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Hi, i`m Kayla. I do my best at giving advice. I love to answer love life questions. I know alot about that because i`ve been through alot. Feel free to ask meh anything. I`ll be here to answer it as well as i can.
E-mail: kayla.marie.x3@gmail.com
Gender: Female
Location: New Orleans
Age: 15
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hey, well on may 27th that will be a month for me and my boyfriend. we ALWAYS talk in school. together we are very romantic and flirtasious. but out of school i only talk to him online. we NEVER go out anywhere and weve only talked on the phone once and it was for 15 minutes. this weekend he is grounded so he cant go online. i havent talked to my boyfriend since friday. we didnt have school today where i am because we got this bad storm and everything was flooded. so if today is monday and i havent talked to him since friday that means thats 2 day without speaking to him. the floods are still pretty bad and we might not have school tommorow either. what should i do? p.s the fact that he is grounded isnt stopping us from speaking because even when hes not in toruble we dont speak either. cait♥ (link)
well. how can you have a real relationship with someone if you never do anything together. yall need to go out one night or hang at each others house, it`s not healthy yo only see your boyfriend or girlfriend just at school. best of luckk =]


my eighth grade graduation is coming up in about a month, and i got a dress, but idk if im completely happy with it. i love the colors and how it looks on me, but im just afraid its too short and not formal enough (even though graduation isnt really formal) the thing is, the graduation ceremony or whatever is before the dance, on the same night. so i go straight from the ceremony to the dance (pretty pathetic) so i'm afraid my dress is too party-ish looking like for the ceremony. here's a picture: http://img119.imageshack.us/img119/2091/10055544fq.jpg

do you think thats too short? im really self-conscious so maybe its just me. plus i'm not used to wearing dresses and shorts and stuff. ahh please help before i freak out because graduation is in a month!!!!!! thankss =)
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i don`t think it`s too short.. i think its gorgeous. it fits you. best of luckk =]


i am 16 and my boyfriend has been talking about getting married he said he was going to ask me to marry him soon...how do you guys feel about teenage marriage? and why do you feel this way? i need ohter teens advice! thanks xox (link)
dear teenage marriage,
i feel that you need to finish school first, cause getting married is going to ruin the rest of your high school career.

you`re only 16, you have a life to live, you don`t need to be making any commitments this young.

best of luckk =]


okay so i have this shirt and i am having ppl sign it for the end of the year well my ex b/f keeps wanting to sign it so i finally let him and he said "ass" so i changed it to "ask" well after my last period at school he was waiting outside my door for me and he asked me how i liked what he wrote i said i liked it but i changed it to "ask" then he was like well let me wright something nice on it so i let him it said "fuck u" and he was laughing well then i changed it to "have fun u" and now he wants to change it again he is even trying to get inside my pockets to get the marker is this a sign that he likes me still (he was the one that dumped me) (link)
it`s just signs of him being and asshole. don`t take his shit. thats what he`s trying to get you to think. then he`s going to break your heart. don`t get your hopes up hun. best of luck =]


I'm 16. My mom always tells me when to do my laundry, when to put it up, and when to clean my room, and quite frankly, I'm sick of it. She always says to me, "You're 16! You should know better than that!" and, "You're 16, you need to get a job!" Basically she uses my being 16 as a reason for me to grow up. Well I can't grow up when my mom won't stop yelling at me to put up my clean clothes when I can do it later. How is clean clothes in a basket in my room going to bother her, or anyone else for that matter?

Anyways, do you agree with me? What do I do? (link)
i totally agree. these days parents are too overrated for being clean. i mean we are old enough and we know what we need to do and what we dont need to do. we know when our clothes need to be done, its just a matter of when we want to do them. parents these days are pushy and want you to do it when they want it done. i think you should tell your mom that you are going to do it when your ready. best of luck =]


what turns a guy on or makes them think your hot?...in a non slutty way. How can you get a guy to want you easily?
true experts needed! (link)
ok. i asked my guy friend and his replys were.
1. when they play with his hair.
2. when they cuddle with him.
3. when you give him little hints that you like him, but dont be stuck up his but. like leave him some slack, dont let him think you obsessed.
4. when he can just sit there and look in you eyes and admire you.
5. when you are sweet.
ok mhm thts all he gave meh.
best of luckkk =]


(14/f)
What is the age ( or around the age) that you have to start getting your vagina examined by a doctor?

Can the doctor tell if you've have sex before? Would the excuse "I pushed a tampon in too far" work?

