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am i infertile or what?
hi, me and my boyfriend are dating for almost 2 years and i'm in my early 30's and he's in late 40's. we live together. my question is, he's been ejaculating in me for a past 3 months and i always get a period every month as usual. he never wears condom and i'm not on a pill. i know, we're having sex without the protection. we're not trying to have a baby yet but if i'm pregnant then we're more than happy. does it mean we're infertile or how long normally does it take to be a pregnant? thank you all so much.
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For some couples it could take ages to get pregnant for others it could be the first time they have sex. The only way to decipher whether or not one of you is infertile is to go for a fertility test. I'd suggest making an appointment with your local doctor/G.P. and discuss what's going on but generally around 85% of couples conceive naturally within one year of having regular unprotected sex. Normally after one year of trying people tend to visit their doctor but some earlier if they have any reason to doubt their fertility or if they're over a certain age (women over 35)It's best for both of you to go to the doctors as it's not just on your part it is also his part too. Trying to conceive a child is very emotional and it is important to support one another as stress can affect the process. If you were taking contraception and recently stopped that could be affecting it as certain types of contraception take a while to stop.
I wish you the best of luck, hope this helps, inbox if you need more help xxx
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The problem may not be you it may be him. He may have a low sperm count. The only way to know for sure who or what is the problem is for both of you to be checked by a fertility doctor.
Getting pregnant is not as easy as it sounds. While trying to get pregnant is the easy and the most fun part. The actual mechanics of getting pregnant is complicated. A high sperm count is needed, as well as an egg being in place for the sperm to fertilize. This is where the complicated parts of getting pregnant are. Only a fertility specialist can tell you if there is a problem with you or your boyfriend and if these problems can be overcome.
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