hi . . . errr . . . i like giving advice but not sure why! i have blonde hair and blue eyes! i enjoy sims (best game invented), i like to read, shopping and all the other stuff, ordinary for a girl of my age! i answer pretty much any question that int just stupid!! hope i can help, anna
Gender: Female
Location: Manchester, England
Age: 14
MSN: annasz150@hotmail.com
Member Since: April 14, 2005
Answers: 41
Last Update: August 8, 2005
Visitors: 2537
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ok so my boyfriend and me have been going out for about a month and a half or so.. he goes to a different school and hes 16, im 13.. i loved him sooo much! last night i was talking to him online and i asked if he was gonna come and meet me at the ice skating rink (where i always meet him) and he said "maybe, i might go to the mall with some friends instead but if we dont go then ill come see you." i felt kind of offended by this that he wanted to go see his friends instead of me. i can only see him on friday nights so if he didnt come i wouldnt see him till next friday (if he decided to come) and so i was like oh, alright i guess. then later that night i was talking to one of his friends... (not a very good friend tho) i only met him last weekend when my boyfriend wasnt at the ice skating rink... we talked for like 5 minutes... then when we were talking online last night he asked if i was goin ice skating.. i said probably not, he asked why and i told him about me being kinda mad about john not going. so then i ask what jake has said about me to him. chris, (the guy im talkin to online) says he wont tell me what john said about me because he doesnt want to hurt me. i finally get him to tell me what jake does on the nights when he doesnt go to the rink with me. he tells me that john has been seeing another girl and goes to hook up with her and only comes and sees me if shes not availiable. im so upset when i hear this... but i think his friend likes me so i dont know if hes telling the truth... but john never tells me where he goes when he doesnt come.. it all makes sence... both stories do... i dont know what to do... (link)
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this is harsh of john, he sounds like a player if he isn't telling you, hes juggling between girls!! you should just chuck him and then he only (hopefully) has one girl! if you wanna get revenge then you could find out who the other girl is and tell her that about you!! as for this other guy (chris?) he seems nice.. do you like him?? if so why not hook up with him, if your looking for someone else that is!! Good Luck!!
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I have a friend i call a best friend. She doesnt feel like a best friend to me. Its hard to be friendz with her n stuff becuz shes kind of spreading my lil secrets like how i talk about ppls behind their bak, n mi favs. I hate that but shes a litto bit powerful than me and im only a weak person. Iuno wat to do... (link)
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i know how you feel, i had a friend like that! its difficult because you don't want to be friends with her because she does horrible things... but then when she isn't being horrible you have a great time with her! i moved on from her and made new friends who i like to spend time with all the time, not just every now and then! or you could talk to her (give yourself confidence) and let her know you don't like the lil things she does! but its up to, it depends if you want to keep this person as a friend.. or not! Good Luck!
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Yeah i forgot to log in so ill just do this again. Okay so me and my ex broke up on March 7th of this year. I was IN LOVE with him well im pretty sure i was. He said he broke up with me because of him getting grounded *He was grounded for a month* and he said hed go back out with me. Well i find out he lied to me and really he broke up with me for his neighbor. Well that didnt really bug me too much til i find out he didnt want to talk to me ever again. To make things harder my best friends boyfriend is his best friend so they talk. And yeah then we got in this big fight a few weeks ago over the internet and he told me to leave him alone and that the best part of our relastionship was that he played me. Yes he was an asshole but oh well. The thing i want to know is do you think he said that out of anger because i told him i didnt want to date him ever again? i mean he might just play me again thats why I cant go back to him=\ But yah do you think its just anger or do you think he really meant it? Because I still wanna be his friend. but he doesnt seem to want that. Please answer this? thanks=) (link)
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i've had the exact same problem... i think he may just be mad and so you should give him a while (depending on how long you think he needs!! days? weeks? months??) to cool off. then you can talk to him and tell him you still want to be his friend... hope it works out well! Good Luck!!
