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Should i give up ???
15/female.... i told this 12th grader i loved him and hes my rly good friend. he has a gf that i want to run her over with a bus!!!he says he likes me kinda but its just too complicated because hes afraid of what his friends will think and next month it would be illeagle* and im not mature enough (sex) meanwhile i would do anything for him b/c i love him soo much. did i make a mistake or did i do the right thing. we are going to hang tomorrow or saturday! should i give up on him??? please answer ill rate!!!
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just to let you know it's not illeagal to go out with an 18 yr old u just can't have sex with him. don't give up but don't be an obnoxious girl who follows him everywhere and won't stop bothering him...it's not attractive.
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This guy clearly isn't crazy about anyone right now including his girlfirend and you. He just wants sex from the prettiest/easiest thing around- and don't let that be you because he'll drop you in a heartbeat. I'm not saying he's nto a great guy at heart, but even though he's a 12th grader he is still young himself and apparently not ready for a relationship that would lead to committment. Be his friend if you want. Let him learn to respect and like you, but by telling him you love him you have dug yourself in a hole. He feels kind of sorry for you, kind of is flattered by you, and is kind of attracted to you, but he does not respect you or want a real relationship. Back off honey and wait for your time.
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well since he has a gf, back off.
you wouldn't like it too much if you were his gf and the other girl was doing what you're doing.
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He obviously think's you're really cool but they dynamic just isn't there for a relationship right now. Not only is the age difference pushing things, he'll be graduating soon. You guys are in really different places, so just look around at the guys in your grade, i bet a ton want you and you just haven't noticed because you've been focused on your friend.
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I think you need to be really careful in your choice because one he is more experienced than you and 2 as you said in a year it will be illegal. You don't need anyone getting in trouble. And never say you will do anything for someone. There is alot you might do for someone but not everything. And hon you are still very young. You reall really need to make sure you are in love with someone before you have sex with them. Being a virgin is very special and priceless. Once you give that up, that is it. It is gone. So think about your choices long and hard before you make them. And think about the fact that yes you do like him but maybe you two are better as friends. Remember the choices you make in life affect your life. And not always in a good way.
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