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is it me? :/
im really sad..i feel like im not noticed by ANY of my friends..it seems like the dont like me...but i know they do..how can i be noticed more..in a good way? i dont want all the attension..just not too little either!!
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they like you... just like speak up and talk to them.
Invite them over to hang out with. Just act yourself and if they dont pay attention to you then maybe you guys arent truly friends.
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Be more outgoing, and try to be outspoken! Say what is on your mind, and don't be afraid to voice your opinion. Laugh! Be funny, go crazy! Talk louder, and say what you think! If you really want to get noticed, try a new hairstyle, or get a new outfit! Your friends are most likely going to comment on it, which will also mean that they noticed you! You could also just tell your friends that you feel unnoticed or left out. They should understand and try to make you feel better.
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be louder and talk more. im guessing that will help because im a little shy and none of my friends notice me but i know they love me. im like the black sheep in the flock. take it from someone who feels the same
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I used to fell this way all the time with some of my friends...I would help it by tryin to make plans with then... have then over your house or go somewhere...Weather your friends are showing it or not they always love you....
(sorry if that sounded corney lol)
Hope i helped though
Jess
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When me and a big group of people go somewhere or hang out i always ask my best friend to come with me incase that happens..and i know that when me and my best friend are together me and her are mostly by ourselves..i mean we will talk to each other and barely anyone else..i dont know why tho..but if you have a really good friend ask them to come with you if your hanging out with a group of people..or instead of being in a group of people just hang out with like 1 or 2 friends, im not saying drop your other friends either. But sometimes just try and stay away from a big group.
hope i helped
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well..your friends love you! maybe plan an event like a sleepover..trip somewhere, etc. or take one friend somewhere like on a weekend trip or to the mall..then it will be like more one on one time with your friend. i would talk to your friends aboutt how your feeling. if you have awesome friends like i do..they will understand and talk to you and work things out
-melissa-
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I was...or still am in that situation. I'm guessing its the situation where...theres a group huddled around or sitting close talking about something? Well try to listen in, like just blend in. You don't have to say much. Maybe if everyone laughs join in, then say something about it, not stupid though. After someone tells a story, if you can tell a story of yours similar. Make a joke or two every once in a while. Ask the group, or just one on one questions like: hey what was for hw, did you catch that show on tv, what are you doing this weekend, etc. Don't feel that you have to say something or do something to get noticed, usually just being there and asking a few questions or talking to somebody in a group helps a lot. If thats not the case, then just get to know each one better. Teach them new things about yourself while learning others about them, just by asking a bunch of questions and sharing stories. Hope that helped and good luck.
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