Hi, this is Kate. I'm 17. My life motto is 'Live Laugh Love', I really think those are great words to live by and I'm planning to have it made into a tattoo. I'm not religious but I love learning about different religions. I write stories based on things that have happened to me because sometimes I have days where I just think 'wow that sounds like something out of a book'. I've finished 3 stories and I'm about to start my first horror story..very exciting. I believe in fairy tale love...the kissing in the rain, staring at the stars on the rooftop kind of love..Why? Because I'm in that kind of love and its been the greatest time of my life. And it didn't come easy.
I'd love to help you with whatever issues come your way. I've been in relationships where the guy was too old for me, the guy was my best friend, the guy just wanted to get some. I've been the other woman but I'm not proud of it. I've been the girl who waits years to be with the guy she wanted.
I come from the type of home where everyone seems okay and then when everyone leaves its chaos. My parents should have been divorced years ago and I can't stand to be around either of them so for now I'm going day by day, only coming home to sleep and counting down the days until I go to college in August.
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well im 14/f (15 in 2 monthes) and there's this guy that i like and he's 17 but im not sure he'd really be into me since he's 2 1/2 years older. people i didn't know have thought i was 15 or 16, because i just look older i guess, but i was just wondering if some guys out there (that are around 17 or 18) could tell me if you wouldnt mind the age gap or if it would make you feel uncomfortable? (link)
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hey im 14/f and my boyfriend is 17 and we have no problem. if you love him enough and he loves you then u are blind to age. i see my bf as just another person not some older guy.
modelkate11
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should your boyfriend/girlfriend come before your best friend?
please explain too ♥ thanks. (link)
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NNNNNNNNNNNNNNNOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO(no)
absolutely not
ur friend was there before ur boyfriend
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who sings that song that goes "Sara beth is scared to death" i dont know the rest...
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rascal flats
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Okay well there is this guy in my grade that I really like, and right when I started to like him all of these 8th grade girls that are my friends started liking him. He says that he likes me and 1 of the eigth graders but I want him to like me, just me. What should I do to really get his attention?? I think I've been doing a pretty good job so far.
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be different. set yourself apart from the crowd but not in an attention wanting freak but just be the one who talks to him more seriously or the one who says hi in the hallway but not an obsessive huge wave, just a "HI______"(insert name on line)...
modelkate11
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Could a sign a guy likes you be that he talks to everyone and is able to keep long converstations with other girls, but with me hes shy and we have short random conversations, usually having to do with making fun of each others in a nice way? thanks in advance! (link)
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YEAH, my bf of 2 months still talks to me in funny little random conversations. it's cute but anyway...yes deffinately a sign
modelkate11
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hi, I'm a 17 year old guy. this girl (a bit older than me) across the street mentioned to my brother that she wants to borrow a game, which i happen to own. well i'm done with the game and think this might be an opportunity for me to get to know her better. would it be too weird and too forward if i went over there, and gave the game to her personally? i barely ever see her around the street, but i quite like her and thought i could strike up a conversation with her. so.. would this be too weird and intrusive to go over to her place and give it to her? shes been waiting for me to finish it for a while. just want to know what the done thing is in this kind of situation.
thanks peeps. (link)
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this is a perfect oppurtunity to talk, go over there, deliver the game, talk about the game a little. it's not intrusive you're just delivering the game and you happen to start a conversation.
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I'm a 14 yr old girl and I like a boy who is 16 he likes me back and everything we flirt, hug, and we are really cool with each other everything is great. Everyone thinks he's my boyfriend and I want him to be and I know he likes me as much as I like him but I don't know whats wrong. He doesn't act funny and he doesn't have a girlfriend on the side or nothing I just don't know why we aren't together and so does everyone else. Can you please give me some advice or thoughts on what you think is wrong when everything seems so right?
~KookieMonster96~ (link)
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ok KookieMonster96...maybe he's not ready for any commitments like having a girlfriend...maybe he's been hurt in the past by a girl and is taking safety precautions to make sure it doesn't happen again...he might be afraid that once you start dating that it won't work out for one reason or another...talk to him about it ask him if he wants to have a relationship and if he doesn't then don't force it...he might just be nervous to ask you out
hope this works
modelkate11
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15/female.... i told this 12th grader i loved him and hes my rly good friend. he has a gf that i want to run her over with a bus!!!he says he likes me kinda but its just too complicated because hes afraid of what his friends will think and next month it would be illeagle* and im not mature enough (sex) meanwhile i would do anything for him b/c i love him soo much. did i make a mistake or did i do the right thing. we are going to hang tomorrow or saturday! should i give up on him??? please answer ill rate!!! (link)
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just to let you know it's not illeagal to go out with an 18 yr old u just can't have sex with him. don't give up but don't be an obnoxious girl who follows him everywhere and won't stop bothering him...it's not attractive.
modelkate11
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tonight im hanging out with this kid and its not really a date but its like our first time hanging out & we like eachother i guess you could say... i dont want to be likee over dressy but i dont want to be under dressed either, what should i wear? my style is basically preppy and its cold outside and i have no idea what we are doing lol thanks! (link)
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wear a fitted(or tight) sweater, your best jeans and a cute belt
modelkate11
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ok so...
me and my boyfreind hang out a lot and well its always awkward like after hes done fingering me or something like that...like i dont know what to say or what to do or everything like that. soo does any one have any pointers? (link)
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idk make out with him, tell him you love him!?
