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i play soccer and want to try for extreme legue but like i dont know If I am Goood enough for It or not Plz help aBBz
hey, don't sell yourself short. If you doubt your own abilities then you'll never make the team. Keep practising and believe in yourself. If you have confidence then your more than likely to make the team, but if not there's always next year.
One of my friends said that her parents thought people who attempted suicide or thought about killing them selves were crazy- and i said that i thought that to, and then my friend said that when people have depression they cant help it so they just kill them selves..i didnt believe it..but is it true that you cannot control ur self when ur depressed? i mean isnt there something u can do about it --HelP * i RaTe hIgH
Well I've never been depressed but I would think that people would have to have some control over what they do to themselves. Not every person that is depressed slits their wrists or commits suicide. Just the ones that want a way to escape the pain their suffering will do that. There are things that can help though, such as medication, psychiatrists, support groups, counseling, etc.
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i meet this bout a week ago and he came over to my house on Saterday and meet my parents...and he asked me out when he came over...the best thing is that he was the 1st guy to come to my house meet my paretns and ask me out in person...so i was pretty happy bout that...well i really really like him alot...i maen i know its not to the point of love...but he says that he mite love my but it's to soon to tell..n i think the same thing...but we never get to see each other cuz we go to diff skools we...but we both see each other almost every weekend...would say its going to be a good realtionship...??
I think you'll do just fine. He seems really sweet. Not many guys will actually come over, meet your parents and then ask you out. You don't need to see eachother everyday to have a strong relationship. During the week there's always the phone or the internet so it's not like your cut off from all contact with him. And then that just gives you something else to look forward to on the weekends!
i feel like i'm going into depression! my life seems like its getting worse everydaY!! i will NEVER cut tho! just the thought makes me feel ick! but i dont no wut to do! i lost my b/f recently and i dont no.. i feel like nothing good is happening! what should i do?
I'm sorry about your boyfriend. Things like that are never easy to go through. I'm glad you won’t lower yourself to cutting just to relieve the pain. Props to you for that. While life may seem tough now, it will get better. Just because you're in a slump now doesn't mean it will stay that way. Your attitude determines how you perceive things. If you're always negative then things will most likely turn out bad. Try hanging out with good friends, the ones you know you can trust. Surround yourself with people who treat you well and you’ll see things will start to look up. Try to keep yourself busy and don’t sit around at home and mope about how bad your life is. Life is what you make of it. & if you truly feel that you are suffering from depression then tell someone. Get the help you need. Good luck. I’m sure things will start to look up for you.
what should you do when you are feeling pressured into sex when your not readi?
Stand your ground. You should never do something your not ready for. I'm guessing your partner is the one doing the pressuring? If they can't understand that your not ready they obviously don't respect you. Maybe you should re-think your whole relationship and decide whether or not they're really good for you.
my mom's boyfriend slept over the other night and one morning i woke up early to my mom closing my door and then a few minutes later i heard her moaning continuesly. it was so nasty and i knew i couldnt move or else she would know that i heard everything, so i had to sit there and listen. it's so disgusting but i dont know if i should tell her what i heard or just keep it a secret? i have no idea what would be best and what would make me feel better. what should i do?
I know you probably felt extremely awkward about the whole situation, but I think telling your mom what you heard would just manke her feel embarressed. Just try to remember that sex is a fact of life and basically everyone experiences' it. Without it, you would not have been born.
How do u put a link on ur pro to ur advice column?
depends what kind of profile you have, but if html code is permitted then you can use this: < a href="Url Of Your Advice Column Here">My Advice Column < /a > Just copy and paste that into your profile replacing the "Url Of Your Advice Column Here" With the actual url of you advice column and take out the spaces. If you still need help, let me know.
Hey yall! Peroxide doesn't help make your black arm hair turn blonde I tried it over and over again and it doesn't work...what else do yall think will work, anything around the house? if not what can I go buy, where can I get it, how much does it cost, and in what cities do they have it in??? Plz and thx I appreciate yalls help! And I will rate yall! l8er!
I asked my friend about this one for you and she said she uses: One Touch Cream Hair Bleach. She said she bought it at a tanning salon but she's seen it at her local grocery store in the hygiene section. It only costs around 7 dollars and only takes a few minutes to work. Hope this helps. good luck!
