Name is Layne, age is 17, occupation is babysitter. still answering questions on here even after 3 years is awesome, right? no, just proves i don't have a life. so. if you have a question, feel free to ask it on here or you can IM me on my screenname. i can answer most questions about the categories i have listed. i don't know much about sickness or physical health, or stuff to wear when your husband just died but the man who killed him, whom you're having an affair with, is going to be at the funeral. :) have a wonderful day.
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I recently found out my best friend was a backstabbing liar.
Anyone have any songs about being betrayed by a friend? And being angry at that person?
Not needing them anymore?
Pop, Rock, and Alternative are my favorite genres.
Something with a good beat, and that has good lyrics you can sing too.
AND someone that's popular, not some old chick/dude from the 70s.
And please don;t tlist songs that are like EXTREMELY popular right now. I've most likely heard them.
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two songs that come to mind for me are:
had enough - breaking benjamin
so happy - theory of a dead man
had enough is about a friend that betrayed him, and so happy is about a guy who just dumped his girlfriend and is happy to be rid of her. :)
enjoy..oh and so happy is rock and had enough is hard rock.
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Okay I have bad acne at my chin, cheeks, and fore head. My skin is either oily or dry. ALso as sensitive as i don't know what!!!!
What is something that isn't expensive like 25 bucks and under that will help!!!
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what i use is clearsil ultra. it comes in a tube that looks like a giant toothpaste tube and its purple and blue. i think it costs about 9 dollars, maybe less. it works reaaaally really well. wash your face with it twice a day for about 3 days, and then skip two days. then wash it twice a day for 3 days again, and then skip two days, etc. keep this up and your skin should look awesome in about a week. you need to keep a schedule so you're not washing everyday, because then it can start to irritate your skin. but if you give your skin a break for a few days, it'll be fine. and this stuff keeps your skin at a natural balance between oily and dry.
good luck
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I need some advice on a youth exchange/volunteer opppourtunity for canadian youth. i'm in grade ten and i want to travel to somewhere beautiful but needing help ie mexico, brazil,peru, thailand... i want to travel and have it cost relatively little as i don't have tons of money. anything that i can GET OUT OF THIS SMALL TOWN and help out the world. any advice appreciated!
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if there is a church near you, depending on what you believe in, there are some missionary trips that they go on to spread the gospel. of course, if you're not christian, you probably wont enjoy this too much. but you'll still be able to travel.
or you could talk to your school and parents about an exchange student program. this way, you'll be transfered with some other student in a different country. you'll basically trade places. not all parents are down with this, but it couldnt hurt to ask.
good luck!
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i have been on birth control for a about a month and two weeks almost three well im not very good at taking them like at all the other week i forgot to take the pill so i took two the next day. then the other day i was about to take it and the pill dropped and i couldnt find it OF COIURSE! that day me and my boyfriend were having sex and i told him not to cum in me but he did anyway. he almost alawys cums in me by the way. (we just started cuming in me thoug) and even missing the pills i dont take them all at the same time everyday sometimes i forget in the morning or i figure i dont have time and take it when i get home from school or b4 i go to bed. but sometimes i take it regurlary everyday in the morning but that lasts like three days. and i know there are chances of getting pregnant ALWAYS! and the way ive been doing things i have a greater chance of but. what are the sighns and stuff and percentage of getting prego. like the first week of getting prego do you have signs i have been pooping like three times a day now that mean anything! (link)
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you wouldnt have pregnancy signs after just a week. from what i know, you probably wouldnt start having signs until the 5th or 6th week, besides not having a period. and one of the other signs to look for is tender breasts. also, as far as i know, pooping 3 times a day is not natural, but i dont think its a sign of pregnancy. peeing a lot is, though. like getting up in the middle of the night to go to the bathroom.
with the condom, there is an 85% chance that you wont get pregnant. on the pill, there is a 99-99.9% chance you wont get pregnant. as you can see, the pill is more affective.
but i have good news for you. i dont think you'll get pregnant from missing a few days of the pill. what i would do if i were you is make a calendar on my cell phone. on the calendar, set an alarm that will go off everytime you need to take your pill. and if that doesnt work for you, stock up on plan B pills. you can get them at any drugstore. they're just like BC, but instead of taking them everyday, you just take them the morning after you have unprotected sex, (they are also called "morning after pills", for this reason) if you know you've missed a day from the pill and you had sex, just take the morning after pill when you wake up the next morning. i'm not sure how much they cost. anyways, i hope i've helped you. :)
take care.
