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Q: how soon can you tell you are pregnat with a home pregnace test?
anywhere from 3-8 days before your period :) xO ali

Q: When you put on eyeliner on your bottom eyelid,do you put it above or below your eyelashes? Also, what kind of eyeliner should i use? liquid or pencil? what brand?

thanks aton!
As close as you can get to the eye so under. probably pencil.. idk thats what i use. no specific brand they all look the same lol xO ali

Q: ok i have a question, whenever my boyfriend does something to me "below the belt" my legs start shaking and twitching is that normal and what does it mean?
Maybe your just nervous. Its totally normal to be nervous like that. xO ali

Q: does anyone know the name of that one quote website... quotemania. something . org? or something like that...i used to have it and i cant think of it and its bugging me!!!!!!!!
www.firehotquotes.com

xO ali

Q: Whats a good way to tone your calf muscles and your upper legs, like your thighs and Tone your butt? if You dont have access to any weight machines, or anything like that.
put your heels together and squat with your legs apart and your arms in the air with your hands clasping but with the heels of your hands far apart and poush down and come up. they stretch a lot! xO ali

Q: i have hair down the middle of my stomach.. im alittle conscience about it.. should i wax or shave it?
wax b/c the side effects aren't worth it lol. xO ali

Q: My friend and I have to make up a dance for our school's talent show and i know this is the gayest question but:

Which Ciara song is better: 1,2 step or Goodies?

thanx.
i rate- HIGH!
1 2 step..jus mah opinion

Q: okay.. im the new girl at school.. and all the girls hate me.. like.. they call me stuck up.. and i asked one girl.. and she said im stuck up because i wear hollister and american eagle and hang out with the guys who only wear that.. (but thats only because theyre the only people who will talk to me becuase everyone thinks im stuck up!!!) and they have no reason to think that because.. like.. im not.. at all!! i dont know what i should do and i really need help! ive already tried being nice to them..!
Yea really? who cares what they think. Make friends that like you for you. eventually people will see that who ever sed that you was stuck up, was totally stupid. Just hang in there and people'll come to their senses. xO ali

Q: i have trouble getting boyfriends. i mean all my friends tell me that im outgoing, funny, and pretty..but its like the boys dont see those qualities in me. i mean i act no different around boys than i do girls but its just wierd. and whenever a guy does like me i feel like he doesnt really like me because my self-esteem, when it comes to guys, isnt very high. what should i do?
It could be that they think you dont like them. Try flirting more but dont come off slutty! xO ali

Q: i wanna do it really bad but i am only 13 so i need help what do i do ?
You shouldn't because something could go horribly wrong and could change your life forever. Just wait. I know its not what you want to hear but you are way too young. You are not ready. Just stick to making out and stuff like that. xO ali

Q: um this is kind of a weird question, but i wake up during the night with really bad hunger pains... is there somthing wrong with me? somtimes i even feel like i'm going to puke or somthing and i wake up all hot... am i eating enough or am i eating wrong or somthing..?
I got the same problem. What you want to try and do, is not eat a lot before you go to bed. dont eat past 7. have a really good supper and a really good breakfast. after getting into that habit the pains will go away. It worked for me! xO ali

Q: I am not pretty at all ,what so ever, I'm short and skinny. I don't have many friends and am not popular. Also my teeth are all messed up and can't get braces for a while. How can I get friends and be prettier?
Join sports, talk to people that sit near you in your classes. Braces arent a problem because everyone either has messedup teeth, braces, or had braces. People that have neither are just lucky lol. Go to a place like JCPenny or Filenes and ask the ladie/gentleman working at the counter to give you a make-over. With a new friend(s) you made at school.. tell them you want a new style.. so go shoping and buy wut they say wud look good on you! AND WHAT YOU'RE COMFORTABLE WITH xO ali

Q: Alright, this is sort of a random question, but I'm cleaning out my closet today, because I have WAY too many clothes. It's hard to find anything to wear because I have so much STUFF that I simply never wear...does anyone have a solution to this problem? Like, can you list out what a good amount of clothing to have is? For example, how many jeans you should have, how many tee-shirts, how many skirts, etc. Also, what's the remedy to this? I have so much clothing-but nothing to wear! Should I limit where I shop to like...2 or 3 certain clothing stores? HELP!
There is no set amount. You should have "at leasts" Donate the things you dont like/wont wear/to small. Scarfs and accesories can dress up pants and just be creative. keep things neat tho! One thing people try not to do is fold shirt and put them in a draw because they get wrinkled.try to have no less than 10 pants all together. maybe 6+ skirts. 3+ jeans. you dont need to limits your clothing stores because that leads to the "nothing to wear" try mixing things! xO ali

Q: okay here the thing. im making my xanga page and i have this site i go on and put cool effects on my websites. well the one design is where you can make a box pop up when the person who visits your site enters and leaves. I was just wondering when you copy the link for it, where do you put it in the xanga site? I rate 5's
an html site

