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Q: Are their any clothing styles that make your breasts look bigger? Like bras and t-shirts and stuff. I heard V necks make an illusion of bigger boobs but i don't know. Please help me.

Hey!!! Padded Bras ,water bras, Push-up bras all make your boobs look bigger. Also tighter shirts.
-Steff-
Hope I helped.

Q: I need a bigger butt. Any food, exersize, or clothing ideas? Please no exersize tips that make your butt tighter or perkier. Just bigger. I know pulling your shirt down makes your butt look bigger, and I know grains might help a bit. Any ideas?

Hey!!! Their arent may ways to make your butt bigger, just tighter. Since you said that you didnt want that my advie is just to go for clothes that fit well on you. Alot of jeans make your butt look bigger but you just have to search well for them. Most of the time they are non-stretch jeans. Also try to avoid loose pants and also skirts arent very good. You should stick with jeans and shorts. I really hope I helped.
-Steff-

Q: My brother's room is a fire hazard. Literally. There are papers spralled across the place and CDs everywhere. I can never find anything on his dresser and I've lost all hope to find any of my computer CDs.

The thing is today I went in there looking for something. Of course, I couldn't find it. He called to ask where my dad was, and while on the phone I asked where the CD I was looking for was. He didn't even know. How can I tell my brother he needs to clean up his room without letting him know I occasionally make stops in there? Also is there any way I can get him to let me make my stops in his room to try and find stuff?

Hey!!! Well I think that you should go talk to him while hes in his room then tell him he should really clean it up(((maybe you can even get your parents in it too and tell them to tell him to clean it up))). Then after you do one of those offer to help him clean it up. Its gonna take some of your time but at least while you clean up, you can find alot of stuff. The best part is...he will never know! Haha Good Luck! Hope i helped.
-Steff-

Q: I lost the code that is on the cd/dvd case to the sims nightlife. If you have the game and know the code please help! I really want to play it! thanks
i rate 5's

Hey!!! If you dont have the code then you wont be able to play your game. The code is on the cd cover also, not just on the box. If you threw it away or lost it then I really dont know how to get it again. The stores dont take back open games but you could try and ask if they keep a file with the codes of the games.
Hope I helped.
Good Luck.
-Steff-

Q: I am G/16. At home we two sisters share same room. My sister age 14, has a very bad habit of farting in the room. She farts with sound whenever she needs during working or just sitting or laying. she does not care even after my protets. she says that farting is natural and atleast in the room or home she has independence. She is a pretty girl but I am fade up with this. How should I stop her doing this?

Hey!!! Well this could be one of two things. One is that she could have a problem, and just cant help this. You could have a talk with her and ask her in a serious manner. If you find out that she only does this to annoy you then you should tell her that if she doesnt stop, your just going to have to tell people. It would be very embarrasing for her and she wouldnt do it again because she would be scared of you telling more people. But to do this you have to be sure that its not a problem she has... a clue is that she only does this in your rooom. If she only does it in the room its almost positive that she does iton purpose.
I really hope this helps
-Steff-

Q: Ok here it goes..
I really like this guy, I'm 13 and in 8th grade and i really like him. the problem is, he's in 7th. but i see him beause our yougner brothers are on a basketball team together. I don't know if he likes me, but i like him and i want him to notice me. We have a dance coming up on Feb 9th or 10th, so how couldi get him to notice me. like...
What are some tips to get him to notice me and stuff?
.:rate 5's:.
thanks
Kate

I think that you should just talk to him and ak him about his interests. Try to find things that you guys have in common. Maybe after you get to know him a little better...you can ask him to go to the dance as frineds and if you guys still like eachother by then, it could turn into something more.
Hope I helped...
-Steff-

Q: I'm an almost 15 year old girl. There's a guy I like in two of my classes, and I'm not sure if he likes me or not. We were randomly partnered up for an in-class assignment. After we'd finished, he started to ask me something, but then stopped. We barely know eachother, but he's always nice to me and sometimes I see him looking at me. I really like him, but does he like me?
P.S. I've never gone out with a guy before.

