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i'm 15/f. i was at my aunt/uncles house today. me & my cousin were in the basement. her dad came down to look at his cellphone, then went back upstairs. once he left, my cousin said "i think my dad is having an affair." she opened up the text messages on his cell & they were from the same woman. they said "yeah what we're doing is so wrong i hope no one finds out" etc. my aunt & uncle have always had marriage problems, but as of now, me and my cousin are the only ones who knows about his affair. I asked my cousin if she's going to tell her mom and she said "NO WAY I'LL GET IN SO MUCH TROUBLE FOR LOOKING THRU HIS PHONE AND I DON'T WANT TO CAUSE ANY PROBLEMS!" She doesnt seem to care tho, but i'm so freaked out and my question is, what should i do, (should i do anything at all...?) (link)
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Tell your parents or talk to your aunt yourself. I mean, would you like to be ran around on? I know if I told my daughter not to be looking on her fathers phone, and she did and found out that my husband was cheating on me... I'd wouldn't be mad at my daughter persay...I'd be mad at my husband. I would not want to live in a lie. Would you? Tell your aunt...because you don't want this to go on forever and her to be totally clueless.
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I'm a Christian so I want to be a virgin till I'm married, but lately it's been real hard to stay that way. I'm letting my hormones make me too curious. (I've never actually even seen a penis before.) I get really horny a lot and sometimes I ever masturbate to get over it. I'm way too young to have sex but lately I've wanted to give a handjob or even get laid. How can I keep motivated to stay a virgin? I know I'm not ready for sex. (link)
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Masturbation is your best bet, love. There is NOTHING wrong with masturbation. I personally think it is wrong that religion tries to tell you what to do and not to do sexually. But of course, that is your opinion. Anyway. Just masturbate. That is what I have been doing for a long time. If you do start to get into fingerings and such, that could lead to more temtations to even get laid. Do you really want that? From what you said, no. So you might want to watch out sweetie. Wait until you're ready. Wait for someone special. Don't throw it all away because you got horny. Hope I could have been some sort of help. =)
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Well me and my boyfriend have exsperimented "below" the belt. He never said anything before, but now hes complaining about me not shaving. I shaved once before, now i usually just trim. When i shved i hated it i couldnt stand it, it itched and hurt and it was annoying. What should i do? (link)
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I think shaving is all about what you want. Not about what the dog, your mom, or your boyfriend wants. I rather it be shaved, but I won't tell my boyfriend/girlfriend/whoever I happen to be dating at the time that they have to. If they don't want to shave...so be it. That...is really up to them doll face.
If you don't like to be shaved, tell him that. Tell him he should respect what you think and feel and ect. Tell him to shave and see how it feels. (haha.)
If you do want to get rid of the hair though, you could always try waxing..but trust me...that does NOT feel good.
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My boyfriend and i have been dating for the past 5 months. We go to the same high school, but next year he is going to a public school and leaving me at the private school we both go to now. He has had sex before and i havent. He wants me to but i tell him im not ready and he says he can wait. I love him so much and he tells me he loves me to, i just am nervous to have sex with him and then he will leave. and i dont want the condom to break and im stuck having a kid. Plus the main promblem is what will god think of me? Please Help!!!!!!!!! (link)
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Okie dokie. If you are not 700% you're ready for sex- don't do it. Sex isn't really a bad thing so to say, because it can be a act of love. But it is bad if you are pressured into it. Sit him down and tell him you're not ready at all. Try to tell him how you feel about it.
And personally, relgion has a lot of different perspectives. But really, what I think is you should wait until you are in love (and not that dumb love that people always say they are in and they know they really could give two shxts if that person died. The 'bible' says to wait until you're married... Just wait until you're ready. If you're morals are that not to have sex until you're married tell him that. If you are afraid he will leave you once you do (which is how I am all of the time and the reason why I'm a virgin ;D)just...don't. do. it. ;D Good luck.
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i hate liars and my boyfrined lies constantly.. not so much to me.. but sometimes to me.. i cant always tell if hes telling the truth.. i guess sometimes his lies are for my benefit? we also really like eachother.. what should i do (link)
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You should tell him about his lying problems. What happens if he cheats on you and lies to you? Is that lying for your benifit? You should really consider even dating him really.. I mean hun... I have trust issues. If my boyfriend lied to me I would tell him about it and stuff.. And if he kept doing it I would break up with him because I can't trust him you know? But of course. That is my opinion.
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ok i have wavy/curley thick hair and i striaghten my hair most of the time with a blow dryer and i was wonderin if anyone know how i can striaghtn my tips they are always wavy i dont know how to get them striaght. i used to iron my tipes which made them go striaght but i dont do that anymore because it damages my hair too much. can advice i can use? (link)
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I have been faced with this problem a lot of the time. My hair is just like yours. I put gel and/or moose in it and right before it is dry ( but not like..super wet) I will straight iron it. Then after, I put a little more on it..but not much. Normally, that does the trink. If it does not... then get it straighted perfessionally or.. you can by this stuff at walmart that takes out frzz and straightens it. ^_~
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i have a really close guy friend we close but we cant be nothing but friends because on long distance and i hate long distance realtionships because the never work out. ok but n-e-ways sometimes we act like lovers and sometimes like friends but even when he had a gf we did the samething because he always liked me more then his gf even though he broke up with her for me but i still didnt go out with him and like now i dont know what to do i do love this guy and like he perfect for me and all but i am really confuessed?can you plz help i wil rate! thanks! (link)
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Long distance relationships...
