Hi everyone!
My name is Alexandra!
But my nickname's Aly. And as you can see I love the color pink hehehe i really do.(but you probably don't care) so anyways I'm here to help out anyone with their questions, concerns, etc..
So ask me! And if I know i'll be more than happy to answer!
lots of love
Aly~
Gender: Female
Age: 14
Member Since: July 28, 2008
Answers: 44
Last Update: July 30, 2008
Visitors: 3476
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Okay like I said before I am moving to Louisisana. And my new school is a private school and you have to wear uniforms! I am sooo not used to that! everyone knows me at my school for basically my clothes! I won best dressed. But I was wondering what I can do to spruce up my new uniform. Im not going to Know anyone! I want my attire to resemble my personality. But I dont know how to do that! I am very bubbly and outgoing! please help!
~Londyn~ f/14 (link)
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Hi!!
I've always worn a uniform (i live in puerto rico and we use uniforms) anyways well to be an individual i'd have to say go with hair cute stuff... one word: claire's and let's see also if they let u use diff sock colors and stuff just add individuality! and have fun
hope it helped
toodles
Aly~
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ok, well I just moved the furniture around in my room today.
I hate the color of my walls and I want to paint.
The thing is I want to do something crazy, but I have no idea what colors, and if I had colors I dont know what to do with them.
I dont know if I want some sort of design or what, I'm kind of stumped.
If anyone has any suggestions that would be lovely (:
the only thing i know is that I dont want pink or red. (link)
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Hi!!
go crazyy!!
use pink in diff shades and purple or green yeah looks great to me!
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this is kindof embarassing, but i have inverted nipples, and sometimes if it's cold, they pop out. i think guys would think that's gross. s it normal? will they ever be normal? what do guys think? anything would be great! (link)
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Hi!!!
don't worry about that at all...
i imagine any guy that is going to see your breasts is going to be someone you love...
so it won't matter at all...
everyone has stuff they hate about themselves but don't let it get you down... I've learned that anyone who can't accept me with my flaws is not worth getting sad over... Anyways for them popping out and whatever just use a padded bra and no one will notice, besides all girls nipples pop out when it's cold and whatever so get a padded bra and be happy hehe
Hope this helped... anything else just inbox!
toodles
Aly~
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17/f
In like the last 6 months I have become really really self concious and not confident at all. I used to be much more confident and I could just do stuff in front of people and now I can't go anywhere without another person.
Can anyone help me this is ruining my life. (link)
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Hi!!
sometimes different stuff happens to make you lose the confidence that you once had...
But you just have to work it ok?? really work it..
feel like your really beautiful and try going to different places alone even if your self conscious and later on you will believe all of theese things...
Confidence is actually feeling that no matter what people say you really are beautiful inside out... AND YOU ARE! so don't worry and start faking it until you believe it!!
toodles
Alexandra~
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i have been cheerleading since i was six. all of my friends always tell me how jealous they are because of how good i am. so this time cheerleading tryouts came around and this is the first year i can try out for the actual school squad. originally my friends didnt want to try out (when i say friends im only talking about my 2 best friends) but i convinced them they should. so when trouts came i performed my best and looked neat only to find out i didnt make it. i know this sounds cocky but im seriously not used to not making anything. i have never been this disappointed. i wanted it so bad. the worst part is my friends made it. I am little overweight. definitly not like alot but definitley a little. i kinda think the judges are prejudice about that and maybe thats why i didnt make it. i really did perform great. and i am really not trying to be cocky im just trying to tell my feelings. does anyone know how to deal with this?? im so shook up and upset. i wanted this so bad. please help with anything.
13/f
Thanks (link)
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Hi!!
well wow!
I totally understand you feel bad because your friends who used to think you were the best made it and you didn't...
the only thing i can say is if life gives you lemons make lemonade... Use this time to practice and make yourself even better so when next time comes you will totally rock it and you will be chosen in a heartbeat...
oh and please remember everything happens for a reason just think of it that way...
hope I helped even a little
toodles
Aly~
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HI!
whats the brand of that eyeshadow palette in walmart?
oh andwhich section in walmart coz its not in the makeup section i beliver they only selllike covergirlloreal etc brands there (link)
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Hi!!!
well I don't know it was the color workshop something like that...
but it was totally good...
anyways yeah they do sell a lot of covergirl but it was a couple of aisles next to the covergirl...
like you know after the covergirl they have a lot of face products you know like acne products well like after that...