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K, i dated my ex-boyfriend for about 8 months. We broke up for a stupid reason, but we never got back together, but we still hung out and acted like we were dating. I can't handle the fact that we're not together. For example, this weekend, I was talking to his friend, Mike online. He was telling me that he wants to hook up with three other chicks. I got mad because he lied to me, saying that I was his only one. I know he shouldn't feel obligated to me but I don't know. Today at school, he found out I was mad and he said he didn't know what to do and I should move on. I really do want to move on, but I don't know how, or the right way to move on. I know wallowing and watching depressed movies is a good way to go, or finding somebody else, but every girl that's been broken up with knows that doesn't work. Can someone help me?
Oh, and don't say "don't see him anymore" because I have one class and lunch with him every day. I can't not see him. And i always talk to him too. If I don't talk to him he'll get mad. SOMEONE HELP! ill rate 5's for any decent answer.. and sorry for the length. (link)
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my advice would be to try and look at this guy as a friend and nothing more. from what you've said it seems hes got over you and sounds like a bit of a player! you have to know that all these type of guys are bad news, you know you will get you're heart broken in the end. it will be difficult to get over him (and please whateva you do DON'T watch depressing movies!!) but it must be done. when a guy lets you down you have to turn to those you trust... you're friends, hopefully they will support you! i find that telling yourself off for thinking about a guy helps. if you are day-dreaming and start thinking of him... tell yourself NO and think of something else! once you think you have gotten over him you can start talking to him in the same way you used to but in the meantime detach yourself from him!!
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I think I am pregnant what do I do what are the other side effects beside a missed peiord please help me out
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it depends on how far you are in pregnancy... after a few weeks you will obviously of skipped a period but mite be feeling sick as well (this doesn't happen all the time!) if you seriously think your pregnant (and you've definetly had sex!) then just get a test done to be sure! Good Luck!
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i deff dont purposely smell myself "down there" but the discharge stuff smells weird, is it spossed to or..how do i make it not smell so bad..lol sorry im just wondering
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if your discharge smells then you should get it checked out, especially if its not always been like this as you could have an infection... i think that smelly discharge is a sign of infection but i'm not positive so get it checked out! lol! good luck!
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There's this guy that I like, and everyone thinks that we like each other. Everytime someone asks me if we like each other, I say no, but I really do. We both know that everyone thinks we like each other, but I don't know if he likes me or not. Everyone thinks he does though. How should I fix this? I'm 14/Female (link)
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What are you so shy about? if he doesn't like you he doesn't like you, but you don't know he doesn't! the only way you'll find out is if you have confidence enough to talk to him and tell him how you feel! even if the answer isn't what you're looking for... its better to try than regret! Good Luck!
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yeah i know, last time we went to the mall i remember the 2 8th graders..would go off for a few minutes to talk..and they wouldn't let me b there..and i didn't get stuck with the other 2 bc they were sorta lovey dovey n flirting(they are know going out) and they were making me sick...and i remember we were in Hot Topic..and i wanted to get a taco or something from taco bell which is right outside Hot Topic..and they wouldn't stay with me..bc they said "ohh were watching" or "we'll b right here" and i turn around and they are back in the store...and at one point i got annoyed that i hid out in another store and stood behind a display that was kinda in the window..there were XBOX's in the window so I just stood in the corner of the store looking out the window..for them..and i can here them calling for me and after bout 10 minutes i came out...and i was all pissed n shit..and yeahh ha- thx..
o btw were suppose to go to the mall 2morro..maybe i know i am going with the other 9th grader bc it was her idea (the one that moved)..im not sure about the others..but i even said that i would take off if someone pisses me off..i will run away...i may not b allowed 2morro..im not surreee....but idk ne more..o btw one of the 8th graders is tech 15 already he is 2 months older then me...n he is suppose to b in 9th grade but got left back or something.
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oh right i see so your all kinda the same age! i think your right if there annoying you and not being especially nice than just walk away. if they don't follow you then they clearly ain't very good friends! this other person who moved away seems nice though, why don't you just make new friends in your school?? i think if you can go tomorrow then go! try and keep them as friends (as friends as always useful!) but if things don't work out... move on! gota go (simpsons on!)
