he's like ouch that hurts. And I never wanted to hurt him. That was the last thing I wanted to do. And I wrote him a letter and emailed it to him....It basically said that I didn't deserve him adn that he's amazing and everything adn that he deserves someone so much better than mee...and now I haven't stopped crying in like....an hour...I love him so much...and i judt don't know if i did the right thing...or what i should do from here? Im just so confused...it sucks...please help me...kthanks (link)
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If he really is sarcastic, I don't think you could have hurt him too bad just but telling him the truth. He should have already known that. But anyways, ask him why it wouldn't be fair for you to go out with him, if he hasn't already told you. Get some answers. Other than that, I think you're just gonna have to wait and see what happens. If someone doesn't want to go out with you, they aren't going to. But things change, and something could happen and change his mind or something. Just talk to him, and be his friends. Good luck!
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(im 19 female)Im just asking, there is this guy i like a lot he liked me, soon as i told him i wasnt a virgin he simply lost interest! and he belives that the one he is going to marry should be a virgin.i feel like SHIT! he has told me he is not a virgin - ofcourse its ok for a guy not to be one isnt it! but anyway, then i told him that i was joking and that i didnt quite have sex.i really like this person and i regret loosing my virginity to this ONE bf" overseas, now if i was to get close with this guy could i live a lie and never tell him? or should i tell him? or should i forget him and move on! but i cant! nicest person iv ever met! what do i do!? is it good to keep it to myself and NEVER tell him.- i feel so guilty (link)
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I don't think you should lie to anyone about anything. I would never be able to lie to someone about something like that for a long time. That's wrong in my opinion. I think you should definitely tell him, and if he can't accept you for who you are..then you don't need him. If he wants to be with someone who is a virgin, that is something you can't change, so I don't think you should even bother trying to lie your way out of this one. Just tell him, and see where things go from there.
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