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So I was in this amazing relationship back in July-August and I loved every minute of it. He was an amazing guy that made me happy and I made him happy and everything was perfect in our relationship. Except for the fact that his parents did not like me (mainly his father because he thought I was just using him because I was "too pretty) and his brother who hates me because he thinks I'm a slut. Oh yeah and our classmates don't like us together either. They constantly gossip about me and call me horrible names (mainly girls) because I was dating him. Why did our amazing relationship end you ask? Well because I had enough of the drama and stress that came from our relationship and I ended it and I regretted it ever since. Like to this day I still get butterflies when I pass him in the hallway, in class, etc. I don't know why though :/ I can't stop thinking him either which is weird. I'm zoning out in class because he pops into my head frequently which is crazy right? I'm usually an A student with all AP Classes but lately I've been just out of it :/ So anyone wanna help me out here/give me tips/advice?
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you said you regretted dumping him, so maybe you still like him a lot. heres a little tip for you: even if people are being difficult and bitchy about your relationship, if you and the person really like eachother, everyone else will have to get over it. relationships come with sacrifices. so, people are jealous or hateful, they'll move on and get bored with being rude.
seeing as its too late now, id try to talk to your ex. you guys dont have to go out, but just talking and being friends is good, too.
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I take Spri-Lo-Sintec and I got my period a week earlier than I was supposed to and I don't know why. My period lasted for 6+ days and I had all my normal PMS symptoms. My friend recently died so I'm wondering if it could have been caused by stressed? But also, a few months ago they gave me the wrong birth control by accident, so I don't know if it's maybe because of that?
17/f
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on the pill, its not unusual to get irregular periods. its actually one of the effects of it, on those commercials. and i'm sorry about your friend. that might also be something that made it happen.
but yeah, as far as i know, its totally normal. and if you have any questions about your BC, you should talk to the doctor who prescribed it to you.
take care :)
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i think thats what its called ,but whats guys opinions on girls with the trail not just completely shaved? and whats so good about it ,because my guy friends say its hot ,but i dont get there point of it . (link)
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i dont think there really is...unless it turns them on to see that you have hair? i shave mine, because i don't think girls are supposed to have hair below they're stomach. thats why we shave our legs and...yeah everywhere else.
just do what feels comfortable, i guess.
take care :)
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Hey im 18/f and my boyfriend is 21/m we have sex about 4 times a week. We mainly do missionary. Hes always on top. For some reason i dont like being on top. I would but i just dont know what to do besides just ride him up and down and i cant really go fast. Also when he's on top i always tend to close my eyes is that normal? I guess i just dont know where to look i feel like if i constantly keep looking at him it would be weird. We've been dating for over a year. I'm self consious with my body. I have some cellulite on my legs and im just very uncomfortable. Im 5'6 and 150lbs. Is there any other positions we could do that are comfortable. (Me being on top is uncomfortable for me) Any advice would be appreciated!
Thanks i rate! (link)
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next time you're getting it, just turn the lights completely off. that way, you guys won't see eachother, and you wont have to be self concious.
also, a good position that guys love and girls barely have to do anything is doggie style. in this position, you're on all fours and he's behind you on his knees. he thrusts and this way, he has more momentum and it feels good for him. and this also works because you dont have to stare at eachother.
hope i helped.
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Been in this relationship for 8 months now, we've had our break ups and a few though times. We've also had sex...blah, anyways sometimes when we do "it," I tend to get a bit strange after, I feel a bit sad and I don't know why. Is this normal? We live in different suburbs but in the same state, he visits as often as he cans, as do I. We speak on the phone every night. Hmmm...I've also had a small crush on this other guy, a friend of mine, had it for awhile now, before my actual bf and I got together. =S
I thought it'd go away since I have someone else, but it never really did, is this ok? Is it normal?
