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My husband and I have been married 6 years. He is 36 and I am 24 so he came into the marriage with more life experience. Every year we have been married he wants to take our vacations one step further but it seems like I am always the one changing. The first year we were married we went to Daytona everything was great I felt sexy in a normal bikini and we had a good time. Then he buys me all these thong bikinis and insists I wear those when we go to Mexico, and even though I told him I was hesitant, i did. Then the next time we go to Mexico he takes us to a topless resort which I was completely against but after to many drinks and non stop urging I took my top off and hated it. The next time he books a trip, again to Mexico it is at a clothing optional swingers resort (no we are not swingers)!! I told him numerous times I was extremely uncomfortable and I was not getting nude. He loved it! He said he felt free by not having to wear clothes, and he wishes I would let loose and show my body off. Again I told him how uncomfortorable it made me and it was like he didn't hear me. He even wanted us to be intimate on the rooftop while other couples were up there (i absolutly refused). Now he is wanting to book another trip to a resort where one side is clothing optional and the other is not. I tried to talk to him about it and tell him I was not getting nude and we got into a huge argument and have barley spoken since (that was four days ago). I don't know what to do, I feel like my husbands verson of "sexy" is trashy and wrong and I don't want any part of it, but he wont stop pushing me. I really need advice.
You have every right to be upset and annoyed. Him not so much. To me it looks like he wants to show you off? He's 36 and married to a 24 year old. It just sounds like he wants to take you to all these exotic places to show that he's still got or that look over here my wife's hot! Now to him he thinks he's complimenting you, saying flaunt your body because your beautiful etc. but it's very obvious that to you its a violation. You need to have a talk with him, a very serious one at that. You do the talking first. Don't let him speak till your done. Don't argue, don't shout, talk. Say that it makes you uncomfortable, that you only feel like your body should be shared with him and him only. That when he practically forces you to strip you feel to some extent violated, cheap and trashy. That rather than making you want to take your clothes off and be comfortable and flaunt everything you want to do the complete opposite and recoil into yourself and hold onto your clothes for dear life. You need to get stern with your husband because before you know it this could separate you guys if not taken care of.
Hope this helps Good Luck xx
ok can you see your hymen yes or no if yes how?
yes, it is visible. It is located 1.5-2cm normally in the vaginal opening. If you look inside vaginal opening it could be seen with small needle like pores or a pore. Your Hymen is a thin membrane that surrounds the opening to the vagina. Hymens can come in different shapes. The most common hymen in young girls is shaped like a half moon. This shape allows menstrual blood to flow out of a girl's vagina.
Hope this helps xx
Hey!
So ive always had a dream to become a fashion designer since i were a little girl,but ive never really had the chance to apply to fashion school yet.So now ive finally got the chance!Ive been accepted into this "design a wedding dress" competition and ive got about 200 something likes on facebook so far and its only my third day!But,i need more votes!So my question is,if you guys think my dress is pretty,would you please help me by hitting Like at the picture??Please help me fulfill my dream =(
Thanks
It's really nice, I hit like for you :)
Hey Im 16 and a senior in highschool. I met this guy in an interschool competition. He's the same age but is a senior in some other school. We started talking after the competition and became good friends. We have gone out on three dates till now. And yeah, we have kissed each other and made out a little. We cannot resist each other at all. And hence the makeouts were a mutual desicion. I am falling for him. But the problem is that even though he says he is falling for me, he keeps on telling me he cannot date me cause he's a bad guy and he cares for me too too much to hurt me. He says he is not one of those dateable guys who will love their girl completely and he might find a new girl and dump me.That would hurt me and he doesnt want to do that! He hasnt had a past record of cheating or anything it's just that he tells me he wants to be sure before he asks a girl out that he will be completely loyal to her and not flirt around with other girls. He also liked this girl a year back and he says he feels guilty that he got over her and fell for me! But when we meet we actually act like we are dating, cause he gets me stuff, he tells me he loves me, we hold hands. we actually act like a couple in love. we also talk all the time. I dont know what to do. Because I really want to be with him. But cant figure out how to make him ask me out? and if he is really a bad guy? HELP.
