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The name is Leah. I live in Cincinnati, OH. I really love to give advice! I have been here since November of 2004. But prior to joining here, I was always been seeked for advice. Still to this day, my primary concern is always helping someone out in need.

I am likely not the best columnist here, but I can quarantee I am very dedicated and concerned when I answer a question. If I answer a question you're not satisfied with, I will ask why, so I can try my best to change my answer. I only give people information that I know; not information that I might know. And if I notice a columnist giving you a wrong answer, you'll know I'll be correcting their response!!

I do allow everyone and anyone to ask a question. I may have listed favorite categories, but I really have no preference. I do love making new friends!! It's no problem to contact me by e-mail or IM. I do have a Myspace, and I will gladly give it out if asked! If you ever need advice, if you feel like ending it all, if you feel like no one cares, I am here!! Talk to me.. I will listen and I will help you!!

♥Leah

advice

i accidentally set a picture as a desktop item...does any one know how to remove it???

Thankss soo much!!

If you hover to the image, and in the right-hand corner there will be 3 buttons - maximize, fit to screen, and close. Click on the button with the X on it, and it should close!

If for some reason it does not, right-click the image. There will be a menu that pops up. Click on properties, and re-set your desktop settings.

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okay let me just get to the point..lol. sometimes when i masterbate, 17.f, i get numb for a lil' while afterwards, and all tingly inside. but this only happens if i am doing it while looking at a pic of my fiancee'. is this normal? thank you for any help you can give:)

It's normal. You are probably getting an orgasm. At least from your description that's what it sounds like

Go to this link and see if you follow under these: http://www.coolnurse.com/orgasm_female.htm. If you do, then it's probably an orgasm.

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If you are under 18, how do you be bound to a contract? Can your parents sign it on your behalf, etc.?

I'll rate good answers that include a link to their source(s).

You'll need to be at least 18 to sign a contract, unless your parents signs to it (or anyone 18 and over). So you can't do it on your own unless you got a parent to do it for you.

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Whenever I try to use this code text for making my font cursive, I put the text in the area where it says text and delete that, but it doesn't work. How can I get it to work, or better yet, what is a better code?

It's way easier if you just put < FONT FACE = "FONT TYPE" > TEXT < / FONT > (excluding the spaces). You don't necessarily have to put "script in it.

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hi.
im 13 and im like the youngist in my group of friends.
everyone else is like 14 or 15.
all my freinds but my have had sex already and i just started masterbaiting.
i strted my period about 7 monthe ago and i just got off my period yesterday.my friend said i need to learn to have an orgasm and let me borrow her vibrator.
when i used it, it made me start bleeding agin..
why is that?

When you bleed after sexual activity, it's most likely you broke your hymen. You'll see spotting anywhere from a few minutes to a few days on average. It's normal.

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In the olden days before they made pads and tampons what did women do about their period?



haha thankss

Basically years back they used rags. They reused them over-and-over again. Mostly reusable fabrics.

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hey this is embarrasign but the first time I had my period was 2 years ago and ever since then everyday (not when I have my period though) white stuff always come out of my vagina. It's really annoying because i'd feel uncomfortable feeling wet things on my underwear so I'd always wear those tiny pads which makes me have a camel toe sticking out. My cousin says that it's called a discharge or a yeast infection? Is thsi serious and what can I do about it? I have a boy doctor and I'm a lesbien so it's not like im forbidden near boys but it's because I'd get nervous near them and my cousin is lucky because her docter is a girl.

Discharge is normal. Some times a lot of discharge happens; some times very little. Pretty much every girl get's it when she is about to, or already did start her period. There is nothing to worry about it unless it feels itchy, or if your vagina is inflammed in anyway. Then you should worry about it. You can always use douches regularly to keep yourself clean down there. There is not much you can do about it because it's your body's way of cleaning the vagina out.

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what are some of the pros and cons about wearing thongs? thanks!


ps: pro = good thing ; con = bad thing .. incase you didn't know haha.

The pros about wearing thongs are that they aren't as visible as regular underwear, the thinner; the better, (the girl below me is a partly wrong), you can get thongs inexpensively, but great-quality and long-lasting thongs can cost a bit more money than the standard thongs at regular shopping centers, ranging 4 dollars to 15 dollars. The expensive ones you'll find at Victoria's Secret.

The cons are that they can be really uncomfortable at first, and after awhile you get wedgies, which is irritating! you also are at higher risk of yeast infection wearing thongs for long periods of time, since they sometimes get tight on you when you wear them all day.

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how do i defrag my computer? thanx

Start --> All Programs --> System Tools --> Disk Defrag. They'll give you step-by-step instructions, so it'll be pretty self-explainatory!

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Okay well my period is a week late, it has always been regular.

I have not been sexually active recently, the last time was the very begining of september (2nd or 3rd) and i got my period that month, and in october and it was regular as always.

I haven't had a change in diet or been more or less active than usual, i'm not or have not been under any stress at all..

Any idea's as to what this could be caused by?