Are doctors allowed to tell your parents you've been having sex if you dont want them to? (link)
i went and i1m 15 and my doctor told me that i was to young to get examined, she said the age is 18 that they usually start examining unless you think you have something wrong, thats another story.

they can`t tell if you`ve had sex, but they can tell you if you`re cherry has popped, but it coulda popped from playing a sport or wearing a tampon.

no, doctors are not allowed to tell your parents unless you say that they can, everything is confidential.

best of luck =]


ok so if you have small eyes and wanna make them look bigger should you put eye liner on the top or bottom? or both? thanks in advance! (link)
put it on both. it will bring em out more.


i have about just-past-shoulder-length hair and a side bang. i am really tired of wearing it down all the time. i need some good hair styles. can u help?? i dont mind trying new things so just tell me some cute, possible, and kind easy things to do with my hair, please =]
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if you send meh and e-mail and say show meh the pics xoxuknoeuwantmexox@yahoo.com i can send you pictures of simple but cute hair styles.


My boyfriend is going to another country to be with his family. We've been together for just 4 months and i don't know if our relationship's worth keeping or not.
Please help me!

P.S.
I'm fifteen years old, by the way. (link)
dear another country..
the only thing i can tell you is you can`t really rely on what other people have to say to you about this one. we don`t know how you feel for him. (do you love him?) and if so, is the love strong enough for yall to stay together? then you also have to think will you beable to really go with out seeing him? hope i helped =]


OK, well i have a REALLY cute jean mini skirt from American Eagle. I think i know what what shhirt im gonna wear but i dont know whats a good color. I also need advice on how i should wear my hair. Can you help?? (link)
mhm. i think you should wear a blue or turquoise shirt, that would be cutee. mhm, and hair styles like a poof then put it up, or wear it down. straight or flipped out.. hope i helpedd =]


What are some good eye makeup I can wear to make my eyes appear larger/wider? Like eyeliner or mascara? And how do you apply it so it makes your eyes look bigger? And how well does it work? Thanks!! (link)
if you up eyeliner and mascara, finish it off with a widee eye shadow. that is what i do. and it works real well. ne more questions just ask. =]


is it posible for someone who once fat and lost all the weight can be a model?? (link)
yeh. because i used to be fat and now i think i`m capable of being a model.


next month, i have a dance rehersal, and i have stage fright. last week we had a rehersal, and i was nervous even with just people from my dance studio, and most of them were even younger than me. how am i gunna perform in front of a ton of people when im nervous just doing that?? any ideas?
thanks xo (link)
don`t think about it. act like no one is there. act like it`s people you`re confe with and it should be all good. =] good luck.


I really am Inlove with my ex. I broke up with him about 2 weeks ago. I was going through a really hard time and I kno I made a really big mistake. This girl that is suposed to be my friend is trying to go for him but Im trying to fix things with him. I really do love him and I just want to be with him. What should I do?
15/f (link)
you should tell him, tell him about the hard times (it will let him kno you really care for him) tell him you didn`t mean to do it. don`t give up. best of luck =]


ok i keep getting mad for like no reason and to day i got really mad and i cut my hair and then i broke some stuff i need to know y i get mad over nothing like i will be sitting there happy and then i will be really mad and no i am not pmsing plz someone help me (link)
maybe you`re bypolar. its like you can be perfectly fine, then the next minute be completely mad for no reason. i think you should talk to your parents and see if they can make you an appointment for a doctor. hope i helped =]
YEH WELL MAYBE YOU SHOULDA ADDED THAT TO YOU POST DONT YA THINK!


hey im 15/f i was wondering if anybody could tell me what are some ways to get my butt "flatter" like what exercises should i do and what foods should i stay away from? Thanks alot i will rate 5s! (link)
do butt squeezes. i kno it may sound dumb, but it really works. hope i helpedd =]


i know this may sound stupid but what does it mean when someone is outspoken??

thanks in advancee!!

ps
5s for anythinggg! (link)
when you`re outspoken.. this means if you have something to say you`re not just going to hold it in you`re going to come right out and say it. and it`s not a bad thing, it`s actually a good thing because if you hold things in then it hurts.. hope i helped =]


i have really wanted a trampoline for a long time and my dad said we will get it for you but i would really like to see you raise the money on your own instead of us just handing it to you.. so he told me to ask some of the neighbors if i can do anything to earn some money! so if anyone has any other siguestions on how to make money, please help! **i WILL RATE 5'S!

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- baby sit
- weed gardens
- cut grass if you think you`re capable.
mhm. that is all i can think of for now.
best of luck =]


Hey has anyone got any techniques to make eyes look more oval and upward slanting (oes it make any difference if you put it over the top lashes? if so I need insructions lol), and also to suggest eyeliners that stay on throughtout half the day at least.

ty luv rach xxx (link)
put it both above and under the top lashes and below and on top the bottom lashes and it should work. that is what i do. best of luck hope it works =]




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