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clingy
16/f
my boyfriend of 9 months recently told me he was moving to a different continent. but then his dad lost the job so he didnt have to go. when we both thought he was moving, i would cry whenever i was with him and i was really upset but i liked that he would comfort me and hold me. i think i got used to all this attention and now that he is not moving i am still crying yet making up reasons why i am. today i felt like he was ignoring me so i acted mad then started cryin on his couch while we were watching a movie. i guess i did it to get attention because i felt like he was ignoring me and i blamed it on that i was having a hard time with life right now. i just like the attention i guess but i am starting to look like a total clinger. i dont know what to do, i want to stop being such an attention whore but i cant seem to help it.
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Its really just as simple as talking to him about it.
Tell him sometimes you feel attention starved and want affection. When you get in that mood, go cuddle up and kiss his neck or something, give him a "hi, I'm not really watching the movie" sign.
Sending clear signals makes it alot easier for him to give you what you want. You're taking the least rational way out. Stop yourself and just be clearer in your expectations and needs.
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Ahh! You better stop that before he thinks this chickkk aint nothin but a whiny cry baby! SEE YA
And end it =/
That thought right there should totally change your attitude about crying like that.
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