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into letting me get dog?
You have to let her know that you're serious about it. You should try to show a sense of responsibilty. No whining! Maybe you should even offer to pay for a portion of the dog. Make sure to talk to her when she's in a good mood.
I am goin out with this kid and my friend likes him too I think I should tell her that I am goin out with him or should I not But we tell each other like every thing
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I think that you should tell her..I mean just think what could happen if she finds out and you didn't tell her..
But make sure you don't hurt her feelings. Also make sure she's in a calm mood. If she's really your friend she will understand.
13/f
ok my friend and I are going to babysit together. What would be a good price to have parents pay for our babysitting? there is 2 of us and we both need money. but also we cant charge too too much cuz then we wont get any bizness. also, is there anything else about babysitting i should know?
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You might want to keep in mind that some customers don't like 2 people watching their kids at the same time..Think about it from the parent's view..2 teenage kids alone in a house that are supposed to be watching your kids.
But I think that a fair price for one person with one kid would be around $2.50-$3.00 an hour. Good luck
ok im 13 years old and a girl and my sister just got me this baby-sitting job. Its for a 8 or 9 year old i dont know if its a boy or girl though she hasnt told me. But i was wondering what i could do to keep them entertained and busy for a the few hours that i'm with them. I mena i really need the money and i dont want to screw this up and end up gettin the job takin anyway. so please help me thanx everyone.
You should basically do whatever the kids want to do (within reason). Some things that the kids might like are coloring, playing outside, watching movies(this is a good idea because it takes up alot of time), and playing board games. I hope I helped.
My guy friend I like doesn't seem to believe the fact that I like him, and I don't know what to do. How should I tell him I like him, but not in a crazy way?
I would suggest getting one of your close friends to tell him. Make sure it's a friend that you can trust. Maybe this way this guy might start to see that you truely do like him.
Okay well this is a bit of a weird question but ah well.
I can't smile! My normal expression makes me look unhappy, even when I'm not. People always think I'm giving them a dirty look and when I try and smile at them it looks forced and bitchy. I can smile when it comes naturally but if someone asks me to, I can't. It's starting to become a real problem as everyone thinks I'm being unfriendly when I can't help it.
How can I learn to smile?
Stand in front of the mirror and practice and it should start to come naturally to you.
I am a young lady that is popular, with books and everything. I want to stand out even more, I want to run track. First is track for everone, and second what do I have to do to prepare for the tryouts in January?
You absolutely have to build up your stamina. Anyone who puts their mind to it can be a good track member! I would suggest starting to run in your neighborhood or wherever you can. When the tryouts come then you'll really know what you need to work on..but just conditioning yourself should be good for now.
hey i have really long hair and i wanna highlight it or lowlight it before school starts im in highschool...what colors should i do and should it be chunky or non?
Well it kind of depends on your hair color. If you decide to go chunky throw some skinnier ones in there too so it balances out and doesnt look weird. These are the colors I would recommend..
Brown hair: Dark Blonde
Blonde hair: Dark Blonde
Red hair: Blonde
Black hair: maybe a dark brown color
..be sure to keep it natural looking or else you'll wind up looking fake
school is starting in a lil bit, and i wanted new hairstyles and outfits and stuff. last year, i wore my hair up every single day. for the whole year! I want a new hairstyle that everyone will love! I have really thick hair and whenever i brush it, it gets REALLY poofy. thats why i wore my hair up all the time. and when i get it wet, it dries and poofs. same if i use a hairdryer! help me please. will rate 5 for any answers!
You should consider using a CERAMIC straightener. They work really well for curly hair. Also silkysexyhair products work well for frizz (available in hair salons).
ok i wanna get my hair cut but i really dont have any ideas my hair is shoulder length and its kind of thin for good ideas and places to get my hair cut i will rate high
(btw im not cutting like all my hair off like a oh and if it helps im 13 f going to the 8th grade guys short cut so thats a no no)
The long side sweep bangs look great on everyone. I have them myself and I think they really add something different-kind of edgy to everyone. Sometimes it also helps if you get the rest of your hair (not your bangs) cut on a slight angle. Good luck!
