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Ciao sono Jenn. This is my advice column. I'm always here to talk, and listen. Feel free to give a shout, and I'll try my best to help you. Always here to lend an ear. Always here to share a thought.
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okayyy well i haven't had sex since about november sometime towards to end.
i was suppose to start my period december 17th but i didn't! i took 2 pregnancy tests and they both said not pregnant...
i still haven't had my period at allll.
what is wrong with me?????
If I were you, I would wait another week - and take another test. Then the week after that - take a test.
I know it's a lot of tests, but if you want to be thorough I suggest that.
If in two weeks you haven't started your period, I would go to the doctor, or a local planned parenthood and try and figure out what the deal is.
I'm going to an open call for modeling in a major magazing.
Any tips or advice?
- Wear little makeup
+ you're the canvas. they don't want someone who is superficial, if they want to dress you up with a lot of makeup, they will.
- Wear basics
+ something that has too much detail will take away from your face, and your figure.
- Wear colors that don't wash you out
- Wear something that compliments your shape.
You don't have to take all my advice, remember these are just suggestions. I wish you the best of luck for you audition!
On Monday my teacher warned my Eight Grade class that we are going to have a classroom spelling. Whoever passes it will go to the School Spelling Bee, which i am very excitd about, because i am a GREAT speller. Although I don't know what the words are going to be, I am very anxious, curious, and scared that I don't know how to spell a word because I never heard or seen it before.
Any tips on how I canbe good at Spelling Bees?
And also do you guys know where I can find the words that are frequently used in Spelling Bees? Either class spelling bees or school, or BOTH :)
I could really use your heklp for my advantage/benefits. I would gladly appreciate if you take your time to give me some advice and help me out so I will feel good & confident when it is my turn to spell, rather than freaking out.
Conclusion:
I REALLY WANT TO GET TO THE TOP AND WIN THE SCHOOL SPELLING BEE SINCE I DIDN'T WIN THE GEOGRAPHY BEE. I KNOW I NEED TO STUDY THE WORDS EACH DAY AND NOT CRAM ALL THE WORDS IN MY HEAD 3 DAYS BEFORE THE COMPETITION. BUT DO YOU GUYS KNOW ANY WAY HOW TO HELP ME OUT WITH WORDS? ANY TRICKS AND TIPS?
More:
Do you guys know any hard words that you think I can spell?
If there's more to say, please add more information and go beyond the advice, meaning, give a really helpful advice to me.
14/female/8th grade :),
Future spelling Bee QUEEN :)
I'm glad to see someone else enthused about spelling! I won my schools spelling bee in 7th grade, and went on to regionals - and spelling my word wrong due to nerves, but the experience was such a thrill and I wouldn't trade it for anything! Here's some tips and strategies I used when studying for the bee, I hope they help!
STRATEGIES FOR SPELLING:
Think about the word, and where you've seen it before. Close your eyes are try to invision the world. If you need to - you can spell the word with the finger. I suggest these two things because these were things that helped me win my schools spelling bee.
STUDYING STRATEGIES:
+ Studying language of origins
- each language of origin has different tricks, and if you know these it'll be easier for you to spell the world
+ try reading some news articles, and you'll be suprised to find interesting words.
- if you see a word you don't know, circle it, look it up on dictionary.com, and from that you'll know it's context
+ whenever a teacher says a word you haven't heard before write down how you think it's spelled, and ask the teacher afterwards how infact you do spell it.
+ grab a friend, and have them pick random words out of the dictionary and let them quiz you
All those things are little, but they definitely add up! I used those, and from experience I can say they helped me.
Remember to have fun with this, and I wish you the best! (:
P.S. You know anything is possible! My friend won 3rd in the Scripps National Bee a few years back as well! SO you can do it if you put your mind to it!
Basically, I'm asking what I can do to get in shape. I usually get really bored with just running around the neighborhood, so any other suggestions? Are there any specific excercises I can do too? Also, I want to bulid muscle in my arms, so any suggestions? I know to lift weights and stuff, but any specific excercises again? I also really want to get a really nice stomach (a six pack would be nice!) any suggestions for that?
Two claps for lacrosse! I've played boys lacrosse, and now I manage the boys team.. but back when I played - I remember always trying to stay in shape!
There are certain little things you can do that will eventually add up.
For my abs, whenever I remembered I'd just sit up (posture is important, and will help) and try and flex my stomach for a few seconds. Doing this a few times throughout the day will make you sore, and will make a difference.
