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I'm 17 years old, i've been through alot, but it means i've got the expirience to help those going through the same or similar so that they don't end up lost like i did, i've been lucky enough to have alot of wisdom past on to me and i'd like to use this to help people so if you've got a problem c'mon =]] Let's hear it and i'll get back to you asap

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how many r in the band BLUE

4 people are in the band blue please rate me thanks

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Last summer I met a guy and we started dating. We broke up three times and I'm still not over him. I really love him and he doesn't feel the same. He changes his girl almost every week and I can't cope with it anymore. I can't get over him, I've tried but I can't. I don't know what to do about it, I love him so much.

This guy is obviously a user he dates girls just for a bit of fun and you should not feel guilty about loving him as it was not your fault you dated him just try and look at the positve's and try to move on i wish you good luck and i hope my advice has helped please rate me thanks.

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ok i have a friend that is so called in love with this boy they only met once and she though that they will last forever but now he doesn't even try to call her he calls me non stop and now she thinks i like him but i don't. i don't want to loseany of my friends as of right now. so what should i do

Tell this slime ball whats what tell him that you don't like him and that your mate does...
i wish you good luck and i hope my advice has helped you please rate me. thanks

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well im only 13 years old...and ive just recentaly lost my virginty to my boyfriend...and now that i did have sex with him he dosent call me that much or come and see me ....i think he might of just used me ...but im not sure??? what should i do?

I f i was you i would go and tell him whats what i mean it's obvious that he used you to have sex and you are not to blame because you did'nt know about his intentions and i think that you should play it cool for a while them get rid of this boy...
I hope my advice has helped and please rate me thanks

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ok so theres this guy that i "talked" to for a few weeks, and we went on a couple dates, then one night it went a lil further...then the next day he stopped calling me as much and stopped texting me, and we never hang out ne more. But wenever i see him at school he comes up and gives me a hug. Which sucs cuz everytime i see him he like takes my breath away...but for the past week i've been trying to play it cool and pretend like i dont like him, n wenever he gives me a hug or talks to me...i just pretend like i don't care...but the truth is I'm insanly attached to him, and i miss him sooo much. So i still call him like every night, n he used to pick up and we'd talk for a few hours, now he doesnt even pick up...I dont know what to do...he broke my heart, n now he said he's back with his Ex..how do i get over him...he drives me insane,I just want to be with him, but i know i can't.
-broken hearted-

this guy has done a very bad thing it is clear that you had something between you and he has not valued that but at the same time if you don't show that you like him then he will not calll you because he will think it is pointless so tell him how you feel the only reason he is back with his ex is because he wants you to want him and be jealous ..........
I hope my advice has helped you and plz rate me.....

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i have a really big problem. Ive been talking to this kid for about 3 weeks but only been dating him for 3 days. I lost my virginty to him last week and i think he has a anger problem and he makes me cry alot. he gets mad over little stuff, like if i look at him and stuff. and he barley talks to me when i see him and he doesnt say goodbye all the time. he never wants to be near me it feels like. we havent done anything together in a couple of days but weve also havent been alone really. i love him so much and he treats me like shit. And my bestest friend in the whole world who i always hang out with and he always goes to her house along with her boyfriend. but shes been hanging around this other girl whos older and is a pothead and turned my friend back into a pothead. now my best friend lies to me, ignores my calls, rides in cars with all theses boys. never has anytime for me and shes always with that girl and i dont like her and neither does my bffl's boyfriend or mine dont like her. and shes trying to make my best friend hate her boyfriend and tells her that hes treating her like trash and stuff. i have nothing. my boyfriend doesnt feel the same way as i do. i can tell when i look at him. and now i dont have my bffl. i dont know what im gonna do. ive thought about talking to my boyfriend and tell him the truth, that i cry myself to sleep every night and that everynight i sit in the dark with a blade across my wrist looking for a good enough reason to do it but then i always think... maybe things will get better maybe hell change. but i dont think they well. im thinking of giving up. my school grades are all fs im probably gonna stay back, my boyfriend treats me like shit and i love him so much and now i dont have my bffl. i dont know what to do. plz help

well there is no reasom for you to take your own life or hurt yourself your best freind is a total bitch if she is treating you like this and as for your boyfriend he has got what he wanted from you and that was sex and now he don't care but you do so tell him and tell him he has to change or you will dump him but if he gets angry get out of there incase he turns on you and hits you.....
Please Don't Kill Yourself You Have Done Nothing Wrong..............
I hope my advice has helped

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When a guy puts his arm around a girls waist do u think the girl should put her arm around his waist or like his shoulders??