I've known my best guy friend for 3 years, since 5th grade,and him and i are really "close" and at times can get really touchy, but we've never kiss, or anything like that, he acts like he likes me,and wants to ask me me out but can't,so trys to give me hints and ask's me interesting questions like" are you afraid of a boy kissing you?"or" how many guys have you made out with?" and all of our mutual friends say that one of us should ask the other out and w/e, but then about 2-3 weeks ago he asked me if him and this other girl would make a good couple and if he should ask her out, all i could say was ".. do you like her?"(dumb question i know all i could think of in the moment) and he said yes. and that was that.. and i guess i have to just deal, but as the years go on i like him more and more, and i love him to death*as a brother,nd mabe a lil more* , in the end of it all i really just want him to be happy(i know it sounds cheesy)but when ever he's around me his hands are always somwhere on me, and his tickle me constantly, and i loved that! but now he has a girl friend,somone who i used to be friends with, and i know its not real nice/proper or me or him to continue to act like that, im just really confused about his feelings for me and ever since he went out with her, he's stoped talking to me. and it really hurts..
-Hurt and confused-
I think that your best shot here is to tell the guy that you like how you feel. Alot of times guys will go out with/talk about other girls to get them to notice you. I know it sounds weird but it's true.
16/female
My boyfriend and I have been dating for 8 months now, but he's been one of my closest friends for about 4 years. I truly am in love with him and I know this because I've never felt this feeling before. I won't get into that, however. He just graduated this year and is going to a college that is about 2 hours away. He promised me he'd be home as much as he can and I know he will, but I don't think I can go that long without him. He went on vacation for about 1 week out of the country and I was so upset. I couldn't stop thinking about him and was never happy during this time period. I think about him leaving all the time and how much I'll miss him. I don't know what I'll do without him..I've never had a boyfriend like him before. Should I try and overcome that feeling or try and find someone else. I really don't know what to do. I will greatly appriciate any other suggestions. Thank you.
If you are truely in love with this boy, don't let him out of your life! It's okay to feel sad that he's not there but you'll still get to see him on weekends and school breaks. If I were you I'd try to keep myself busy and try not to think about it(unless it's a positive thought :))
..Hope I helped..
ok so me and my best friend both like a guy and it so happens these guys are best friends but were going into highschool and we dont know if we will end up likeing somebody new..and they want to ask us out but we keep saying we dont know if we want a boyfriend rite now..so should we tell them we want a boyfriend and go out with them or just leave it be and wait for highschool or what?
I think that you should wait until highschool and see what else is out there but if you don't fina anyone new then you know that you can lean back on these other guys.
ok so im 5'5 and weigh 170 i have alot of muscle so i dont look like it' but i would still like to lose 20-30 lbs. and i dont know how. i want to lose it as fast as possible but i dont wanna do anything that isnt healthy. thnx
I would suggest running for at least like 10-15 minutes every day, eat healthy and just be happy with yourself. No one has a perfect celebrity body. And if you did it would probably be unhealthy. Maybe getting a workout dvd/tape would help. Hope this helps..
I'm 14/f, 5"3, 126 pounds (I dont think that really matters) and I have brown hair, brown eyes. The problem is I look really young for my age, not my body but just my face, I dont know how to explain it but I just look young. I was hoping anyone had some makeup/hair ideas that would make me look older or more edgy? Also if you need to know (because of makeup reasns) i have severe acne. Thanks.
I think that you should just wait and let nature do it's thing. Growing up should be a fun thing not a drag. Just enjoy how you are right now. But in the meantime..for your acne problem Neutrogena works pretty well and I've heard the ProActiv also works. You could try curling your hair or doing something out of the ordinary that you wouldn't usually do.
OK I like this Boy and hes really nice we used to be boyfriend and girlfriend then someone came up and he didnt like me any more(this was a while ago)then two days a go i found somone else i like and now i cant deside who to like.Well schools starting soon so my qustion is should i like one of the two guys i was talking about befor or wait till school starts to meet new guys?
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I think that you should try to experience lots of different people. Go with this new guy you like and if things get bad then you're not obligated to be with him.
I am a 14 year old girl. I am not over weight or anything I just got flabs, instead of abs. How long does it take to get abs?
As long as you're healthy I don't think that it's that big of a deal. But some things that would work would be doing sit ups, running, and push-ups. You should start to see some results probably within a couple weeks if you keep at it.