As for arms, lift things in your house and do arm curls. Do it to a favorite song, or while you're on the phone or something. Working out to music that you love almost takes your mind off of the pain, and helps you focus on the words. Sing it or lip sync it if that helps you, but the music essentially makes working out fun.
Or whenever I remembered, I would try and jog to certain places instead of walking.
Working out isn't always the most fun thing to do, but you have to find funny little things to keep you going. And whenever your working out, try to always have the positive mentality of "I can do one more, I can keep going, it's all in my head". Of course you don't want to injure yourself, but always try and do a little more than you did before.
And if you decide to lift weights in a gym, remember you should only do that three times a week, because doing it everyday will strain your muscles. But you should try and do cardio as much as you can, atleast thirty minutes a day. Even if it means fast-paced walking.
I also used to do crunches and pushups every night. 5 pushups the first night, 6 pushups the second night, and so on. Your goal is to improve your shape.
I'm just going off of what I did during past lacrosse seasons, sorry if this isn't what you were looking for. But here's just some of my advice. Best of luck to getting in shape, and best of luck on the season!
Ok , i want to know why so i can stop it .
My hands are always clothes but my body is warm, its just my hands ?
It's natural, and it has to do with circulation. There are certain things you can do to help you gain better circulation. There are many ways, but if you're curious just visit http://health.msn.com/, or google it possibly?
I hoped I helped a bit!
15/f and he's 17/m
So i run indoor track with him. And he's like always flirting with two other girls besides me. And i think he thinks i like him..but NO he needs to think again.,,So i need some tips on how I can lead him on..ya know ..try and give him a taste of his own medicine...
Leading him on, will only let you stoop down to his level. And that level being low only if that flirting with the other girls was intentional. It's almost better to just pretend as if you don't care, because I can tell you right now guys don't get jealous as easily as you think. If you move on, and avoid revenge.. who knows maybe he'll come crawling back to you for attention. Or maybe it wasn't intentional to lead you on. Maybe I'm wrong, I'm just going off myself and others' experience.
I hope I helped somewhat. And good luck with the situation.
http://www.xanga.com/home.aspx?user=grrrr_aphics
it's her song.
i know cascada has done this song.
who is the one singing it on her page though?
It sounds a little like Metro Station, thought I'm almost for sure it's not.
You might want to try googling the (Title Here) Lyrics, and see what shows up other than Cascada.
I hope I was of some help! Good luck on your search!
i have sprint but i really want a juicy sidekick .. is it possible for sprint to activate locked phones.. and what about the sim card do i need one or not?
thankss
Hey, I have some unfortunate news/advice however.
Putting in a SIM card from a different phone company - WILL MESS THE PHONE UP. My friend wanted a Sidekick, and he decided to buy one off eBay. He bought it off eBay because like you - he's not a T-Mobile customer. He bought the phone, inserted the card - and.. the phone wasn't working right! The layout of the phone was all messed up, and he ended up having to buy a different phone. You can try, but the Sidekicks are problematic if you do not have T-Mobile as your service provider, because that is the only service it was created to work for.
I hope this was of some assistance, and I'm if it doesn't work out, though maybe you'll have some luck and it might! So in conclusion - best of luck with the phone stuff! (:
Alright, so, at my school we have a JV/Varsity cheer squad. JV cheers for girls bball team + Varsity cheers for guys bball team. im on the JV team. the coaches said at the beginning of the season that there was NOT going to be a difference in squads they just needed to split it up for games. but then it all started about a month ago when we found out that only Varsity could go to away games, and i was so upset because i signed up for cheerleading for a reason. but, then my coach took me outside in the hallway to tell me that "oh, your better than half he girls in there" "JV was the last one picked..." which really didnt help what so ever. + then it happened tonight at the game we cheered at, we were going to do 2 wicked awesome cheers + then my captains like "NO, LETS SAVE IT FOR VARSITY" then this girl on Varsity says "OH REJECTION [the name of the cheer] IS FOR VARSITY NOT FOR DUMB JV" which really got me po-ed. i have tried everything to tell my coaches, captains + everyone + they wont do anything to change all the unfairness thats going around, so what should i do? anything would be appreciated! anything i could say to them to maybe make them understand. thanks so much!
xoxox.
CHEER DRAMA! Can I just tell you that I know this all too well. On my squad we've had drama of the sort before. Last year I made the JV Cheer Squad, and it was one of the most drama filled times of my life - but once the season was said and done; I got practice.