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Okay so, my boyfriend calls me everynight and half the time I dread his calls. DONT GET ME WRONG; I really really like him, but I Hate the phone. Like he's kinda shy so theres always that ackward silence and idk I've never liked talking on the phone. I always feel guilty cause I always make some excuse to hang up to end the ackwardness and since I hate talking on the phone. He doesn't have AIM so we can't talk on that .. soo what do I do? (link)
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ok, i'm not really terrified of being on the phone but i still get awkward silences with my BF and basically we just admit that it's awkward and say something totally random like "how was track practice" get the idea, it helps
modelkate11
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if your pee is really yellow does that mean you dont have enough to drink, or is it the other way around? (link)
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you're right it means ur dehydrated
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Is being forced to makeout sexual abuse in any way? For example, if you're making out with a guy and he doesn't let you pull away when you want to.
And if it isn't sexual abuse, then what is it?
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yes it is because he is making you do something that you don't want to do that is sexual.
modelkate11
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So I don't usually get bad cramps, but yesterday and today I feel like someone it stabbing me in the uterus. Mydol doesn't work. Anything I can do? I already know the whole exersizing helps, I did last night and it didnt help. THANK YOU! (link)
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try tylenol(sp?) or extra strength tylenol
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OKay so me and my boyfriend have been going out for about 8 months , and we are definantly in love. Lately we have been talkin about sex, a little more and more each time we talk to each other. Like last night we were texting each other and he said and i quote "Blaire, I love you, & you no that, i would do anything in the world for you. And , well now, i think im ready, for well you know, to have sex. I think we should try it. But only if your ready"
and the thing is , were young. He is 16, im almost 14.(one more week) and well, i would really love to loose my virginity to him, but he has already had sex(he used to be in the major party scene. He quit for me.) So should i have sex with him?
-Confsed (link)
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first have him tested for diseases and if he loves you like he says he does then he won't have a problem but just ask yourself this, if you're ready for sex are you ready to be a parent? because anything can happen even with protection and all of that. my mom had me when she was on birth control. i'm kind of in the same position as you but less serious if you know what i mean. you deffinately are young and i think that's the only reason i don't really want to have sex. i don't want any chance of getting pregnant. just be careful and be smart.
modelkate11
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Okay so I've got these horrible cramps. (hello -time of the month-) Is there any way to make them go away? I don't have any medicine to take. I can't go to the store. I tried putting a pillow on my stomach but the pain got worse. It feels like I'm going to puke. Is there anything I can do? (link)
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heating pads i've heard work well but i actually don't get cramps so i don't know it's just a suggestion for a lady in pain
modelkate11
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hey i need major help on getting a new screen name and i was just wondering if you could help me..
my name is kaela but a lot of my friend call me kay
im in dance
i have a boyfriend named ed
i love the color pink
i like to shop at hollister & abercrombie
i hope this helps you! thanks a lot (link)
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kay-the-pink-dancer
dancekay
edlover
pinkhollistergirl
kabercrombie (sounds cool)
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i have to get my boyfriend a bday gift by monday, any suggestions? ive already given him enough gift certificates, so im trying to think of something easy to get, in the price range of around 20 dollars, and maybe a little creative? he watches a ton of movies, plays soccer, loves poker, if any of that helps. got any ideas? i really appreciate it... (link)
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buy a basic wood picture frame glue poker chips around it and put the best picture of you or the both of you that you have.
modelkate11
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I am almost 15 years old.My boyfriend is 16 turning 17.I dont get along with either of my parents. Is it normal to want to have a child at this age? I talked to my boyfriend about it he doesnt help to much. He has told me he would do anything i want because he loves me so much. I told him i think i would want to wait till i am 16 at least. At the moment i dont no i feel like i want to take hold of the responsibilty now.Ill Rate High. Please help me extra ideas etc would be help full thank you. (link)
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you'll only want the baby until your stomach is so big that you can't see your feet. i don't know you but i know that babies are a big responsibility. even for a sixteen year old. i've wanted kids all of my life and i have a boyfriend and everything but i surly don't want kids now. imagine going to school and your stomach is so big that you can't fit in the desks. well i think you got my point. wait it will be worth it.
modelkate11
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i'm having a baby girl and i don't know what to name her..i am 6 months..can somebody give me a site or some names to name her..please help (link)
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Rhiley
Mali (like Molly but w/ cool spelling)
Jade
Natalie
Mckenzie
Krista
good luck with your baby i hope i helped
modelkate11
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