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A lot of people think I'm different, because I'm Jewish. Well, I consider it! And everyone else says, "Are you a catholic or christian?" ANd I say, "No. I'm way more on the jewish side." And they say, "Ooh, that's too bad." WHY CANT THEY MIND MY RELIGION? WHY DO THEY DO THIS? HOW CAN I MAKE THEM STOP? WHAT CAN I SAY BACK TO THEM?
Will rate high! (link)
Thats a shame that they are that arrogant. When they say that say...."No, it's really a shame that you can't respect it?" Let me know how it goes.


how will you know if a girl likes you? (link)
Well it is different with every girl, but I will tell you what I would do if I liked a guy. For one, I would probably laugh at almost everything he says...even if it isn't funny. I would smile whenever we made eye contact. I would compliment things he did in school or sports. I would try to make it so whenever I am leaving class I would be walking out with him. And I would basically just try to spend as much time around him as I possibaly could. Another big giveaway is if she calls you a lot, for things like homework..or other random things. These things are true for almost any ages. Hope I helped.


i hurt my wrist playing volleyball about a month ago. my dad told me it was sprained and it would stop hurting in about a week or so. but my wrist has been hurting for a month. i can't do pushups or lift anything without it hurting. what do u think i've done to it? i rate high! (link)
Sounds to me like you broke it. The best advice I can give is to go see a doctor.


Hey, my best best best best best best x10000000 is having a birthday soon. She's turning 13. I want to do something special for her, and i want to buy her something special too. Ant ideas???? I need gift and activity ideas! Thanx (link)
I am the same age...and since my friends are 'coming of age' I got them all wild thongs for their birthday as a joke. If you want to surprise her you could throw her a surprise party and invite all her friends. You could also kidnap her, blindfold her, and then drive her to a spa or something similar and pamper her. Hope I helped!


Tomorrow night I'm having a friend over. We'll both be home alone, cuz my rents are gonna be at the neighbors. We're both 13/F. What should we do when the ball drops??? SOMETHING EXCITING AND WILD (link)
If I were you (i'm the same age)...I would probably get a couple pots and pans and make as much noise as I possibaly could. Another fun idea is going on the roof and bringing up a boombox and going crazy with that. Those sound fun to me...hope I helped.


well i want to put conditioner on my hair and then sleep with it on... sounds crazy i no but i think it would help. i mean my hairs not really dried out of anything but it could prob use the shine and moisture. what do u think?
lol thanx (link)
I don't know. I think that would probably dry your hair out more. It would dry during the night and be all crusty and gross. If you want extra shiny hair when you take a shower leave the conditioner in for like 5 minutes and then wash it out. Hope it all works out!


Ok...my friend Abby has major problems. She's always telling everyone shes fat when shes only 100 pounds!! We are 13 and also she used to cut herself. She passed herself out in the shower and she got a big bruise on her back. Her mom is always in jail for doing drugs and her mom had a mixed baby! Abby lives with her grandparents... and they dont take her seriously when she says that shes Depressed. I tell my mom everything she tells me and my mom is really trying to help her and my mom even looked up people to help her...do you think we are doing the right thing by helping her? or should we let her deal with her parents? please help my friend! i will apprecaite it soo much! (link)
That is what friends are for. Although she might not want to admit that she needs help your doing the right thing. She'll probably be really mad at you at first but she'll thank you later. You friend if lucky to have someone like you that cares so much.


Every day i go to school and i see all these couples walking around together. I'm really jealous because i want to be one of those guys that other people look at walking with their g/fs. The only problem is that there is nobody at my school that i can see myself goin out with right now. What can i do? (I'm a freshman) (link)
Couples like that are made out of pure luck. All of my boyfriends I would have NEVER thougth I would have been with. One of them was this kinda dorky guy who turned out to be really sweet and nice...and my current one is more the jock of the school but he's also really sweet and funny. Look in the most unexpected places anc you'll find one. Hope I helped!


ok theres this guy and weve just become friends and lately hes been taking pics of me alla the time sitting with me at lunch hgging around the neck and we both runa nd hes on my team and like he goes around to differnt places to watch me run nd the other night on the way home he sat by me and he was like putting his head on my shoulder what would you think (link)
Sounds to me that he likes you. Touchy - feely stuff is the biggest giveaway when seomeon likes you. Hope I helped!


