Hi everyone, i've gone through soo much that i think id be able to help others! i will answer any questions heart fully and i really like helping people. So just ask away and answers is what you'll get!
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here it goes- i am 14 years old, and i still havent gotten my period.. is that a bad thing? or is it normal? please help! (link)
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No, it is perfectly fine, most girls dont get their period until an older age. The age range is 11-16 says most doctors, others say it starts at an earlier age, but dont worry it is perfectly normal. Hope i helped
~*Crystal_Lake*~
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My boyfriend and I have been dating for a while and we really want to have sex like early this month but I always get my period in this beginning of the month and we both don’t want to wait. Can you have sex on your period..have any of you ever done that before. Is it safe?I rate 5’s. (link)
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It is completely fine ONLY as long as you wear a condom, if you dont then you will most deff. get pregnant. PLease be safe....but love grand. Go ahead but keep safe!
~*Crystal_Lake*~
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what is an oreo? not like the cookie oreo, im talking about something that someone can call someone, because i heard someone call a black person an oreo and he got all mad at them. if anyone knows plz tell me (link)
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if someone called a black man an oreo than he was referring him as: a man whos looks black on the outisde but is white on the inside.
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I have been having a hard time lately and I feel a bit depressed. I have a person that I admire and we are real close friends but I just am not sure whether or not to talk to her. She is the same age as my mother (54) and has a son that is my age also,(14) I just feel silly going to her and talking. But really, is it silly? She is the only person I trust with my feelings and the things I am having problems with, Advicenators could not help with.
She has told me I can call anytime I have problems but I guess I don't want her son to know that I call his mother. (He use to be my crush....Long time ago....idiot now.) I also feel that she has enough things on her mind, such as, her work (she and her husband own a whole bunch of gas stations in and around WA state. Her 4 other sons also are in the buisiness.) and her family.
Should I just call her and talk? would I be a annoyance? (link)
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No! it is not silly at all. It is perfectly fine for you to want to go and talk too her. What are smoe of the problems you have been having with....i think i could help since i have been in many othwer situations prob. like your own. older people are always wanting to help us. It is how we come mature by the advice o0thers give us. No you wouldn't be an annoyance, i can bet you she would be thrilled to hear your voice. The best you can do is call her and talk...
Hope i helped!
~*Crystal_Lake*~
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so I like this guy, he knows that I like him.. but I don't know if he likes me.. but I do know that he has NeVeR made out or anything.. I have never made out or french kissed anyone. I'm going to ask this guy out.. and I'm hoping he will say yes, if I do ever like go to the movies with him.. what do I do, cause you know how people say, that the guy will lead the way? well that won't really work because be have never made out.. so what in the nation am I sopost to do?
thanks!
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Ok good for you for asking him out. Thats on e step, then yeah ask to go to the movies...see a comedy or horror but not action film. Trust me. Lol! But anyways when or if he puts his arm around you its a go. he will start to leen in and then will make his move. he will go at least 3/4 of the way but it is up to you to go the extra bit. Close your eyes after he closes his and the once your lips touch just go with it. if it is just maiking out then there is nothing to worry about but if it is frenching then keep your eyes closed, dont wear lip gloss or anything bc it makes you slip, and just follow his lead by example...It is not hard at all....Hope it all works out!
~*Crystal_Lake*~
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Hey, can anyone give me symptoms of strep throat? I think I might have it. My throat has been hurting really bad the past 3 days, my nose has been stuffed up, my head hurts, and my stomach hurts...ick. Thanks a bunch! (link)
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In order to know if you have strep then you have to go to the doctors and have them test you for it, if you dont go and just think you have strep, you might actually and you need a doctors prescription. So in conclusion go to the doctors and see if you have strep.
Hope you feel and get better
~*Crystal_Lake*~
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Okay, so theres this guy that i really liked and then he asked me out so we're going out. Then there was this other guy that i really liked but then i kinda didnt and now i do and now all these guys are like asking me out and flirting with me and stuff..they dont know i have a boyfriend but yeah its annoying cuz they didnt when i didnt have a bf..why does this always happen that when i actually have a bf THEN the people i like start liking me or whatever..? ugh! (link)
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Wow many girls would kill to be in ur spot, but you know it is wiked old skool news that guys always go for the girls that are off the market. trust me, just go with the flow....
~*Crystal_Lake*~
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He is kind of overwieght, but sweet and fun to talk too. I really feel happy around him, and always try to talk to him. But at my school he is regarded as a geek, or a nerd by everyone. And I think he likes me too! I'm not quite sure I'm ready to date, but how can I have him keep liking me until I am? (link)
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Now this is serous advice but it may sound silly. You always gotta keep him wanting more. It may sound far-fetched but trust me if you always give him something to want he will always come your way.