He's not a bad guy but he's a very insecure guy. Not all relationships work out so if this doesn't work out because he ends up liking somebody else then that's how it ends unfortunately. You seem to be getting on very well with each other so just sit him down and talk to him. Tell him that you just want to have a go at the relationship because you think it would really work and he just needs to have some confidence in himself and forget about what could happen and all of that and just focus on now and what he would like to happen. Try not to make the talk too serious and just make a little joke and be like, "if you flirt with other girls, I'll just have to put you back in line". It might get a laugh it might not. But just go with it. You guys just need to talk, there's obviously a lot of insecurity on his side, inbox if you need more help.
Hope this helps, xx
hi, me and my boyfriend are dating for almost 2 years and i'm in my early 30's and he's in late 40's. we live together. my question is, he's been ejaculating in me for a past 3 months and i always get a period every month as usual. he never wears condom and i'm not on a pill. i know, we're having sex without the protection. we're not trying to have a baby yet but if i'm pregnant then we're more than happy. does it mean we're infertile or how long normally does it take to be a pregnant? thank you all so much.
For some couples it could take ages to get pregnant for others it could be the first time they have sex. The only way to decipher whether or not one of you is infertile is to go for a fertility test. I'd suggest making an appointment with your local doctor/G.P. and discuss what's going on but generally around 85% of couples conceive naturally within one year of having regular unprotected sex. Normally after one year of trying people tend to visit their doctor but some earlier if they have any reason to doubt their fertility or if they're over a certain age (women over 35)It's best for both of you to go to the doctors as it's not just on your part it is also his part too. Trying to conceive a child is very emotional and it is important to support one another as stress can affect the process. If you were taking contraception and recently stopped that could be affecting it as certain types of contraception take a while to stop.
I wish you the best of luck, hope this helps, inbox if you need more help xxx
I'm 13/f and I've had my boyfriend 16/m for about 2 years. Yes, I know he is really old for me. Recently he asked if he could come over to my house so I let him in when my parents were out at night. We started making out but then he tried to strip me! I said that I wasn't ready and made him go. Now I feel like he is slipping away. He's flirting with other girls. I don't know if I should have sex with him or not. I'm worried about stupid things like what if the condom breaks, or he goes too hard, or what if I'm no good? But the one thing that haunts me the most is what if my parents found out? Should I do it?
The fact that your asking strangers if you should have sex with your boyfriend means that your not ready. You're only 13 so there is no need for you to rush losing your virginity. He's 16 so he's starting to become sexually active. If he leaves because you didn't have sex with him than he's not worth any of your time because it means he would have used you. You're 13, and its obvious that your not ready. If he doesn't like that then let him leave. Just enjoy your childhood.
Hope this helps xx
Hi, my boyfriend and I were dry humping on last weekend friday or saturdaay I don't remember. I was laying down on his bed on my stomack and I had all my clothes oon. And he had his clothes on . So I wore leggings and he had his pants on so he came on top of me. After he came he got up and I saw a big moist part on his pants se he was wet. So now I'm worry can spperm pass through leggings? Its because I didn't wear jeans can sperm pass through leggings?? And he changed himself but he was wet and that spottt soo can u guys please give me some right information ?? Btw I gave him a handjob a week befor that and he was lying down on his bed and he came under his shirt so he didn't get up but his put his dick under his shirt and after we went wash our hands but. Also because my hand got tired I used my feet but I washed my feet too so any risk in that ?? Right information please
No you cannot get pregnant from dry humping with your clothes on. You gave him a handjob and he came under his shirt so nothing on you and you washed your hands. Pretty much no risk there. Although if you need to ask these questions maybe you should clue yourself up about pregnancy and sex just so you can take extra care in preventing yourself from getting pregnant.
Hope this helps
I've been with my boyfriend for a year. He currently lives with me and my parents since his mom left him homeless. We are both 18; we don't fight a whole lot, just the typical agruements.
Well, he's been complaining that I'm not as affectionate as I use to be, and that I never want to have sex with him and stuff.
He's afraid its because I'm not attracted to him anymore, but I know I am.
How come I don't have urges to have sex with him as often as I use to, and how come I'm not all lovey dovey with him like I was when we first got together?
*Ever since he's been living with me, is when I stopped being so affectionate. I just feel akward doing it in front of my parents. I like to give them respect, ya know?
