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For people who have IMVU--they had a banner for a while saying to go visit this certain page early february for something that gives you a valentines gift around valentines day.
Anyways, how do you do this? I lost the page with the information, and the banner is gone. (link)
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Alright I am like 75% sure on this:
You go to the main page before either the 7th or the 14th and you get a sticker.
Then sometime after the 7th or 14th you trade the sticker in for a gift.
Sorry I can't be more sure on this. Try the IMVU forums.
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How can you tell if someone your dating is just in the relationship to get sex? (link)
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Do you guys ever do anything besides have sex? Take sex out of the relationship for awhile. That will pretty much tell you everything you need to know.
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Umm yeah this is kind of embarrassing but yeah she want's to have sex but i don't know because i don't know what to expect, like will she bleed or will she get hurt or i don't know would you be able to tell me a little bit more please?? thank you
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I saw that someone said it will hurt a little. LIES! It will hurt like hell. So be gentle. And yes, if the hymen breaks there will be blood.
If she is down for it, go for it. It'll get better but your 1st time will suck.
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i'm really sensitive and whenever someone says something that hurts my feelings i get really really upset and sometimes ill even start crying. i really hate it because i feel so stupid and i feel like a freaking baby. does anyone know any ways to get me to stop being this sensitive? thankss~ (link)
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No! But I do the same thing and it is annoying!
I just walk away when I feel tears come up. It at least buys me time to calm myself down. Good luck.
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Can you cum if your cherry isn't popped? I'm kinda curious, thats the question that actually lead me to find this site...
15/F... (link)
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Yes you can! It is quite fun.
Enjoy yourself,
AAG
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Is it possible to get a pimple if your lower area? (link)
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Yes it is possible.
And it sucks.
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my boyfriend and i have been going out for a year and he feels its about time for us to have sex. i keep telling him that im not ready but to him he just sees it as i dont want to with him. neither of us have done it and we are 18 and 19. i dont know what to do because i want to but 1.im scared of it hurting 2.i dont feel ready and 3.i dont really want him to want it all the time after i do it.
help! (link)
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If you are not ready, just don't. There is a good chance it will hurt like hell. But really that is irrelevant since you do not feel ready.
Just stick to fooling around.
I hope it works out.
-AAG
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i've been going to my new school for about a week now. and i'm quite literally, the only girl in my class.
i want a perspecitve, on a boy thing. i'm thirteen, and i'm a girl, but i'd bet that's no surprise.
basically, on my first day of school, this boy was very helpful to me and since, then he's been talking to me and playing around with me in gym. more specifically:
apparently this boy used to fall asleep for a while every morning, and since i've been there, he hasn't.
he's asked me constantly how i think my new school is, and told me pretty in depth what he wants to be when he grows up. like a heart to heart thing.
Multiple classmates (and even a teacher) give him crap about how he's pretended he's had balls, in their words, since i've come to school.
By the way he reacts to everything the class says, he either hates that everyone think he likes me, or he really really does like me. I think he's really sweet, i just can't tell what he wants, or why he seems to like me so much. Or if he even likes me at all. (link)
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It sounds like he likes you.
Good work, mate.
Good luck.
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What is a software that i can use to make like only one thing in the picture colored while the rest of the picture is black and white? thanks in advance (link)
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Photoshop.
But if you download it from file sharing it is free and a complete version.
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ok so me and boyfriend have been going out for a while now and we both want to have sex but im scared that i will get pregnant i cant let this happen and hes really cool about not doing anything but i want to im jst kinda scared. (link)
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Don't go too fast. You can always get each other off without sex.
Now when you do have sex, use a condom, get on the pill, or see an herbalist. (Contraceptive herbs are safer than the pill).
Take care and good luck,
AAG
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I'm a 15 year old vegetarian in highschool. I'm the type of person who needs to eat food...good food...very often. I was wondering if anyone has good ideas for my school lunch
*nothing that needs to be kept cold
*low fat
*NO MEAT!!! (link)
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Hummus and pita
Raw veggies (with dip)
Tofurkey
Fruit
Vegan meatball subs (sooooooo good)
Cheese and crackers
muffins
Trail mix
Anything! Meat can always be substituted with soy meat.
