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feel left out
Ok here is the thing...Since January I have been hanging out with friends and were like the "mall groupie" we always go to the mall together. There are about 7 or 8 of us,3 7th graders, 2 8th graders and 2 9th graders. ok well, we all go to the same school district besides one, she moved last may but we still hang out with her and all. The thing is out of the 6 of us still in the same district I feel left out at some points....since I don't get to seem them as often as they get to see each other and all since I am in the High School and they are in the Jr. High. I just recently found out that the 5 went to the carnival and never asks me, I found only found out by pictures on 2 of their Myspace's, they are always on 3 way calling and stuff and never include me in it. I am never in on what happnes bc I am in a different school and all then they are. There are only 9 1/2 weeks of school left then I am home free and get to spend rest of High School with them. I know they are there for me when I need them, because one threaten (a 7th grader...she is quite tough and doesnt look 12) to beat someone up bc I got into a fight with one of my friends back in December and she doesn't like to see me hurt. Then 2-3 weeks ago I gotten into a fight with 2 of my friends...over something stupid and both 8th graders (one is actually suppose to b in 9th but yeah)...supported me and help me stay positive threw the whole thing. The last time we went to the mall I got annoyed..because it was only 5 of us..2 7th graders..both 8th graders and me..and we went on the merry-go-round...and after we got off the 8th graders ran from us..and I got annoyed though it was only for 20 mins and all. I feel like they don't care about me though they do. I so feel left out of everything since I am older and everything. How do I tell them that I feel left out w/o saying that I am. Can you please help?- Thx
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just ask tehm to hang with u more or liek tell them you want to do something/ make plans in advance it works usually!!!
hope i helped!
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if they treat you like that, theyre not real friends. you should never feel embarrased and feel that you have to hide your true feelings. tell them. see how they react. dont let them hurt you!
Good luck,
Jenn
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i know how you feel... but most of the time it was just me and my mind running away with its self, me seeing things that weren't there!! its what when you get an idea into your head and your mind wants to prove it and so picks up on tiny things!! you have to accept that your older but you should just try to ignore these lil things, if you carry on your friends will just think your a sensative weirdo!! you should maybe try and invite one of your friends from your year, if they ask why you brought her tell them you were feeling left out and so decided to bring someone your age. if there such great friends then they'll probably fuss over you and say things like
'oooo why didnt you say anything??' this will certainly make you feel more confident in them!! Good Luck!
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well, first of all, DONT WRITE AN ESSAY! ahem, ok then. well, iv been through this situation too and i found that talking to my bestest friend out of the lot was helpful. Talk to them and tell them how you feel, or tell them on msn(if you have it) bc then they can't yell at you or anything. ok, well bye bye xxxxxxxxx
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