Is your hair naturally straight? or do you straighten it? Is that it's natural color? Cuz I really like it!
It's basically straight. When I wake up in the morning it's sometimes a little wavy so I usually just run a straightening iron over it. And sadly no, thats not my natural color. I am naturally a blonde but I've dyed it a lot lighter.
im 14 and went out w| this guy during the school year and i still cant get over him. even when i liked other guys and went out w| them, and just recently i thouight i was over him but every time i see him i like him again,and since hes like my best friend i see him alomost everyday, do you have any advice to help me get over him?
since you've remained friends with him it's going to be hard to forget about him. Try hanging around other friends, or meet new people (a new future boyfriend perhaps?). Just don't completely ditch him. Keep yourself busy but just remember that it's ok to still be hung up on this guy. You'll probably never completely get over him but eventually it'll all work out.
are carrots good 4 u
carrots are the shit! lol, j/k i hate carrots. but yeah, they're good for you.
Anyone know where I can sign up for good and free webpages?
There's a bunch out there. Geocities.com is one I use the most. It's very simple, free, and I have a code that blocks the stupid adds. there's others like bravenet.com, tripod, etc. just look around. If you need any help, let me know
i have seen my friends boyfriend with other girls kissing on them and i told my friend right away but she doesnt believe me, she said that i am jealous ... also she is supposed to have sex with him and i dont want her getting hurt .. is there anyway i could get her to believe me?
Hmm these situations are always tough. You've been put in an awkward position but I think you did the right thing, especially if she is planning on having sex with him. I say confront her again and tell her that it has nothin to do with you being jealous, you just don't want to see her get hurt. Has anyone else seen him kissing other girls? because people tend to believe things if more than 1 person tells them so. If she still wont believe you well, then, I don't know what to do. If she ends up getting hurt then atleast you know you tried to help her.
Ok i have a really important question. i really want to have sex but i am not sure when girls can get pregnate. i have already have my period but is it after u get it wheil u have it or what?? plz help me
ok, this is something we learn in highschool. So if you don't know this then your most likely too young to have sex anyway. but to answer your question: Ovulation occurs around the middle of a woman's cycle. If you have a 28-day cycle, for example, then you'll usually ovulate on the 14th day, counting the first day of your period as the first day of your cycle. If your period lasts seven or eight days, by the time you finish menstruating you're only five or six days away from ovulating. When you ovulate you can get pregnant. And just to note: sperm can live inside of you for 2 or 3 days so It's possible to get pregnant after your period. The best thing to is just use a condom and maybe consider getting the pill if you're going to continue to be sexually active.
SORRY THIS IS LONG BUT I REALLY NEED HELP Me and my boyfriend broke up on the first on August at night of course I cried I liked him but I was over him the next day I wasnt like in love with him Its just that I have a lot of time on my hand and have nothing to do I have to watch my little brother from the morning till 4 b/c my parents are at work then the rest of the day I dont do anything I just stay home for some reason and when I hang out with my bff she always acts like shes soo wonderful and perfect gets annyoing you know Im just wondering how can I like not think of him and just get over him and not feel bad that I dont have a bf and keep myself busy throghout the whole day? I mean this is really bugging me I dont wanna feel like I have a bad life I dont I just need some things to do to like keep me busy and not feel bad that I dont have a bf so please please please someone help me I mean really really help me thank you soo much and if you want me to rate then Ill rate if that will get me some answers thank you neone...sorry it was long but I really want to feel better and some ideas better then watch tv or get online please help me. ThankS
There are tons of things to help keep you busy during the day. You just gotta get creative. When my last boyfriend broke up with me I baked . . . a lot. lol I do that a lot when I'm upset. Just an idea. Since you have to watch your brother why don't you spend some time with him? I'm not sure how old he is but you could take him to the park or to a movie maybe. Shopping is also a good stress reliever, if you like shopping anyway. Maybe join a summer sports team or something. And if you're getting annoyed with your current bestfriend you could use this as an opportunity to meet new people and maybe a future boyfriend? =P Hope I helped. Good Luck!