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Is he showing that he's interested or should I just wait?
so, there\'s this guy i like. i\'ve liked him for about 3 years now. i remember the day when i first saw him. it was at my church and i recall him sneaking looks at me :) i was surprised because he was kind of cute. there was even the incident that, at that night, he was waiting outside in his car for his parents to leave. he was looking at me from the side of the car, i could tell. also, when i left that area, he got into the car but when i returned he got out :) he doesn\'t remember this though. it\'s been two years and i have tried within these two to get him to come back to my church. i did, thankfully. :) he knows that i like him now based on some friends of mine. last year, i went to his cousin\'s house for a religious affiliated affair, but i didn\'t talk to him. i was shy but i talked to his friend who knew. for sure, when i was there, he looked at me. but i don\'t know if itz cuz i looked at him or what. four months ago, he came to my church where my friends teased me infront of him, it was cute but i was too shy to talk to him. but, at least he noticed at that point that i exist, fortunately. we started talking on aim, quite a bit too. but, when i started talking to him he was talking to another girl. (there\'s a whole other story behind the other girl, and it\'s not necessary but it was quite funny). they don\'t talk anymore and i noticed that he doesnt come on aim anymore either. (im guesing he only used to come on for her). he also told me that he\'s not looking for a relationship right now, but he said that when he misinterpreted what i was saying. i think that\'s sad because it felt like an indirect rejection. last week i saw him at my church again and i managed to say a few words to him. i said hi, and he said hi. but the way he said hi, it was veryy shy. i\'m shy too but still, it was cute the way he said it. after we talked for that little instance, we didn\'t make eye contact again. i guess since it was kind of awkward at the time. i found out afterwards that a friend of his who went to my church along with him (who knows that i like him), likes to poke fun at us when i\'m not looking. when he does so, the guy i like blushes and tells his friend to stop before someone sees. and i heard he was smiling at me when i sang in my church. after it\'s all over, he doesn\'t say hi not even on the online sites like facebook or whatnot. i don\'t know if its because he doesn\'t know me enough and doesn\'t take it seriously. i\'m getting confused signals. do you think i should wait some more and meet some more before i give up because i really feel like it. it seems as if everyone around me is finding their \"guy\" but me. please help and i\'m truly sorry for such a long question but please please please, i need your help.
17 / f
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aww what a sweet passage :)
I think if he was into you, he'd come to your church more. Wait till next Sunday and see if he shows up. If not, ask his friend where he's at. More than likely he'll be like hey that one chick asked about you at church
Then see if he's there the following week
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