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hello! i'm abby. october is my birth month! i am a cheerleader on competition this year. i got hurt at one of the camps over the summer and now i am in a leg brace because of it. i tore a ligament and chipped a bone, all because i twisted my ankle. haha, i'm a klutz. and i am also a self-proclaimed helpless romantic, i've read too many fairytales. i am a non-cusser, and i hate hearing cuss words. love me or hate me, it's your choice.

advice

i have like tan uggs[not real] but i really want to dye them black, can i dip them in something to get black uggs

I think that would ruin the uggs. I would not attempt it.

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Sorry this is long, but i really need help.

So i dated a guy for about a week. then we broke up. well i really like him. and i was very upset when we broke up. well one night we were with some friends. and he was holding me in his arms something i missed very much. and i thought maybe he misses me and wants me back. at that time we started making out. and then the next day he didnt really say much to me. ands i was like wtf okay whatever. the next weekend we kissed again and really made out this time. and he held me as tight as he possibly could. and it felt like he didnt want to let go. and i was sure he wanted me back. well i sent him a message and said hey what was all that about. he replyed back and said he wasnt sure. and i said well i mean do you like me or what im confused, what was that night all about. he said i dont know...i didnt want anything to happen when i got there, it just happenend like that. Now all the times something happen with us, he was the one to start it.
i replyed back and said well i mean do you like me or are you using me for the moment type of thing. dont worry about hurting my feelings i just wanna know the truth. he read it and never replyed back. some of my friends say maybe he is afried of his own emotions. but he doesnt talk to me unless were together with our friends. and even then he is kinda distant, trying to keep something from happening. now theres another group of girls he kinda messes around with well one of them and it really bothers me and my group of girls bc we dont really like them.
my question is, do you know why he is being like this. i am really torn up about it. and i cant talk to him or see him much right now.
thank you so much!

I think he is just using you, and he doesn't want to tell you that because he doesn't want you to stop making out with him whenever he wants you to. Leave this douche alone! He is just a player.

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my boyfriend of almost two years cheated on me. he madeout with a girl when he was drunk and i forgave him.

a few monthes later he didnt call me one night and then he called the next night saying his phone charger was messed up and he was sick and fell asleep at six. that weekend i figured out he lied to me and was really drinking with 2 gay guys and two girls. i dont have a problem with gay people but this guy always flirts with my boyfriend.


should i give him another chance.?

If it's a guy flirting with your boyfriend, I wouldn't worry about it, unless your boyfriend is gay. I think once he does something with someone else again, that's when you should not give him a second chance.

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15 female.
so my discharge used to be just white and liquidy.
now its like gooey and almost like a booger. its pretty nasty. its still clear though. is this normal? there is still liquid but now its like both.

It sounds completely normal. Your body is just changing and it is finding the right type of discharge that will best suit your body.

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does corn bread or corn muffins really make your butt fatter?

Just like any other food of its type would.

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so i like this guy named G and im not sure if he likes me. in general G is a really flirty guy but when he is with me is really flirty and touchy like EXTREMELY touchy and flirty sexual. we talked on video chat for 3 hours and he and i have a very strong friendship. how can i tell if he likes me or is just flirting for fun?

I think he is just flirting, he sounds like a playa. Usually touchy guys like that don't care. If you must go out with him, the go ahead, but don't say some crazy advice girl didn't warn ya.

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17/F

Alright, so this question is going to make me sound extremely stupid, but should I convert my religion to try to get with this guy that i really like? He's mormon, and I looked up some stuff and it says that mormons can only date other mormons. I really want to be with him. We dont actually know each other. Ive introduced myself twice and he thinks im crazy, but I want him to notice me in a good way and i think going to his church and being all mormon will be a good way to get his attention and show him that im right for him.
Plus I have no real religion as of right now. I mean I believe in God and all that but I dont go to church.

Any advice will be appriciated
Thanks

I don't think you should. If he hasn't noticed you and you have introduced yourself twice now, then forget him. The perfect person will come along, and you won't have to change a thing about yourself for him.