anyways hope you find it
toodles
Aly~
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I have a crush on this HOTTIE! I think he might like me but i'n not sure. What if he doesn't like me? How do i tel him i love him? (link)
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Hi!!!
whoa sounds like you really like him!
anyways be yourself first of all, make an effort to be with him, and when the time is right tell him that you like him, if you feel he likes you then he probably does (women instinct) and if he doesn't then it's his loss hehe
hope everything turns out well
take care
toodles
Aly~
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where did you buy your maekup shadows for only 7 dollas?!! =] (link)
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Hi!!!
hey you won't believe me but WAL MART yep wal mart it was totally good and they had lots of different colors and variations... it was eye shadow heaven!!!
inbox me for any other question!
toodles
Aly~
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my forehead is shiny and i have no idea how to get rid of it.. ive tried masks and i wash my face everyday. i dont know what to do, someone please helpp (link)
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Hi!!
well that is the story of MY life hehe!
only for me it's worse I have shiny forehead, shiny chin, shiny nose ahh shiny everything hehe...
but now it's controled and i am confident about that...
what i do is I wash my face with something to control oil which i do recommend clean and clear shine free morning burst (something like that) which is green or orange and it's great and it smells great... after i put on makeup (a thin layer, not cakey and it has to be water based or noncomedogenic) which includes covergirl clean makeup oil control foundation which controls oil really well. If you still have oil use a bit of baby powder on your face (it works). Oh and always carry oil absorbing sheets (work like magic) this will usually do...
believe me I have this problem (probably worse)
Take lots of care
toodles Aly~
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ok well i just learned that my best friend has been talking bout me behind my back and i dont know what to do :[ (link)
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Hi!!!
TELL HER!
sincerely if she is your friend she won't talk behind your back... so feel good cause you weren't the one that was talking, it was her... so you are ok and have your concsience clear...
just tell her and also sometimes we do that (we shouldnt but we do) so also don't be too harsh, use your better judgement...
hope everything works out!!
toodles
Aly~
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Some people at school are taking the mick out me.. e.g the way i dress the way i look the way my hair is the way i act.
Its just annoying!
I dont feel anything but stress! Grrrr
and i was wondering how i would deal with this..People say i should just like ignore them, But obviously its not that simple expecially when they tell me their gonna beat the **** out of me and when their telling me to go kill myself.. They make me feel like no1 cares about me or anything!!!!!!!!!
Someone help? (link)
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Hi!!!
I know this will sound like if i didn't know at all and i'm saying this to answer the question blah blah blah it isn't...
The thing that actually people want when they do that is to BUG YOU (you probably know that) so if they are not reching they're goal they will eventually give up... so you have to act as if you didn't care (which is not the case but just act) and when they see you don't care the will get bored and move to someone else... believe me, it ALWAYS works... sometimes it takes a while but it will workk...
so i hope it works out
take care
toodles
Aly~
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I never have anything to talk to my boyfriend about on the phone and he always gets mad can u help me because i get kind of scared when i talk to him on the phone (link)
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Hi!!!
haha don't worry at all i used to have the same problem, and in about a month and like a week we will have been together for a year... so yeah sometimes you get in a rut hehe.. but no worries what we do now is that when we go out or spend time together we talk about what we liked... ex: "hey, i liked it when you did this or that" it sounds boring but believe me you will end up talking about some interesting things... haha cause I know all about that akward silence...
anyways if this doesn't work then talk about stuff he likes, or talk about something stupid, later on you will end up talking about some pretty interesting things ...
anyways if you need anything else inbox please
take care
toodles
Aly~
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is it true that good quality products comefrom expensive products?
like for examly makeup
if i buy a 5 dollar eyeshadow for a smkey eye, a 34 dollar one would be better?
true or false
i dont get it..
why? (link)
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Hi!!!!
That is such a good question!
and here is the answer hehe:
NO WAY... it's true that in SOME cases good makeup is probably expensive,but it does not apply in all cases... believe me...
Hey, you probably won't believe me but I got this great eyeshadow makeup case at 7 dollars yeah 7 and they work super great... It was incredible... anyways other than eyeshadow (which there are lots at good prices which are good quality),for stuff like foundation, powder and other stuff i'd say covergirl...
anyways I know a bit about makeup (not an expert but I do know a bit) so if you need to know anything else... INBOX
HEHE
take care!!
toodles
Aly~
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im a 13 year old girl and i havent even started my period and i am having sex dreams and i masterbate at least 5-9 times a day and i think it would be fun to have kinky sex so i guess what im really asking is should i have sex? (link)
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Hi!!!!
