about

My name is Teza.. short for Tereza. I was born in Croatia and I speak more than one language. I'm 22 years old & I completed 2 college degrees in 3 years. My a bachelors is in Business Administration concentration in Human Resources and my Masters degree is also in HR.



I started this advice column about 9years ago and I was so young but it was something that I always loved to do. I am trying to get back to answering questions, at least a few per day. With that said, if you have questions about school, friends, make up, etc., feel free to ask.





Much love, Teza

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how would i be able to tell if im prenant? i cant get a pregnant test cuz my mom is alwayas near me but what are ealry symptoms only advice no lecures plz thanx

You will start getting morning sickness. Throwing up things like that. Pain in your back. Your tummy will start getting bigger. You will usually feel hungry a lot. But when you are at the grocery store just tell your mom you need something and if you have your own money just pay for it before she comes back. Mood swings is also a sign. You will miss your period. [[ ♥♥ ]]

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hey im looking for school clothes to get on the internet for when school starts again. I already looked at a lot of websites and i know a lot of what i want to get. but i still want to know more places so i can look more on the internet..

like these places (i've looked at all these):
hollister
abercrombie
forever 21
bebe
guess
ae
aeropostale
anchor blue
pac sun

does anybody know other stores like that? preppy clothes, pretty much. but not too expensive, because i dont have a lot of money at all. and for most of those stores listed above id just look at the sale items.

please help!

♥ nicole

Stores like Wet Seal,Charlotte Russe,Old Navy, Macy's have really cute clothes!! You could also try a department store. [[ ♥♥ ]]

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Me and my boyfriend have been having sex for over a year now..and for somereason I just can't get wet anymore...why not?

Are you still enjoying the sex? If you are'nt as much as you used to then he doesnt make you horny enough. Spice it up tho!! You could use a lot of things and just make it more "hot && sexy" Like sex toys,whipped cream. Be a little creative and you both will enjoy it more. [[ ♥♥ ]]

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OK i really need help...I really want to have sex and I don't know how to tell my boyfriend, I've already had sex before so it's no big deal or anything but how should I tell him? We have been going out for 9 months and I just can't wait any longer

please tell me what to do

P.S. we are 13 and where should we have it without our parents noticeing


I WILL rate 5's for no one who bitches to me about how young we are im just sooooo god damn horny all the time

Even tho I think you are a bit young for sex its your choice so I'm not going to lecture you about it. If he wants to have sex he would of mention something about it? Is he the shy type and has he ever wanted head/blowjob from you? Well if you havent done any of it try going slowly with him. Maybe he just isnt ready? Or he might be waiting until marrige. You should defenetlly talk to him tho and ask him. He is the only one who can give you the right answer and exacly what you're looking for. But if you do end up having sex.. please just use a condom and be safe! =) [[ ♥ ]]

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if your giving someone head should you spit or swallow? if you do spit like how and where would you go?

If you are going to give head then I think that its better to swollow. Its acaully really up to you. I mean some guys acually dont care whichever you do. Its a bit safer to spit because you never know if the guy has STD or something. If you are going to spit then just spit it out on the floor or sink or something. [[ ♥ ♥ ]]

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ohk my boyfriend just asked me to makeout with him like next time were alone .. and i want to itsz just .. this is embarresiinq but itsz my first time and i dont .. no how to .. l0l ? like i dont no what to doo .. im12 .. and im confused !! i wanna but i dont no how to and im afraid of messinq up

Aww lol. A lot of people have been asking about making out. Well you wont mess up the only way you acually can is if you are trying to hard. Guys can acually notice that and its a turnoff. You just have to go with the flow and follow his lead. Tilt your head and just close your eyes and enjoy it. Nothing to be scared about!! Its okay to be a bit nervous but you would like it and you would want to do it again and again!! Hehe! [[ ♥ ]]

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Hi, I shave my lower area but somehow it always get irritaed with bumps and everything. Is there any other way not to get these? Please help.

♥Make sure you use a good razor. Shaving cream and when you shave dont shave upwards. Shave slowly and after you're done put some lotion on to make it smoother. [[ ♥ ]]

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Tell Me About Yourself

Im Teza. Im awesome. I know I'm the best.. hehe well one of the best. Rock is awesome. Preppy guys are hotties. And Im done with this question. [[ ♥ ]]

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Hi what do all the colors mean on those bracelets because i heard they mean something so i wanted to know

Black-sexual intercourse
Blue-blowjob
Green-cunnilingus(meaning: outdoor sex)
Clear-whatever you want
Orange-kiss
Yellow-hug
Red-lap dance
Purple-anal sex
Silver-fisting
White-flashing your breats
Pink-flashing anything
Gold glitter-makeout
Brown-toss my salad
Glow in the dark-using sex toys ( vibrators , dildos, etc.