Q: i dont have a tred mill or anything. my friend said that running up and down the stairs would work but i have asked some people and they said no. someone please tell me if running up and down the stairs will help me lose wieght. in what parts would i lose weight in and for how long should i do it for? thanks!
yes it will help a lot.. i dont know exactly where it'll help but it does lol xO ali

Q: Help! I need the recipe for french poulet, and FAST!
Chicken Fricassee (Fricassée de Poulet)
2 medium carrots, sliced
1 medium onion, sliced
1 stalk celery, sliced
4 tablespoons butter or margarine
1 (2 1/2 to 3 pound) broiler-fryer chicken, cut up
2 cups water
1 cup dry white wine
2 tablespoons instant chicken bouillon
1/2 teaspoon salt
2 bouquets garni
16 small white onions
2 tablespoons butter or margarine
8 ounces fresh mushrooms, sliced
1 tablespoon lemon juice
2 egg yolks
1/2 cup whipping cream
2 tablespoons minced parsley
Hot cooked rice or noodles

Cook and stir carrots, sliced onion and celery in 4 tablespoons butter in Dutch oven until onions are tender; push to side. Add chicken; cook uncovered until light brown, about 10 minutes.

Add water, 1/2 cup of the wine, bouillon, salt and 1 bouquet garni. Heat to boiling; reduce heat. Cover and simmer until thickest pieces of chicken are done, about 40 minutes.

Heat onions, 2 tablespoons butter, remaining wine and 1 bouquet garni to boiling; reduce heat. Cover and simmer until onions are tender, about 25 minutes.

Remove chicken and onions to warm platter with slotted spoon. Strain bouillon and onion liquid together; discard bouquets garni, carrots, onion and celery slices. Skim fat. Add mushrooms and lemon juice and heat to boiling; reduce heat. Simmer uncovered until reduced to 2 1/2 cups.

Mix egg yolks and whipping cream. Beat 1 cup hot broth by tablespoonsful into whipping cream mixture. Beat in remaining broth. Heat to boiling, stirring constantly. Boil and stir 1 minute: pour over chicken and onions. Sprinkle with parsley.

Serve with rice or hot buttered noodles.

Yields 6 to 8 servings.


From :recipegoldmine.com




Q: ok @ lunch there r 5 of us @ the table..today were just 4 of us...i have this lil habit if something says somethinf funny while im drinking it sometimes comes out..well this girl is always a bitch like if i step on her boot or something she says shell smack me or w/e , today we some how got into the subject of how much we weighted n we were guessing n she got mine right and i was taking a drink and she said it n then had this funny face expression and i actidently sprayed it all over her face and bc i was laughing so hard n she ran into the bathroom n washed it off then came back n 1- threw my snapple out on me, 2- smacked me, i smacked back bc of it and she said dont fucking touch me and im like well then dont fucking smack me! 3- she took my friends notebook and smacked me with it..and then 4th she took my friends water bottle n dumped it on me so i was went all next period..and i had 3 ppl laughing at me...shes such an ass...and being of the year she dumped this minted stuff in my snapple and dared me n my friend to drink it...which we did...we always try to get her back and she refuses to do it...wut the hell do i do?
Revenge can be sweet if planned accordingly. If your willing to get down and dirty, and you arent afraid to be mean.. here's what you do. walk up to her and cuss her out, start shit with her! slap her around, tell her she's a stupid bitch and that you hate her. tell her you dont know y she sits at your table since shes such a bitch. get ur friends to take your side. xO ali

Q: What does it mean when a guy says 'don't play me'? This guy said it to my mate a few days ago and neither of us knows what he means.
he doesnt want you to cheat on him or go out with him and someone else at the same time. xO ali

Q: I'm really scared bcus i'm only 14 and i've found out i'm pregnant. my ex doesnt know bcus we had a really bad fallin out and my mom wud totally freak if she found out. Wt shud i do. i'm scared to tell enyone even by best friends! i just act normal but i can nevva take my mind off it!
Tell your mom. She's been threw pregnancy. Just tell her you would take it back if you could but you cant. Its done and over with. She'll help you out. You need to tell your boyfriend too because he caused it. xO ali Ox

no offense taken...

Q: Nearly two weeks ago, my boyfriend broke up with me for the second time. He said that he didn't feel anything for me anymore and that he didn't want to be with someone who he didn't feel for. He did it by text message and I was really upset and angry with him. Now, I keep thinking I'm over him but yesterday I found he has a crush on one of my friends who is a year older than us. I thought I was over him but yesterday when he told me how he felt about my friend I was really upset. I keep trying to ignore it and hoping I'll get over him but it isn't working. How do I get over him?
yea i know how it feels. you guys break up, he admits he likes ur best friend. i hear ya. ya sorta gotta sit back and let it blow over. I know you care but thats the only thing you can do. Since you'r friend sed there's no chance.. thats good , so at least they rn't gonna go out. i know its not what you want to here but you gotta let it blow over. xO ali

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