I think the practice is the most important part about being on a JV Cheer Squad. The Varsity girls won't let you do the cheer huh? Then just rock every other cheer you do - to show the Varsity that you're still amazing - even if you're on JV. Have fun with it. I had some bad times on JV, I was dropped on my back in a stunt twice, and wasn't caught on a pop cradle, but I just stood back up each time and tried it again. When we weren't allowed to do a cheer because "The Varsity hadn't showed it off yet", I just tried my best to rock every other cheer I had. Instead of just cheer leading, I used every game as a practice tool to get better and earn my spot on Varsity. I even had my friends come to games to critique me. And the seniority card - don't let that get to you either, just be the best cheer leader you can be, and have fun with it! Especially if it's your last season cheering, make it a good one!
Honestly - I know the drama is going to be very frustrating at time, but with cheer leading comes drama. I think that as tough as it is to deal with the Varsity because they think they're all that, just try and have fun with JV and take away the most from it that you can.
I'm telling you this because I'VE EXPERIENCED IT. ALL last season I had to deal with Varsity girls giving me a tough time because they thought they were all that and a bag of chips, but I showed them when I made Varsity this year.
I wish you the best of luck, and I'm always here if you want someone to talk or vent to about cheer.
Again, best of luck (:
hi, im a 15 year old female. i really want a date to homecoming this year. last year i didn't get asked, but i went with my friends (who all had dates), so it was me and 5 couples. It was really akward, but it was still fun. my mom says taht if i don't get a date this year, then i have to go with a group of girl "dateless" friends or not at all (which in my mind, isn't really a choice). here's the problem...ALL of my girl friends already have dates. I don't want to not go, so i guess what im asking is....how do i let guys know that i'm available without looking desperate or "easy", and how do i flirt (i guess i never took the course of flirting 101)
thanks!!♥
Well! Just casually talk to some boys whom you're friends with, or not and just make friends with some. And if they show interest, maybe they'll ask. Just be casual, looking desperate is a major turn off for guys. You could make arrangements to hang out with some boys or something to get to know them better. Who knows, maybe you'll hit it off, and get asked to Homecoming! I wish you the best of luck! I hope I helped! (: Remember boys love confidence!
16/f and my boyfriend is coming home for the weekend friday!
hes been at college and I miss him more then anything!!
I'm one of the lucky girls that have a wonderful, amazing, caring, loving boyfriend.
Since he is coming home friday, we plan on hanging out after the football game(bc i cheer) and I want to do it. haha.
What are some sexy, hot things I can do to make him like whoa! And want me really bad?(haha) Thanks!!!
Well I'm sure he already loves you enough to date you while he's away at college, because that's a very hard thing to do. If you want to do something sexy, you could "model off" some sexy lingerie or something - guys love that. Or for something sweet make him dinner, or go to the beach on a walk. I don't really know you or the guy well enough to fully address the situation. But I'm sure you can think of something. I really hoped I helped at least some bit! Good Luck, have fun, and be safe! :)
What's EXACTLY dry humping and why does it feel good? Can it give you or your boyfriend an orgasm?
Thanks :) xo
Dry humping is when you rub up against another person in a sexual manner with your clothes on. Often in all sorts of sexual positions. It is possible for your boyfriend, and yourself to have an orgasm. Some find it stimulating, others don't. If you really want to find out, you would have to for yourself, everyone reacts differently to different things.
okay
so there's this guy and i don't know who he is or any thing
but everytime there's a program i see him
he's always looking at me and smilling and following me kinda
i know he's intrested but he won't come and talk...how can i get him to come over and talk with out me doing it first??
and if i have to do it first i don't wanna say anything like "i saw you noticing me"
You should definitely approach him. If you do approach him however, do it with confidence. Guys love it when girls have enough confidence to do so. You could honestly make it as simple as to introducing yourself, and asking his name. I'm sure a flash of the smile "Hey I'm ____, and you are?" would be sufficient. Then possibly a move onto asking him what or why he's there, and if the conversation progresses you could ask him if he was checking you out. If this seems too forward, maybe you could try just flashing a smile, and giving a simple wave. I wish you the best of luck, I hope you reel him in! :) Hope I could help!
16/f. a friend of mine just died. and another friend, david, isnt really showing any emotion. and i know its affecting him cause he was like best friends with the kid that died. i told david that im here for him and such, but im worried. i know its not healthy to keep everything in. he'll talk to me when its just me and him. no body else around. and that doesnt happen too often. maybe its just a guy thing. idk. but im worried. and idk what to say or do.