My crush likes me too, but nothing ever happened since we both are very shy. My bf on the other hand, is pretty head strong. My bestfriend says we aren't in love, since I have a crush on someone. She thinks that you can't like someone and also be in love with someone else...is she right? She also thinks we're more in lost than in love, I'd agree at times. But when I think things over and all we've been through I do believe it's love, right? Why would you stick around in something unless it was love. We tend to get very hot & heavy and end up...y'know. Does that mean it's lust instead of love? We do other things other than that of course, but I really like sex. I enjoy it...is this wrong? T.T
I mean only with him of course, he was my first and is the only guy I've ever been with, I don't see myself sexually with anyone else, not even my crush. But i could picture a noe sexual relationship with my crush, hmmm...I guess I'm just wondering all this because of this other guy, my friend. I'm feeling a little confused and stressed, I also have a few other things on my mind, none related to this. Sorry if it's long and if there are any typeo's but I'm to lazy to revise.
Additional info, I'm 16 female, my bf is 18 male, my friend/crush is 14 male >.>;
WEIRD AGE MIX UPS!!! I know xD (link)
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a relationship can be absolute love and still have sex in it. most anyone who has had sex likes sex. thats normal. and its normal to kind of fantasize about other guys when you're in a committed relationship. especially if you guys dont see eachother that often. but as long as you dont act on those fantasies, theres nothing wrong with it.
and crushes that happen before you get into a relationship with another person that dont go away is normal, too. you sound like a pretty normal 16 year old girl, to me. i loooove sex, and i loooove my boyfriend, but i also have a crush or two on the side. but ive never done anything with them, nor will i. adults in movies can be in love and still want to have sex 80,000,000 times a day. lust is actually part of a relationship. having lust for someone means you have a sexual communication, and sexual communication is a very good thing in a committed relationship.
the feeling sad after sex is probably subconcious thoughts, such as: "ugh, hes leaving later. i dont want him to go" "i feel guilty for having another crush" "am i really in love with this guy?" just try to clear you're head of all that other BS and live in the moment. and have fun!
take care/ :)
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I keep having dreams of me cheating on my boyfriend, a guy that I love with my whole heart and would never cheat on for anything. I think its the lowest thing you could do to someone.
My first dream is of my ex showing up at my door and begging me to take him back and then he kisses me and starts taking off my shirt and I slapped him and started yelling at him. I woke up and thought it was real and I almost started crying but then I realized it was a dream.
The second one was with my friend from college who reminds me of my best friend from home (a girl), personality wise. We were in a conference room meeting with one of our professors with a few other students, then everyone leaves except for me and my friend and he closes the door and we're making small talk and he keeps getting closer. Then he smiles and puts a hand on my cheek and kisses me and I start crying because I feel awful its even happening and I try to pull away but he's holding my head and then he finally stops for a minute but then he tries to push me on the table and have sex with me. I woke up and cried. This time I knew it was a dream but I felt soo bad because these dreams keep happening and I don't know why. I love this man more than anyone before and I don't know what I would do if I lost him. This has to stop. (link)
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its not a big deal. know why? because even in your dreams, you're still committed. you never give in, you never let them do what they want. you say no. this means that you know that later in life, there will be temptations. but you wont give in because you're an awesome person to be with.
take care!
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i'm 19 female. i'm doing online college right now, due to certain issues. basically, i dont have any friends my age. i only have one good friend of mine who i've known since the 7th grade. we do hang out alot but the only people i hang out with are in high school... LAME. i just get along with them really well, there like juniors and seniors in high school but i HATE hanging out with them because honestly i feel like an idiot. i even feel like other people are like, "why is she hanging out with 16,17,18 yr olds?!" my parents are judgemental too, saying i need friends my age. my good friend who is my age doesnt hang out with anyone either. we don't really talk to anyone else, like we cant go visit someone at college. it's not like i go to the high school events.. NOOOOOO nono, i dont. that would be weird. but i do hang out with them. i am starting to feel depressed, i need friends my age :( (link)
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who says you have to feel stupid for hanging out with people you enjoy hanging out with? i'm a junior, and ALL of my friends are freshman or sophomores. i like hanging out with them better because we just get along more. one of my closest friends is two years younger than me and we've been friends for over a decade. we get along, we know how to communicate, and plus, younger kids are fun. i'll have to be thinking about life on my own soon and hanging around younger kids just sets my maturity level down to healthy, non stressful level that works until we're not together. being around people your own age is sometimes boring. and honestly, it can ruin your mood. i cant ever remember having a friend that was older than me. you dont need to feel depressed or idiotic just because your friends are still in highschool. and whoever makes you feel that way doesnt understand you, or your way of thinking.
its not that big of a deal. its just a number. its like going out with someone younger or older than you.