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Okay, so I'm 14 and for the past year or so my mom and I haven't been getting along. At all. She yells at me for the littlest things, and never lets me explain myself. She never listens to me and just assumes she knows what I'm gonna say before I say it. I feel lie she never even wantsed me, she treats my older sis and younger bro like they are angels, when my sis does drugs, my bro has anger issues, and I just try to be perfect, she points out the littlest imperfections in me and makes me feel bad about myself, and the way I dress, and do my hair and makeup and everything all the time. I've actually thought of suicide before.


I know most ppl are going to be like 'oh well just talk to her about it' anda bunch of other things like that but I've tried, plenty of times. And she just gets defensive, yells, and acts like she did nothing wrong. Its to the point where we barely even talk anymore. So I don't know what to do about it. If you have anything you can tell me....please help?

Leave her alone. Obviously she is goin' through a rough spot. She thinks her life is crap, as do you. I wanna say that she feels that since your brother and sister aren't going to end up having good lives that she wants you to be perfect and that she is just doing this to further you in life. Listen to her. If what she is saying kinda makes sense, take her advice. Become the best child in the world.

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okay so heres the deal. I have this bestfriend whose been my bestfriend for a few years. He's 19 im 17/f. Well he just got out of a relationship a while ago and has been joking around about having sex. He did this before when he had a girlfriend. Well today he asked me and he's like im serious. And he's been so persistent all day. Hes been asking where and when and everything. And i think i may like him a lot, i dont know if i love him seeing as ive never been in love. But ive wanted this for a long time. Do you think he's just doing this because he's trying to get over his past relationship? I dont know im so confused. He wants me to sneak out with him tonight, hes staying at my house so idk. Any advice or comments would be nice

Toughie. This is bad, but I think you should sneak out with him. You've know him for awhile so you would know. Go with what your mind says, then double check with your heart. If you like him, go for it.

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I am considering purchasing a volkswagen jetta. I dont know much about them so i want first-hand opinions on how they run and what people like or dislike about them. Mainly, i'm curious around how many miles the car just stops working basically. I had a honda before and it literally ran great over 200k miles so i'm just curious when VW usually stop running good. So i just want to know some things people like and dislike about VW jetta's and how many miles can go on the car before it "craps the bed" Thanksss!

Well I know that I can't answer your question, but you should go on AskYahoo.com or YahooAsk.com or whatever that website is and ask this question there. There tends to be more adults signed up on that advice website.

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can someone give a good example of something "way ahead of its time"?

A person that was/is way ahead of his time is the singer Prince.

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17/m
which do women or teenagers find most attractive
a circumsised or uncircumsised penis
i am deciding wether or not to be circumsised so i wantto know

From what me and my friends discuss, circumsised.

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I really love this guy, and he loves me too... But how do you know if your really in love? I really do love him, I just want to know if anyone else can describe how you know... I can't seem to put it into words.

It's not something that we advice givers can tell you. If you have any doubt in your mind that you don't love him 100%, then you probably don't. You get butterflies whenever you see him, and usually you feel like it's just you and him in the whole world when you are together. I hope it's real for you.

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me(13) and my bf(17)weve been together for about 2 and a half months and i love him w/ all my heart and i know he does 2 but for the past couple weeks he hasnt acted like it at all.i mean he still says that he loves me and evrything when we talk like on the phone which is like 2times aweek now when it used 2 b evryday.and like we barely evr c each other bc we go 2 dif. schools but he only started acting like this since he gota job but i have noidea wat todo or thnk like evryday iwant2 cry I DNT NO WAT 2 DO

You should type using correct grammar, haha. You're boyfriend is really old for you. Maybe he doesn't want to go out with you anymore. Usually when boys, men in your case, act differently, there is something wrong and they might want to take a break. Give him space. Which is easier said than done, but hey, it may fix things between you. If that doesn't work, talk to him about it. He is old, and will understand, it might be hard to do, but it must be done.

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so i have no idea what to dress up as for halloween. i dont want to be slutty but i do want something hot. my dad will freak out if its too bad so idk what to do!!please i need ideas!

I'm being a sexy bank robber. It's real easy, just get all of your clothes in black. There are so many choices, of black clothing, that you can really find somethin' hot. Then just get one of those canvas bags and put dollars signs on it. SIMPLE. Make sure you wear a mask, too.

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when people ask me to play 20 questions sex version, i can't really think of anything good.
i'm a girl. guys ask me. just to get that out there.
and stuff more than, have you jacked off, watched porn, came.
you know.
i'm just not good at this game. but i have a very sick mind, so i don't know why i can't think of anything good.