Ok..all my friends have either madeout or done more with there boyfriends. But i havent done nething not even madeout yet. Ive been pressured to do it by my friends but i really dont want to. Im 14..is that bad? (link)
Not at all! Take your time. Don't let your friends pressure you into doing something you aren't ready for/dont want to do. Hope it all works out!


OK im the only gurl i swear in my 9th grade class that likes cars and i sumtimes get made fun of 4 it
should i find sumthin else to be interested in or dont kare wut they say? (link)
Who cares what they say. If you like cars then it shouldn't matter what they think. They are stupid if they make fun of you for that.


okay well my two best friends started going out... why does that bother me???



mods please DONT delete pleasee (link)
You probably feel like since they are starting to go out they won't have time for you anymore. Don't worry, I've been in the same situation. It's OK the feel that way. Just respect their new relationship! Hope it all works out!


im 14..female and i weigh 124 lbs...i hav curves definatly...well im nto happy with my body..i want to be size 00 and small...all the guys like small gurls..i look like a cow in a bathing suit and am starting to get cellulate on thighs/butt...i feel fat in anything i wear now...my point is is that im thinkin about going annorexic...bc i have a really pretty face and a ugly body if i go annorexic i will be pretty...maybe not full blown annorexic..but like not alot of food...a little bites here and there...but not alot @ all...and not makeing myself throw up..just not eating....how soon do u think i will lose weight...plz dont say "dont do this blah blah" bc i just want to know how much weight do u think i will lose in 2wks? plz answer that ?!! (link)
Annorexia is a DISEASE! You don't want to make yourseld annoexic on purpose! Being on a diet is way different. Not all guys like small girls either. If you want to lose weight don't stop eating, exercise and eat lots of healthy food. Form your description you don't sound at all fat to me. Also, at this age your body starts to go through the fat and thin period where you body will get a little bit fat...and then you will grow and it will spread itself out. Just don't make yourself sick.


Ok,i like this boy but were friends and all.Really good friends.But like everytime we talk i get so into the conversation and just want 2 blurt out that i like him.Should I??

Signed NEED HELP FAST! (link)
Totally!


A boy deep kissed(first kiss) me and i am very paranoid about catch HIV through kissing, but should i be worried? (link)
It's impossible to get HIV through kissing. Don't worry.


I went to the beach today and I got burnt on my chest, lower back and thighs. Its not burned too badly but its sore and I can;t put lotion on my skin feels like its burning off and it blisters then scabs over. What are some thing I can do to help get rid of the pain?? (link)
Take a washcloth and soak it in milk...then lay the washcloth on whereever you got burned. It should help reduce the redness and soreness. Also try putting aloe vera on it. Hope I helped!


ok thers this girl i like alot but i dont think she likes me and she makes me so horney and stuff but i dont know wut 2 do \.. i like need a hormone pill or something! plz help me! im scared. its fucked up. well if u need age were 12 in 7th grade (link)
I'm in 7th grade too...and I really don't think there is anything you can do about it. I haven't heard of any hormone pills that make a guy not feel 'horny'. Best advice I can give you is to deal with it.


if a girl that u like is mad at you what should you do (link)
Say sorry.


i dont know wat to do. It seems like everything is falling apart. I jus feel like everyone hates me for sum reason. I used to be friends with one of the most popular kids in the whole grade, but she hardly talks to me anymore. She says i've changed, alotta people say that. Is there anythin i cud do to make them stop hating me?
p.s.wen i stopped trying to fit in and actually started being myself, people started talking to me WAY more then they did b4.) PLease dont delete this. Thank u!!! (link)
Will you listen to yourself? "When I stopped trying to fit in and actually started being myself people started talking to me WAY more than they did before" You just solved your own problem. Be yourself and stop caring about what others think about you.


ok, my boyfriend dumped me. but i have no idia why. he told me that he just didnt want a girl friend.. but i know thats not the reason. ive herd that way to many times before. i cant stop thinking about it. his name is all over my binder in sharpie.. i dont no what to do. im lost. it seems like there are no guys on the earth but him. does anyone know any ways to get my mind off him, or get over him? (link)
I know how you feel. Sometimes I still wonder about my ex's. First get a new binder or do something to get rid of his name. Doing that will remind you a little less of him. Take him off your buddy list on AIM so you won't be tempted to try to mend things. Focus on other things right now like school or your friends. I had two songs that reminded me of my ex and I stopped listening to them. You know you are over him when you can listen to a song or talk about him without wanting to get back together. Hope I helped!




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