This is normal! It can be caused by anything. Hormones, Diet, stress, depression. Even doing absolutely nothing wrong can make a period go later or early.

Since you said it couldn't be caused by stress, diet, or activity, it's most likely that your hormones are just playing tricks on you. It happens, or will happen, to every woman. You can't fix it on your own, though. Irregular periods are normal. It's your hormones' job to fix it, and get it regular again. However, if it keeps doing this for months, or off-and-on, contact your Doctor to see if a check-up and/or medication is needed.

I hope I helped =]. No worries, you'll be fine!

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i feel really stupid asking this but..

whats a handjob (and blowjob)?

A handjob is when you are touching the penis like taking your hand and moving it up and down on the penis for any kind of stimulation, including ejaculation..

A blowjob is when the penis is in the mouth, and you are sucking on it, or licking it around.

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does anyone know any good places where a teenager going on to the age 16 might be able to find a good paying job with flexible hours because i travel alot for sports but i could really use the money and im a really hard worker. thanks for the help!

Well you don't have to apply for a job. You can always start your own business like in babysitting, lawn care, or cleaning services. And you can do it at any age. That's what I did and I made mass money from it.

But if you would rather get a real paying job, I know that many grocery and department stores are in a high need of stockers and baggers for the holidays.

You can also go here http://www.groovejob.com/ and search for your city to see if any companies are in need of an employee.

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i was watching this talk show where a guy was 19 and a girl was 16 and they were talking about sex online and he got in trouble with the government. is that possible?? i thought there was a 3 year limit first off, and second, if they were just talking about it openly, how is that commiting a crime?? just wondering, i was confused.

thanks!

Federal law states that if you are minor (hypothetically) and you went off with someone who was 19, and he was attempting to engage in some kind of sexual activity, law enforcement can arrest him. but because the federal law says that someone is a minor, and does something innapropriate with another person who is 18 or older, it's illegal, and the person 18 or over is charged for sexual assault or molestation. There is no 3-year limit or anything like that.

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i want to lose 10 pounds. i already started eating healthy and i have a tredmill. how long each day should i run on the tredmill and how long will it take for me to lose 10 pounds within december? thanks so much

You really don't want to lose a lot of pounds in a short amount of time, because that can hurt you. I have a treadmill myself so whenever I wanted to lose weight I went on the treadmill for at least an hour 3 times a week. And there were times when if I wanted to keep myself highly-motivated, I went a half hour every day on the treadmill. After I did that for 3 weeks I lost approximately 10 pounds. Just keep up the healthy diet, and you will do great! Just don't go overboard.

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what's the name of the song in ' a walk to remember'

it's in other movies, but i just noticed in AWTW

it's like.. 'dare you to loooove'
or 'dare you to moooooove'

something like that, haha i know that doesn't help much, but its a guy singing, and it's not a really new song.
please help.
i know i didn't give ou much :D

thanks in advance!

it's dare you to move by switchfoot.

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what are external and internal problems?

external problems can be referred to as problems on the outside of the body (like a skin condition). and internal is what is happening on the inside (like a headache or a stomachache).

it can also be referred technically like if you are talking about a computer or something mechanical.

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Hi. I have had a regular period for as long as I've started having a period... which was a while back... but I haven't had it since, well, July or so. A real one, at least. Then, I finally had one about a week ago, but it was realllly light and hardly anything. Has anyone else had this issue?

Yeah I am actually going through that right now =/. I haven't been on a real period since July, either. But causes could be stress, poor diet, lack of exercise, or even just a way hormones are playing tricks on you. So seeing a Doctor will only help it. And that's what I plan on doing.

Just keep in note it could be anything, so don't misudge if you feel it's only a temporary irregular cycle because it could be something more serious than that.

Good luck though =]

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what is doucheing yourself? when should you do it? how should you do it? what do you use? how long do you do it? where exactly do you do it?
what's its purpose? anything at all!! as you can tell, i have no idea what it is.
thanks in advance
xo

A douche is a cleaning product for a woman's vagina after any kind of intercourse, or before, during, or after periods. some are gentle enough for everyday use, and a few aren't. it basically maintains your hygiene 'down there' so it doesn't smell bad, or you don't feel dirty. you just wipe your vagina with it whenever you feel the need to.

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how do you get some of your font cursive lookin.?
i`ve seen people do it && i`ve looked for the code && can`t
thanks

Very easy. You can use several types of fonts for cursive font but the one I love to use is the font called "vivaldi". You put the code: < FONT FACE = "VIVALDI" > but exclude the spaces. And then after you are done writing your text in vivaldi, end it with < / FONT >.

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Me and my girlfriend want to have sex but she hasn't really had a penis inside of her. Other than it bleeding, is there any way people would notice that she did it?

In a lot of cases, you can find out by if she broke her hymen, which is right above the vagina. But there are a lot of cases where you really can't tell because the hymen can break from anything including other sexual activity or playing sports. In some cases you can also tell by any kind of inflammation of the vagina (like any kind of redness or irritation) which some girls get.

You still can't tell just by her walking.. there could be several reasons why a girl would walk differently after sexual activity.

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