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hey,i'm Nicole. I'm 23 years young. I'm from New York...i do the best i can on giving advice on this site.drop one in my inbox n i'll get to it as soon as i can.i like spending time with friends, shopping,and playing soccer. my interests are music, singing and dancing.
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alright this guys..lets say collin and he and i are best friends. but when im not around he'll go around and ask my other friends where im..but when i get there he'll like ignore me! then last night we were at a party and he was flirting with me..then the next minute hes flirting with this other girl..but looking at me well doing it! i mean does he like me or not?! cause i really like him..but i dont kno if i should keep liking him! also he has a girlfriend and they have been going out for 5 months..but they havent kissed or anything.
you should keep liking him but don't get involved with him while he's going out with that girl. it's okay to flirt but don't give his girlfriend a reason to smack you across the face. and i don't know if he likes you or not because i do not know this guy you speak of and guys are sometimes the hardest to read. just because they haven't kissed might mean that one of them is prude. but just keep your head up and if love is meant to be, it will find you. good luck and hope i helped!
xoxo *MiZZ niCoLe LYnn*
i'm going to be moving soon and i was wondering if there are any teenagers out there with some good ideas on how to decorate a new bedroom?? you know, something fun yet classy, but not too crazy.
i moved and my room was totally boring. i spiced my room up by painting my room light blue, adding beaded curtains to my closet and taking out my closet doors, i got a fish tank with fish and rainbow stones, a lava lamp, stereo, tv, posters all over my walls and on the back of my closet. i have nothing in my closet except clothes pushed off to the side on hangers and a blow up chair blown up with a soft mushy pink aroma therapy pillow. i have a beanbag chair, mini posters covering my dresser and stars on my cieling. i have no bed frame(just a mattress on the floor)and a full length mirror on the back of my door surrounded by cards with cool designs i have gotten from people. my room is the smallest and coolest room in my house. good luck with your designing & i hope i helped!
xoxo *MiZZ niCoLe LYnn*
I'm so confused. I hang out with my friends and stuff but I don't really have a best friend. I feel like when I'm with my friends I'm just a third wheel or somebody thats just there. PLease give me some advice people!
have some one on one time with each friend. tell them you want to be closer with them. don't feel like you're the third wheel or the person that's there for no reason because you're there because they want you there! become better friends with them! simple as that. hope i helped!
xoxo *MiZZ niCoLe LYnn*
I`m a senior in high school. I`m turning 18 soon but my boyfriend will still be 17. If we have sex after my birthday, will that be illegal?
no, it will not be illegal. it is only illegal if you are over the age of 18 and the other person is under the age of 16. as long as the other person is 16 or older it is legal. hope i helped!
xoxo *MiZZ niCoLe LYnn*
Hey! (15/f) So I've asked this sorda before but it's a tad different this time. There's a guy on my tennis team that went out with my 'old bestfriend' last year. I'm still really good friends with her but not as close as when last year.Anyhoo, this guy likes me. I don't really want to confront him about it bc i really like being friends with him. I think I've been giving him the wrong messages bc i guess we sorda flirt but it's just friendly, ha so i thought. what should i do now? Ps. sorry for the longness!
if you like this guy in the love way, then go out with him. just check with your friend to make sure it's okay. if you just want to be friends with him, don't say anything about him liking you. simple as that. because if you say somthing about him liking you, he might think you like him back. good luck & hope i helped!
xoxo *MiZZ niCoLe LYnn*
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ok, im doing a science fair at my school blah blah blah...is this a good project: How does music affect one's ability to sleep well?
please be honest, p.s:im in seventh grade(13)
just thought it might help judge...thanx
that's a good idea for a project. if that was my topic, on weekends i would get 2 or 3 people of each age group(your parents, your friends, a sister/ brother & their friend, have them do something (like exercising) that makes them tired, run it one time without the music, and the next with the music and make a triple line graph of the rate at which each fell asleep. but that's my opinion. good luck & hope i helped!
