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I'm a nineteen year old girl whos dreams are to help the world. But for now, I'll start on Advicenators :)I can't say I can relate to every question that comes my way (probably most though!), but I guarantee I'll understand. And sometimes that's all you need...a little understanding :)
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so there is this boy jordan who i really like. he's a really good friend. I dont really know if he likes me but he be flirting with me alot and he will just stare at me for along time. I will ask him what and he will just shrug. and when we walk by each other we smile at each other all the time. One time while we was eating lunch he was just messing and flirting with me and i thought in my head omg he likes me and then my this other girl was like tiffany he likes you and i was like i know to her. but then he be talking about girls alot but he usually just be lying about the girls because his sister be telling me he's lieing. but he has family that live in canada and there's this girl there and i think he likes her because this guy ask if this boy named mike liked him and his little brother was like no but jordan does. so i think he likes that girl. but i dont know what to do. i know the only thing to do is talk to him but i really cant do that. so help me please
I don't get why girls say "I like this boy, but I can't tell him. What should I do?!"
WHY can't you tell them? If your looking for any kind of relationship, remember, communication is a key factor. So start off your communication skills early by telling him!
By the way, the girl lives in Canada. She's no competition.
so there's this guy he is pretty much amazing
we are really close friends.
he's been gone for a month and just came back today and i was acting pretty shy, it wasnt really obvious but like when i would lift my glass, because he was there, i would be shaking really quickly. and before he got there and before i knew he was like 20 minutes i was fine. i dont know its just weird. and i really like him. well pretty of girls like him i'm sure. and i get jealous when i think about girls that i know like him. what should i do. like i definitely can't talk to him about it because he would just tell his whole family which i'm close to and he has a really big family and they are really close and i just cant tell him but can you give me some advice on this please.
Do you think he likes you too?
If so, tell him then. What's so wrong with his family knowing...think about it.
well me and my boyfriend are very happy and falling in love, but I haven't seen him in a month and its so hard! what are some things I can do to get him off my mind? besides phone calls and texting him. because it makes me miss him more.
Be glad you still miss. At least its not an out of sight, out of mind thing. Soo now you know its true love ;)
Ways to stop the missing pain though? Well my boyfriend has been gone, too. One week left! :) I hung out with my girlfriends as much as possible. Its true, when your in a relationship, in most cases, you just simply don't hang out with your friends as much.
Go shopping or spend the day getting your nails done and stuff :)
me & my boyfriend are both virgins, we have done everythink else wev bin goin out 4 6 months. hes 16 and im 15. wel we had dry sex ages ago he came all over me and did sorta entr me 2 but only a little bit. aneways that was 2months ago i havent had a period since. can i be pregnant?
Considering you did everything else, fingering and stuff, that could mess up your period.
Have you been stressed?
Are your periods ever late?
He came inside of you a little??? You might be. Go get a pregnancy test!
Ok My names dj and ive been with this girl that ive never met.. in real life.. i met her on the internet and i know this is dumb but ive stayed with her for almost a year and a half now and sometimes i feel like she has done things on me and she tells me shes a virgin and her friends tell me to.. we are very far apart and we talk bout having a family and all that when she turns 18 she is gonna move down to indiana with me and I'm really jealous of this dude ryan because shegave him a handjob last summer becuase i told her i got a new girlfriend.. and im scared bout this summer shes gonna have sex on me or she is having sex on me and shes not telling me the truth is there anyway i can get the truth some how.. i need advice because i tell her i dont wanna be with her no more and then she says shit she dont mean like she did have sex... then im like ok im not gonna leave you.. and then she says i was jk because u made me mad.. and shes very sweet how do i know if shes lieing or not... i beg you people plz email me advice and answers at lil_skaggs88@yahoo.com
Hola DJ! Any girl trying to hurt you by saying she's had sex with other guys is NO sweet heart.
Sounds to me like you have some trust issues going on and what's a HUGE part of a relationship? Trust. So, that's what you two need to work on. Talk to her about this MAJOR issue. If you don't see eye to eye on it, maybe it's time to break it off and find someone you can physically BE with.
