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Ok like i am 14 and i am a guy and i have had a crush on this one guy since 7th grade nd now i am really haveing serious feelings for him,he's in my grade also, and he gives me these weird signals. I really like this guy and wanna have a relationship with him.
Please Help
"Weird signals"?
We need more information if we're going to help. I liked someone for 5 years and got alot of mixed signals. It's just kind of guesswork, and the only way to know is to ask.
I broke up with my boyfriend Saturday. I thought I only liked him as a friend, but now that I am without him, I realise I really miss him and like him. I think since we barely hang out, I started liking him less. He cried when we broke up. I hope he doesn't hate me. I am going to talk to him tomorrow if I see him before he goes to practice. I want to go back out with him. I was PMSing, so I guess that screwed up with my emotions. What should I say to him to clear this all up and so we can get back together? I'm really bad at doing this, but I want this to work out. Help..can you give me an example on what to say?
You shouldn't blame the PMS, that is a really bad excuse, and I'm sure it will sound bad when you go up to him and say,
"Sorry that I broke up with you, I was PMSing, I didn't mean it!"
Seriously, are you sure you are just missing him because you are used to him being around, or do you miss him out of pity because you know he cried?
Me: I really wonder why guys have been hittin on me lately lol
Him: u realli wanna know that
Him: cuz i'll tell u
Me: ok lol
Him: cuz
Him: ur
Him: HOTT!!!!
Him: duh
Me: aww lol
Me: why cant guys go for my personality? its alright if they wanna go for my looks but then they could playas
Him: I'd go for both
Me: lol
Is he flirtin or just talkin? There's more convos where he says sweet things like that but I just chose this one.
Well he definitely seems like he's got below average intelligence, so...he sounds very much like a player. I'd avoid him...
What does it mean when u wake up and find clear gel stuff on ur underwear (im a girl)
It's discharge...as long as it doesn't have a yellow-y tinge to it or smell really bad, you're fine.
It doesn't always mean your period is coming soon, in no way does it mean that. I always get discharge and I haven't started my period yet.
Well..I wanna ask someone to the movies and go on a triple date wit my two friends. Problem is..they are both pretty and im not so pretty..im afraid my date will end up flirting with them or concentrating on them. I know that my friends would never like my otential date..and im confident he`ll say yes when i ask him to come with us..is there anything i can do to build up my confidence and get the idea out of my head that my date will flirt with my friends or that he`ll think "wow they r hot..wish my date was prettier"
thanks
Use that to your advantage!
Find a guy that WON'T do that to you! That's what I do with my sister...if they flirt with her, I drop 'em like flies...or something...
ok well my so called best friends all hate me now and i feel like tha world has turned its bak and everythang and cant trust en1 cept my bf and he has really helped me alot wit all thi sand he trusly is tha only 1 i can talk to enmore and my bff r gettin more mad bekuz im alwayz talkin 2 him or with him but thats only kuz hes really tha only 1 there 4 me enmore wut should i do?? kuz ive tried talkin and ive ever sed i wuld sacfice luv 2 save our friendship they wont let me and everythang but nuttin is workin wut should i do??????
-Lost..Confused..Sad-
I hardly understood any of that...
...but...uh...what did you do to make them mad? Well if you can't befriend them again, they aren't worth your time.
Ok i am 5'9" tall got brown hair and brown eyes and i aint fat but i aint like realli skinny. anyways i am 13 yrs old (almost 14) and i get alot of attention from guys when i am in a confident mood. but even when i look realli cute sometimes but i am not confident it seems like they dont pay attention to me. Do guys like when girls are confident in themselfs? Are guys more attracted to girls when they are confident? PLEASE HELP!
You answered your own question!
Of course...you have to look approachable...always smiling...and maybe approach some guys yourself! ;)
i've been going out with a guy for over five months, and i think he wants to but he hasnt tried to kiss me... how do i let him noe im ready?
You can make the move!
First...turn his head (if you are initiating the kiss) and look into his eyes and lean in. Don't close your eyes too soon, or else you might miss! =oO
But have fun smooching...=o* I didn't wait that long for my guy to kiss me...within the month he did...but everyone is different. Good luck!
Ok well i been wid mybf for over 9 months and i have been thinkin bout"IT" lol well i wanted to wait till i was like 16 but i dont think im gunna b able to wait that long cuz im 13 now turnin 14 next month but i feel im conforablen stuff n im almost definately positive my bf iz!! lol so my questions iz do u think i should or do u think im to young?!?!?!?! plz help!! thanx
~*~ Should I?!?!? ~*~
Well...if you are too immature to call SEXUAL INTERCOURSE 'it', then you are definitely not ready. If you have to ask, you are not ready. You are 13, YOU ARE NOT READY. I am 14, I AM NOT READY.
There is alot of emotional attachment to sex...more than people think. Think it over long and hard and if you are sure...if you go through with it, you'll probably regret it later on.