*Sometimes when he tries to lay on me, or touch on me, I get irritated, and I don't understand why. Any help?
You're both 18 and he's moved in with you into your parents house. You say that since he's moved in you've stopped being AS affectionate. You say this is because you don't like to do anything in front of your parents out of respect which is fair enough. He should respect that. But I believe that it could just be because he lives with you. There's no pressure to be constantly lovey dovey for the simple fact that he's always there now so you can be lovey dovey any time of the day, where as normally I'm guessing you guys would have to wait a while before you got to see each other - absence makes the heart grow fonder - as for getting irritated when he tries to touch you sometimes or lay on you it could be simply because he's invading your personal space. You used to go to your room to chill out or be by yourself and just relax. But now that he's there it could possibly be that you just don't feel like you could do that when he's around. You've been together for a year now so you've passed what people call the 'honeymoon' phase. I suggest you guys get some 'me time' so that you can miss your partner and have that satisfaction of getting back to him. Explain to your boyfriend that you still love him very much and your still attracted to him but you just don't want sex as often as he wants it and sometimes just wanna be by yourself sometimes, or just lye next to him instead of being all 'up against each other'.
Hope this helps, and good luck with your relationship xx
This thought has been bothering me alot lately.First,I'm 13/f.But I'm in a relationship with one of my best friend's who've i've known for a long time.He's 16/m.I really love him,and he says he loves me to death,but sometimes it doesn't feel like he does.I'm not a posessive gf,but sometimes he goes for weeks without talking,or visiting me.And when I visit him,or talk to him,he says he's been busy,but he missed me.We recently broke up,because I thought we were better off friends.But he told me that girls would sext him pics of themselves,even when we were dating.He acted like it wasn't a big deal,but for me it was.So when I had a fit,he told me he would delete them,but I didn't feel he was telling me the truth.Now,we're back together,because I realized I loved him more than me bff.But now,I feel as though I should just call it quits,and give up on our relationship,and friendship,and never speak to him again.I really feel that's what I should do.I'm gonna do it today,but first,just needed advice before I did it.Thanks =).
Personally one big alarm bell for me here is the "sext pics". The fact that he hadn't deleted them when they were sent is just a big NO NO in my book. And the way you have described it he didn't tell you about this while you were dating so obviously he was keeping secrets. Now you're only 13 and he's 16 so you guys are at very different stages in life and I think it would be better for you guys to end your relationship mainly because it is causing you too much unnecessary stress and he isn't treating you as he should. If you still want to be friends that's fine but don't fall into that trap of thinking you can't live without him so you take him back at the drop of a hat because then - he knows he can get away with anything and he has the control.
I hope this helps, xx
so there was this girl that i kinda had a crush on. shes trans. and people bash on both of us almost everyday. im a pretty girl and eveything. boys like me and everything.
but i feel so confused, please help...
i tryed to take my life the other day. because the mean things people were saying, were honestly making me wana die..
:/
It might not actually be a crush that you have here. But this is somebody who you can relate to because your going through the same thing, which is; being bullied. I got bullied myself during school for being a lesbian and there were some seriously hurtful things said and done. But that's not any reason for you to end your life because there's so much more life to live that doesn't involve these people. There's so much you can make of yourself in the coming years. You just need to take a step back from the situation, there's no need to immediately find some kind of label for yourself or work out whether having one girl crush makes you a lesbian or bisexual. You said 'she's trans' which I'm guessing means transgender? I've never seen this girl before but maybe you actually like her because she bares some resemblance to a guy? At the end of the day it doesn't matter, you like who you like and sometimes figuring out your sexuality is just a matter of waiting - you'll figure it out - don't rush it.
Hope this helps, xx
My name means strong and noble one. I love baby blue and I am the best swimmer in my family and my best stroke is the butterfly. I am smart but I have an imagination.I have a beach themed room and when I am swimming in the ocean I feel bliss! When I am near the ocean I feel pulled to it.did I mention I was born on the 13 of summer and my 13th birthday will be in 2013. I have fair skin, aqua marine eyes, and light brown hair. I have a pretty good singing voice. I also had a great grandma who looked like me Was born on the 13th and died on the 13th she also loved the ocean even more than I did she was a great swimmer too! No hurtful or rude comments please!! Do you think I am going to become a mermaid on my 13 birthday?
