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E-mail: poohluvr904@aol.com
Gender: Female
Location: Glen Cove, New York
Occupation: Student
Age: 14
AIM: ButterflyKizzxx3
Member Since: July 26, 2004
Answers: 164
Last Update: August 10, 2004
Visitors: 7841
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Me and My guy friend make out alot and its getting boring..Is there anything we can do to spice it up..Can you give details on how to do things too! I rate good! (link)
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You guys can go up and down things lol. He can go up your shirt where he feels your boobs and stuff and he'll like it. And you can go down his pants and give him a hand-job. If you need more details just ask me! Hope I helped!
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okie well i go to this camp n im 13 the oldest kid there n there is a camp consler who is 18 he is going off to colledge n befor camp ended i always talked to him n we got to no each other relly well n well he is soo awesome at camp he use to pick me up n like beat up on me not like rele mean he would just put me on the ground n sit on me n stuff like that n i rele like him n yea thats kinda a big age gap i tell himi love him like luv ya kinda stuff but is it grosse that i like him??? or is it oki
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No. It's perfectly fine. If he's hot I understand completley! If he flirted with you then why wouldn't you like him? Hope I helped!
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I've always been one of those people who got along with almost everyone. LAst year there was a girl that really didn't like me and I didn't know why. I still don't. Everyone thought she felt threatened by me, they said I had more friends or I was more punk, i dunno anyway. She's been starting rumors about me like I'm a satan worshipper???? Weird huh? What do you think I should do about her or say to her? (link)
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Ask her why she doesn't like you, and why she would make dumb rumors up about you like that. She actually might have a crush on you. Girls sometimes don't know how to express their feelings and maybe that's her way. Ask around. You'll find out. Hope I helped!
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Okay, I have a problem with sweaty armpits. I'm sorry if this seems gross, but it's becoming a big issue. I always have to wear black shirts to hide it, but school is starting on Monday, and we have a uniform (a baby blue t-shirt) I don't want to wear a jacket, because I'll get really overheated! I even tried switching to men's deodorant and nothing changes! I'm really embarrassed about this... I don't know what else to do! Someone, please help me! Thanks sooo much, in advance!! (link)
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There's nothing you can do about it. You just sweat a lot it's perfectly normal. Just try not to over-heat your self and make yourself hot. Soon it'll be colder and you won't sweat. If not you could bring the extra t-shirt and switch it when you start to sweat. Hope I helped!
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hello fro, me and this girl were like best friends and spent every weekend at eachothers house for a long time and then she started hanging out with like one or two other girls and would ignore me all the time in class and then it got to the point where she would cancel our plans for theirs and it made me upset but when I'd talk to her at times the other girls were not around she was different. it seems like she thinks that they are better than me or something but she ignores me as well as other people as if they don't like me but they donnot act like they donnot. i just wish we could be like friends again, which she barely acts like we are. IS she another person now? or is it me? (link)
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It's probably her. Since she's hanging around with different people she's gonna act different ecspecially if she wants them to like her. Ask her to hang out a lot or go somewhere and tell her what your feeling. Just don't tell her she's acting different, tell her you haven't hung out in awhile and it would be nice. She'll get the hint. Good Luck!
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ok.i got this new courdoroy tan/white skirt..what kind of shoes would be best to wear with it? Im not the best walker in heals lol. Would plain white sneakers be good? What kinda "fancier" shoes would be best?
Also..i have split ends...but i like my long hair..does layering it sound like a good idea? (link)
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Plain white sneakers would look perfectly fine. Or you can get those little heals in a beige or white color. And layering your hair sounds like a great idea! Good Luck!
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I'm not fat but I have some fatty areas, like my stomach and thighs. I always tell myself I'm going to start excercising soon but I never do. How can I motivate myself to stop being lazy and start being healthy? Any tips on what gets you going to the gym? Thanks! (link)
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Well you need motivation to go to the gym. Hang up posters of like skinny girls that you wanna look like and that will get you to go. Hope I helped!
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hey can anyone help me? i just gave myself an abortion yesterday with a close hanger and im really sore. can anyone help? like medicine wise, or will sex help the pain? (link)
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Wow, you know how to give an abortion? With a clothes hanger? I wouldn't reccomend that. Sex won't help the pain. Take pamprin if your having cramps or Midol or Advil. Those help. Good Luck!
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Ok well i been wid mybf for over 9 months and i have been thinkin bout"IT" lol well i wanted to wait till i was like 16 but i dont think im gunna b able to wait that long cuz im 13 now turnin 14 next month but i feel im conforablen stuff n im almost definately positive my bf iz!! lol so my questions iz do u think i should or do u think im to young?!?!?!?! plz help!! thanx
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I honestly think your way too young. Wait awhile, maybe 15 or 16 if you can't wait until marriage lol. You don't know what "might" happen if something goes wrong. Hope I helped!
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how far should you go with a guy at age 13...and don't say "however far you wanna go"--thanks (link)
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Well, I wouldn't recommend going all the way at this age. I would go as far as you wanna go even though you don't wanna hear that. The farthest my friends have gone is giving a blow-job/hand-job and going up shirts and down pants lol. Hope I helped!