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ok so there is this sone and I have no idea wht the name of it is. the lyrics are something like...."I'm going back to Indiana now, to see my baby in her evening gown..." thanks (link)
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i don't know that song, sorry. :\
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sooo ok dont judge me because im asking this. im completely normal, i just love my boyfriend so much. weve been dating for 2 years and he suffers from schitzophrenia and he refuses to take medication because he hates the way it makes him feel. i feel so horrible 4 him because he is in so much pain and its just getting so much worse. i know he doesnt want to live anymore. yesterday he asked me to kill him and at first i didnt think he was serious but we talked for a while and he said it was the only way or he would do it himself. i dont want him to go to hell for committing suicide so i told him i would kill him so id go to hell instead. i havnt decided if im going to kill myself yet because my boyfriend says he doesnt want me to do that. but i dont know if i could deal with the fact i killed the boy im in love with. but what happens if a 16 year old kills another 16 year old who asked her to do it? jail? death penalty? psychiatric center forever? im not crazy im just putting the one i love out of his misery because i cant stand him being in pain any longer. id rather be in pain for him. just wanna know what would happen. dont try to do all that talking out of it and stuff either. wont work. thanks (link)
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ok first of all, whether he kills himself or not, he wants it to happen. and when you LET yourself die, because you want to die, its basically the same thing.
you wont go to hell for killing him. but you cant. you'd spend the rest of your teenage life in juvi, and then they'd probably transfer you to a psychiatric hospital once you're of age. this is assuming you're going to explain your reasons to the police. you probably wont lead a normal life anymore. get him help. put him in a hospital. you dont want him to die, and neither of you wanna burn for eternity. he just needs to grow a pair and get on the medication. that way he'll be better, you'll be happy, and he'll be happy.
or better yet? why not just stop dating him? you're 16. you'll meet someone else. he sounds like a lot of weight on YOUR shoulders, and he should know the hell he's putting you through. you need to get him to talk to a professional. my uncle has schitzophrenia, and he takes the medication. he hates it, but it helps him concentrate and lead on a semi-normal life. that can be your boyfriend's life, too! you guys are too young to be worrying about all this. talk to his parents or something. he might be mad that you told, but its for the better. death is not the answer here.
take care.
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Hi I'm from the UK.
I have a 9 year old daughter who is very distressed and upset and i'm hoping you can help me help her!!
I moved away from her dad in 1999 (before she was born) due to domestic violence and gained an interdict to stop him coming near us. Since we weren't safe in the area we lived in after my split with him i moved to Edinburgh in 2002 and have been safe and living life normally ever since, that is until May last year when he managed to locate us.
Within a week we had to be placed in a Womans Aid refuge for our safety and he believes we live down in London now.
Ever since though he set up websites in search of us using videos and information from my daughters health problems to try and locate us. Now the first two websites we managed to get taken down as it pertained to a minors safety but the 3rd (which my daughter stumbled on last night) has only been up for a couple of days.
I've spoken to the police who confirmed this is a source of harassment yet won't do anything about it as its online. My solicitor reakons since he doesnt know where our new address is we should simply ignore it but its easier said than done!!
He is definately abusing my daughters right to safety and privacy. He has invaded both me and my daughters privacy by making this site and has caused us great annoyance and anxiety. The very fact he used her name as his web address shows he is abusing her right to privacy. If it was more about him it should have been called JohnMackie.co.uk not http://www.Shannoncassidy.co.uk
My daughter deserves the right to live life normally and safely - she does NOT deserve her privacy violated in such a manner and certainly not be hounded by him. Please for the safety of my daughter help me get him stopped for good!!