All this sounds very lovely and amazing that the number 13 appears so much in your life for significant events. However on your 13th you will not become a mermaid. You were born human and will stay human, I'm sorry if that's not the answer you were hoping for. I'm not being rude or hurtful to you, I hope you see it that way. It's great that you have a good relationship with nature, loving the water and the beach is natural its great and maybe that love will turn into a passion, maybe a passion for swimming but you won't be turning into a mermaid at all. I hope this helps, please if you have any more questions do not hesitate to contact me again.
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hi guys, please explain this, my one and a half year of boyfreind says, i think we should split up, don't you?' he says he loves me but it's not working...what does he mean, guys? i love him to death and he loves me as well and he sometimes also says his son comes fisrt. well, he has a son with his ex girlfriend. i just feel so damn broken. we haven't split up but he just seems to want to, i guess. thankyou guys.
Well, I'm a girl but hopefully being an outsider on your relationship I can figure out whats going on here. Regarding the line "My son comes first" He could be feeling guilty about spending time with you and not his son and feels like the only way to do that would be to break up as the temptation to see you wouldn't be there. If he says he loves you but its not working it could just mean that he needs a break from the relationship to refresh the relationship and see if he's making the right decision going out with you as right now you seem to be in a long term relationship and he could possibly feel that it's not fair on you to be in a relationship if he has doubts. I think what you guys should do is sit down and talk it out. Ask him why he doesn't think the relationship is working. Just get all your problems out in the open and make compromises for each other. Hope this helps, good luck xx
i used to poke my hand inside the vagina to clean it, is this right? A friend told me I'm not suppose to coz my vagina needs those discharge bacterias! Can u please advise
You shouldn't do that. You only clean the outside of your vagina because the inside is self cleansing. The only reason why you would use a pessary would be because you have some kind of bacterial infection like thrush. Just clean the outside, what you can see. Hope this helps xx
Hey
I am about ten weeks pregnant. Me and fiance stil have sex. After that I turn to get cramps. Is it safe for us to be still having sex? Will this affect the baby? When can we have sex and when should we stop?
Will be looking to the responses
Thanx in advance!
You can have sex throughout your whole pregnancy so long as it's a normal pregnancy with no problems. However if your fiancé is to perform oral on you it would be best if he stuck to just kissing and licking rather than placing his Tongue inside your vagina. Another thing is for your partner to not blow air into your vagina as this is really dangerous because you can potentially block a blood vessel. Apart from that your fine. Hope this helps!!xx
i am 12 year old boy i have never hade sexual contact but i have a ich on my penis and sometimes a rash
If you haven't had sexual contact with anyone than it definitely can't be an STD or STI. I recommend going to the doctors to get checked out because it could either be down to bad hygiene, or using the wrong kind of soaps etc. Or it could be male thrush so I recommend seeing a doctor to get properly diagnosed, hope this helps!!xx
it seems that i ALWAYS have razor burn on the area where my thighs touch my crotch. haha. i know its weird, but idk if it's razor burn or just a heat rash. but i do think it's ingrown hairs and razor burn. how can i prevent this? should i start waxing in this area? here's a picture to show the same area that mine are in
http://www.americanhealthandbeauty.com/images/bikini-rash.jpg
thanks for your help!
I don't think it's razor burn I think its where your skin is rubbing together, causing there to be a rash because of the friction, your skin is chafing.
Chafing often occurs on the inner thigh, groin area, armpits, nipples, etc. as a result of sweating, and friction from body parts rubbing together, or friction from clothing. The best treatment for chafing is prevention.
Stay hydrated - Drink plenty of water to prevent dehydration. Among other things, staying well hydrated will help prevent chafing by allowing you to perspire freely. When you stop perspiring your sweat will form salt crystals on your body increasing friction.
Clothing - Select snug fitting (but not tight) clothing. Shorts or jog bras that are too tight or too loose will create friction and rubbing.
Choose breathable, wicking fabrics .... Coolmax, Supplex, Polypro, etc are good choices. No cotton!
Clothing should have few seams, flat seams, and small flat stitching.
Do not wear untested clothing on a long walk and never wear unwashed new clothing.