Good Luck tomorrow though!! Tell me how it goes!
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Ok here is the thing...Since January I have been hanging out with friends and were like the "mall groupie" we always go to the mall together. There are about 7 or 8 of us,3 7th graders, 2 8th graders and 2 9th graders. ok well, we all go to the same school district besides one, she moved last may but we still hang out with her and all. The thing is out of the 6 of us still in the same district I feel left out at some points....since I don't get to seem them as often as they get to see each other and all since I am in the High School and they are in the Jr. High. I just recently found out that the 5 went to the carnival and never asks me, I found only found out by pictures on 2 of their Myspace's, they are always on 3 way calling and stuff and never include me in it. I am never in on what happnes bc I am in a different school and all then they are. There are only 9 1/2 weeks of school left then I am home free and get to spend rest of High School with them. I know they are there for me when I need them, because one threaten (a 7th grader...she is quite tough and doesnt look 12) to beat someone up bc I got into a fight with one of my friends back in December and she doesn't like to see me hurt. Then 2-3 weeks ago I gotten into a fight with 2 of my friends...over something stupid and both 8th graders (one is actually suppose to b in 9th but yeah)...supported me and help me stay positive threw the whole thing. The last time we went to the mall I got annoyed..because it was only 5 of us..2 7th graders..both 8th graders and me..and we went on the merry-go-round...and after we got off the 8th graders ran from us..and I got annoyed though it was only for 20 mins and all. I feel like they don't care about me though they do. I so feel left out of everything since I am older and everything. How do I tell them that I feel left out w/o saying that I am. Can you please help?- Thx (link)
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i know how you feel... but most of the time it was just me and my mind running away with its self, me seeing things that weren't there!! its what when you get an idea into your head and your mind wants to prove it and so picks up on tiny things!! you have to accept that your older but you should just try to ignore these lil things, if you carry on your friends will just think your a sensative weirdo!! you should maybe try and invite one of your friends from your year, if they ask why you brought her tell them you were feeling left out and so decided to bring someone your age. if there such great friends then they'll probably fuss over you and say things like
'oooo why didnt you say anything??' this will certainly make you feel more confident in them!! Good Luck!
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i have been friends with this guy for a while now and umm we are really good friends. ALL of our friends say we should go out cause they all know that i like him more than a friend they all say we look so cute together and blah blah blah and he even knows i like him cause we talked about it one night but he said he just wanted to stay friends cause he didnt think of me as more than that. i was okay with that or thats what i told him but im really not i want to be more than that but i just dont know what to do he like this one girl that i dont like that much not cause he likes her but because she is a hoe!!! when im around him i feel like i can tell him anything even though he tells his friends but i dont care, he just makes me feel free, i guess you could say. his parents seem to like me but im not to sure cause i get nervous when im at his house. i dont know what to do can you help??
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i'm sorry to say that nothing can be done to help you... if doesn't like you he doesn't like you. its not what you want to hear i know but you'll meet someone else (your only 17!!!) and you'll move on and look back at this and laugh! this might not be soon but it will happen... eventually! oooooor (heres the part you want to hear!) he'll get over this 'hoe' and realise how great you are and it'll all work out! but as you know this is just a faiytale!!! or you may just be getting your feelings muddled up, if you've never had a male friend as close as him before!forget about this other girl and try and move on, hes clearly a great friend... keep him that, don't lose your friendship! Good Luck!