I need help! This is affecting my daughter greatly!! She has only JUST started relaxing after the last spate of websites and now shes back to sitting in her room crying - She doesn't understand why someone would ignore her requests to take it down and leave her alone as she wants nothing to do with him at the moment.
In light of this i would appreciate it if you could help!! (link)
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this is awful. i'm sorry your daughter is suffering. but i hate to agree with the assholes on here, but some of them do have a point. you're not doing anything different from your husband. even if he is a douchebag, he would still want to know where his little girl is. i can promise he doesnt give a crap about where you are, just the girl. and by putting this question up, you're exploiting her, too.
theres not really anything anyone can tell you to do that you havent already tried. what i would do is report the site for abuse (if possible) and if not, just ignore it. i went to the site. it looks innocent enough. you're only adding to your daughters stress by making such a big deal about websites like that. how your 9 year old managed to "stumble across" a website about her is beyond me, but maybe you should limit her internet activity, A. and B, stop worrying. you're not helping anything. just making her more paranoid. tell her all the sites are gone and that everythings fine. she'll feel better, and so will you. its as simple as that.
take care.
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Hey everyone, if you go to google and look up "William Suh arrest". Im the victum in that change. I dont know what to do, i still love that man and the people dont even have the facts stright about any of it! they are making himout to be a horrible person and he is NOT. I love him and belive he did nothing wrong, i really want to talk to him, but i cant sit here and listen to the horrible things people are saying about him. They dont know him, I DO!
what do i do T_T (link)
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the only thing i can say is that you have to deal with it. love can be separated by a lot of things, including dumb laws. my friend has had a lot of boyfriends who are many many many years older than her and shes had sex with all of them, but when the police find out, they have to take them away.
i dont know why they have this law, when 12 year olds used to get married to 30 year olds back 100 years ago, but its just the law and you have to obey it. :\
im sorry i cant help more.
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are tampons suppose to hurt alot when you take them out? i use tampax pearl and i used a light one and i took it out after like 5 or 6 hours and it hurt to get out. it did have blood on it but how do you know when you're positive its fully absorbed? (link)
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ive heard tampax pearl isn't the absolute best. the best that ive used is kotex. they are comfy and soft, and they're very absorbant so you can leave them in a little longer than the reccommended time. if the tampon is hurting, you just need to try a new brand.
take care. :)
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17/f.
ok my best friend ashley is really cool most of the time & we are best friends. yesterday i went to the carnival, with another good friend, kelly, because ashley already had plans with a girl i don't like very much. well anyway, whenever i would see ashley, like wave, she would be looking at me & then she would just turn away, & then i was waiting for her to get off a ride, and she just walked past me.. & then after kelly left, i was alone & i wanted someone to hang out with, & then i found out someone i know very well, may have cancer, & then my mom was mad at me & then i saw someone kill a fish (i'm a vegetarian and a animal lover, so that depressed me) so, i was really upset, & really wanted to like talk to someone & hang out with someone, & my best friend just texts me "oh, really.. well my phone is dieing so talk to you tomorrow." like is it just me, or was she being rude? or am i making a big deal out of nothing? i have not said anything to her about this.
i was going to go to the carnival with her tonight, but i don't know.
oh & kelly and ashley don't get along well, but not enough that ashley can't still talk to me.
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this is just access information, if you want you can stop reading & still answer my question..
ashley might be kind of jealous of kelly & me though. because welll.. ashley weighs like 230 pounds. & ashleys friend weighs probably 200 or close to it. & kelly & i weigh like 110.. so i mean, while we were there, like all these guys kept coming up to us, and wanting to talk to us and, well no one has ever come up to ashley, inless it was a joke. so i was thinking maybe she didn't want to talk to me because of that.
but the thing is, is ashley only has 2 friends, me & the other girl. & then she hangs out with her sisters friends, but her sister & her friends are going to college soon, i don't know who she expects to hang out then...