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well im 13 and my boyfriends 16 going on 17 and his aunt that lives upstairs from came down and tolled me that he had a girlfriend and his juss playing with me.. and then earlier i let him go up my shirt because i trusted him ALOT and everything so when i found out i was a surprise because he tolled he dint have a girlfriend but his not the kind of person that would seem to bee doing sumtting like that because his really nice and den just about everywun sayed he had another girl friend and everything and i really wanna hear it from him and crap because i really really like him and shyt so i dunno what to really do.. to belive everywun else or wait till he comes next week to see me and ask him and i juss dont no anymore if im going to dumo him or not because everywun wants him and shyt and i have him AND I guess some other bitch does too..
what should i doo
p.s he comes every week to see me bacuse his in job tec. and its very very far so he stays thier overnite.. till friday and his like in highschool he sould be a senior but he satyed back 2 times (link)
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Well ask him about his supposed girlfriend. If he denies if completley tell him how many people told you and include his aunt. He's older than you so you don't know what he's doing when your not around. Good Luck!
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I like this guy a lot and like..i tried to tell him but words just didnt come out..me and him are great freinds and somehow we flirt like crazy! I really want to be with him but I dont know how to tell him or even if I should tell him..any help?
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Well if he flirts with you, that's a signal. Tell him you like him, take a chance. If it didn't come out in words then just go on the computer IM/E-mail him, or have a friend tell him. He'll figure it out somehow. Good Luck!
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There's this guy Anthony that I went out with this past January. Our whole relationship was kind of stupid and didn't last that long. He's 18 and graduated this year with my boyfriend. (they hate each other) My boyfriend went on a trip for a little while and since he's gone I figured I would spend some time with old friends. I just happened to start talking with Anthony again and we started hanging out. We talked everything over before we hung out and he knows my relationship situation and seemed to show respect for it. When I hung out with him last night though, we were just joking around and stuff. We watched a movie and we were laying on his bed. (No problems there) But soon after he started caressing my legs and stomach, and I got totally pissed. He said he respected that I was in a serious relationship with my boyfriend. What the hell is his problem? I need a way to tell him that that's not cool and to back the hell off in a nicer way then I probably would. I want us to still be cool, but for him to know that that's not exceptable. (link)
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Well, when he does that again. Take his hands off of you and be like " What did I tell you?" or something like that. Even if he does get mad it doesn't matter because you guys talked it over. If you don't wanna do that you can keep constantly talking about your boyfriend so he doesn't forget. Hope I helped!
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Alrighty... My boyfriend and I have been together for 2 years now. And we have a wonderful relationship. A wonderful, sex free relationship. Just because I want to wait until I'm married. And I'm pretty stuck on it. But since we're going to be sophmores in high school. Everyone gives him shit about it. When people give me shit I'm just like ahhh lol whatever... I dont care. But see, He doesn't tell me all the time that people give him shit about being a virgin. This all came up when one of my guy friends was all like "dude, you've been in a relationship for 2 years and you're still a virgin? You are wooped... blah blah blah" And he tells me not to worry about it... But I kinda wonder how he's feeling and if there's anyway I could do something about it. I mean yes, we are sexual... But I don't plan on having sex any time soon... Thanks for your time :) (link)
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Well ask him about it. Guys get pressured like that a lot more. Because they wanna be the "big" guy in the school and stuff. But it sounds like your boyfriend is commited to you and won't take crap from anyone. Ask him if he wants to talk about it. Hope I helped!
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Ok i am 5'9" tall got brown hair and brown eyes and i aint fat but i aint like realli skinny. anyways i am 13 yrs old (almost 14) and i get alot of attention from guys when i am in a confident mood. but even when i look realli cute sometimes but i am not confident it seems like they dont pay attention to me. Do guys like when girls are confident in themselfs? Are guys more attracted to girls when they are confident? PLEASE HELP! (link)
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Yes they're much more confident. Think about it, if your not confident you like like an idiot who just doesn't care and they don't like that. Trust me I have a twin brother and he always goes out with girls that have confidence. Hope I helped!
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well i like this guy alot. he's real close 2 me and we have been best friends for a year now. i gave him some clues about who i like and i dont think he has any idea that its him. i think he likes me 2 cuz he said he liked someone 2. and when he gave me some clues it sounded like me. but how do i tell him i like him w/o gettin hurt. i dont want 2 ruin my friendship with him. please help me. I WILL RATE IF GOOD ADVICE!! thanks (link)
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Tell him you like him, go for it. And if he ends up liking you which it sounds like he does, tell him before anything that if/when anything happens between you too your gonna be friends at the end of it. He'll probably agree with you. Good Luck!
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Ok, I'm sorry, I really don't need advice but...
Is it just me, or is every1 else sick of these kids in their early teens talking about having sex?
It is fully YOUR decision about whether or not u are ready 4 sex but if u r having any doubts about it that u prolly aren't ready. Even better, u should prolly wait until ur older (or even married) cuz then u know that u truely love the person cuz u shouldn't b doing anything that u might regret.
Ok... I think that about does it w/ my tyraid... (link)
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Well, I kind of agree with you that kids should wait until marriage and stuff. But some kids want to lets say "experiment" it's they're choice for whatever they want to do. But I agree with you, I'm probably going to wait until marriage. Thanks
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this guy i have liked for a while is now one of my close guy friends.. he is not interested in a girlfriend but talks about how he is attracted to me and wants to be more than just regular friends. he wants us to take it a step further and kiss sometimes... from experience is it a bad idea? were not friends with benefits but he just doesnt like commitement i know he wouldnt do anything with someone else please help me!! (link)
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Go for it. If you like him and he likes you and all your gonna do is kiss. There's really nothing wrong with that. It's perfectly harmless. If your gonna do something then kiss that's fine as long as you want to do it and he's not forcing you. Hope I helped!
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what does pop your cherry mean i rate lol (link)
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It's when your hymen has broken and you've lost your virginity or have done something sexually active. Hope I Helped!
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what do u put in potatoe salad and how do u make it? (link)
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In my mom's potato salad she puts mayonaise, noodles, lettuce, tomatoes and pepper. It's pretty good. Hope I helped!
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