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omfg i need an answer quickly please!
i am not really a cutter, only on occassions. today i was very stressed and cut, deep and long. (not too deep obviously) as i was getting dressed my sister saw it. she said if i didnt go to my friends house she wouldnt tell, so i stayed home. then she came in later and said she was still thinking about telling. you don't realize how upset my mother will get, how pissed my dad will be, i don't want to hurt my parents! i regret doing it, i will never again. i told my sister that, but she doesnt believe me! what do i doto convince her not to tell! what do i do if she does tell!

Tell her sister that you were just having a really really stressful day and that you were'nt thinking straight and that you mean what you say. You will never do it again. If that doesnt work just threaten to tell your parents something bad about her that she didnt want them to know. It always works. But seriously dont ever cut again. [[ ♥ ]]

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im goin school shopping in like a week..what is like the hott new trend for this year?

A lot of people are acually starting to wear a lot of vintage peaces. I think its really cute. A lot of stuff is in right now. Like jeans flip flops, tee shirts, coloard shirts, shorts, skirt. Wear bring colors and just add a little bit of jewerly && accesories and you'll look great. If you want to start wearing vintage just wear a lot of necklace's and just math whatever you think is cute. [[ ♥ ]]

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ok... well i thought i had my period on like the 29-2. but then i got it again on the 9th - 11th. could this mean that my cherry popped?

Is possible that you got your period twice this month. You usually get your cherry popped by having sex or getting fingered. If you use tampons it could of happend but I dought it. [[ ♥ ]]

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HEY D0ES WEARING A RED BRACLET MEAN YO0R ANER0XIC CAUSE I WEAR 0NE AND THATS WHAT I HEARD ♥

No it doesnt it means lap dance. But personally I think the meanings are just gay. I think of them as just normal colorful braclets! =) [[ ♥ ]]

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okay so i'm with this kid who is two years older than me and we make out alot and everything and although we're just "friends" it seems like we're together because while i was away for a month we talked on the phone every night for at least an hour and we always talk and stuff and so recently hes been like hinting for me to give him head/hand job and i know hes gotten both of those so many times and i've never given either so i want to but i don't want him to like think it was bad or anything so do you have any tips for giving either of them? thanksssss

He wont think its bad because he will be enjoying it and he really wouldnt care. I mean all you have to do it suck his dick and trust me you wont mess up. Handjobs are acaully the easiest thing in bases. All you have to do is put your hand down his pants and play around with his penis. He will enjoy it. But I think that you both should be more then friends because it seems like he really likes you. [[ ♥ ]]

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i`ve never had a boyfriend..and im scared to hold hands..kiss and makeout..what do i do when sum1 asks me out!!!! =[[

Aw well the next time someone asks you out and you feel like you know him enoughand if you feel comftrable around him them then you should say yes. Holding hands isnt that scary. Once you get used to it you would think its sweet and cute. Kissing and making out .. it will just take you some time to get comftrable with him. I mean its not a big deal and just dont worry about messing up. Just go with the flow. Good luck hun! [[ ♥ ]]

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HEYYAA ♥ It's Montana [X0_TANNERSZ], just wanted to say I ♥ your advice!! You really know what you're doing!! `x0ox

Aw thanks babe! I love yours also!! [[ ♥ ]]

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h3y w3ll this thursdaii mi b/f is going on vaca.. and all daii w3dn3sdaii w3 want to sp3nd tog3th3r but h3 wants to hav3 s3x and w3'v3 b33n onli going out for lik3 a month and im onli 14 and h3s 16 and lik3 h3s all 3xcit3d but im not i dont know how to t3ll him im not r3adi y3t to hav3 s3x 3sp3ciali sinc3 w3 hav3 onli b33n togh3r for a month.. pl3as3 t3ll m3 how i can t3ll him b3caus3 im not r3adi..

Im sorry but next time can you please write e instead of 3. It makes it confusing for me. Let him know easy. You dont have to do anything just to please him or anyone else. When hes over just say you are too young and you are'nt ready. I think that you are making the right choice here. [[ ♥ ]]

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ok well i have an ipod and i thought you had to pay for the songs and thats what i have been doing! but you said you dont't have to pay... how do u get the songs with paying?
i need to no! thxx

You do not have to pay for the songs tho because that would just be pathetic since the iPOD itself is $300. I dont know how you can get the song with paying tho. Sorry. [[ ♥ ]]

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i'm a 13 year old girl and i enjoy fingering my self! But i would really like a man to do it! Once my older sister walked in on me doin it and then asked if she could join! I also enjoy doing it to her! and now my question is how do i break it off w/ my sister and get a man instead!?
I rate high!

Well.. do you have a boyfriend? Dont just let any guy do it tho. When you have a boyfriend ask him to do it and I'm sure he would be glad to. [[ ♥ ]]

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i am 15 and a female..i like having sex with both boys and girls..i am wondering how I could get pregnant with a girl?

You cant get pregnant from a girl because we dont cum so you're fine. [[ ♥ ]]

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