Stay Dry - Use talcum powder or cornstarch to stay dry. (Gold Bond is highly recommended and can be found in most drug stores. Two Toms Blister shield is another good option.)
Lubricant - When you increase your mileage all other efforts may fail (when you do sports etc). It is time for real preventative. There are a variety of lubricants on the market. They are readily available at most running stores. Many people use petroleum jelly because it is inexpensive and easy to find.
Treatment - The general treatment for chafing is to treat the area by washing with soap and cool to luke warm water. Then apply an antibacterial ointment or antiseptic spray, cover with a bandaid or sterile guaze. This works well, but some people do prefer diaper nappy rash ointment) It relieves pain and itch, promotes healing, and keeps the area lubricated so you can continue walking without discomfort.
Hope this helps, xx
Ok, so I know this sounds weird but my 12 year old cousin likes to rub her back against the carpet. I walked in on her a few days ago. She was lying on the floor on her back with her legs bent at the knee and her feet pushing against the wall with her shirt pulled up so that her back was rubbing against the carpet. It was kinda weird when she noticed I was in the room a couple minutes later I could tell she was embarrassed so I just kinda laughed it off but I was kinda worried, I mean wouldn't that hurt? You can get serious carpet burn! Anyway, it was just weird and I asked her about it and she said she only does it after she takes her run and she's all sweaty. She said she's been foin it for a long time.She said it feels good when she does it and the only time she gets burned is when she does it on her stomach. When she showed me her back it was really red and it had lots of bumps on it. Soo gross. Her skin sucks and it's probably from what she's doing. I told Brookie that she should stop because it's obviously not good for her skin but she just got all defensive and pissed and told me to mind my own business and that she was fine. So I just walked off and left her alone. But anyway, even though she's a brat she's still my cousin and I'm worried about her? It's just soo weird. I dont get it. What should I do? Does she have some kind of skin problem? I'm 13 by the way and she's 12
Her skin is salty after running from the sweat and this is what is making her skin itch. It would be a lot better for her if she just took a shower after her run and got and maybe got herself a back scrubber to help with the irritation she might be feeling. The friction from her rubbing her back on the carpet is breaking her skin and causing all these bumps, if she continues to do it then she is more than likely going to make her back bleed. The first step to stopping breakouts is to get your skin clean. Talk to her calmly about what she's doing, tell her your worried about her and that she is damaging her skin. She needs to stop and if she continues after your talk then you would probably need to bring an adult into the equation.
Hope this helps xx
What foods or some drinks(no meds) will make me poop a lot
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Eat plenty of fruit to be able to poop. Fruit is high in fiber which is needed to add roughage to your digestive system. The skins of some fruits actually hold more fiber than their fleshy contents. When eating fruit, it is most important to consume the outer peeling as well.
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Grains are also a good choice when trying to stay 'regular'. Grains are a contradiction to processed and refined foods which carry lots of fat. Fat is much harder to digest. Grains are naturally high fiber foods which also make you feel full preventing over eating. over eating has been the culprit as well in the inability to poop.
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Vegetables are great for your digestive system. Paired with whole grain breads, protein and water; vegetables have their benefits in balancing the meal with ample fiber intake. Vegetables are delicious raw and often have full fiber benefit if eaten in this manner. To poop well; eat your vegetables.
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Liquids like water or juices are essential to the body in more ways than one. As well as keeping us hydrated; water is wonderful for flushing out toxins. But alot of people are unaware of the effect that liquids have on the stools. Wastes are softer and easier to pass when the body is hydrated.
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Legumes are widely know to add fiber to the diet. Although they can be gassy or have the ability to bloat; in small amounts they are very beneficial to the diet and digestive system.
These foods are necessary to balance the diet and keep the system clean. Constipation, or the inability to poop, can become a very serious condition if an individual continues to eat large amounts of processed foods. All natural is the way to go when trying to keep your system active. These foods that keep you active and feeling good also help you poop. And that is simply said.
Hope this helps, xx
how do you loose weight fast? and on your thighs? please help, there not huge, but I want them to be a little smaller. By the way I'm a girl.