._. I'm the master at them. I finally quit after my last one ended up me getting cheated on really badly and my heart left broken and battered. Some of them do work though, considering my best friend dated this guy named Serge for like 3 years. When they finally got out of school he moved to her, and they got married. They are still doing great (from what she tells me..hehe). It all just depends on if you are really ready for them. You will have to give up everyone else, temtation and such for someone that cannot hold you or touch you or kiss away your tears when you need him to. But! If you do have one, and both of you are loyal...well. It might just work out in the end. But you have to ask yourself. Is it worth it? Hope to be some help, and good luck. ^_~
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Is it possible to be suicidal, but to not have attempted suicide...? (link)
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Yes...The definition of suicide is:
1. Causing, intending, or relating to suicide: a suicidal act; suicidal impulses. 2. Dangerous to oneself or to one's interests; self-destructive or ruinous: a suicidal corporate takeover strategy.
So basicly it just means you are thinking a lot about ending it, but you never have done it. It means your depressed and need help, normally.
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Ok I have fallen hard for one of my guy friends and i've liked him as more than a friend since January or something. Ok, now he has a girlfriend, but on the day he asked her out he told me that he really only liked her as a friend, and this girl's friend kind of made him feel like this girl would be crushed if he didn't ask her out, so he did. And tht was a few weeks ago. And last week, he kept looking at me and paying attention to me a whole lot more than his girlfriend and flirting and such, and this week he's hanging around with her again, and he still glances at me, but it's like we're just friends again... I'm so confused and I don't know what to do... any help will be greatly appreciated, THANKS! (link)
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GOSH. And they say WE are compliacated. You should confront him yourself. Tell him how you feel and ask him if he feels the same way back. If he doesn't...well try to forget about him you know? Because he does not seem like he really can be a man and make his mind up...
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Well me and my boyfriend have been going out for about two months now and the guy hasnt even tried to kiss me. Like im sorry if i sound bad for saying this but i have needs! So I was wondering what are some ways i can turn my boyfriend on so that he'll wanna make out with me, or at least kiss me? (link)
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okay! How funny. My previous relationship before the one I am in now was just like this. The guy was a jackass though, but that does not matter. Anyway. I kissed him first... And he still didn't even touch me. -.- So, just tell him how you feel. If you are too shy to tell him... Try to just causually ask him or do it yourself. He might not like public affection. I, personally, like it. But whatever floats your boat!
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this is kind of an odd question..but my body...gives off this..odor. i mean its not like a gross sweat smell just a weird smell i mean like my boobs even smell like this. when i wash my body the good smell of the body wash goes into my skin and the affect wears off after like an hour. and i'm not even at school for another 2 hours after i take a shower. i'm not really sure what it is..and i'm too embarrased to tell my mom
-Confused..very (link)
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...Um. This might be female odor.. Which can be solved with a simple femmie deodorant. Hope I helped. ^^
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Does anyone think it is absolutley gross for a grade 7 to go out with a grade 8?
and why? (link)
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Okay...this is kind of a immature question. But anyway. No, in my opinion age does not matter. But of course most 7 and 8 graders lack in having a good relationship because they don't really understand yet. But, it is whatever you think. It will change when you get in highschool. A lot of froshs date seniors and such... My boyfriend is 17 and I'm only 15, but that does not change the way we feel about each other. ^_~
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Do I have the right to be offended..this girl considers me her BEST FRIEND [we are good friends but not BEST BEST friends]. When we leave a class, she never waits for me, unless her little other friend is absent. When that girl isn't around, she waits for me and she talks to me. I mean, I have other friends I walk with, I just find this, weird.. and awkward you know. And at lunch, whatever I say, it's usually the opposite. I don't really care, but am I wrong to be a bit.. you know.. offended? (link)
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Yes. This happened to me a lot before. My best friend would always try to hang around the more "popular" kids in middle school.. [the rich kids that parents own like... your parents.] But I told her about it. Of course, she denied it. I finally just gave up and stopped waiting for her at all anymore. I mean we still talked and stuff. I think it was just a middle school thing. Well, now that we are in highschool I hang around a different crowd...and she expects me to wait for her. Haha...you get the picture.
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Hey guys, I was just wondering if there was anyone that had AOL on here that could help me with something. I want to delete my homepage if I can, but I'm not sure how. The one I have now is the first one I have ever made, and I really don't want it on my profile anymore! If anyone can,please help me! I would really appreciate it. Thank you so much! :-) (link)
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Okay. On AOHELL (hehe) you have a options bar about having your webpage on there. Give it a click and it should go away from being linked to on your profile. ^^
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i get these horrible and huge pimples on my vigina ..thay hert bad!!! wut shoul di do ... and i dont have sex or masterbate! (link)
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Okay. Hun, if you shave they are called shave bumbs. Most girls get them and normally they go away. I know I shave [haha, not that you needed to know this] and i use to get them all the time. But mine just stopped, and if you do shave don't shave fast shave slower... Because if you do then it wont bother your skin so bad. Now, if you don't shave you probably could see a doctor or dermatologist... but that might be kind of embarrassing. I mean, I would not want to ask my parents to go to the doctor because I had razor burn or 'pimples' on my vagina. Try some lotion to make the skin soft and such. It just might work!
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