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omg.. ILL RATE 5s BECAUSE I REALLY NEED SUM HELP!
okay.. im the new girl at school.. and all the girls hate me.. like.. they call me stuck up.. and i asked one girl.. and she said im stuck up because i wear hollister and american eagle and hang out with the guys who only wear that.. (but thats only because theyre the only people who will talk to me becuase everyone thinks im stuck up!!!) and they have no reason to think that because.. like.. im not.. at all!! i dont know what i should do and i really need help! ive already tried being nice to them..!
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Hey all you have to do is be yourself! the only reason they are saying that you are stuck up is because they know you are getting more attention for your first year at your school. well good luck in the advice column!
~fluffy~
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the people that think u r stuck up is becuse they r jealous
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ok, i used to have the same problem but i wasnt new to the school, basiclly all you need to do is just dont rewct to any of their actions. ex: if they keep calling you a stuck up then just say whatever or ok. eventually they will stop, of course it might take a few weeks or so until they finally realize that its not fun anymore to be insulting you...trust me, it will stop soon.
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dont listen to people they can be stupid . they probably say your stuck up because they are and they dont want to admit it ! just keep on hanging out with the people that will be nice to you and ignore the people that call you stuck up .
- soul666 -
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You sound preppy with the constant "Likes" so i guess your in the "Popular crowd".. but i guess theres no way around that unless you change.
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I think that you should try to get to be friends with the girls who wear clothes like you!! Don't change yourself because of what others think!! By the way...where I live if you don't wear American Eagle or Hollister you are a loser!
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they are prolly juss jelouse bc u are talking to the guys taht they want to talk to or like .. or something. im sure things will get better and you will start to fit in better.
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Dont worry about it, its always hard to be the new girl/guy. But people should like you or want to get to know you for who you are, and not because of the clothes you wear or the music you listen and all those stereotypes.Maybe talk to the people who have welcomed you and let them know that you want to get to know other people better and see if they can maybe introduce you to some of their friends too! Good Luck!
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Maybe you should start out small like jsut talk to some people that arent that popular then start working your way up if people tell you you are stuck up jsut say how do you no that you dont even know me. Its pretty miuch becuz you the new girl after a month they will treat you normal
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The girls that are saying your stuck up are probably just jealous of you. You can wear whatever clothes you want, as well as hanging out with whom ever you want. They have no say what so ever as to who you can hangout with and what you have to wear. Don't listen to them at all. Soon people will start seeing that you don't care what other people think and you aren't stuck up. Don't like them girls get to you. Because if they see they are getting to you, they'll keep calling you down.
♥ Krissy
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well they sure do seem like asses.. that totally isnt how it is at my school.. EVERYONE wants to be friends with the new kid! but yea just ignore what they say.. go for people who make feel wanted. dont take any shit!
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Yea really? who cares what they think. Make friends that like you for you. eventually people will see that who ever sed that you was stuck up, was totally stupid. Just hang in there and people'll come to their senses. xO ali
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Listen, dont listen to them at all you can wear those clothes if you want to. Its ok for you hanging out with the guys cuz they are your type of style. Theres no reason for them to think that like you said so dont worry bout it. I'm sure theres a lot of girls who dont hate you!
~Brina~
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