I think that you maybe should put your arm around him but don't make a move unless you are totally sure that he is doin g it because he likes you...
i hope my advice has helped you.....
plz rate me thanks

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I have a best friend, we fight ALL the time and last night she invited me to this skating thing.. so I went. Well I got there and she was ignoring me for this little 6th grader and her other annoying friends I want to be her bestfriend but when she treats me this way I just want to stay away from her.. what do I do?

Don't let people treat you like that why do you need friends that invite you to things then blank you if you like being treated badly then carry on trying to impress this girl but if you don't tell her where to stick her friendship....
i hope my advice has helped you...

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hey there,
theres this guy at school I really really like.
Before our xmas vacation,we had this party at school. Out of no-where, he just said "hey S".
A week later, he asks me about the yearbook comitee.
After the vic, we had PE together, he called my name and when I turned, he waved with a big smile on his face. I was so surprised, after that I developed a crush on him. But all he does is say "hi" and told me one funny thing my guyfriend did(they're in the same class). I really dont know, does he have a crush on me? Every time I decide to give up on him, someone says he glanced at my direction or was staring at me.
I really need your advice, should I wait or should I give up on him?

i think that you should wait a while before taking action he is flirting with you because he likes you and you are flirting with him because you like him i think that you and this guy have a special something that will develop in time but you can't rush it because guys don't like to rush things ... i hope my advice has helped you...

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Ok, theres this guy that went to my church last night and he was SOO cute and really funny! and his eyes are VERY pretty, they arent blue or green they are brown but SOO pretty! lol anyway, we have a youth group place and we went to the worship place and its where we like stand up, then sit down and then stand up ya know and when i looked at him he was staring at me! im only 13 and i guess i should know what that means but i dont! haha everytime i looked he was staring at me! and when he first did it, he like jerked his eyes away quick and i did the same but later on we would take like 2 seconds glances, like i dunno! what does that mean? does he like em or jsut think im cute! please i need advice before i make myself look stupid! haha

I think that there is something between you and him he probabily likes you because it seems to me he looks away because he is shy just play it cool and don't make any drastic advances untill you are totally sure he likes you i hope my advice has helped you.........

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i am sooooooooooooooo fuckin fat. i eat healthy and do 50 sit ups and do track and run up lke 20 stairs at least 2 times a day!why the fuck am i so fat and how can i be skinny again? please help im so desperate.

it may not be that you are fat you may just be big boned my body is a big build yet i am as fit and healthy as ever i hardly eat choclate,sweets ect and don't keep puting yourself down because i bet that loads of people think your very nice looking just be positive about yourself and if other people don't like it then they get get stuffed because your opinion is the only one that matters i hope my advice has helped

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I think my cat is dying and i don't know what to do because my mom is pretending that he is fine but i need to break it to her that he is really sick plz help

You definately need to tell your mom so she understands that your cat is sick but tell her gently and be prepared for anything okay....
I hope my advice has helped

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The other day, I told my ex boyfriend's best friend that I sometimes still care about my ex. I am going to guess the he told my ex this. Today, after english class my ex walks up to me. He said my name and I said what. Then he said "I don't hate you." Do you think he said this because he still cares about me? Or do you think he said this just to let me know that he doesn't hate me. I find it ironic that he's just going to walk up and tell me this. Thanks. Good answer, good rating.

your ex-boyfriend is saying he cares about you still because guys don't walk up to people and say i don't hate you unless they care for you very much maybe you could take a chance and date him again... i hope my advice has helped

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i need a place to store my work where can i get one?

www.virtual-workspace.com is a great online work space to store all your own work ect...