~*Crystal_Lake*~
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Hi,
My baby rabbit just died from a heart problem :'( We knew she was gonna die because she was very ill, but we got her anyway because we wanted to give her the best life we could because we knew it would be short!! So, we got another rabbit with her. Now our baby rabbit has died, the other is soo lonley!! My mum wants another rabbit to keep her company but I'm not sure, I don't think I'm ready to have another one in her place just like that. Am I being selfish by not wanting another rabbit even though the other one is lonley? What should I do? (link)
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I think that you should take some time (Maybe like a week) and just get a chance to rethink everything. If the bunny is lonely then most deffinately get another one but only when you are ready.
~*Crystal_Lake*~
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My dog is a sweet Fullblooded boxer. The problem is she wont stop bitting my feet and when I walk she pulls on my pants.She is about 7 mounths, WHAT SHOULD I DO (link)
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It is just a puppy thing, dont worry about it just ignore it for now. It doesn't mean anything really. Just that it wants to play.
~*Crystal_Lake*~
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I bought a house back in Oct. 2004. When we were moving in, we noticed that there were still things from the previous owners. They said that they had a few things to take out of the house at closing. They also had said that there was a large pile of brush and other trash items in the back yard that were going to be picked up later that day. This did not happen. They are now telling us that they don't have to clean it up and that it is our responsibility. The problem is that in our area we have to pay for someone to come and pick up that stuff, or pay to drop it off at the landfill.
Whose responsibility is it? Thanks! (link)
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I am not taking sides but it should be their responsibility to clean up when they move out. But since they are refusing to do it then your family should just pay for it and get it over with.
~*Crystal_Lake*~
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Some people say that if you put toothpaste on a pimple overnight than it will go away. Does anyone know if this is true? Has anyone tried it? (link)
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I know it works on bug bites, and that works and my friend told me that if you put it on pimples it will reduce the size and redness, so i would try it before you go to bed and wash it off in the morning. Good Luck...
~*Crystal_Lake*~
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i need suggestions for the use of self tanner. like, my face and neck, should i do those? i mean... if i dont it will l;ook weird and if i screw up it will look weird, u know? my mom got me this spray gun thing i dono how to use it! o man, i need help right now! please. : ) (link)
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If you are going to use a self-tanner always do your face and neck because if you dont then your body will be a differnt color than your face. Do your legs first to see how it looks because u can always wear pants. If you dont like it then dont to anything but your legs. The spray guns sounds like it will work.
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I want to know why your user name is Crystal_Lake. Is it because you go to or went ot Crystal Lake Middle? I am just curious. (link)
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Yeah i used to...but not anymore....if you have any questions just ask me!
~*Crystal_Lake*~
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My friend that i have known for a long time has just revealed to me that he is gay. I love him to death. What should i do ?? (link)
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Accept him for who he is, i mean he was your friend before you found out and it should be no different after you find out. Tell him you understand and still be friends.
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I broke up with my girlfriend last summer and i cant let go of her. I dont know what to do but I love her and i dont know what to do. HELP! (link)
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Dont worry ask her how she feels and if in the end things dont work out then try setting your mind to something else. if you truly love her then tell her that. But if you love her then y did u brake up with her?
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Well- My boyfriend and I have been dating a few weeks now, and i was needing some help. he was talking about this the other week- he wants to make out.. i'm 14 f. What should I do? He would be my first one? what if I mess up? does anyone know and techiques to help the guy get into it? what do i do to make him know i'm into it.. i'm scared.. ugh please help.
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The first kiss jitters are usually expected, dont worry everyone is nervous and unsure. On my first kiss i felt the same way, but dont worry you will relax. Your at the right time in your relationship that you can kiss, and be comfortable. There is no way to mess up in a kiss unless you miss him mouth, which is most unlikely to happen so dont worry. Some tips on kissing are...dont wear lip gloss, bc it may cause a slipage, keep your eyes closed bc it can be distracting staring at someones cheek. Let him make the first move and if it is a solid relationship then he should know if your ready. Dont be scared, it is a great thing to go throw and it is alot of fun ;) LOL! But anyways there is nothing to fear about kissing it is just a normal thing. Hope it all works out....
~*Crystal_Lake*~
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I want to kiss my boyfriend but I'm really nervous so I want to start with a kiss on the cheek. What are somes tips? Like as far a lipgloss and such. And, What should I do? I know it's sounds stupid, but, I don't know how! What about afterwards? What if we both get embarassed?Please help in any way! No stupid or rude remarks please! I really need help.
*-That's Rachel-* (link)
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hey, i know what your going through..okay well first off some normal tips are keep your eyes closed, it can be distracting staring at someones cheek. Dotn wear lipgloss because it makes a slight slipage, but not too bad so it doesn't really matter. If you both get embarassed then you just need to relax and enjoy whats going on...Afterwards just kinda look him in the eyes and let him speak first. Wait for him to make the first move and dont rush anything. If you feel you need to kiss him on the cheek to start off and be comfortable...then do so. Just relax and have fun! Hope i helped.
~~*Crystal_Lake*~~
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