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when kissing a boy, what should you wear.. like lip gloss, or chapstick, or nothing? like i have kissed before, but i never know what would be the least akward thing. (link)
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Don't use anything on your lips, unless your lips are actually chapped. However you may want to use mints (just in case).
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Whats a good way to get rich in the free version of runescape? (link)
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My sister got rich by begging. Also, fight everything you can. And complete quests.
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I apoligize if this is in the wrong catagory..
I support PETA's campaign, stating not to wear real fur, leather, and wool. However, I do not know if some things that I own are real leather, or just fake leather. I do not own any leather clothing, but I do have leather binders for school.
I REALLY don't want to use real leather, so I would like advice on how to tell the difference between real leather and fake leather. However, they won't tell you on the product most of the time, so I can't do that.
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The easiest way to see if it is real, is to sniff it.
I work for an thrift store that supports animal rights so we don't sell leather. I have to tell the difference between real and fake leather ALL THE TIME. If it smells like leather, it is leather.
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im a small girl like physically....as in short
im 19 years old and me and my boyfriend want to have sex but the thing is we tried to before and his penis wouldnt go in. hes fingured me alot! but wen we tried to do it it wouldnt go in. and am also wondering if it would hurt when we do it because ive already been fingured.plz help (link)
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Have him finger you before he puts it in. Also, take it slow and try to help navigate him in. You may also want to get lube (or at least lubicated condoms).
Good luck!
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my mom makes me walk to the library after school on tuesdays and thursdays. well its fine except i always get like shouted at by boys and men. i dont wear revealing clothes or anything but they always say things like, "nice ass" or "hey hottie' and i hate it so much. it happens whenever my parents arent with me. what can i do? (link)
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Welcome to the wonderful world of patriarchy.
If they are near you and look like they are about to say something. Say something positive (like even a what's up) first, and keep moving. It changes the energy of the situation so they are less likely to yell.
Try to get to the library another way.
Finally, headphones. At least you won't be able to hear them. Just keep aware of your surroundings if you have them on, and you are in a place where you are often sexually harassed. In other words, don't get raped.
Good luck.
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Im 16/F and ive never been kissed. I'm not a loser..i have a lot of guy and girl friends but i just have never made out with anyone. Is this bad? (link)
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No it is not. Please don't lower your standards should a make out opportunity arise. My best friend didn't make out with anyone until she was 18. She is not a loser. She actually regrets the person she made out with because desperation made her lower her standards.
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how can i tell whether or not my bf is using me, or if all the kissing & stuff is out of affection? weve been together 5 months, and the farthest its gone is like fingerin n stuff, and thats the most experience for either of his... but still.. i mean maybe im just afraid of being used? he doesnt pressure me into anything...
16-f (link)
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Well, there are 2 possibilities:
1. He is.
2. It is all in your head.
I think I will just deal with the second one since there is no way for me to know what your boyfriend is thinking and because the second one is my specialty as far as advice goes.
Do you guys ever just hang out? I don't mean kissing, or stuff. I mean doing nothing but just giggling together and enjoying each other as friends? It is really amazing how much a night like that can cement a relationship. Share some interests. If he is a good pal, chances are you guys will get along better, and you won't be so worried about him using you.
Also, if he was really out to just use somebody, he could find someone sluttier and get her in the sack in under 5 months.
I hope it all works out. Tell him if he breaks your heart, anonymous advice giver will break his face.
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I am under age.. where can i find birth control pills ... do i have to go to a doctor or can i buy them over the counter? (link)
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Try Planned Parenthood. Every underage girl I have ever known who was on birth control pills got them from Planned Parenthood. If nothing else,they can give you a big bag of free condoms and that is always fun!
You can also try to find a good herbalist and go on herbal birth control (which is safer, cheap, and effective). There aren't those nasty little side effects like your offspring becoming sterile, which is a side effect of the pill.
Good luck and be safe.
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Im getting a filling tomorrow for a cavity!! Im really scared. Does it hurt? (link)
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Quick answer: No
Long answer: No, the only pain I have ever had from a filling is the slight prick of the needle they use to numb you up super well and afterwards when the numbing wears off and I realized I accidently chewed the inside of my mouth to shreds because I was so numb. So don't chew the inside of your mouth. You'll be fine.
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