xoxo *MiZZ niCoLe LYnn*
ok i found out this guy liked me and like i like him so i wrote him a note askin him but he said he wanted 2 ask this other girl out so i was ok im cool wuteer n then his friend wrote this note makin it look like it was from him n it said i dont like i nvr liked u and like i didnt noe wut 2 say after i read that n i got tha note on monday so on friday i decided to write him a note sayin lets 4git aboot this and lets be friends and he told my friend that he doesnt want 2 b my friend and that he wishes he nvr met me. I feel like shit and i want to b his friend but he wont talk to me like after i found out wut he said i tried 2 talk to him but he walked faster away wut shood i do to get his friendship back and 4git this ever happened b.c im practically in tears please help srrie its long
Signed: broken heart
broken heart, if this guy has to be an asshole and doesn't want to at least be your friend, then he isn't worth it. he will realize he mad the mistake. don't feel like shit because of a guy...i think you should spend some time with your girls. he's a guy and there are plentty more where he came from. remember this-guys are like public toilets:either taken or full of shit. and this guy is totally full of shit! i feel so bad cause this guy is an asshole to you!
feel better & hope i helped!
xoxo *MiZZ niCoLe LYnn*
Where can you get Hello Kitty stuff? Plz don't tell me sanrio or e-bay! Ill rate!
you can go to hellokitty.com and buy stuff. you can also go to aaathemes.com/hellokitty-destop-themes.phtml for hello kitty stuff to put on your computer. that's all i could find.
xoxo *MiZZ niCoLe LYnn*
ok when i graduated from da 8th grade i was leavin alot of memories and friends behind me.. they were all going to a different high skewl than i was and i knew even tho we said we'd still be friends id never see them again.. well there was this kid named anthony... and well ive liked him sense the first time i met him(and im pretty sure he knew). i thought i wasnt gunna be hapy without seein him anymore but i eventually got over it and moved on. well yesterday when i went to pick up my brother from the ice rink there he was(wit some girls from his skewl)... and the minute i saw him all those feelings came back. when he passed by he said hey and we talked very briefly. i left after words but now i feel bad all over again and i know its gunna take a while fur me to get over it.. how do i make those feelings go away?
these feelings you can't exactly control. if you have someone that you still talk to any of your old friends that go to school with him, ask them if he has a girlfriend. if they say he doesn't and they're absolutely positive, call him. drop hints that you like him and be flirty with him. that is if you're willing to take a chance. anyways, good luck & hope i helped!
xoxo *MiZZ niCoLe LYnn*
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I had a boy very close to me,but I moved
now I miss him ,I'm really sad,
nothing is wrong with me, I think
in my high school almost all the girls have
boyfriend,I feel really lonely.
every time I watch them do their boyfriend-
girlfriend things I cry.sometimes I just want to
kill myself .being alone is killing me please
I really need to know what I should do,because
I think guy are scare of me but I'm pretty,smart
and I have a medium body why is this happening
what can I do?
I'm desperate
1. don't put yourself down 2. do NOT commit suicide 3. you don't need a guy to make you happy 4. remember that you are beautiful no matter what 5. make a bunch of friends. and if you want to try to get a boyfriend, hang out at the mall or someplace where guys are with a bunch of friends-they'll notice you. you could also have a friend ask a guy that you like out for you.take a chance,good luck & hope i helped!
xoxo *MiZZ niCoLe LYnn*
Last night I found out my bf did drugs. He never told me or anything but they were talking about it and my friend told me. I also found out that he was ganna dump me because he did it. It really made me mad. Like its not the fact that he does it, but the fact that he never told me about it. He knows i dont agree with that stuff so what should i do because i dont want him keeping stuff from me.
he most likely didn't tell you because he knew you werren't up for the whole drugs thing. i suggest you keep with your inside sourceyour friend) for information about his problem. he's probably not going to come straight out and tell you he's doing drugs unless you confront him about it. just don't get involved in his drugs. if it wasn't him who told you he was going to dump you than it may not be true because people have a tendancy to make stuff up, so don't believe it until you hear it from him and(i hope you don't).good luck & hope i helped!
xoxo *MiZZ niCoLe LYnn*
i like two people. lets call them billy and bob. i really started to like billy. and one day i got someone to tell him. well my best friend told BOB that i like him. i didnt really but then i started to again. i didnt really hear much from billy but bob was starting to like me now. i talked to bob and he said "well i like you but i really want to get to know you more first and well see what happens from then." all of the sudden one day like 10 people come and tell me billy likes me. so now i want to go out with billy, but i dont want bob to think i dont like him and have him not like me anymore so if me and billy ever broke up bob would think im running back to him. i dont feel like waiting for bob and have billy not like me either. what should i do ?