Orrrr you could always just fire an investigator where she lives :) HAA
Orrrr go see her!
what does it mean when a guy asks you if you have a bfriend then tells you that he is single as well.
will a guy lie about liking you.
Of course guys will lie about liking you!
Anddd it USUALLY means he's into you.
Hi, would you know where to find Graduation songs for for grade 5's? (I'm not in grade 5, my sister is. She needs a song appropriate enough for her to sing for her school on her Graduation day from elemantary school!) She REALLY wants to find one! She would really appreciate your help, but its ok if you dont know any graduation songs for grade 5's. We wont hate you!!
thanks!!
Here's other people's suggestions:
http://www.menc.org/forums/viewtopic.php?id=2217
ok well im 16 and my boyfriend and i were both virgins when we decided to have sex. I knew that be fore me he had only gotten oral sex from other girls. i have been on birth control for a while now and we had had unprotected sex before and i have gotten a yeast in fection a while ago then a while after that cleared up we ahd sex again and i had discharge very similar to a yeast in fection but not itchy at all. That didnt clear up for a while but now just every once in a while i will get a white-ish looking discharge. I'm worried i might have an STD or something. what should i do?
Get checked out! It's very likely you have an STD =/ I hope not!
Girls also get a whitish discharge a few days before their about to start their period. So, maybe that's it. But I'd still totally get checked out!
Please help me! I'm a 13-year-old girl in eighth grade and I have moved 2 times. I've been attending my new school for 9 months and I have only one friend. It's not that I'm not nice or that I don't want friends - I just can't seem to make them. When I meet a nice person and I talk to them, I can't think of anything to say and we just don't become friends. Everyone at school ignores and neglects me and I sit in a corner and don't talk to anyone. Do I have ADD? Help! I'm kind of...hopelessly miserable!
Cheer up chickity! hmm well maybe that one friend of yours could introduce you to some of her friends. Talk to her about it. She is your friend, you should be able to talk to her about how your feeling. I'm sure if she knew you were sad inside, she'd love to help you out!
Maybe to get to know some people, host a slumber party at your house! :)
i am 15 and i have a friend and we have been talking for about a month now and i think he likes me but i know he has a girlfriend he loves to talk on the phone with me sometimes after 2 in the morning he comes to see me and dont see her he says things that a male would tell their girlfriend he takes up for me and before we always hangs up he tell me he love me and gets mad if i dint he won't hang up the phone unless i tell him what should i do because i have a crush on him to?
Any guy that's playing two girls at the same time has no respect for woman and is a JERK.
I think you need to bring it to his attention what he's doing. STAND STRONG and stick up for all the other girls out there who's buttholeboyfriends and cheating on them.
This guy and I have been dating for almost three months now.Is it weird we haven't kissed yet?
He asked me if I wanted to and I was like well, I don't know. Some of me wants to, but the last person I kissed was a girl, and I was basically, pressured into that. I think the only reason I haven't is maybe I might have a fear of not feeling something or possibly feel something. And I thought maybe I should have kissed him, and maybe I'm a dang idiot, but too, I feel like it should be unexpected. What do you think?
lol you totally shocked me with the I kissed a girl part. Maybe your afraid if you kiss him, your realize you like kissing girls more. So what I'm basically saying is, maybe your afraid of realizing your into chicks.
But I mean, its been three months. I think you should kiss already! :)
i am a 15 year old female and i dated this guy for about 2 months and then i dumped him because i heard bad stuff that he did. but i still like him and he still likes me. a few of my friends like him and say hes a goood guy and that we should date again, while a couple other people HATE him and say i should just forget and move on. my one friend is always trying to protect me from him hurting me, and thinks he is a terrible guy. me and her ALWAYS get in fights whenever he comes into the picture. a few people know about me and this guy still likin eachother, but i havent told her yet. should i confront her and tell her whats goin on?:S , i dont think she will understand, and i think she will get mad at me. what should i do?!?!
I mean, she doesn't like him because of bad things he did in the PAST? Hunny, if we were all condemned for our PAST, no one would be anywhere in life right now.