Weight gain is always associated with accumulation of fats on different areas of the body. Some carry more fat on their upper limbs, while others have it on their belly. But for most people, especially women, areas of the thigh are a major source of fat accumulation, resulting in a body shaped like a pear -- wherein the upper half appears leaner than the lower half because of wide and bulky thighs.
Exercising for at least 30 minutes daily and eating a diet high in lean proteins, whole grains, fruits and vegetables and low in refined sugars and flour will help you to reach your weight loss goals. Keep in mind we do not have a way to target weight loss to a certain area (wouldn't that be grand!). If you lose weight in your thighs, you will likely lose weight all over. Use strength and toning to improve the size, shape and look of your thighs.
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Watch what you eat. Add more protein and fiber to your diet. Fiber keeps your body lean and healthy, while protein helps to boost the effects of your exercise.
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Jump rope three to four times per week. This is a good thigh exercise and is an excellent warm-up or cool-down routine. Start by turning the rope forward and alternately jump your legs using the jogging pace. Slightly bend your knees to keep the impact low as you jump, and keep your back straight during the entire procedure. You can increase the difficulty by jumping both legs at the same time instead of doing the jogging pace or step.
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Ride an exercise bike, swim, jog or go on a brisk walk. These are excellent aerobic exercises that trim your thighs and your whole body. For an effective hit on your thighs, try to stand up instead of sitting down in an exercise bike and pedal as fast as you can. For swimming, paddle your legs more as you go over with your strokes, especially when you're doing the back stroke. Jog three to four times a week. You can incorporate it with brisk walking if you choose to. Begin by jogging at a comfortable pace for about 30 seconds and then brisk walk until you have enough energy to jog again. Execute this alternating jog and walk cycle for 25 to 30 minutes, three times per week.
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Execute squats three times per week. Start by having your own body weight as a resistance for the first three weeks of your squat routine. Stand upright with your feet shoulder-width apart. Inhale as you lower yourself to a squat -- bend your knees, keeping your knees from extending past your toes, until your thighs are parallel to the ground. Exhale as you go back to standing position. Make sure to keep your back straight during execution. Do this procedure in three sets of 10 repetitions. Gradually increase your resistance after the first three weeks by performing it with dumbbells in both hands. As you improve, work your way up to using a Smith machine or barbell.
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Perform some dumbbell lunges. Begin by standing upright, feet shoulder-width apart, with dumbbells in both hands. Relax your arms and shoulders to allow the dumbbells to hang down at your sides. Step your right leg forward as far as you can, while you keep your left leg in place. As your right foot lands in front of you, bend both your knees to lower your body. Then step your right foot back to starting position. Now step forward using your left leg. Repeat the right and left alternating lunge 10 to 15 times. When you flex both your knees, make sure that the knee of your front leg (the one stepping forward) is not flexed beyond your front toes. Make sure your back leg (the one in place) does not touch the floor as you flex.
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Execute some leg raises. Lie flat on your back on an exercise mat. Inhale as you elevate your legs and exhale as you bring them back down without letting them touch the floor. Maintain your legs elevated about 1 to 2 inches from the floor and make your legs stop on that level as you bring it back down. Repeat 10 times and relax.
Hope this helps, xx
well me and my boyfriend where playing around yesterday. his penis touched my vagina and he pre-cumed a little. after that he fingered me and i think that way the precum may have gotten into me and now i'm scared that i'm pregnant cause now is also the time when i'm most fertil :/ can precum cause pregnancy? and afterwards he also went into me for like 3 seconds but i told him to pull out. i dont think he pre-cumed when he was in me though. and i also had a few drinks which is also the reason i was so careless (is there a chance that the alcohol could've prevented pregnancy?) .. usually i always use a condom and i'm very careful. is there a high chance that i might be pregnant?
Yes there is a chance you could be pregnant due to pre-cum and no alcohol can not prevent the pregnancy unless you mean it in the sense that had you not have drank so much this probably wouldn't have happened. You could always get the morning after pill and if your really not sure then you must wait about 2-3 weeks from the time that you had sex with him to take a home pregnancy test. When there's no form of birth control and he goes inside you or he pre-cums in you or near the opening of your vagina then there's always a slight chance of pregnancy. This might not have been the answer you wanted to hear but maybe next time try to be a little bit more careful?
Hope this helps xx