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I gave him a chance, but he's sooo annoying.
Last summer, I met this guy. We hung out once with other kids, and during that time, he told me he liked me and asked me out. I didn't know what to say, and he was like, "maybe we could spend time together?" I said ok, but he meant dating, and I thought he meant just hanging out. When my mom picked me up, she got mad because she thought it was just me and him and she'e really strict with guys. When I got home,I texted him and said he got the picture wrong, that I didn't like him, and that I thought he meant he wanted to hang out and he flipped out. Then 45 minutes later, he said he "got over me." Whatever. Over the school year, he would always ask me to hang out and invite me to parties, but I would make up an excuse. Frankly, I didn't want to hang out with him, nor was I allowed to. He would always flip out on me and then beg for my forgiveness. As you can see, he's an insecure jerk. He would constantly try to impress me and say stuff like "yeah I'm on varsity" or "yeah I'm gonna chill with seniors til 2 am." He's such a loser. I tried to give him a chance by just casually talking to him, but he'd always brag about himself. Then today, he told ME to have a party and invite HIM, and I was like, "excuse me?!" Then, he was like "no I'm sorry please can we still be friends?" Honestly, he's the most annoying person I've ever met, and I've only seen him in person a few times! I haven't seen him in a year, and I don't want him to. How can I get him off my case?
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if you're really not interested and you want him to stop liking you, you can invite him over sometime and make yourself look really bad and act really really annoying so he'll not like you anymore and leave you alone.
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You've got the upper hand girl!
He's trying to impress YOU and he's totally just coming off as a big jerky loser. When he screws up and knows he offends you, he apologizes up and down. I'd tell him flat out, look, if your trying to get me to like you, your going about it all wrong. As of right now, you come off as a jerk/loser (which ever you prefer haha) and its to the point where I don't even want to talk to you because it's irritating.
He'll either A) Apologize up and down like usually and try changing his ways or B) Take it like a baby because he's not a man, which we already figured out anyway
If its A, see how things go. If he changes and gets better, well, give him props. If he changes, but goes back to his old ways well, drop his ass all together. And that advice I would give for B too :)
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