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I have a friend who is a boy. We have been friends for along time and this year I can tell he is starting to like me a lot more then as just a friend. I like him as more then just a friend too and my BFF says she can tell that we like each other. I am afraid to bring it up and so it he, because we are afraid we might ruin our friendship. Could stay friends if we broke up? Should we take the plunge? Like this morning when me teacher was handing out scrach paper for the cst's She said we could use it for anything, drawings, doodels, notes, or even love leders. I saw him looking at me when she said this and I was looking at him too. I really don't know what to do!!! (link)
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i'm not sure this is a good idea, i don't know you and your friend so i don't know what your like. if you do go out... something will go wrong and it is likely (but not definite) you will break up... as i said i don't know you and so don't know if you will forgive and forget easily. but whats for definite as you will both remember what it was like when you were friends 4for you went out. if you do go out theres no going back so i think you should consider this before doing anything...
personal experience: i found i enjoyed myself with my friend a lot more then when and after we had told each other how we felt about each other! after all you can flirt and be extra close with them when your not together... only if you don't want something serious though!! Good Luck! Make the decision yourself... it is your life!
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ok...my boyfriend is moving 13 miles away from me and he is going to be going to a different school and i trust him and love him with all my heart and life and all but im afraid that we are going to slowly stop talking then we are never going to see each other again. should i break up with him now and save both of us or just one of us the grief or should i stay with him and try real hard to keep intouch what should i do? (link)
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13 miles may seem like a long way... but it really isn't that far! you could still see him every weekend if you both wanted to, i think this is something you should ask your boyfriend! if you decide to talk on the phone and internet thats fine but make sure you actually meet up with him!! don't leave it after too long either or i'm afraid to say you will drift apart!! i've had a long distance (further than 13 miles) and it worked out fine!! it is possible!! i think your best choice is to talk to your boyfriend about this and see what he wants, after all if he don't feel the same way it will be a waste of time, keeping together (you can still be friends but it probably won't work out if your just friends)!! Good Luck!
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My bf of over six months is really sweet and kind and I love him so much and I know he feels the same for me. But he is just to nice and he doesn't notice that his friendliness is kinda flirty but it doesn't bother me because I am the same way. Though lately theres this one girl that likes him and she hits on him all the time and he doesn't notice it and it's really bothering me so what do I tell him becasue he dumped me before for not telling guys to get off me so what should I tell him. I will rate high! (link)
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i think that if he chucked you for the reason your annoyed with him for then you shouldn't sound to annoyed as this will not go down well... instead i think you should remind him of when you last broke up and the reason why then gently tell him how you think he's doing it with other girls, but don't sound as if your blaming him! if he thinks you are over exaggerating then you can get slightly annoyed... after all he was obviously very angry with you when you where flirty with other boys!! Good Luck! But remember don't go on about it, forgive and forget!
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My best friend has this boyfriend (Hes a real pervert and a jerk to her friends but she doesnt care) , wen shes goin out with all she does is talk about how he gets in to trouble (which she like) or how she wants to break up with him, when he breaks up with her she cries and threatens to commit suicide! Then they get back together and the pattern continues! IM SICK OF IT, !!!!!
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You should let your friend know what you think!
NO girl should prefer their boyfriend to their friends... if shes a true friend then she ll understand and maybe come out of this stupid cycle you were talking about!! As for the actual relationship there is nothing you can do about it, my friend is like that but at the end of the day (6 months later) she came to her senses and moved on from the guy. but for now its your choice on whether you stick by this grl and her annoying cycle or walk away until she comes to her senses and puts you before him. if she neva comes round then i'm sorry to say she isn't a very good friend! Good Luck!!
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Okay so I am inlove with this guy at my school. So much so that it hurts. He is a pretty shy mexican boy. He has been a friend of mine for about 4-5 months, but I only realized about two and a half months ago that I like him as more than just a friend, and ever since I have been falling more and more inlove with him. He and everyone at the school knows I like him. His brother is not at all shy and calls me future sister-inlaw and when other guys are messing around with me he tells them to leave me alone because I am his brothers lady, ect. Most of the mexican girls at my school don't want him to be with me cuz i am white or whatever, neways, at lunch and stuff he walks by me slowly by himself because he knows I will follow him and we talk but never about us in that way. I have two classes with him and one i sit right next to him and we laugh and talk like always have. But still never talk about us. It hurts so much seeing him there right in my grasp but I can't touch him. Loving him but not being able to tell him directly. Wanting him but not having him. I wish he wasn't so shy. All my friends say to make the first move and ask him out, but I dont want to be to eager. I have called him and we talk but my bestfriend was on the line too.(we are all pretty good friends) But I am too shy to call again. I am so confused and sometimes I think to myself what are you doing even trying it will never work, but then I think of how much worse it will hurt if I don't try. I am a very pretty girl and have a lot of friends and all so it isn't like I am a nerd and cant have him. There has never been someone I wanted and couldn't have which makes it even more painful cuz this hasn't happened before. Do you think he likes me and what should I do? I am going to see him tomarrow for the first time in like 4 days. Please tell me what you think I should do. Sorry it was so long
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i think your friends are right, make the first move! if hes as shy as you've said he is then he will never make the move! you say your meeting him, if your alone this is the perfect time!! if you find it too difficult to tell him your feelings then show him in a different way....
