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hey i know it's a little early..but this is when i usually do my xmas shopping..

ok..by christmas, my b/f and i will have been together for 3 & 1/2 months & i have no idea what to get him. he's black, he's into rap & football and stuff like that..a typical guy..but i'm never good with coming up wit something to get a guy so any suggestions would be great :)

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you can buy him a football, or ask him what type of rap does he likes? or make him a mix of rap cds!



I am trying out for cheerleading in less then 3 weeks and I need to be in shape to do a Side Hurdle, Front Hurdle and Toe Touch. Can somebody give me exercises to do? (link)
Excercise like: push ups, sit-ups, v-ups and leg lifts. Dance to music, ride your bike, and stretch everyday iw will relax you but it will hurt and practice your jumps and cheering but im a gymnast and we always streretch evryday even at home! and you always have to practice!



my nails dont grow, how can i make them grow fast? (link)
dont bite them at all



I have a major crush on this guy at my school. I've known him for awhile because i cheered for his football team for 3 years. I like him a lot but.. he likes my other friend. She's my, well one of, my best friends, and she's falling for him to. Should I still like him or like what should I do? (link)
yes who should still lke him. you cont stop liking him cuz a friend of yours likes him!



i need a new bra..where would you suggest i get one? what kidn should i get? (link)
Victoria seacrets has good ones



Okay here is the situation. A girl that I work with (age 36) has 3 kids (ages 18, 16 and 11) anyway about four years ago she left her husband after meeting this 18 year old guy. He had just moved to town with his Mom and they were staying at the hotel that we work at. Well, he was a pretty big flirt and he and his Mom stayed there for like 6 weeks while their house got ready to move in. After they moved in he would come and visit a lot. So, she leaves her husband and they start hanging out a lot and then he tells her that he really likes her and they start dating. So, he just tells his Mom that he feels sorry for her and that they are just friends and he is helping her through this divorce. His Mom doesn't think anything more about it because of the age difference cuz she isn't that much older than my friend. But her parents find out because her and the kids are living with them and he is over all the time and she tells them so they flip out and tell him he isn't welcome there anymore. So, she gets all depressed and her Mom has her put in a hospital and he goes and talks to his Mom and she says that she can stay in their spare room until she can find a place. So my friend takes her kids back to their Dad and moves in with them. The guy's Mom finds out that they are seeing each other and she is not happy at all about it. So, they move out and she still doesn't go and get her kids. So the guys Mom realizes that if she wants a relationship with her son she needs to accept his choices and she tells him that she is sorry and envites them all to her house for Christmas (including my friend's kids). I mean you can tell that she is just being nice for her son but still she is very nice about it. She bought my friend and her kids presents and everything and made them feel welcome. Here is the porblem though. The guys Mom got transferred from her job and they took the kids back to live with them a few months after she left the state for her new job. They told her that they would go with her and that was why she took the job and then the day that the moving truck got there to pack up her things they told her that they weren't going because of my friend's kids. She knew she couldn't stop them and although disappointed she went ahead and moved. So right after she moved my friend quit her job and the guy started supporting her and her three kids. Her oldest got pregnant and he had to support her kid as well. It got to be too much for him and they didn't have money for food or rent or nothing and the kids Dad refused to help out. So, he called his Mom and in the course of about a year and a half borrowed about 25,000 dollars from her. Finally she told them that she couldn't support two households and that my friend either needed to get a job or they needed to move where she was so that they could live there until they could get on their feet. So they moved there. Left two of the kids there and moved in with her. So now she calls me the other day and says that they are moving back. I figured that his Mom finally got enough and told her to get a job. Well, in a way it happened like that but she was really nice about it and told her that he was too young for so much responsibility and that families the size of theirs needed two incomes. She got him a really good paying job and he was sending money to support her other two kids while they were living with his Mom and paying nothing. So they decided that they would move back because they thought that she wanted them out. So my friend calls me up and she is all mad at her mother-in-law for getting in their business and I was all, "I don't blame her. I mean you have borrowed a lot of mney from her and she paid sfor you guys to move out there and paid for everything in the year you have been there and he has been working to support your kids and you don't even get a job." So now she is all mad at me because I don't see her side of it. Am I missing something here? I mean she is a lot older than him and he is still pretty young and he is taking on a lot of responsibility and doing the best he can. His Mom has been pretty great about everything and it is like she doesn't care how hard she works as long as she doesn't have to. Was I wrong telling her how I feel or should I have just left it alone? I feel bad for his Mom personally here she is trying to help her kid and my friend is trying to turn him against her. What do you think? She is coming home next week and I don't know what to say. I have to pick them up fromt he airport and I don't want to fight for two hours in the car on the way. Thanks in advance. (link)
Thats messed up and i think that she is way to young for him and he has his whole life ahead of him.No i dont think you are wrong about how feel about it. a good friend would acept the fact about how you fell. and from this story i think that you are totally right the mom should be pissed at her because of the money and stuff. if i were you ask over to your house (just her) sit her down and say i think you should come with to work at the hotel with me. i think that she should dump him because he is wasting his time with her. he needs to think about his future and his life ahead of him. you are so not wrong for saying how you feel about their relationship. but cuz of the age diference they should break up because of all the things of the money, the house i mean get your own money and house. and she should support her own kids because he didnt help her so he should not suport her. but,well dont say anything till the car ride from the airport. cuz if u mostly dont wont to fight then b quiet (not tring to b mean). so tell her your feelings sit down with the mom and say dont support them cuz its their fault thet they dont have any money!!

good luck!!