make some lists of what you like and don't like about each guy. which ever one has more likes, pick that one. also, think about who you are more likely to last with and their history with girls. become friends with both of them but only go out with one of them (never play) and only believe something if you hear it straight from the guy, not someone else. good luck with your decision and hope i helped!
xoxo *MiZZ niCoLe LYnn*
My b-day party is coming up and i just switched skewls now i'm in a public skewl. Now the kids at my old skewl r more care free and like wut they like. The kids at my new skewl care about wut other people think accept some (key word some) of my friends. I'm a mix of both wen i'm with certain friends i'm care free, but with my other friends i'm not.I'm not having a theme party (thats just wrong for a kid my age altho i'm only 13) but i dont kno wut i should say or do. Please help me!
i think you should have a house party. that way all of your friends can talk and everyone can have fun. if your new friends care what people think about them then you old friends are perfect to have around your new friends because they don't care what people think, right? if your new friends fret about it,tell them that your other friends won't care what they're like cause they're really laid back about stuff. good luck & hope i helped!
xoxo *MiZZ niCoLe LYnn*
P.S.-happy birthday and have fun at your party!
do guys like it if girls ask them to dance or go out w/ them...ive always wondered. or does the guy have to do it all?
i'm not a guy so i don't know if guys like that or not. but they do seem pretty amused by it. and no guys do not have to do it all or i wouldn't have had a boyfriend over the summer. it can work either way.
xoxo *MiZZ niCoLe LYnn*
Hey i'm having trouble getting my picture like you had yours on your advice colomn. Lol, you you first tell me where to go to get it there and how? Stupid question. thanks.
1. go to "profile settings" 2. go to "part III"-" upload a picture of you" and click browse that's next to upload a picture of you(if you already have a picture of you into your computer)
3. when you find the file of the picture you want click on it and then go to the change settings button and click it and then go to your column to see if your picture is there. and that is not a stupid question.hope i helped!
xoxo *MiZZ niCoLe LYnn*
Alot of people are starting to say that my boyfriend doesn't care about me very much. He is always putting his arm round me and hugging me but he can be really insensitive whenever I'm upset. He says it's just because he isn't good in those situations but other people are saying different. What should I do?
guys aren't exactly good with handling girls' feelings. he might not want to get caught up in the drama. and don't listen to other people and do not repeat what other people say. believe me, i know from experience. if you repeat what other people say, they could say you said it and your boyfriend might end up breaking up with you if word gets to him. just don't pay attention to what other people say. hope i helped!
xoxo *MiZZ niCoLe LYnn*
Hey, I have a scenario for you all. female responses would help the best, I have this friend at church, that I hardly talk to, and in the last 3 day,s we have gotten closer, she gave me her cell number and we talk all the time. So I told her 3 day's ago that we should hang out, and she said yeah, we should. So today, saturday, Im gonna call her and find out what time to pick her up, and find out where she lives. Since it's just me and her, and we have gotten closer, what do u think this means? She just wants to be closer friends, or is this a date and we're not just hangin out? what do u think, anyone help me?
i think that you should hang out with her for a while, and then ask her out. most girls don't just meet a guy and go out with him. but if you can tell she is definitely flirting and you think that you know her well enough to date her then take a chance. good luck and hope i helped!
xoxo *MiZZ niCoLe LYnn*
when it comes to asking ppl out...am i wrong to think that guys should ask the grls out? be serious plz..
no, your not wrong. but girls ask guys out too.
im 14 and my penis is not that big and im a bit worried i have been teased about being small and its embarrassing does it matter to girls?
and what can i do to stop the teasing?
it matters to some girls. but how would people know your size anyways? my solution: you can go to a doctor and get growth injections and as for the teasing, ignore them. sooner or later they will figure out that teasing you is getting old and boring. good luck & hope i helped!
xoxo *MiZZ niCoLe LYnn*
my friends always ask me personal questions like "who do you like" .. but i dont know if i should tell them bcuz they might tell other people ... how do you know when you can trust your friends?
if you have told them something personal before and they have told other people then they are not to be trusted with this type of information. if the person has gone behind your back before, then i would suggest you don't tell them that stuff. hope i helped!
xoxo *MiZZ niCoLe LYnn*