I would say no go, but it's your life.
hey ya'll ..i just turned 15 and i was just wonderin..when does your chest usually become fully developed?..like i'm a 34B & iduno i think that's small..but i'm already 15..is that guna b my chest size? or am i yound enough that i'm still developing?..=/..thanx xOx
You will continue to grow (not rapidly, but gradually) into your 20s. Don't worry about it. =oD I'm only a 32/34A.
okay...i was with this guy for a month and then we had sex but the next day an old guy friend called me and we talked for a while even tho i was still at his house. then he got really upset and started yelling at me and i yelled at him saying how he cant talk to me like that and he slapped me across the face. i broke up wit him right then and there and called my sister to come pick me up and the next day he called me saying how hes so sorry he was just going through a lot and has so much stress on his back (which i knew he did) and he called me and asked me to take him back..this was today and i know that i shouldnt but i love him and i have all these feelings for him..what should i do because there is always a chance that he could do it again????
DON'T GO BACK!!! If anything, YOU should've slapped HIM.
If you let him get away with it once, you pretty much let him get away with it for a lifetime. Stress may be an issue, but I doubt it. You were right saying he shouldn't talk to you that way. Don't go back--you'd be trapping yourself.
IF you're going to take him back, don't do it right away. Give it time...a couple of months perhaps to let him know FOR SURE that he was DEFINITELY in the wrong to hit you.
Don't take shit from anyone, you don't deserve it.
wut would be a wicked cool sn for a gothic chick???
g0thch1ck99 or something equally moronic.
I dont understand how all these younge kids come on here and ask for love advice and say how they are in love and "falling" for people. I dont think you kids really know what your talking about. Maybe instead of saying love so freely you all should start saying lust. thats what it really is.
Well I know what I'm feeling, you don't. But I mean there are circumstances where it's not love. But you can be falling for someone at any age.
So if what you say is true, then I 'lusted' for my parents? No. I loved them. And I know it, still. You can LOVE someone as well, but just not be IN LOVE with them.
EDIT: Point taken about the parental love thing...eeeeh. But I mean...I know what I feel, but I haven't said I've fallen in love yet. Like someone up there said, state of mind, not state of being. But they(teenagers) do throw it around alot.
i need to practice 1 vs 1 on soccer as a defender...i alsways get nutmegged >:o/ please give me tips or a good site and dont tell me to search google...ONLY FOR EXPIRENCED SOCCER PLAYERS!
I don't have trouble with that...so can't really help you. Maybe you aren't fast enough? I always know I shuffle my feet around as if I'm gonna dart in on them at any second, it works pretty well. I also do that in goal...
School's coming up and I really want to have a school-year boyfriend, if you know what I mean. I want to meet some new guys this year and start going out with them. What's a good way to get guys to notice me more this year and for them to see me as more than a friend? Last year I had tons of guy friends but no boyfriends!
Well...
Maybe get a dramatic new style. Maybe 'chic' maybe 'punky' but have a style. Maybe a 'you' style, heh.
Well always carry a 'prop'. An item that will draw interest...like a bright hand-knit scarf or something.
Always smile. Once you get to know them, look over your shoulder, and wink at them ONLY ONCE and then ask him a question or something to distract him. The point of that is to leave him wondering if you winked or not.
There's little flirting guides out there, I know. So google it!
ok im talkn to this boi at this second right now. but i think im falling for him i just dont no how to tell him what n how should i tell him please help me..i really like him alot...hes a nice n sweet boi
Well tell him you like him or joke about it.
Boi...you moron...
hi. well im skinny and i have long blonde hair and everyone calls my paris hilton. i dont mind it but they say it like its a bad thing. Its constantly too. Everywhere i go "o paris hilton" its so annoying and the way they say it is like its a bad thing. help
Well Paris Hilton is A COMPLETE MORON JACKASS. I wouldn't want to be associated with her dumb ass.
Just ignore it, I guess.
Is it possible to get cold sores on your skin? I have something on the skin above my lip which is either a small zit or a cold sore. I don't want to put anything on it until I know what it is; as benzoyl peroxide will irritate it if it is a cold sore, and if it's a cold sore I'm not gonna do anything. Also I don't want to be popping a cold sore.
You can get them anywhere around your mouth area. It doesn't need to be right on the lip.
You can usually tell the difference between a cold sore and a zit, though.
My parents are fighting. I mean it's really bad tonight. I'm afaid they are gonna get a divorce and I donno what I'll do if they do. My dad went to his maamws house where his brother stays and mom is at the house and i'm out my mamaws and it all messed up and scary and i'm afraid they will. i donno i just need some help on how to deal if they do. thanks.
Well...not much I can say on divorce, although my parents seperated for a while.
Well try to spend equal time with them, don't talk smack about the other parent to one parent, and try not to alienate, I guess. But yes, it'll be tough.
Best of luck!
I am a 15 year old female who would like to remain anonymous who has a best friend at the age of 16. He has been in a relationship for the past 2 years and his feelings for me finally came out. I told him that the feelings i have for him are mutual but i'm disappointed as far as the outcome will remain the same as things are now. What should I do?
Puppy can you not read? He's in a relationship.
Well, there's not much you can do if nothing will change.