Haha, funny. Just ask him stuff that you really what to know about him and his sexual life.

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Ok so you know how u can change your mood on myspace.. well i see people that they like made their own they have moods that arent on the list to choose from. for example one girls said crazy in love. how do i make my own mood instead on picking one from the list?? does anyone know how to do that??? thanksss!

Click where you change your mood, and just fill in what you want. You can even pick your own faces!

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14/f ok on halloween my friend and i are going trick-or-treating (lol) and then at eight or nine were going to my house for a sleep over. k so were gonna be home alone and i was wondering of "halloween" things to do. what i thought of was watching scary movies and eating candy. but need actual halloween game ideas and stuff. we can basically do whatever we want we just can leave the house, and were the same age so do u know of any fun stuf to do??
thankies

One of my personal favorite websites. It's not really realated to Halloween, but use is when you get bored.
http://www.discoverfun.com/freeinfo/500fun/index.html

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Dear Columnist,

I have a girlfriend, we've been together for a few weeks now, but she has already made it evident that she has secrets about her life that she is not comfortable with telling me. I was not too worried about them until her friends mother, (who she lives with) let me in on a big secret, but made me swear not to tell my girlfriend that I know. She told me last night because me and my girlfriend were fighting over sexual issues. The problem was, that I was kissing her, and touching her, and we were about to have sex, but all she wanted to do was kiss, and she was very reluctant to have sex, or touch me, but all she gave was a lot of far fetched excuses. This irritated me because this has been going on for the past week or so with her. After our fight, we still haven't truly made up, but I had time to talk 1 on 1 with her friends mother. I explained my situation, knowing that she is a very open person, and would have no problem offering her advice based on how we have talked about practically anything and everything since I have met the woman. But I did not expect what she was about to reveal to me by a long shot. We were sitting there in the living room just me and her, and she tells me that my girlfriend has some medical issues that she has been reluctant to tell me, and that might be the missing piece in this puzzle here. She then goes on to tell me that my girlfriend has heart issues, and explains them to me... I did not know how to feel about this, but it didn't seem life threatening, so I was still relaxed. Then she goes on to tell me that my girlfriend has Hepatitis C. This is a very serious condition; and I could be at a great risk of getting it from her. Since last night I have not been able to collect myself, and I've just been a wreck because now I feel like a jerk for pressuring her into sexual relations, when she was resisting, not because of me, but because she wanted to protect me, because she doesn't know if she can get me infected with the same dangerous disease. As far as I know, her knowledge on the disease is limited. Now I can't relax, because I want to tell her how sorry I am, and how I can't even explain how I feel about it, but on the same note I don't wanna blow her friend's mom's cover by saying how she revealed my girlfriends best kept secret. For this would hurt the relationship between myself and her friends mother, and she might not tell me any information ever again. I also feel upset towards my girlfriend for not telling me but I don't know what to do?!?
There's a whole bunch of emotion going on with me, I know I still love my girlfriend, but how do I handle this situation? Please help, the quicker the better..

Sincerely,

PeoplePerson27

Wow, all this happening in such a little amount of time? Maybe you should give her some space. OPTIONAL: Be very careful with even kissing her. Treat her like an angel, or something that could break if you touched her in the lightest way. NOT OPTIONAL: Then, in a couple more weeks (or now) ask her if she wants to tell you anyting. Tell her one of your own secrets. If she doesn't tell you any of the secrets that you discussed with her friends mom don't make a big deal about it. She will tell you when she is ready.. In the mean time, tell her you are sorry that you pressured her into almost having sex with you when she was not ready. And tell her you will never do that again. Love her.

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ok so one my friend count was 737 (low i know, cuz i reset it)
anyways the next day it exceedely went up like everytime i refreshed the paged i saw it go from numbe to number like 737,738,739,740,741,742,743,744,745,746,747.
then today when i logged on it wsa back to 737.
wtf??
i didn't lose anyfriends or anything. what do u think happened?

It was probably just a myspace error. And that myspace friend number isn't low. It's really high. How on earth do you know that many people and talk to them on a regular basis? You should worry more about the friends you have than the friends that you don't need. Just make sure all your favorite friends are there, and don't complain.

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