How do you take a pregnancy test like at home? No im not pregnant im just wondering. (link)
ITS A URINE TEST YOU PEA ON IT AND IT DETECTS THE PREGENCY HORMONE



Okay .. well I basically Just Started Cutting Myself! + Now i cant Stop.. It like takes controll over me! I dont and wont tell mY Parents and i dont wanna get help or tell anyone* Not even Friends.. but i think they might know.. I dont know what to do ? Im only 13! Should i continue?

Sign
CUTTER! (link)
Stop cutting yourself! go get help and dont risk killing yourself. and tell your parents before you got hurt bad! go get help!!



I am going to start fencing because our university has a fencing club and I have always been interested in sowrd play so it is a logical decision. At any rate, my question is this. Should I start with an epee, a foil, or a saber? (link)
What is fencing?



Hey I'm 14/m and i still haven't ever kissed a girl outside my family.... I feel kinda out of place here because I'm already in high school and ive never kissed.... is there something wrong with me? (link)
NO!! if=ts fine your not ready yet, you will no when you are ready because you will have met the ONE!!



well my friend Amanda finch cuts. she cant stop. plz help she wants to kill herslef and i hope she doesnt! help! how do i support her?! i need ideans and QUICK! (link)
tell sumone, like her parents or sum adult that can do somthing about it!



I get the worst cramps when I get my period. It's usually my first or second day when I get these horrible cramps. I take Motrin, drink tea and use a heating pad. Nothing I do seems to really work and my cramps get so terrible I just want to die. Is there something I can do or take that will make them go away? (link)
take midol or excercise



I havent had a boyfriend in about a year and a half. My friends and family are always telling me i need to get out there and meet someone. The trouble is i dont really know where it is im supposed to go to meet theses said "guys".
Anyone have any suggestions on where to meet a nice guy?
Thanks :) (link)
Hey girl go to the local hang out.If your still in school you could meet guys there. Or you chould go out with your friends to the movies,cLuBiN, Mall,anywhere...go to.. parties..school!

GoOd LuCk!!!

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I wake up every morning at least two hours earlier than my first class. I get up, take my dog for a walk, take a shower and get ready. You would think that all of that would wake me up enough to stay awake during my classes wouldn't you?

No luck for me. My hardest class is at 9 mondays and 9:30 wednesdays - Mammalian Anatomy and Physiology- and I am constantly falling asleep durring it. I try to take notes and sit next to the open windows, but it doesn't work. Coffee never seems to help me stay awake, and it gives me an upset stomach even if it did. Does anyone know of anything else that I could do to get myself awake and alert during this class? I don't want to just get a good grade, I actually want to learn everything and remember it all for my job in the future And this means actually paying attention in class. (link)
go to bed earlier!



well you see i ahve this friend and i realy like him but i don't know if he likes me and if he does should i go out with him.. i mean he is liek one of my real good friends and if i would go out with him and then break up what if we would no longer be friends.. i have no clue what to do i need help.. can anyone help me please


Confused me (link)
i think that you guys are really good friends things should stay that way. because if you go out with him and break up then out of a 98% you guys mostly wont be friends.hoped i helped!



that birth control makes you gain weight? (link)
yup it makes you gian weight

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i'm a 15 year old gurl wit hella regrets. this weekend i went to a party and got drunk...hella drunk! well when i get drunk i get really horny..and i was all over this really popular guy frum skoo! the gurl hosting the party hella liked him and i knew this..i tried to stop myself but i kept making hella bad decisions. the desision worst one was giving the guy head. well the next day hella people knew about it and are hella mad! some of his friends wont even talk to him cuz he messed around wit a slut and a gurl as low as me! i'm hella not a slut im usually hella innocent..befo that i only been fingered and never even touched a dick!i have no idea wut i'm goin to do tommarro at skoo...how shud i react to people that ask me bout it? wut shud i do how shud i handle this ?!sorry so long (link)
You should try not to get drunk cuz when you get drunk you get horny also i f i were you tell them to shutup. hope d i helped
plz rate

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Well im 15 and i have a WONDERFUL boyfriend. we've been together for 3 years!! and u have to admit thats pretty long..anyways, he gets horny a lot, and he tries to get me to have sex with him sometimes, and im just NOT ready!!! He understands tho of course since hes a real understanding person, but last night, he tried to have sex again!! and of course, (as always) i stopped him. And this morning he came over, and gave me a letter, and then left..here's whut it said..

Dear Nicole,
This no - sex thing just isnt working for me. Im sorry, its just that i get sooo HORNY whenever i see you..i jack off, and i just cum and stuff. I dont have a very strong will, so i think u should rethink about the no-sex thing. you know that i love you either way tho..and i cude never break up with you..but ur a fantastic person, and i neeeeeeeed you..
Love,
Chris

should i just have sex with him and get it over with? or should i stick with my first answer? PLEZE HELLLLLLLPP ME!!!!!!!! (link)
i think its up to you if your not ready tell chris that im not ready yet but when i am i will tell you. you should truly do what you think is best but on the other hand i say no you siad you r not ready and hell understand even wrote i cude never break up with you so that gives me a sign that he really loves you and if he really loves you than he will wiat till your ready to have sex with him. hoped i helped.

>3kiLeE


Ok, well theres this guy that likes me...he sits behind me in math and he is the play that i'm doing for Drama Class. He always looks at me and smiles and he's kinda weird and I dont like him at all. I mean as a friend, ya, but not as anything more. How can i get him off my back?!
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ignore him and dont look at him in the eye or anything. also dont give off signs that you like him or anything.

>3kiLeE


How long does a pro baseball game usually last ? (link)
Usally over 2 hours

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