Do YOU think he's a nice guy? You need to explain that to your friend. Just be like look, I know you only care about me, but don't get pissed off at me when I'm making choices and LIVING MY LIFE. If she doesn't understand that, then she also doesn't understand that we all have our OWN lives and she's a controlling friend. Dump HER! HA
I have a girlfriend but i'm falling for another girl again and i really like them both what should i do?
Be FAIR and telling your girlfriend how your feeling.
I'm sixteen. This guy and I have been talking. He happens to be a player who thinks I'm some bad girl.lol I actually happen to be a very very good girl. We hung out, and he thought he was going to get some but that didn't happen, so he started acting like an ass hole to me around his friends and my friends. I decided that i'm going to do my best to stop thinking about him in that more than a friend way, but teach him a lesson while i'm at it. For example, he called to apologise, and i told him how i felt about what he did being messed up, and then telling him i had to go. Basically now, everytime he talks we talk for a second, literally, because i've been getting him off the phone quick with all kinds of excuses. This has all worked so well :D lol....because now he is constantly calling and texting me, but i'm still giving him the same treatment, which has got him all crazy because of the way he naggs. So, he asked me a question before I hung up today "do you still like me", and i told him I had to leave. Then he said "when can i call you". then i told him in two hours, and then he said "why not 20 minutes", and i told him, 2 HOURS. that was it...i'm stuck right now, because I want to keep him spinning,but i'm not sure if what i plan to say will work. I wanted to tell him "maybe" or "kind of".....but what do you guys think i shoudl have as a "mind game" answer.
hahaha me and you would totally get along!
Smart girl. Don't let stupid boys take advantage of you!
Well, he's played by your little game for a while now. Give him a little lee way so he still feels like there's hope and he's not getting all worked up for nothing.
I'd say "Well, I did, but I don't really know anymore. You really did act like a big butthead with your friends and stuff and I don't really go for jerks, ya know?"
Hopefully he'll apologize again, totally try to persuade you that he's really not like that, and things will start from there ;)
Let me know what happens! HAA
Is there anyway to go online and see ALL my past texts?
If you don't understand what I mean message me or IM me or something
But I'd really like to read some of my old texts.
And I was wondering if it was possible to get them online
Cause I don't want to call anyone for them.
Thanks. (:
First of all, we can't IM you. It's anonymous. That information is not given to us.
To answer your question I know you can if you have at&t. What service provider do you have?
Im sorry if this is a weird question-
But how many "holes" to girls have done there?
I heard there is 3..?
i know the vagina and the pea hole..
Is the clitoris* thing considered a hole and what exactly is that???
Aha.
thank you so much
XD Xrated love
Vagina, pee hole, and BUTTHOLE
LOL
There's your three. No, the clit is not a hole. It's the...I guess you'd say "horny spot" on a girl.
soo im going to a public school next year and realize how little of clothes i actuually have. i normally used to wear free people ella moss juicy aqua hollister and abercrombie because i didnt need clothes for during the week. i want to get stylish affordable clothes at good prices. what kinds of brands and stores can offer that?
Sometimes Fashion Bug will have some cute stuff every once in a while. I love the store Maurices :)!