anyway, am i making a big deal? she is my best friend, what kind of friend doesn't ask you where you are & everything, when your crying on a street corner.... (link)
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it sounds like nothing to me. maybe ashley was jealous. but not because you're thinner than she, but because you were with kelly all night instead of her. you said you were going to the carnival with her or something, so talk to her there. tell her how you came off and how you really needed a friend, but she wasnt there for you. im sure she'll give you a good reason and things will turn out fine.
take care. :)
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hey, i am sixteen and i have dated a guy for 1 year and i absolutley love him..we did so much fun stuff together and we would mail eachother letters and pictures and everything else.. i broke up with him a few weeks ago.. and i realize i love him.. i can't get him off of my mind.. he is all i think about.. and now my best freind is gonna go out with him.. i was so pissed off at her.. she wonders why i am so mad and tells me to get over it.. i still love him.. we were suppose to get back together, but she came along and she ruined it all..she told me it was an accident and she dindt mean it, bullshit.. he told me he still loved me too... then i asked him if he wanted to go back out and he said fuck no.. then he called me a physcho bitch only b/c i was upset that they were gonna go out..i mean a few weeks ago he loved me.. i never felt like this before in a relationship.. we were commited to eachother.. and some best friend she is huh? what am i suppose to do? WE BROKE UP BECAUSE..i only broke up with him b/c he gave me lots of attitude, and he hung out with his freinds more then he did with me.. i felt like i was a nobody. we barely ever saw eachother and he called me like only like once every 2 weeks..and i got sick of it...but now i regret doing it..b/c i love him.. :-( now him and my best freind are gonna hit it off,i just feel so bad and upset and depressed... i never knew how much i really liked him.. he told me later in the future we would work it out.. but i don't see that happening.. well thanks alot... hope you can help me!!!!! jennifer, upset in pa (link)
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yes, there is a code somewhere that says friends cant date friend's exes. but i think that only applys when the ex breaks up with the friend. in other words, your friend thinks its ok since you were the one who broke it off. and im guessing your ex DOES still love you. maybe he said what he said because hes dating your friend and doesnt want you to think anything of it. try to be cool with it for a while. hold it all in until you get home, and then stab your voodoo doll with the black needle :)) (kidding, sort of)
by the sound of it, your friend is a bitch. this relationship wont last long, trust me. especially if your ex still loves you. give it time. he'll probably come back soon. until then, just try to stay cool. and breathe easy.
take care! :)
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my mom hates me i know she does... im 14 years old... on my 14th birthday she kicked me outta my house.... and told me it was my fault.... i dont wanna sound like im the perfect kid cause im not... but i just dont know how to make her happy it seems like im always doing something wrong.... i cant please her..... she tells all my friends parents that im a bad kid.... i spend a lot of time in my room or sleeping so idont hafta see her so icant get her mad at me... i dont know what to do anymore... i dont think i can live like this please hekp me someone.... (link)
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all i can say about this is your mother sounds like a stone cold bitch. you're better without her. wheres your dad? are there any relatives you could stay with or talk to about this situation? how about any friends? try to talk to one of your friends parents and explain this situation to them and see if they'll let you stay with them for awhile. just never talk to your mother again. shes not even a mother. a mother is loving and kind. just because she gave birth to you doesnt mean a thing. if i were you, id try to stop pleasing her. and stay away from her. id never talk to her again as long as i live. again, you're much better off without her. just try to take things one day at a time. and try to find somewhere to stay. :\ im sorry i couldnt be of anymore help.
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how come after i use a vibrator it makes me stomach hurt for at leaste 10 min. it can go on for up to 20 min though. & during sex or after my stomach doesnt hurt. & while using the vibrator it doesnt hurt either. but right after im done using it, it immediatly starts hurting. why is this? is there something wrong? (link)
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sometimes, orgasms can be fun! but othertimes, when they're a little TOO intense, they can make your stomach start hurting. for me, its mostly my uterus that hurts after a really good orgasm. the things with vibrators is its not like regular sex, its just like really really really really fast sex. with regular sex, it doesnt hurt because even if at the time, it seems fast, you guys are actually going at it really slow compared to vibrators. and like i said, sometimes it can be too much for your body to handle, hence the pain.
are there any settings on your vibrator? if so, try to put it to a lower setting for now. i dont know what else to tell you except to take it slower and lower the setting.
take care!
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