Hey!!!
It seems like this guy may have an attaction to you but it doesnt necessarily mean that he likes you yet. You should really try to start conversations with him..he might be shy and thats why not he hasnt made a move yet. If he has an attraction to you then he will be nice back and want to pursue your conversations.
Good Luck!
Hope I helped...
-Steff-

Q: I am a 43 year old female. My mother in law came to stay with us Christmas before last for a month univited. While here she tried her hardest to piss me off. Each time she did, I ignored it. When she finaly decided to go home our good friend and neighbor happened to be going to her home town, over 2 hours away. He offered to give her a ride home since she didn't drive...it would save us a trip. I encouraged it and my husband made the trip with her and my neighbor for comfort sake. Every since she was here she is constantly making hurtful statements to me in front of anybody but my husband. I tell my husband and he defends her and says he did not hear it or I am mistaken. We had a long discussion about it again and this time he basically called me a liar and that he has known his mom alot longer than he has known me and she would not do that sort of thing. She constantly talks bad about every one of her 5 childrens spouses and about 3 of her 5 children. He does admit that because she talks bad about them to him. What can I do to stop this painful sitsuation without divorcing my husband?

Well im nt married but ive seen some situations as this one. Alot of men are very close to their mothers...as in your husbands case... and they always want to defend them. You have to tell him that he doesnt have to pick between you two but that he has to learn how to balance his wife and mother. If he really cares about you he will at least sit down and have a conversation with her.
Im sorry you are going through this hard situation.
Hope I helped
-Steff-

Q: Recently, my friend Jennifer confided in me to keep a secret from her friend Lauren. Lauren is now with Jennifer's ex boyfriend and Jen told me that all Lauren ever talks about is the boyfriend(she talks about him 24/7). Jen is really annoyed and bothered by talking about him because she still has strong feelings for him. But, Jen doesn't want to hurt Lauren's feelings because she is really happy. Jen asked me what she should do and what should I tell her?

Heyy! I deff know this situation! Well I think that Jen should tell Lauren how she feels. All she has to do is tell her nicely! I think if Lauren is a good friend then shell respect Jens feelings. She can talk bout it to other people, I think shell understand.
I hope I helped
-Steff-

Q: ok theres this guy who ill call steven(not his real name) but i met him in this crazy people place.. i was in there for being suicidal...he was in the for doing drugs "cocaine and marijuana" i dont care about the marijuana..but im not a big fan of coke heads...hes been free of it for over a month now..and im pretty sure hes done with both..should i forget about his past and move on...or should i just forget about him and move on to someone new no matter how hard it is?

Forget about the past. If you know he has changed then give him a chance. You were suicidal how can he be sure you arent still going to try and kill yourself. If he'll give you a chance then you should grant him with one too.
Hope i helped
Steff

Q: I have a huge problem..im only 13 and weigh 98 pounds but i love to eat!! When i get home from school i eat like a bag of popcorn, some chips, and a salad just to make myself feel better. I excercise but not like a TON. and im healthy ..so whats wrong? I eat breakfast, then a snack, lunch, then a snack and dinner, then dessert. But, when im bored or sad - i eat. even if im not hungry..how do i stop this eating problem ?? =/

I dont understand. Are you saying that you are fat? 98 pounds for a 13 year old is below average. The eatin problem is obviously not bad for you if you are healthy and only weigh 98 pounds. You porbably just have a fast metabalism.
Hope it helped
Steff

Q: ok...I lost my virginity when i was 11...im 14 now..ive never messed around w/ anyone except one boy...but both of them boys i truly LOVED...does that make me a slut?...

Why did you loose it when you were 11. It doesnt make you a slut and im not tryin to be rude cause you said u cared about him but it does leave you have a possibility of becoming one. I mean are you still with any of them? Plus do u truly know what love means? When you answeer those questions you will be able to answer if you are a slut yourself.
Hope it helped
Steff

Q: My brother's friend Dan is wicked hott! and he always shows off his stomache to me and stuff when hes at my house. we flirt a little. He even was goin to beet up a kid that was being mean to me, him self. i really like him, and he may like me. the thing is that he's my brothers friend and hes 2 years older than me. would i be betraying my brother or would he even care?

Depends how old are you? If he is in a different stage then you then maybe its him and his hormones trying to show off. sometimes older guys like to do that. Its happened to me. But if you think he likes you then maybe you should go for it. If your brother loves you hell let it happen and protect you if anything goes wrong. If he has doubts than sit and talk to him and tell him your a mature girl. Send me your age and elaborate your stroy. Maybe I can further my advice.
Steff

Q: is it wrong to like ur boyfriends best friend?