so, there\'s this guy i like. i\'ve liked him for about 3 years now. i remember the day when i first saw him. it was at my church and i recall him sneaking looks at me :) i was surprised because he was kind of cute. there was even the incident that, at that night, he was waiting outside in his car for his parents to leave. he was looking at me from the side of the car, i could tell. also, when i left that area, he got into the car but when i returned he got out :) he doesn\'t remember this though. it\'s been two years and i have tried within these two to get him to come back to my church. i did, thankfully. :) he knows that i like him now based on some friends of mine. last year, i went to his cousin\'s house for a religious affiliated affair, but i didn\'t talk to him. i was shy but i talked to his friend who knew. for sure, when i was there, he looked at me. but i don\'t know if itz cuz i looked at him or what. four months ago, he came to my church where my friends teased me infront of him, it was cute but i was too shy to talk to him. but, at least he noticed at that point that i exist, fortunately. we started talking on aim, quite a bit too. but, when i started talking to him he was talking to another girl. (there\'s a whole other story behind the other girl, and it\'s not necessary but it was quite funny). they don\'t talk anymore and i noticed that he doesnt come on aim anymore either. (im guesing he only used to come on for her). he also told me that he\'s not looking for a relationship right now, but he said that when he misinterpreted what i was saying. i think that\'s sad because it felt like an indirect rejection. last week i saw him at my church again and i managed to say a few words to him. i said hi, and he said hi. but the way he said hi, it was veryy shy. i\'m shy too but still, it was cute the way he said it. after we talked for that little instance, we didn\'t make eye contact again. i guess since it was kind of awkward at the time. i found out afterwards that a friend of his who went to my church along with him (who knows that i like him), likes to poke fun at us when i\'m not looking. when he does so, the guy i like blushes and tells his friend to stop before someone sees. and i heard he was smiling at me when i sang in my church. after it\'s all over, he doesn\'t say hi not even on the online sites like facebook or whatnot. i don\'t know if its because he doesn\'t know me enough and doesn\'t take it seriously. i\'m getting confused signals. do you think i should wait some more and meet some more before i give up because i really feel like it. it seems as if everyone around me is finding their \"guy\" but me. please help and i\'m truly sorry for such a long question but please please please, i need your help.
17 / f
aww what a sweet passage :)
I think if he was into you, he'd come to your church more. Wait till next Sunday and see if he shows up. If not, ask his friend where he's at. More than likely he'll be like hey that one chick asked about you at church
Then see if he's there the following week
;)
16/f
my boyfriend of 9 months recently told me he was moving to a different continent. but then his dad lost the job so he didnt have to go. when we both thought he was moving, i would cry whenever i was with him and i was really upset but i liked that he would comfort me and hold me. i think i got used to all this attention and now that he is not moving i am still crying yet making up reasons why i am. today i felt like he was ignoring me so i acted mad then started cryin on his couch while we were watching a movie. i guess i did it to get attention because i felt like he was ignoring me and i blamed it on that i was having a hard time with life right now. i just like the attention i guess but i am starting to look like a total clinger. i dont know what to do, i want to stop being such an attention whore but i cant seem to help it.
Ahh! You better stop that before he thinks this chickkk aint nothin but a whiny cry baby! SEE YA
And end it =/
That thought right there should totally change your attitude about crying like that.
Last summer, I met this guy. We hung out once with other kids, and during that time, he told me he liked me and asked me out. I didn't know what to say, and he was like, "maybe we could spend time together?" I said ok, but he meant dating, and I thought he meant just hanging out. When my mom picked me up, she got mad because she thought it was just me and him and she'e really strict with guys. When I got home,I texted him and said he got the picture wrong, that I didn't like him, and that I thought he meant he wanted to hang out and he flipped out. Then 45 minutes later, he said he "got over me." Whatever. Over the school year, he would always ask me to hang out and invite me to parties, but I would make up an excuse. Frankly, I didn't want to hang out with him, nor was I allowed to. He would always flip out on me and then beg for my forgiveness. As you can see, he's an insecure jerk. He would constantly try to impress me and say stuff like "yeah I'm on varsity" or "yeah I'm gonna chill with seniors til 2 am." He's such a loser. I tried to give him a chance by just casually talking to him, but he'd always brag about himself. Then today, he told ME to have a party and invite HIM, and I was like, "excuse me?!" Then, he was like "no I'm sorry please can we still be friends?" Honestly, he's the most annoying person I've ever met, and I've only seen him in person a few times! I haven't seen him in a year, and I don't want him to. How can I get him off my case?
You've got the upper hand girl!
He's trying to impress YOU and he's totally just coming off as a big jerky loser. When he screws up and knows he offends you, he apologizes up and down. I'd tell him flat out, look, if your trying to get me to like you, your going about it all wrong. As of right now, you come off as a jerk/loser (which ever you prefer haha) and its to the point where I don't even want to talk to you because it's irritating.
He'll either A) Apologize up and down like usually and try changing his ways or B) Take it like a baby because he's not a man, which we already figured out anyway
If its A, see how things go. If he changes and gets better, well, give him props. If he changes, but goes back to his old ways well, drop his ass all together. And that advice I would give for B too :)