hope this helps but as you said you'll feel miserable if you don't try, best to try than regret! Good Luck!
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Okay so ive got this problem. theres this guyi think i like now. hes a freshman and im a sophmore. i met him like a month ago but we never really talked til just recently. but its not like talking on the phone or anything, its thruogh text messages. he came and sat with me at lunch otday but didnt really say anthing bc hes really shy. he supposidly drinks a lot and has done a lot with girls, except i find it kinda hard to belive, bc hes so shy! i think im really stratin to like him, but idk if its the person through the texts i like, or him, i mena theyre the same person, but he just acts different. well i think im really startng to fall for him. like i like him a lot, do you think i shuld tell him i like him and hope for the best or should i sit it out until he strats talking to me in person? thanks... i rate! (link)
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Find out more about him, you'll be suprised how different people are when there drinking.... then if all is well talk to him and get him to talk back, he may be shy but once you've made the first move he may begin to open up!! Try and stop yourself from falling for this guy for as long as possible... you don't want to break your own heart!! Befriend him slightly, but not to much, to see what hes like around you. then if you get on really well... go ahead!! But don't jump in the deep end head first!! Good Luck
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Ive been using this instant sunless tanner by NO-AD. It's in color medium and works fantastically. Im currently just using it on my bod but would like to tan my face as well. But I fear considering how delicate my face is (I break out easily) Im not sure if I should risk it. Has anyone else use a tanner oh their face? Any advice? I rate. :) (link)
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If you break out easily i strongly recommend not putting on the face or you'll probably regret.... just stick to the body, i'm sure you look fantastic with it on your body, so why go over the top??
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My eyelashes are really long meaning i cant wear Mascara becuase it makes them look even longer and weird. is there any mascara i can buy (that they sell in England) that will be ok for long eyelashes and wont make them look really long? thanks
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I know how you feel, i have long eyelashes and know how stupid they can look if you wear mascara!
it depends what your looking for in mascara, do you need the colour because your eyelashes are blonde??? if you don't then you shouldn't really need to wear mascara as your eyelashes will look like your already wearing it!! but if you do then look at no.7 mascara they do great mascara for all types of eyelashes!! if you want to wear mascara because your friends wear it.... don't bother, i'm sure there jealous of you for having naturally long eyelashes!! Good Luck!
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i got my period last month on the 9th .. i am 17 years old and dont have a set schedule yet for my period...i have had it for 3 years now yet dont have a regular schedule..anyhow, i got it last month on the 9th ..it is now the 13 and i still havent gotten it for this month...does this mean i missed it or should i give it another week or so until i start panicking? i am sexually active and there is a possibiltiy i could be pregnant, but do you think i should start worrying NOW or not yet? thank you so much in advance, ive been driving myself crazy here. (link)
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You clearly have irregular periods... but you seem worried. i would give it a week and then if your so bothered take a pregnancy test. if it is negative and you still haven't had a period after a month, see a doctor!!
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15/f ok this is like 3 quesions but plz give me a good answer lol
1. What are signs of infection down there?
2. How can i avoid these infections?
3. What different types are there?
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You sometimes can't tell... the signs are difficult
USE CONDOM WHEN HAVING SEX!!!
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