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just warning you, this may get long!

last night me and my boyfriend of nearly 3 years were in my room and sleeping. not fooling around, literally sleeping. then my dad comes in and freaks out bitching like we had sex or something.

the situation is that i'm the only girl in the family and they treat me like crap. i do the dishes almost every night, take care of my sick grandma, do the laundry, clean the house, and do well in school yet they still look down upon me like i can't be trusted. i am a very responsible girl and i have had enough of them snooping through my room and checking up on me.

the only possible reason why i think they could be acting like this is that we don't communicate very well with each other, let alone get along. maybe bitching is their way of talking to me? even so, that doesn't explain the overprotectiveness!

my question is what can i do to make them trust me? i feel like i've done everything, all ending in failure.

i used to really HATE them for what they put me through, but when they made an effort to BE NICE things got better. our relationship has improved over the past two of months, but after what happened last night, my grudge against them has returned.

please help, i don't know what else i can do. it seems like nothing is ever good enough for them...

-frustrated

You need to tell your parents about the way you feel because we are all entitiled to our privacy and you should not have to do all the jobs you do i mean you and your boyfriend were not having sex or anything you were sleeping and the reason they are over protective is because being the only girl in the family they don't want you to leave them deep down they really love you but they are hidding there feeling i don't think that they should go though your stuff or accuse you and your boyfriend of doing things so talk to them and tell them exactly how you feel......
I hope my advice will help you and please rate me
Thanks

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about three months ago my ex-boyfriend died. i broke up with him b4 he got sick or i knew he was sick. after his death i had feelings of guilt. i thought his funeral would help he seek closure but it only made it worse. now all i can ever think about is how unfair it is. sometimes i have nightmares about him hating me. i used to go to a therapist before his death for other issues but and i didnt really like it b/c i never got any advice or anything. but sometimes the nightmares are too much to take and all i want to do is cry. and sometimes i cant cry hard enough to make the pain stop. and all the things ppl say like "hes in a better place" doesnt change the fact that hes dead. does anyone know how to deal with death?

Dealing with death is a very difficult thing and you feel guilty because you dumped him and then he got sick and "moved on to a better place" deep down you are thinking that you are some how responsible for his death but you are not.....
i understand that you have the nightmares about him hating you but he does not hate you he loves you and he watches over you everyday giving you protection and keeping you safe so when you feel sad look up and think of all the good times you and your ex-boyfriend had before the split up i think that you should talk to your mates and your parents also maybe you could talk to your ex's mom and dad because they can offer help aswell....
I hope my advice has helped!!!
p.s please rate me Thanks

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what if I know this person and she was going to cheat on this guy and I was her bff and i ilked this guy but she just got asked to be his gf and I dont know what to do because she is going to play this guy and I want to tell him because he will be really sad, what should I do ??? I dont want it to ruin a long frendship

Your friend should not be allowed to treat people like this i mean is she is really your friend she will thank you later and as for this guy i think you should tell him about her plans because your friend won't be the one that gets hurt this guy will..... I hope my advice has helped you.....

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ohkay.. a few days ago i asked a question about how would a guy like a girl to make the first move as far as making out. i didnt get the kind of answer i was looking for. can anyone give me a detailed answer on a good SPECIFIC way to make a first move as far as making out?

Guys like to be surprised so take him by surprise nut only try to make a move when the time is right this means not up town where there are other people watching because he may think you are doing it to make people jealous so pick a time when you are alone and take him by surprise go for a goal.... i wish you good look with your problem and i hope this advice is usefull

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i have a horrible sunburn.... i mean horrible! it doesnt even look that red but it KILLS! for example, i went to bed at 10pm and i woke up at 12 not being able to sleep bc it hurt so bad! what can i do! when can i start going to the tannign place again?

It is a well known fact the tanning places can increase the chance of cancer it's not good for you and the pain you have now if it gets any worse you should go to see a doctor also i would go to the tanning place and complain about the pain you are in.... i hope the pain goes away quickly.......

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