Everyone deals with tragedies in different ways. I think its nice that you have volunteered, but when and if he is ready and some point he'll tell you. A lot of people hold it in for a while, until they are really ready to talk. I know as a person, I keep things to myself. I think you should just give him some time, maybe he'll talk. Just be there for him like you are. I hope I helped.
what are those counselor people called? the ones that help you decide college stuff. i need one since my school counselors are inept. not kidding.
They're traditionally called Guidance Counselors. Hope I could help!
okay...i'm 13, and just lost my virginaty yesterday. actually, i'm not sure if i did or didn't. i was raped by my next door neighbor who is 16, and has a gf. also, my bf came to find me, and caught me being raped, but he thought that we were actually having sex. now he's mad and won't talk to me because i won't have sex with him. i really need help talking to him and everything. and should i tell my parents? or not? help!!!
First of all, you should tell your parents. Then,
you can tell you're boyfriend later. I know it will be hard, but you need to tell your parents! Good luck, and best of wishes!
I usually only wear 2 piece swim suits but I need a one piece for this party I'm going to. It's a girls only night before we graduate and the girl throwing the party wants everyone to wear a one piece.
Anyways, on to my question. With my bikinis and stuff, I wear an XS or a S in the bottoms depending on the brand/store (I'm a size 1 pants). And for my tops I need a M (I'm a C cup). I was wondering how one pieces work when it comes to girls wearing a different size for the top and bottom?
Well, the only thing you need to know
is your measurements! Use a measuring tape
if you don't already know, and measure
your bust, your waist, and your hips
in inches, and record what the all are.
Then you can go to websites with cute
bathingsuits like [Delias.com or Alloy.com]
and they generally have cute one piece
bathing suits! To check you size click
their size chart, and see which size
is closest to your measurements!
Well have fun at the party!
And good luck finding a suit!
I hope I helped!
This question may be stupid, but I'm honestly wondering - why like everyone but ME is getting a boyfriend.
I'm a girl, and i'm 15.
I just dont get why all my friend have boyfriends, and I dont? Is there something wrong wiht me? I've been told numerous times, that my time will come, but geez, i dont want to be like really old!! I want one soon, not because I just want a boyfriend to say "oh i havea bf" but because I really want to love someone & be loved in return, as corny as that sounds.
Ahhh is this normal though? To feel like this, is there anything I can do to get a boyfriend, like anything boys like in particular..?
Well, you should start talking to boys!
Start flirting, and communicating.
A boy isn't just going to come to you
if you don't do anything, you have to make
the inniciative to make friends! Maybe
some of those friends will evolve to
being a boyfriend! You never know!
Well good luck, and if you have anymore
questions, just ask! :]
I am a teenage girl. I get really horny and enjoy it when I see girls boobs. I'm not sure if this is unusual or not. I also get horny when I see guys to. I would never act in messing around with a girl. But I would and I have messed around with guys and I enjoy it. Guys give me pleasure, its just I also get pleasure from looking at girls. So do you think I am a lesbians or something?
Please help!!!
No hun, that doesn't make you lesbian.
It also doesn't necessarily make you bisexual.
Tons of girls find both seeing girls and guys sexually pleasureful, but not necessarily are they intimately attracted to both sexes.
You might just be bi-curious. This means that you are curious about being intimately and/or sexually involved with both genders.
I think if you are still curious and would like to find the most accurate answer, you should try and see which you're most comfortable with. But also hormones might slightly affect this, I've known people who are like that, and grow out of it, but that doesn't always happen. By the way you described it, you just sound bi-curious.
If you have anymore questions, you can just ask!
15/F
So this year, I got to know this guy really good, and in the beginning of the year he was dating a girl. Then eventually they broke up, but I find myself having a crush on him.
I dont know if he likes me though,
I mean honestly the only way to know is to ask, but I'm scared of being rejected.
Asking is easier said than done duh.
But I think he possibly could like me because one day he randomly hugged me and was like, aghhh i missed you!! And I just thought, awwwh thats so cute. And he always says hi to me now in the hallways, and I dont know, he probably doesnt, but I'm just wondering.
Well,
I think you should ask. Because like you said [it is easier said than done] but you could never know, and you could go the rest of your life not knowing. I think you should ask.
Who knows, he might even have strong feelings for you, you just never know!
The exact same thing happened to me a while ago, and I thought the boy didn't like me, so I asked, he did!
My conclusion, is that you should definetly try! By the way it sounds, he probably has feelings for you!
Good Luck! :]