Well i personally am a strong believer in no sex before mariagge so no, you shouldn't and even if i didn't believe in no fornication still sex at 13 is waaaay to young so... don't do it... if you don't have physical consequences which there is a probability then you will have mental consequences (no you won't go crazy) but you will experience regret, guilt, fear etc etc...
so don't simple as that...
anything else inbox!!!
toodles
Aly~
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Okay, so one of my friends, lets call her Jamie, is always making fun of my dislexia (and for those of you who dont know, dislexia is a learning disability that, for me, pervents me from reading and writing well).
She always laughs at me when I miss spell a easy word, or cant read a easy word. I also studder when I talk, which she makes fun of.
When i try to defend myself and bring up the fact that im getting strate A's, she brings up the fact that i can only write at a 4th grade level and have to type everything because my handwriting is unreadable.
Anytime i tell her to stop, she tells me to relax and that its just a joke. What should i do?
13/f (link)
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Hi!!!!
The thing i noticed about your question is that you called her a "friend"...
well she's not no friend would make fun of another friend the just wouldn't it's mean...
specially in something like that i know it must hurt you a lot... so you really should talk to her and if she continues well stay away from her... cause with friends like that who would want enemies?
anyways hope i helped, feel free to inbox me
toodles
Aly~
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Well im young and i havent started my period, but i want to know hwo you know your gonna start, like i know you get cramps and moody but do you know when its a period cramp, or do you know the moodiness is from your period, like is it nothing youve felt before, like you can tell, i just wanna know if i will know for sure that "that is period cramps" or "that is moodiness from my period", i can tell, so please help me out , i wanna know, Thanks! (link)
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Hi!!!
well, everyone's periods are different I mean some girls get cramps, others don't... the truth is some girls do some don't... for those who don't they mostly use pantyliners so that way if they get a leak they're protected (or a bit protected) anyways don't worry... you will have your own signs, really don't sweat it, your body will tell you, and if not use pantyliners...
but it's not a big deal... believe me...
hope this helped
toodles
Aly~
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Out of all my friends I'm the ONLY ONE who hasn't kissed a boy. (13/f) It's so annoying hearing about everyones first kiss. I know it's suppose to be special and what ever. But honestly, I'm done caring. I just wanna get it over with. You know? I've tried truth or dare, Spin the bottle.. But not once have I been dare or chosen. It's like God doesn't want me kissin a dude. But it makes me feel SO stupid. Ha. I sound so pathetic.
But help?
Any help will work... (link)
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Hi!!!
I know it may seem like no one understands because now it is a big deal to have kissed at 13 blah blah... but the truth is it isn't i really isn't a big deal... the truth is it totally is worth the wait... when you look back you want to be able to say: "wow, it was great" instead of:" ummm, its called toothpaste". but anyways the point is just let it come believe me it will come when you least expect it... so take care any other thing inbox me!
toodles
Aly~
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well they say that if you dont want to have pimples, buy makeup that are noncomedogenic & nonacnegenic. how do i know if my make up is like that? it doesnt say on the product. where do i find it? the ingredients? lol
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hi!!!
Ok well on the back it's supposed to say if its noncomedogenic and another thing that works is if it's water based which it should say... if your makeup doesn't say anywhere if it is well it probably isn't... anyways if it isn't you should probably get new makeup like covergirl or something which has a great line of products that are cheap and are noncomedogenic...
hope I helped
toodles
Alexandra~
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I'm currently using a Maybelline foundation that goes from liquid to powder.
My face gets oily by the end of the day and the make up just pretty much slides off.
My face still looks blotchy with this make up on.
Can anyone reccomend a good foundation that covers up the blotchyness in my face without being too heavy? (link)
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Hi!!
well i use covergirl clean makeup which is supposed to keep your face from oil, it covers really well, and it's not pricey. oh and it's not oil based so it's not bad if you have acne...
It works for me very well i love it so i do say you should try it..
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I am a Christian and last night it occured to me that God may not hear me, as I pray 'in my head' rather than out loud. Is my theory correct? (link)
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Hi!!
well I'm a christian too and i pray like that a lot too specially when i'm out and i just start talking to him...
well, God is your friend and he wants you to talk to him about everything, and sometimes when something occurs to you, you tell him in the moment and of course he listens to you!
God listens to your every prayer. If your in the mall and you just need to tell him something you won't start screaming so he'll hear you. Anyways the thing is he hears you.. don't worry he truly does.
toodles
Alexandra~
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