Everyone has a good view.Well you cant help liking him,you cant stop yourself therefore it makes it okay. But dont be excited yet, if you dont feel anything for your boyfriend then it is another story. You cant go out with him if you dont like him. Something tells me that this is not only bout you and your boyfriends best friend, its about you and your boyfriend. You have to decide what you feel for him before you can like his friend openly.

Hope I helped
Steff

Q: ive asked this question before but i have noooooo clue how to make an advice column and when i ask a question i dont know where to find it please help me ~~hollan~~

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Q: Okay, so there's this guy in my school that most of the girls would give their leg to date (not literally of course) He's one of the best skateboarders around, and was even chosen to go to this contest thing across the US... Anyways, he's so cute and he doesn't even know it. From what I've heard he doesn't like having a gf because it gets in the way of skateboarding. A few weeks ago he(Mark) broke up with the girl I have hated since elementary school (she used to pick on me before I lost a lot of weight and discovered make up. lol) This guy that I know from around my neighborhood is dating my best friend n also friends with Mark. He told me that he thought I was 'hot' and that he liked me. Well, he is also really shy. You'd think that because of all of this attention from girls and skating he wouldn't be, but he is. I was hanging out watching them skateboard and he didnt do anything but look over at me a few times. So, before I left I heard him say "No hug?" which was the first time i heard him say anything really. So i gave him a hug and left... When i passed him in school Mark barely said anything other than a "Fine dont say hi to me, i see how it is" so I did and my friends and I walked on to class. When I've passed by him, I saw his eyes on me the whole time we walked by each other and I know he did it on purpose for me to see. I can't help it, I like him so much even though I don't know much about him. Something about being not like the other guys who make those rude comments as you walk by. He's just... So cute! lol. Well, I don't know what to do anymore. I've been talking to him as much as I can, but I don't want to ask if he wants to hang out because I think that's his job and I really want to get to know him better. I also don't believe he likes me because i tend to put myself down a lot and I don't think that he *could* like me. I'm thinking of the worst, like, its all a joke or not true or something, not that he really does like me. Can someone help me with what I could do? Thanks ((I rate if that helps any... Btw, Mark is 16 and I am 14))

Hey 4rm wat u say he deff seems to like u. Maybe u should try to hang with him without actually using those words. I kno kinda confusing but wat I mean is like maybe ask him to teach you how to skateboard even if u kno how act like u dont but not to much so hell figure out what ure dooin. Jus hint around at the "hanging out" thing. Eventually hell ask u to hang out more. Hope I helped and srry if it was confusing. Oh and the inside is wat counts, Im not too confident either but if u except ureself 4 who u are and how u look other people wii too!

Q: why do you guy not want me to go out with zach so much??? i mean i really like him...... or at least i think i do. Please dont move i will really miss you and i have lost enough friends when i moved and i dont want it to happen agian. Anyways look for my new question... its under height issues.

love,
Alexis

haha Height issues! I support u with zach i jus think hes not actin right 4 u! zach Viator is a much betta boyfriend but ure my bf so no matter wat ill support u!
Luv ya Babe

Q: my mother is very unhappy about her figure and she wishes to hide it. Are there any specific colors she can wear to make her look thinner? If So Please HELP!! Shes always so unhappy. Thanks!!

Black! Mostly dark colors but Black works the best.

Q: I've had my period for almost 10 months now and it still doesn't come on the same days or "schedule" or whatever. I don't know when I am going to get it, because it's such a bad frequency. I don't want to leak in school, and I'm always scared that I did leak, and I didn't notice, and like people are laughing behind my back. I just don't know what to do. I don't wear pads either so..please help?

Its natural. Some people have it more freaquent than others. Do u play sports? People that play sports have it less than people that arent as athletic. If u dont its okay, dont worry bout it cause its perfectly natural. It will come eventually jus be prepared when it does. Carry a purse or somethin, keep it in ure bag. Hope it helps!

Well u have to bring it somewhere cause u alwayz have to have extra pads or tampons. But dont wrry it will come soon.

Q: my friends always ask me personal questions like "who do you like" .. but i dont know if i should tell them bcuz they might tell other people ... how do you know when you can trust your friends?